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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Crucially important to get this right..what does it for you..and what turns you off immediately..?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Impossible to say depends on my mood or what im looking for.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Crucially important to get this right..what does it for you..and what turns you off immediately..? "

Text speak always turns me off

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Instant turn of is if they havent read my profile but i dont have to open the message to see that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile.

As long as the first message isn't offensive and appears not to be written by a baffoon it's the profile that will determine whether i reply or not. If there's nothing attractive to me there's no point communicating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

With so many guys vying for attention its always tricky, I have tried short, long, dirty, respectful, funny, witty...and more often than nor my inbox has tumble blowing through it!

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

A face pic is what I like. My top priority is facial attraction.

If facial attraction exists:

Messages that reference my profile or make me laugh are my faves.

Any variant on "hi" "hey" "how are you" etc gets an immediate no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've stopped making unsolicited approaches, its far more natural to chat to someone from a thread post.

The usual variations of hi! I fancy you are just cringe inducing. No wonder I had no success for so long

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I look at the profile before I open the message and if I don't like it then whatever the message said is largely immaterial........if I like the profile then even if the message said 'hi' I would probably respond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best 3 so far this morning...

Fancy it??

What are ya thinking about right now?

Fuck now??

Hmmmm Fancy what?

You probably don't want to know about me getting kids to school!

Oh,and no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crucially important to get this right..what does it for you..and what turns you off immediately..? "

If it's uncomplimentary and just an instant statement of what they want it's goodbye

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"Crucially important to get this right..what does it for you..and what turns you off immediately..? "

Just had I want to piss in your cunt.... How ever would that work in a pub or club? Delete and block instantly...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Those guys aren't holding back this morning are they!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crucially important to get this right..what does it for you..and what turns you off immediately..?

Just had I want to piss in your cunt.... How ever would that work in a pub or club? Delete and block instantly..."

How totally yuck,he'll probably be on the forum soon whining about not getting any meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crucially important to get this right..what does it for you..and what turns you off immediately..?

Just had I want to piss in your cunt.... How ever would that work in a pub or club? Delete and block instantly..."

Oh he's clearly messaging everyone then .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crucially important to get this right..what does it for you..and what turns you off immediately..?

Just had I want to piss in your cunt.... How ever would that work in a pub or club? Delete and block instantly..."

What planet do folk live on thinking that would get a favourable reply

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"Crucially important to get this right..what does it for you..and what turns you off immediately..?

Just had I want to piss in your cunt.... How ever would that work in a pub or club? Delete and block instantly...

Oh he's clearly messaging everyone then ..... "

Ooh I don't feel special anymore!! Lol

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Crucially important to get this right..what does it for you..and what turns you off immediately..?

Just had I want to piss in your cunt.... How ever would that work in a pub or club? Delete and block instantly...

Oh he's clearly messaging everyone then .....

Ooh I don't feel special anymore!! Lol "

I do......I seem to be the only one who didn't get that message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Crucially important to get this right..what does it for you..and what turns you off immediately..?

Just had I want to piss in your cunt.... How ever would that work in a pub or club? Delete and block instantly...

Oh he's clearly messaging everyone then .....

Ooh I don't feel special anymore!! Lol

I do......I seem to be the only one who didn't get that message "
have u got it yet x

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Crucially important to get this right..what does it for you..and what turns you off immediately..?

If it's uncomplimentary and just an instant statement of what they want it's goodbye"

Oh ya, this too. When they message me with a list of what they want to do.

Great! But funnily enough, I'm not here to just give you what you want. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything explicit, if they obviously haven't read my profile and have just perved the pics, those just saying hi and nothing else all result in a delete from me.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Crucially important to get this right..what does it for you..and what turns you off immediately..?

Just had I want to piss in your cunt.... How ever would that work in a pub or club? Delete and block instantly...

Oh he's clearly messaging everyone then .....

Ooh I don't feel special anymore!! Lol

I do......I seem to be the only one who didn't get that message have u got it yet x"

No! Thinking of taking my ball and going home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone making an effort to talk and engage? Why make contact then expect the other party to do all the work?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Effort, intelligence, wit and not being crude all helps.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Crucially important to get this right..what does it for you..and what turns you off immediately..?

Just had I want to piss in your cunt.... How ever would that work in a pub or club? Delete and block instantly..."

In a pub? I guess you could just put some plastic sheeting over the pool table and use that. What the old regulars stood at the bar would make of it though, I've no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep it light,slightly cheeky and short.

Sometimes it works,most of the time it doesn't.

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