FabSwingers.com forum: Fab ages compared to real age!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else noticed when meeting someone that their Fab age is obviously very different to their real age.

I've no issue if its say 5 years difference but some people seem to think nothing of taking 10-15 years off their age. Plus they've used old photos on their profile too.

Is it just me that finds this really annoying and misleading. I might start asking for birth certs as a filter. *

*that is tongue in cheek, but I'm finding its happening more and more here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm on one hand if your attracted to them does it matter? But on the other had a large age difference does annoy me too. Im torn on thid one xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes few knock few years off. It doesnt really matter as it is nsa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our ages are REAL. The same as everything on our profile. Our photos are all within the last 3 months.

If a profile lies about their age why should we trust them on their boundaries?

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By *ofUs4UCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

We recently had a social meet with a guy who must have used an ancient pic and knocked about 20 years off his age. Downed our drinks very quickly and scarpered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years either side in your 30's is one thing but 5 years plus in your late 40's in another.

I can see why people want to keep under say the 50/55 bracket re the age filters but I really don't see the point in using old photos, as it's going to be pretty obvious in reality.....

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

My age is real - it never occurred to me to lie and my pictures are all recent. However, I do know a female on here claiming to be 49, when she is actually a good 15 years older and looks it!!!

Anybody fancy an older woman? I'm open to offers lol xxx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"My age is real - it never occurred to me to lie and my pictures are all recent. However, I do know a female on here claiming to be 49, when she is actually a good 15 years older and looks it!!!

Anybody fancy an older woman? I'm open to offers lol xxx"

I know some lady on here who claims to be a certain age but Is about 10 years older...I just laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We recently had a social meet with a guy who must have used an ancient pic and knocked about 20 years off his age. Downed our drinks very quickly and scarpered.

Did you tell him the reason why? Really can't understand why couples especially would do this. It's not as though arranging meets are hard to do. We are both 'old' and have the age related bumps and dinks but get daily requests to meet up. Obviously other life priorities prevent this plus we don't want to be 'tarts'. Two or three more regular meets over the one nighters is more our style.

If folk looking at ours assume we've knocked 10 years off our profile they will hopefully be pleasantly surprised if they meet us as MrsJ often is thought to be much younger than her 49 years. I am a bit more 'weathered'

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Our ages are real, I don't see the point of lying about anything.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am 34

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes few knock few years off. It doesnt really matter as it is nsa."
Forgot to say, my age is real too

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I am 34

I'm 36

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By *onnie55Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

"My age is real - it never occurred to me to lie and my pictures are all recent. However, I do know a female on here claiming to be 49, when she is actually a good 15 years older and looks it!!!

Anybody fancy an older woman? I'm open to offers lol xxx"

I do!!! Get in touch..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age rarely lies on the face, there are some I have questioned when I've bumped into people at parties or whatever. Doesn't annoy me really, just view it as a bit sad if people clearly lie about their age

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By *ofUs4UCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

"Our ages are real, I don't see the point of lying about anything. "

This is our mindset too. Even our names are real. And our face pics are recent. What ya see is what ya get.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've known a couple of guys who have knocked a few years off to stay below the 50 age filter. Can't see the point tbh and it never occurred to me to lie about my age

I'm 44 and proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is right....but I'm getting close to that "50" cut off point.....guess I'll just have to suck it up when it arrives.

I'd rather get a "no thanks" or be blocked from messaging on here because of my age. Better than turning up for a meet and someone doing a runner!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

My age is accurate to the day.. in about 3 months it'll change (please wish me a happy birthday) ... Folk tell fibs in real world .. on the internet it's no differet some embellish and some subtract...

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Who would know if someone shaved off a couple of years? 10 years plus is another matter. I've sent people packing for that. Lying dicks.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

why lie?surely you'll be found out eventually.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Bloody tiny screen 2 months it's June..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're usually 10 years older than stated from what my wife has told me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We recently had a social meet with a guy who must have used an ancient pic and knocked about 20 years off his age. Downed our drinks very quickly and scarpered.

I had the once and was pretty annoyed. I've got my real age on my profile as I prefer older men, with own teeth preferably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is my age. I have met people that look older than they say (and some younger) I blame it on difficult (easy) paper rounds when they were young.

Does it bother me? No why should it? Usually, I have spoken to the person, seen pictures. I am mentally and physically attracted to them, hence the meeting. Why would age then matter?

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By *ildt123Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I can see the point of people lying about their age if they aren't meeting, to get round age filters to perv pics etc, still dishonest and wrong imho. But what the hell is the point before a meet? All you do is increase the chances of the meet you have worked so hard to arrange going badly! Daft if you ask me.

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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Much easier if everyone is honest and open about age and have representative photos. It allows people to make proper informed choices. Hope that makes sense. X

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By *ofUs4UCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

"My age is my age. I have met people that look older than they say (and some younger) I blame it on difficult (easy) paper rounds when they were young.

Does it bother me? No why should it? Usually, I have spoken to the person, seen pictures. I am mentally and physically attracted to them, hence the meeting. Why would age then matter? "

What if the pictures you had been sent were old? That the person in the pic you were attracted to had aged significantly and was no longer what you desired. Would that matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our ages are real, I don't see the point of lying about anything. "

We are also truthful about our ages... Why lie??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My age is my age. I have met people that look older than they say (and some younger) I blame it on difficult (easy) paper rounds when they were young.

Does it bother me? No why should it? Usually, I have spoken to the person, seen pictures. I am mentally and physically attracted to them, hence the meeting. Why would age then matter?

What if the pictures you had been sent were old? That the person in the pic you were attracted to had aged significantly and was no longer what you desired. Would that matter?"

I guess because I do a social first it's not an issue. You can usually tell when pictures are older and if we meet at a cafe or bar I am going to tap the wrong person on the shoulder

I think most people that do a social first don't lie about their age by a significant amount.

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By *ofUs4UCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

"My age is my age. I have met people that look older than they say (and some younger) I blame it on difficult (easy) paper rounds when they were young.

Does it bother me? No why should it? Usually, I have spoken to the person, seen pictures. I am mentally and physically attracted to them, hence the meeting. Why would age then matter?

What if the pictures you had been sent were old? That the person in the pic you were attracted to had aged significantly and was no longer what you desired. Would that matter?

I guess because I do a social first it's not an issue. You can usually tell when pictures are older and if we meet at a cafe or bar I am going to tap the wrong person on the shoulder

I think most people that do a social first don't lie about their age by a significant amount."

We did do a social and he recognised us, we didn't recognise him. We were truthful. He wasn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 50 this year and actually proud of the way I look, if someone has a problem with my age I wouldn't lose any sleep over it.

People lie about much worse on here but people using pics from the previous decade on their profile, is a bit misleading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of years either way wouldn't bother me but if they had been sending pics relating to their 'fab' age and they looked a lot older and a lot different upon meeting, I'd be more than a bit miffed!!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I'm funny about ages. I use my real age & have a strict upper limit of 50 as my parents are young (still

In their 50's). I really can't see the point in lying & if someone is I'd prefer to find out before meeting.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Our ages are REAL. The same as everything on our profile. Our photos are all within the last 3 months.

If a profile lies about their age why should we trust them on their boundaries? "

Same here but some pics are from when we first joined just over a year ago.....even our names are real.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There's probably a mathematical formula that can be used to calculate ages.

Something like

Age equals (Fab Age) x (no of failed relationships plus cock size of self or partner divided by number of fab profiles user has created)

Someone will have to do the research and pull the maths together

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's just embarrassing when someone has blatantly knocked years off their age and used old photos. I wouldn't buy a car that was advertised as two years old with a photo showing that and when I went to view it a 15 year old banger with rust patches was sat in the drive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We display our true ages. Why wouldn't everyone else? We accept that some number crunching goes on but it's pointless, unless of course the cruncher of numbers has no intention of actually meeting anyone, in which case they can be any age they wish. Can't they?

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I'm naively shocked at the amount of folk who have lied about their age..... One of those things that irks me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My age is my age. I have met people that look older than they say (and some younger) I blame it on difficult (easy) paper rounds when they were young.

Does it bother me? No why should it? Usually, I have spoken to the person, seen pictures. I am mentally and physically attracted to them, hence the meeting. Why would age then matter?

What if the pictures you had been sent were old? That the person in the pic you were attracted to had aged significantly and was no longer what you desired. Would that matter?

I guess because I do a social first it's not an issue. You can usually tell when pictures are older and if we meet at a cafe or bar I am going to tap the wrong person on the shoulder

I think most people that do a social first don't lie about their age by a significant amount."

Yet often when you suggest a social many balk and ask why its necessary!

It's not always for safety as a single fem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My age is my age. I have met people that look older than they say (and some younger) I blame it on difficult (easy) paper rounds when they were young.

Does it bother me? No why should it? Usually, I have spoken to the person, seen pictures. I am mentally and physically attracted to them, hence the meeting. Why would age then matter?

What if the pictures you had been sent were old? That the person in the pic you were attracted to had aged significantly and was no longer what you desired. Would that matter?

I guess because I do a social first it's not an issue. You can usually tell when pictures are older and if we meet at a cafe or bar I am going to tap the wrong person on the shoulder

I think most people that do a social first don't lie about their age by a significant amount."

It's happened twice to me!!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Someone turned up who might have been the great grandfather of the user. You'd not have guessed except that an explicit description of clothing was given - I wasn't sure if it was a veiled request for assisted suicide, via my rage.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Our ages are our ages and photo's are pretty current, some only days old! We can't see the point of hiding anything other than our faces on the public pages. We meet people at clubs, some are honest, a few haven't been. But when we're in a club we never ask ages, we just fancy them or not, easy!

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

I'm not really 95

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

im 44..45 this year, cant be bothered to lie about it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr age is 2 years older than what it says on our profile because I got his date of birth wrong when making the profile (bad girlfriend alert haha)

oops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am 34

I'm 36

I am 38

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years difference is hard to spot, but 10-15

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else noticed when meeting someone that their Fab age is obviously very different to their real age.

I've no issue if its say 5 years difference but some people seem to think nothing of taking 10-15 years off their age. Plus they've used old photos on their profile too.

Is it just me that finds this really annoying and misleading. I might start asking for birth certs as a filter. *

*that is tongue in cheek, but I'm finding its happening more and more here!"

I got accused of lying about my age on here and was really offended. Everything on my profile is true. What is the point of lying??? Stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im 44..45 this year, cant be bothered to lie about it.."

you look great anyway. I'm liking being 45

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 9, but I type like a big boy so I lie and say I'm 45

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only one who added years on to my actual age on here?

I'd rather look good for 39 than rough for my real age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My age is accurate to the day.. in about 3 months it'll change (please wish me a happy birthday) ... Folk tell fibs in real world .. on the internet it's no differet some embellish and some subtract... "

Me also, we can wish each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only one who added years on to my actual age on here?

I'd rather look good for 39 than rough for my real age.

I'm 21, yet it says 24 on my profile. You're not the only one to add age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is real as are my photos, certainly in the last year and I use my real name too.

Why lie and confuse the issue?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"im 44..45 this year, cant be bothered to lie about it..

you look great anyway. I'm liking being 45

thank you x your pics are great btw..very nice x nah i have no desire to pretend to be younger..if i put my hair in pigtails i can get away as one of my daughters mates..if i wanted to do such a thing...

i love my forties too ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else noticed when meeting someone that their Fab age is obviously very different to their real age.

I've no issue if its say 5 years difference but some people seem to think nothing of taking 10-15 years off their age. Plus they've used old photos on their profile too.

Is it just me that finds this really annoying and misleading. I might start asking for birth certs as a filter. *

*that is tongue in cheek, but I'm finding its happening more and more here!"

Actually Jools is 71 and I am 73 but don't tell anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both show out true age and proud that we are not bad looking for it.

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By *anaduABCMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I dont understand why folk( mainly women lol) feel to need to hide their age. Ur born when ur born and thats it. Speak it loud and speak it proud....Im 46, very nearly 47..Yeah id love to be 26 but i aint lol so fuck it...-

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I dont understand why folk( mainly women lol) feel to need to hide their age. Ur born when ur born and thats it. Speak it loud and speak it proud....Im 46, very nearly 47..Yeah id love to be 26 but i aint lol so fuck it...-

i think you should show us more of yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My age is my age. I have met people that look older than they say (and some younger) I blame it on difficult (easy) paper rounds when they were young.

Does it bother me? No why should it? Usually, I have spoken to the person, seen pictures. I am mentally and physically attracted to them, hence the meeting. Why would age then matter?

What if the pictures you had been sent were old? That the person in the pic you were attracted to had aged significantly and was no longer what you desired. Would that matter?

I guess because I do a social first it's not an issue. You can usually tell when pictures are older and if we meet at a cafe or bar I am going to tap the wrong person on the shoulder

I think most people that do a social first don't lie about their age by a significant amount.

Yet often when you suggest a social many balk and ask why its necessary!

It's not always for safety as a single fem."

Well I play it by ear with every conversation and meet. If you are clear about wanting a social in your messages. Hell it doesn't have to be in your profile, and they don't like that. Move on.

Socials are great! Who doesn't like cake?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

A liar is a liar.

The lie nor the reason for it is important.

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By *anaduABCMan
over a year ago

Dublin

i think you should show us more of yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have, but only because of the filter and by 12 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's someone on here who has been on longer than 4 yours but his age has never increased it just decreases. He's 7 years older and no longer looks like his pics but gets alot if meets so people don't seem to mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a lot of mothers didn't register there sons birth until they were a few years old

My age is correct, and people think I'm younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a man look at our profile and he was 45, which was outside our age range, 20minutes later he emailed us and he was 40, when we called him out about it, and called him a chancer, he explain to us how we should take it as a compliment that he was willing to change his age and try to con us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im actually 50 but claim to be 28 :D

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

If I were to lie about my age I wouldn't choose 50 fucking 3!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 40. It says 40. I was so badly tempted to stay 39 for a couple of years but I'm being honest.

I have seen profiles where they guy has two face pics, young in one and maybe ten+ years older in the next! That's really off putting to be honest.

My pics are over a year old now but I'm no bigger or smaller and I don't think I've acquired that many wrinkles on my body? I do need to do some new ones. But it's finding the time to do them.

I try and be honest though. I sent a guy a face photo that was taken minutes before, so he could check I hadn't aged 50 years in 12 months.

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Lol i cheated and took a few years off my profile age

lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm really 59 I've got cake pix to prove it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 48 in May never lied about my age but yes fed up when men say they are older/younger than they really are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really am 37.......act more like 27 though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really 29, but ssshhh

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

No point lying

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

I've met a few people for socials who either lied about their age or looked a lot older than they are and pictures so out of date I wouldn't have recognised them. Needless to say quick 10 min meet and no further meets!

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By *evon DelightCouple
over a year ago

A town in Devon

It's just a number..... just like 69. Hmmm..... now thats a good number! !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No point lying

Your nipples! Wow they're beauties

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Our ages are REAL. The same as everything on our profile. Our photos are all within the last 3 months.

If a profile lies about their age why should we trust them on their boundaries? "

Lying about your age is sad and pathetic....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It absolutely never occurred to me to lie about my age. I'm enjoying my naughty forties and bottoms to the world. 41 and perfectly happy with that. Which is handy as I can neither control time nor have a portrait in the attic like Dorian Gray.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fab age is real age haven't lied about anything

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By *heBakeOLiteGirlWoman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)

My fab age is my real age. I have turned up to meets in the past and been told I don't look my age but younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My age is real - it never occurred to me to lie and my pictures are all recent. However, I do know a female on here claiming to be 49, when she is actually a good 15 years older and looks it!!!

Anybody fancy an older woman? I'm open to offers lol xxx

My age is real, wish it wasn't lol xx

I know some lady on here who claims to be a certain age but Is about 10 years older...I just laugh

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I've met more men that lie about their age on here than women. I really ought to have lied about mine; I reckon I could have got away with it and already fall foul of the 35 year limit set by 30 year olds (why is it always 5 years increments?) and am about to hit another one at 40. I do delight in responding to messages from people who state on their profiles they are only looking for people younger than with a 'sorry, I am too old to message you back apparently'. The resulting confusion is a joy to behold. Or I get a 'for you we'd make an exception' response. As if I should be grateful.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

I'm actually only 18 but I look middle 40s so that's the age I use in fabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else noticed when meeting someone that their Fab age is obviously very different to their real age.

I've no issue if its say 5 years difference but some people seem to think nothing of taking 10-15 years off their age. Plus they've used old photos on their profile too.

Is it just me that finds this really annoying and misleading. I might start asking for birth certs as a filter. *

*that is tongue in cheek, but I'm finding its happening more and more here!"

Haha at least they are using old pics and not current pics and claiming they are 30 when clearly they look 60

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really 50 although I've been told I could lie and say mid 40s .. To be honest I cant be bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe a lot of mothers didn't register there sons birth until they were a few years old

My age is correct, and people think I'm younger

Looking how it's all nicely compact much younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im actually 50 but claim to be 28 :D "

Is that to avoid my filters sassy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My old grandad always told me you're only as old as the women you're feeling, make me feel 50 or younger lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age on my profile is correct but I've been accused of lying in the past. It's great to know when I'm having a good day occasionally but it does get annoying when you are constantly IDed for fags or 15 rated films

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

Honesty is a must why lie about age lolx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never encountered this. How strange

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Our ages are our ages and photo's are pretty current, some only days old! We can't see the point of hiding anything other than our faces on the public pages. We meet people at clubs, some are honest, a few haven't been. But when we're in a club we never ask ages, we just fancy them or not, easy!

This for us too.

I really can't understand why anyone would think they could get away with lying about their age by several years and using old photos.

All it's going to do is wind up people they meet

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well some people lie about cock size or clothes size, I'm not surprised age is a thing people want to lie about too

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I've roamed this planet for 39 years. That's what my profile says, that's what I am.

40 is on it's way, bring it on!

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By *inCity BluesMan
over a year ago

London

"We recently had a social meet with a guy who must have used an ancient pic and knocked about 20 years off his age. Downed our drinks very quickly and scarpered.

Was it that bloke from Fab mentioned in the Daily Mail today?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a fuck, I really don't care what people lie about. If we fancy each other then let's fuck. No wonder some people never meet anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 91 honestly, really, truly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be 51 in a month or so...

and all my pics are current...

I don't lie about anything else so why should I lie about my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 75 but all the plastic surgery has got to be worth 30 years

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By *andS4funCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Our ages are real and we're told we both look younger they could just be being nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've missed a trick here

... With my face, I think they'll guess I'm not 20 pretty quick though

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I lie about my age on my profile... for about 6 weeks each year. I'm not yet 51.

I had someone communicating with me who knocked 12 years off his age as he said he felt 12 years younger. When I asked for an up to date picture he refused to send one. He felt 12 years younger so he used a picture that was 12 years younger too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a couple of guys who have their age set higher on here than what they really are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I lie about my age on my profile... for about 6 weeks each year. I'm not yet 51.

The worst I've come across was a guy who said he was 35 and turned out to be 51 - and a guy who also claimed to be 35 but was clearly mid 50's and had a hearing aid!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"It's just a fuck, I really don't care what people lie about. If we fancy each other then let's fuck. No wonder some people never meet anyone. "

If you're into people younger than you and a meet turns up who has claimed to be younger but in the flesh is near enough 10 years older than you are (and wearing dentures), it's more than a little annoying especially when you had the opportunity to meet someone else. Happened to me early on. I'm older and wiser now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a hearing aid doesn't make you old!

I don't think we've met a single person that has matched either their age/height or weight from here!

Thankfully they've been the correct sex... so far..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I catch my refection and think, No way your 39

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

my face is my profile pic so i let people make up their own mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 49 in real life & cyberspace.

However I only look 48, but keep this to myself.

Sadly the big 50 in October

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

54 in real life

same in here

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

If the ages is any different..

It doesn't matter as long as there is a connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the ages is any different..

It doesn't matter as long as there is a connection. "

Its not the difference in age, Its the lying that puts people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then here's me who's really 21 :L

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman
over a year ago

Dartford

I'm 30 and state that on my profile, but find that as I look younger (still get asked for ID in shops) people are surprised when they meet me. Perhaps I should start saying I'm 26??!! Lol

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"If the ages is any different..

It doesn't matter as long as there is a connection.

Its not the difference in age, Its the lying that puts people off"

I understand the point of view about lies!

But age is a number, it does depend on how the truth is miss shaped. I'd see a picture before I have a social if I don't like what I see then it would go no further...

As we all know some people age well, some do not, some photograph well some do not.

I always come clean about my age before a social, next year I'm 21 again apparently

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By *adyH and GrissomCouple
over a year ago

Llantarnum

Real age here, if 50 is a cut off point then 60 should of been swinging death lol happily not the case

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I'm 2 yrs older than my profile. This is two fold..... I really can't bring myself to admit to being the "F" word and secondly it helped to outwit a stalker (albeit not a v bright one)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im actually 50 but claim to be 28 :D

Is that to avoid my filters sassy? "

you mean there are men out there who would actually turn a woman down?!

i was kidding.. im 28.

got a birth certificate to prove it

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

One issue is have 16/17yr olds pretending they're 18+.

Something not legal about having pictures of "minors" on your phone *ahem*

But otherwise, who cares if few years different.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We recently had a social meet with a guy who must have used an ancient pic and knocked about 20 years off his age. Downed our drinks very quickly and scarpered.

Was it that bloke from Fab mentioned in the Daily Mail today?"

Ha ha ha I read that via Facebook and one of the comments was that he looked more like 79 which was true yet his age was given as 49

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Ages are real, photos are genuine the only thing not truthful is our names but it only a little white lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Fab age and my real age is the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One issue is have 16/17yr olds pretending they're 18+.

Something not legal about having pictures of "minors" on your phone *ahem*

But otherwise, who cares if few years different....."

Have a higher lower age criteria problem sold.

A 16/17 year old ain't going to pass for a woman in her mid 20's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The worst I've come across was a guy who said he was 35 and turned out to be 51 - and a guy who also claimed to be 35 but was clearly mid 50's and had a hearing aid!

It may just be my bad picking process but mine experience has been a few guys in their late 50's who put 45 and use an old photo.

Although I've once had a younger guy add years, as he thought i'd not meet someone that young. He was right, but having met we got on great, so that time it had a good result. I just prefer honesty with recent face pics.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

"One issue is have 16/17yr olds pretending they're 18+.

Something not legal about having pictures of "minors" on your phone *ahem*

But otherwise, who cares if few years different.....

Have a higher lower age criteria problem sold.

A 16/17 year old ain't going to pass for a woman in her mid 20's."

there are some really mature looking/behaving young'uns!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have actually been asked for id at a meet because they didn't believe I was 31 n thought I was bout 17 lol xx was a very nice compliment especially after 5 kids lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met a few guys who have stated in their early 50s who obviously have had their free bus passes for some time and yeah it pisses me off. If can't stand this shaving years off your age!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Our ages are real, I am 51 he is 44

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of the men I have met have given the wrong age. It's been mainly older men pretending to be younger with a couple of younger pretending to be older. A couple of years isn't an issue or if the pics are recent. Meeting someone who has used pics from his 30s when he is mid 50s is a bit of a shock.

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By *reenEyedWifeCouple
over a year ago

Market Harborough

I wish I wasn't 52 but I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our ages are right. Don't see the point in lying x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything you see on my profile is the real me

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Fish site used radio carbon dating.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I'm not a liar.. dont see the point. I do get messages from people whose photos are 5 years plus old. hate people trying to mislead.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

What you see is what you get with me - Nothing but the truth

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By *assie48Woman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

i really dont understand why people feel the need to lie about their age

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

"i really dont understand why people feel the need to lie about their age "

i'm still going to be 29 for a few months, but so many profiles I See say 30+ ... so sometimes i think I should up my age 1yr just so i'm eligible to a whole cohort of women.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i really dont understand why people feel the need to lie about their age "

Because they feel that they've more chance of meeting if they lie about their age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy with how I look for my age. No need to lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never thought to lie about my age, could have added 43 years and cornered the 99 bracket...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of people asking if I really am 29, I am, why would I lie, I look fabulous of my age, I'm happy with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've knocked 10 years off my real age...

or I might have added 10 years...

who knows or cares...not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just checked my passport, yep I'm that age!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Just checked my passport, yep I'm that age!"

My new one arrived yesterday confirming I'll be turning 40 very soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just checked my passport, yep I'm that age!

My new one arrived yesterday confirming I'll be turning 40 very soon"

Woohoo!! They say life starts at 40!!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Just checked my passport, yep I'm that age!

My new one arrived yesterday confirming I'll be turning 40 very soon

Woohoo!! They say life starts at 40!!

Oh 39 for me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just checked my passport, yep I'm that age!

My new one arrived yesterday confirming I'll be turning 40 very soon

Woohoo!! They say life starts at 40!!

Oh 39 for me!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met someone off here on my old profile it said they was 38 on their profile but they told me they was 43...didn't bother me at all

my age is real but I still got the body of an 18 year old, she's buried in my back yard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me chronological mendacity is pointless

the only truth that matters is that I am Olde.

My face now resembles a sun bleached dried prune -

At least that's what I keep getting told.

My age spots are spreading and joining together

to give the look of a bumpy overall tan,

And along with my ball sack whilst sat on the bog seat,

My sex life has been flushed down the pan

They say if you don't use it you lose it

So I guess as time flies, tick tock, tick tock

That very soon while I am sat on that bog seat

I'll almost inevitably be waving goodbye to my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an 18 year old lass up for anything on my other profiles.....

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By *ySweetLadyWoman
over a year ago

London

Not everybody here who changes their real age pretend to be younger... Just saying.

;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we met a couple who had old pics and less age on their profile - they were not overly nice people either only saw them the once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It absolutely never occurred to me to lie about my age. I'm enjoying my naughty forties and bottoms to the world. 41 and perfectly happy with that. Which is handy as I can neither control time nor have a portrait in the attic like Dorian Gray. "

Enjoyed reading that!

People will always try to control time... constantly looking for ways to roll back the years or look forward to the future. I prefer to focus on the present and enjoy the things I can have a say in.

As mentioned by a few people, some will try to overcome the age filters and use their old pics going back years! Waste of time if meets are cut short. Brilliant if they pull it off and especially if they get lucky

Honesty is the best policy. Will save you from any potential embarassing situations

My Fab age and real age is the same, but depending on my 'look/style' people often say I look younger. The age bracket I get put into the most is 25-30.

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