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By *hav02 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I've come to realise, some women are just crap/incapable at text conversations.

Some seem to only be able to communicate over telephone convo or in person.

So how do you overcome that on a site like this, when the only impression you can make is over text?

this just got me thinking, as I'm having woman issues with an old friend lol

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I've come to realise, some women are just crap/incapable at text conversations.

Some seem to only be able to communicate over telephone convo or in person.

So how do you overcome that on a site like this, when the only impression you can make is over text?

this just got me thinking, as I'm having woman issues with an old friend lol"

Some people (sic) probably have other things to do ... Not want to be continually texting etc, maybe its that

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Texting for 3 hours to have a conversation that I could have in 5 minutes drives me mad

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By *hav02 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

it's not having other things to do..

and yes i agree, it is easier to pick up the phone....but does that mean you'll give your phone number to every guy here just to squeeze 3 hr text convo down to 5minutes of interrogation of worthiness, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if prioritise who i'm chatting to. the more interested i am in someone the more effort i'll make with them, unless they're trying to sex chat me then i won't bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've come to realise, some women are just crap/incapable at text conversations.

Some seem to only be able to communicate over telephone convo or in person.

So how do you overcome that on a site like this, when the only impression you can make is over text?

this just got me thinking, as I'm having woman issues with an old friend lol"

Texting can be long and drawn out...a conversation that can take place in spoken minutes can last hours by text...Some of us have better things to do with our time like work, raise kids etc. 24 hour access to a person isn't a good thing.

Also texts can be misconstrued/taken the wrong way and the sender can get frustrated if the person doesn't respond straight away...which I guess is your point.

The art of conversation is dying...Damn shame if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you need some textual healing

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"it's not having other things to do..

and yes i agree, it is easier to pick up the phone....but does that mean you'll give your phone number to every guy here just to squeeze 3 hr text convo down to 5minutes of interrogation of worthiness, lol"

But Id have to give them my phone number to have a texting relationships anyway wouldnt I?

Or do you mean messaging on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've come to realise, some women are just crap/incapable at text conversations.

Some seem to only be able to communicate over telephone convo or in person.

So how do you overcome that on a site like this, when the only impression you can make is over text?

this just got me thinking, as I'm having woman issues with an old friend lol

Some people (sic) probably have other things to do ... Not want to be continually texting etc, maybe its that"

There's nothing more off putting than someone moaning about lack of texts or replies. If I had a £1 for every person who asks me to kik or WhatsApp. I'm not interested in textual intercourse

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well if anyone wants a text conversation with me there fucked. I rarely text. It takes to long

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Textual intercourse is as close as I ever get

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I like the thread title.

Do you mean texts on a phone or messages on here? I know for many it's the same as they use the site from their phone.

I really can't be bothered with long text messages but the occasional flirty back and forth is fine.

I have long message exchanges on here though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This maybe true but most men are shit at text fun or phone sec they all cum too quick

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By *hav02 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"I've come to realise, some women are just crap/incapable at text conversations.

Some seem to only be able to communicate over telephone convo or in person.

So how do you overcome that on a site like this, when the only impression you can make is over text?

this just got me thinking, as I'm having woman issues with an old friend lol

Some people (sic) probably have other things to do ... Not want to be continually texting etc, maybe its that

There's nothing more off putting than someone moaning about lack of texts or replies. If I had a £1 for every person who asks me to kik or WhatsApp. I'm not interested in textual intercourse "

LOL not moaning at all. I'm referring to current friends... but was just considering how that would relate to the Fabbing world

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By *hav02 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"I like the thread title.

Do you mean texts on a phone or messages on here? I know for many it's the same as they use the site from their phone.

I really can't be bothered with long text messages but the occasional flirty back and forth is fine.

I have long message exchanges on here though.

"

either.

i muuuuch prefer meeting in person and having a flirty chat over a drink than a 5hour textual conversation

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I've come to realise, some women are just crap/incapable at text conversations.

Some seem to only be able to communicate over telephone convo or in person.

So how do you overcome that on a site like this, when the only impression you can make is over text?

this just got me thinking, as I'm having woman issues with an old friend lol

Some people (sic) probably have other things to do ... Not want to be continually texting etc, maybe its that

There's nothing more off putting than someone moaning about lack of texts or replies. If I had a £1 for every person who asks me to kik or WhatsApp. I'm not interested in textual intercourse

LOL not moaning at all. I'm referring to current friends... but was just considering how that would relate to the Fabbing world"
so whats wrong with having a phone converaation with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer texting to talking on the phone, but that's in general not just sexting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've come to realise, some women are just crap/incapable at text conversations.

Some seem to only be able to communicate over telephone convo or in person.

So how do you overcome that on a site like this, when the only impression you can make is over text?

this just got me thinking, as I'm having woman issues with an old friend lol

Some people (sic) probably have other things to do ... Not want to be continually texting etc, maybe its that

There's nothing more off putting than someone moaning about lack of texts or replies. If I had a £1 for every person who asks me to kik or WhatsApp. I'm not interested in textual intercourse

LOL not moaning at all. I'm referring to current friends... but was just considering how that would relate to the Fabbing world"

Sorry OP I didn't mean you. I was referring to men who message me and within first few messages they're asking me to WhatsApp or Kik. I'm here to meet people not message people all night

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I've come to realise, some women are just crap/incapable at text conversations.

Some seem to only be able to communicate over telephone convo or in person.

So how do you overcome that on a site like this, when the only impression you can make is over text?

this just got me thinking, as I'm having woman issues with an old friend lol"

I'm the opposite. I make calls for work purposes but I don't speak on the phone to people if I can help it. I like texts cause I'm usually doing ten other things at the same time. When it's a conversation, you should be giving that person 100% of your attention and I just can't be arsed with that.

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By *hav02 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"I've come to realise, some women are just crap/incapable at text conversations.

Some seem to only be able to communicate over telephone convo or in person.

So how do you overcome that on a site like this, when the only impression you can make is over text?

this just got me thinking, as I'm having woman issues with an old friend lol

I'm the opposite. I make calls for work purposes but I don't speak on the phone to people if I can help it. I like texts cause I'm usually doing ten other things at the same time. When it's a conversation, you should be giving that person 100% of your attention and I just can't be arsed with that. "

You seeeee. there's a variation. Some like to text, some like to talk.

I wonder, will there be a friends with textual benefits?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I'd have textual intercourse with dirty girl but she's far too sensible

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Too sensible?

Haha! Nice try though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've come to realise, some women are just crap/incapable at text conversations.

Some seem to only be able to communicate over telephone convo or in person.

So how do you overcome that on a site like this, when the only impression you can make is over text?

this just got me thinking, as I'm having woman issues with an old friend lol

I'm the opposite. I make calls for work purposes but I don't speak on the phone to people if I can help it. I like texts cause I'm usually doing ten other things at the same time. When it's a conversation, you should be giving that person 100% of your attention and I just can't be arsed with that. "

I'm with you on this one , I too cannot be bothered speaking on the phone for similar reasons

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By *hav02 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

can _irtygirl handle double textual penetration... or too sensible for that too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate phone calls. I'm a texter all the way.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Texting for 3 hours to have a conversation that I could have in 5 minutes drives me mad"

^ This

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'd have textual intercourse with dirty girl but she's far too sensible"

I've had textual relations with her.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"can _irtygirl handle double textual penetration... or too sensible for that too? "

Hey DG! You've pulled. Twice

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