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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering how many people actually prefer normal chats before just jumping into sex chats and more personally I think I'd rather get to know somebody first opinions welcome

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

normal chats

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"normal chats "

You prefer them? X

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

We don't have sex chats, we found early on that you talk too much about what you may get up to on a meet, they knock one out and you don't hear from them until they want to knock one out again.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like normal chats and getting to see what someone is like .

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

Me, if you get on with the other party you'll soon find the innuendos creeping in. I still like to keep the Normal chat going after that though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like normal chats and getting to see what someone is like ."

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"We don't have sex chats, we found early on that you talk too much about what you may get up to on a meet, they knock one out and you don't hear from them until they want to knock one out again."

Exactly!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"normal chats

You prefer them? X"

To what ? Sex talk ... ? Sex chats ? They are all bluff and fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how many people actually prefer normal chats before just jumping into sex chats and more personally I think I'd rather get to know somebody first opinions welcome "

Normally seems to start off fairly risqué for me - normally because the chats spawn from a rude pic, status or forum thread. Plus I'm a filthy-minded bugger and I can't help it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"normal chats

You prefer them? X

To what ? Sex talk ... ? Sex chats ? They are all bluff and fantasy."

Normal conversation and see if you build up an attraction to the other person aswell as a sexual one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I end up talking about anything once I have got to know them a little, 90% of the time its the other person who brings sex into the conversation

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Normal chat I like swapping recipes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Normal chat I like swapping recipes "

As a chef I could swap a few with you ?? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally normal chats, with a bit of flirting which I don't generally pic up on lol. If they go in with a sex chat then in my experience they're just trying to get off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sex chat with strangers does nothing for me at all.

i'd rather get to know a person as they are, then i know they're alright to meet up with.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"We don't have sex chats, we found early on that you talk too much about what you may get up to on a meet, they knock one out and you don't hear from them until they want to knock one out again."

Yr not doing it right - you need to keep 'em warm

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I like to mix it up. Normal everyday chit chat with the odd bit of naughtiness thrown in. You learn much more about a person from talking with them on a wide range of subjects. Just sex talk can get boring very quick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sex chat with strangers does nothing for me at all.

i'd rather get to know a person as they are, then i know they're alright to meet up with.

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I agree with this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to mix it up. Normal everyday chit chat with the odd bit of naughtiness thrown in. You learn much more about a person from talking with them on a wide range of subjects. Just sex talk can get boring very quick."

"Boring and very quick"

Now am having awkward flashbacks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the normal chats afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found that the more people want to talk about sex ie what they want to do to me etc - and the more pictures, videos etc get sent/requested - the less likely they are to meet!

I find it's the wannabe swingers who like to 'talk dirty ' constantly - the ones who actually meet tend to have normal conversations to help them decide if they actually 'click ' with the other person enough to want to meet them! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sex chat with strangers does nothing for me at all.

i'd rather get to know a person as they are, then i know they're alright to meet up with.

I agree with this x"

i'm enforcing boundaries.

i actually find it uncomfortable for guys to get ahead of themselves and become sexual too early on in the chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've found that the more people want to talk about sex ie what they want to do to me etc - and the more pictures, videos etc get sent/requested - the less likely they are to meet!

I find it's the wannabe swingers who like to 'talk dirty ' constantly - the ones who actually meet tend to have normal conversations to help them decide if they actually 'click ' with the other person enough to want to meet them! Xx"

As above I agree but also if the chat flows then I think the sex would eventually too if it doesn't or someone's after one thing it's a bit like well that was a waste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always go for normal chats.

Though I appreciate it's a site we are on which will ultimately lead to sex, we are still people at the end of the day and should be treated with a little dignity and respect. A normal chat goes a long way in my opinion

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I always go for normal chats.

Though I appreciate it's a site we are on which will ultimately lead to sex, we are still people at the end of the day and should be treated with a little dignity and respect. A normal chat goes a long way in my opinion "

Exactly, this is a real bugbear of mine with older guys particularly, where the physical attraction may not be quite so obvious for me, I need to get to know them a little before I decide if I am attracted or not, and if they get smutty with me before I have made that decision, it is SUCH a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal chats are better you get to know the person or people

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

Normal chats

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"We don't have sex chats, we found early on that you talk too much about what you may get up to on a meet, they knock one out and you don't hear from them until they want to knock one out again.

Yr not doing it right - you need to keep 'em warm "

I knew we were doing something wrong ...back to the drawing board

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Always chat about a range of topics first, and prefer a social as well. I'm currently chatting to a lady forumite who likes to talk about football.

Back of the net

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have sex chats, we found early on that you talk too much about what you may get up to on a meet, they knock one out and you don't hear from them until they want to knock one out again.

Exactly! "
this exactly X

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By *rwchcpleCouple
over a year ago

norwich

depends what mood im in....

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

I try chatting normally whilst dropping some (seemingly lost) innuendo in...and get accused of being a timewaster.

So I try dropping in some obvious innuendo in the next conversation and notice the message is "Read, deleted" with no reply.

I definitely need to brush up on my technique...

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I enjoy the normal chats. Swinging is (when I have the time) only a part of my life, as I'm sure it is for a lot of people here. In my experience, Fab seems to attract people over 30, thus they often have families, jobs and other commitments.

I think that you get a better quality meet when you take the trouble to get to know someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found that the more people want to talk about sex ie what they want to do to me etc - and the more pictures, videos etc get sent/requested - the less likely they are to meet!

I find it's the wannabe swingers who like to 'talk dirty ' constantly - the ones who actually meet tend to have normal conversations to help them decide if they actually 'click ' with the other person enough to want to meet them! Xx"

I won't do sex chat until after I've met them in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're supposed to chat first!?

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I like to know a bit about the person, I find it is easier when you finally meet up.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Normal chats first, til i get to know them more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal chats if there is a likelihood of a meet

Slightly kinky ones if it's a forum induced chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal yes. Sex chats no thanks bores me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find sex chat a turn off and usually something that people really don't life up to in reality (all talk no action).

I like to talk about cake but any normal conversation topic is good as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Majority of my regular chat is normal with a light dusting of filth

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