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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a post and remove game? How do you play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the one hand, yes, but then again, no...

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care what you say OP that's just not cricket!

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Bad Boys is an underrated film

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Apologies people I didn't realise I couldn't delete the whole thing. I just meant that on the one hand women say they want gentlemen only to treat them like mugs and lust after bad boys only to then moan about their every doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies people I didn't realise I couldn't delete the whole thing. I just meant that on the one hand women say they want gentlemen only to treat them like mugs and lust after bad boys only to then moan about their every doing "

I've never been treated like a mug for being nice. Make better choices over who you meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never treated anyone like a mug for being nice to me.

I don't want to meet mean boys, I'm too old for all that shite.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I want a gentleman

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By *neeyedpirateMan
over a year ago

ask!

I'm a gentleman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good evening ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind you, I probably wouldn't consider my bag of toys "gentlemanly". I'd need to ask for an outside opinion on that though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies people I didn't realise I couldn't delete the whole thing. I just meant that on the one hand women say they want gentlemen only to treat them like mugs and lust after bad boys only to then moan about their every doing "

*some*

You missed out the word "some".

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Apologies people I didn't realise I couldn't delete the whole thing. I just meant that on the one hand women say they want gentlemen only to treat them like mugs and lust after bad boys only to then moan about their every doing "

That's a very weak generalisation.

Can we just say it's the one woman who has messed you about and not ALL the women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies people I didn't realise I couldn't delete the whole thing. I just meant that on the one hand women say they want gentlemen only to treat them like mugs and lust after bad boys only to then moan about their every doing "

I like to think I'm in between I treat woman right but don't take shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies people I didn't realise I couldn't delete the whole thing. I just meant that on the one hand women say they want gentlemen only to treat them like mugs and lust after bad boys only to then moan about their every doing "

Isnt it like when some men say they want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed? Just be yourself!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

At the end of the day bad boys just bring you pain so give me a nice guy every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that people seek the love they feel they deserve, if they go for idiots who mess them around its because somewhere along their path they have allowed that. We are all in control of how people treat us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear you OP - the (correction: some) ladies do seem to love a bad boy! I've seen friends get treated awfully but keep going back for more - I guess you can't help who you fancy! A little bit of edge is an attractive trait to many.

What do they say? Women want a bad boy that they can turn good (just for them) and guys want a good girl they can turn bad (just for them)

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I think that people seek the love they feel they deserve, if they go for idiots who mess them around its because somewhere along their path they have allowed that. We are all in control of how people treat us"

It's also the vibe you put out - I am a sensitive empath so I draw raging narcissists like moths to a flame!!

(My auto carrot just said moths to a flange hahaha!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like gentlemen and nice fellows - not bad boys

Mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies people I didn't realise I couldn't delete the whole thing. I just meant that on the one hand women say they want gentlemen only to treat them like mugs and lust after bad boys only to then moan about their every doing

Isnt it like when some men say they want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed? Just be yourself!"

I was just going to use the exact same phrase, what would be the male version though? A gent in the streets, an animal in the sheets?

Being a gentleman is a beautiful thing, treat all women like you would like your mother, sister, daughter treated, but there's nothing wrong with being a bedroom bad boy,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies people I didn't realise I couldn't delete the whole thing. I just meant that on the one hand women say they want gentlemen only to treat them like mugs and lust after bad boys only to then moan about their every doing

Isnt it like when some men say they want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed? Just be yourself!

I was just going to use the exact same phrase, what would be the male version though? A gent in the streets, an animal in the sheets?

Being a gentleman is a beautiful thing, treat all women like you would like your mother, sister, daughter treated, but there's nothing wrong with being a bedroom bad boy, "

Couldn't have said it better myself.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"I've never treated anyone like a mug for being nice to me.

I don't want to meet mean boys, I'm too old for all that shite. "

Well now you have just made me glad i am not a Boy. Mmmmm mmmmm mmmm! Yes please and thank you.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

Actually in my mind a gentelman treats a lady as she would like to be treated and enables her to expand her boundry and try new things.

A boy is a boy but a Man is a Man

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Apologies people I didn't realise I couldn't delete the whole thing. I just meant that on the one hand women say they want gentlemen only to treat them like mugs and lust after bad boys only to then moan about their every doing "

Phew make sweeping generalisations much? Life isn't so black and white.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't this the kind of thing you think/worry about when you're 15?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Isn't this the kind of thing you think/worry about when you're 15?"

I spent most of time worrying about periods

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

so who won in the end?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've known a few women go for bad boys and get treated like shit, maybe it's just what they think is normal because they're psychologically fucked!! Or..it's a challenge to turn them into a gentleman (never happens) if you're trying to change the person you're with then you're with the wrong one! Let a bad boy treat you bad and get away with it...he'll just carry on doing it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad boys -wears a tracksuit, still lives at home and drives their mums corsa

Gentleman - sometimes wears a suit and drank an expensive whiskey once

I consider myself to hold "gentlemanly" values

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Personally, I would much rather be nice to all people all the time.

Cal

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Of course the billion men on the planet are neatly pigeon holed into only one of two specific character types

I'm happy to be a psychological transgender lesbian who does not directly identify with either of the options given by the false dichotomy xxx , does that make me bad

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