FabSwingers.com forum: "travel expenses"

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

had a few people on here, that after i've turned them down, offer to pay me "any travel expenses"

for me to go meet them. these are all people living locally so travel expenses were hardly an issue. Basically feels like im being offered money for sex, treated like a whore.

Am i over-reacting? is this common?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

maybe they are just being kind as students are supposed to be hard up with student/tution fees...

no offence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't insult someone in such a way. However we would be happy to travel or pay for local accommodation if they can't accommodate if we liked someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy

After all a lot go dutch on here anyway

And as _iew says maybe they are just trying ta help

Dont read too much inta it mate xx

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"had a few people on here, that after i've turned them down, offer to pay me "any travel expenses"

for me to go meet them. these are all people living locally so travel expenses were hardly an issue. Basically feels like im being offered money for sex, treated like a whore.

Am i over-reacting? is this common? "

How much per mile were they offering?

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

And don't forget to ask for a VAT receipt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not overreacting...merely advertising how 'popular' you are by stating that people are so desperate to meet you. Hmm...am I being cynical again?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Not overreacting...merely advertising how 'popular' you are by stating that people are so desperate to meet you. Hmm...am I being cynical again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not overreacting...merely advertising how 'popular' you are by stating that people are so desperate to meet you. Hmm...am I being cynical again?

Nobody would ever accuse you of cynicism.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Oooooooooooooooo bertie

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Not overreacting...merely advertising how 'popular' you are by stating that people are so desperate to meet you. Hmm...am I being cynical again?

Oh Bertie....as if

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not overreacting...merely advertising how 'popular' you are by stating that people are so desperate to meet you. Hmm...am I being cynical again?

Not as cynical as me as I thought the OP had woken up from a nap and dreamed it all. Single guys can't give it away allegedly but people are throwing wonga at the OP during these austere times!

Yeah! Right!

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By *hi-John69Man
over a year ago

chichester

I wish.....................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"had a few people on here, that after i've turned them down, offer to pay me "any travel expenses"

for me to go meet them. these are all people living locally so travel expenses were hardly an issue. Basically feels like im being offered money for sex, treated like a whore.

Am i over-reacting? is this common? "
maybe thay was thinking you was still at collage why you had that name ...... and not alot of money ... maybe that was all .. just looking to help you ,, not sure ... i hope you said to them what you put here ... in a letter ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"had a few people on here, that after i've turned them down, offer to pay me "any travel expenses"

for me to go meet them. these are all people living locally so travel expenses were hardly an issue. Basically feels like im being offered money for sex, treated like a whore.

Am i over-reacting? is this common? "

Don't worry though...I feel your pain. Its just a cross I have to bear from being a total sweetheart

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

"Not overreacting...merely advertising how 'popular' you are by stating that people are so desperate to meet you. Hmm...am I being cynical again?

Ooof - you said what I had thought.

But then I read the OP again, and he doesn't mention that it's women he's turning away so I figured it must be some unwanted male attention that he's been getting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not overreacting...merely advertising how 'popular' you are by stating that people are so desperate to meet you. Hmm...am I being cynical again?

Ooof - you said what I had thought.

But then I read the OP again, and he doesn't mention that it's women he's turning away so I figured it must be some unwanted male attention that he's been getting. "

yeah, thats it. and they offer the money, AFTER i already said no.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Gits....should be flogged

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"yeah, thats it. and they offer the money, AFTER i already said no."

At least they'd get a BOGOF with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are over re acting.

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