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Having a 'type'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I do what men of all types as I think its what clicks with me, but there is definitely a type which attracts me a lot more than others. When someone asked me what my type is I answered the following and surprised myself.

"Tall, muscled, heavily tattooed, bearded, manual worker who looks like he's been in prison and hasn't washed "

Add hairy body, laddish and highly sexualised behaviour and that is the kind of man who turns me on the most. Can't help it but I like an animal!

So what is your 'type'?

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By *raceytvcdTV/TS
over a year ago

mansfield

Mmmm hope its only looks like he been in prison and hasnt washed ? Other wise dirty cock and your fucking watch is missing when they gone

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Nice hair, slim or average size, no facial hair, neat and tidy, very clean.

Fairly intelligent, refined, not too serious, easy to get on with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Athletic but stocky build, intelligent, nice smile, squaddie/forces sense of humour/personality. Geek a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who I'm attracted to both physically and mentally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who stands out .... that "ooossshhhhh" factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone who stands out .... that "ooossshhhhh" factor "

Same for me : ) I love quirky women, and curves..

I like variety so I try not to be to constrained by my type. People can surprise you..

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Dark haired (or red) and pale skinned, a pretty face with eyes you can lose yourself in. Wide hipped and hairy pussied (is that a word?!). Short in stature. Loving and kind with a good level of intelligence and open to learning new things. Super chilled and humourous with the ability to not take life too seriously. Sexually openminded with a love of the filthier things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess if I had to pin it down.... shaggy brown hair, strong jaw, slim to athletic, witty, intelligent (though intelligence is more important with repeat meets).

But that doesn't mean I don't find those who aren't that "type" attractive.

-Courtney

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Great personality attractive and a good body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long blonde hair. slim, leggy, big boobs, pamela anderson look

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I can only say what I'm not attracted to and that is someone shorter than me, fat and a smoker.

The rest depends on who they are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can only say what I'm not attracted to and that is someone shorter than me, fat and a smoker.

The rest depends on who they are."

That's another good way of defining it!

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By *jj46Man
over a year ago

rhyl


"Mmmm hope its only looks like he been in prison and hasnt washed ? Other wise dirty cock and your fucking watch is missing when they gone "
while your watch has gone missing il have the wheels off your motor called a good night's work lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slim, lots of hair on head not on body(not necessarily long but lots), piercings, tattoos and a penchant for eyeliner would be my absolute ideal type.

Realistically none of those matter if they can turn on my mind with a witty conversation and a good giggle.

Mrs rsc

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

How can anyone tell if someone is their "type" from a few pics and words you cant tell until you meet so all this "your not my type" is a load of rubbish.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Currently

Dark chocolate brown hair beyond shoulder, with curls, brown eyes , petite, hour glass with firm round bottom, toned arms small waist, warm smile through full lips.. relaxed, articulate ,adventurous, radiant skin xxx

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"How can anyone tell if someone is their "type" from a few pics and words you cant tell until you meet so all this "your not my type" is a load of rubbish."

Disagree. If the initial attraction via pics isn't there i'm certain they're not my 'type'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can anyone tell if someone is their "type" from a few pics and words you cant tell until you meet so all this "your not my type" is a load of rubbish."

I can tell extremely easily whether i find someone attractive from a picture and a chat....so i don't believe it is rubbish. Maybe not that easy for some, but its how i have managed to make my mind up in the 4 years I've been doing this, and I've never met anyone i didn't find attractive. I'd say that's a pretty good hit rate.

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"How can anyone tell if someone is their "type" from a few pics and words you cant tell until you meet so all this "your not my type" is a load of rubbish.

Disagree. If the initial attraction via pics isn't there i'm certain they're not my 'type'."

No you just don't like the look of them they could be your type in every other way unless you only go for how someone looks and if that's the case you are being shallow in my opinion which means nothing I might add

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Intelligent, funny, skinny, younger. And that indefinable something which creates the spark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non hairy chest funny big arms hair to run my fingers through older slightly taller slight muscle tone nice eyes deep rugged soothing voice good kisser .... so not pickey at all lol

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I have a 'type' I find most attractive but I'm beginning to realise you can't have it all!!

Tall, a minimum of 5'11, strong athletic but more stocky than ripped, over 40, quite like baldies, nice smile and a warm nature.

Where is he??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How can anyone tell if someone is their "type" from a few pics and words you cant tell until you meet so all this "your not my type" is a load of rubbish.

Disagree. If the initial attraction via pics isn't there i'm certain they're not my 'type'.

No you just don't like the look of them they could be your type in every other way unless you only go for how someone looks and if that's the case you are being shallow in my opinion which means nothing I might add"

After reading this I would add not arguementative or a sore loser. Sometimes people just need to accept that they are not someone's type. And type does include the physical on a sex website. I'm not lots of peoples type because I'm a tranny and also because even if they like trans they might just not like me. I get rejected a lot. I wish people good luck. I accept that I'm just not their thing. I don't take it to heart. Just put to side and move onto next

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"How can anyone tell if someone is their "type" from a few pics and words you cant tell until you meet so all this "your not my type" is a load of rubbish.

Disagree. If the initial attraction via pics isn't there i'm certain they're not my 'type'.

No you just don't like the look of them they could be your type in every other way unless you only go for how someone looks and if that's the case you are being shallow in my opinion which means nothing I might add"

I'm not going to have sex with someone that I don't find attractive looks wise. If that makes me shallow, so be it!

What I find attractive in men, varies. I know what I like when I see it.

Where as with women, I tend to have a certain type that always catches my eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is very difficult for me because I don't have a type,as in body shape,colouring,hair etc. I'm drawn to facial expressions and the man behind the eyes. It's difficult to explain in words; there area couple of face photos of men that give me that thump in my stomach when I see them. I like nimble fingers and elegant hands on a man too. I love watching guitarists and pianists play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your gorgeous hun xxx

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"Dark haired (or red) and pale skinned, a pretty face with eyes you can lose yourself in. Wide hipped and hairy pussied (is that a word?!). Short in stature. Loving and kind with a good level of intelligence and open to learning new things. Super chilled and humourous with the ability to not take life too seriously. Sexually openminded with a love of the filthier things "

Oooh hello!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dark haired (or red) and pale skinned, a pretty face with eyes you can lose yourself in. Wide hipped and hairy pussied (is that a word?!). Short in stature. Loving and kind with a good level of intelligence and open to learning new things. Super chilled and humourous with the ability to not take life too seriously. Sexually openminded with a love of the filthier things "

hi xx lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can anyone tell if someone is their "type" from a few pics and words you cant tell until you meet so all this "your not my type" is a load of rubbish.

Disagree. If the initial attraction via pics isn't there i'm certain they're not my 'type'.

No you just don't like the look of them they could be your type in every other way unless you only go for how someone looks and if that's the case you are being shallow in my opinion which means nothing I might add"

I've tried the "I'll give it a go,because he has a nice personality,even though I wasn't attracted to his face". It doesn't work for me. I feel an instant facial attraction or I say no thank you.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"How can anyone tell if someone is their "type" from a few pics and words you cant tell until you meet so all this "your not my type" is a load of rubbish.

Disagree. If the initial attraction via pics isn't there i'm certain they're not my 'type'.

No you just don't like the look of them they could be your type in every other way unless you only go for how someone looks and if that's the case you are being shallow in my opinion which means nothing I might add"

We're on a swinging site...it's all about attraction! I'm not going to fuck someone I am not physically attracted to, wonderful personality or not.

Actually applies in relationships for me too.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Well, as my dating site profile says, a well-bred, athletic, six foot, Anglo-Saxon with floppy hair would be good - but I am open to offers!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"How can anyone tell if someone is their "type" from a few pics and words you cant tell until you meet so all this "your not my type" is a load of rubbish."

I think you go by past experiences, who you have met before and the sort of things they say in their messages, verifications, talking on the phone.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"Dark haired (or red) and pale skinned, a pretty face with eyes you can lose yourself in. Wide hipped and hairy pussied (is that a word?!). Short in stature. Loving and kind with a good level of intelligence and open to learning new things. Super chilled and humourous with the ability to not take life too seriously. Sexually openminded with a love of the filthier things

hi xx lol"

Ha ha great minds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a type I'm really not into which is fake,plastic,pouting Barbie wannabes.

I'd rather go celibate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my type is nice looking, casual (not a poser), body - nothing extreme, hair on the head and not bald/skinhead (i don't mind beards either), suckable cock, late 30s.

that's who i prefer and will get my interest, i'm not strict about it.

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