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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When me and my other half go out she really enjoys kissing other girls in front of me but when I suggest we have a 3sum with another women she says no. How can I get her to change her mind? She tells me she is curious but doesn't want too.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

she has told you

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Avoid forcing issue there is a bit of fun and then taking it to the next level which she is not comfortable with...

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Respect her wishes

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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The truth is you don't, you accept her wishes; there are loads of girls who are curious but don't want to and that's ok. The main thing is that you are both happy with your relationship. Have fun x

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

Just because she's curious about playing with other women, doesn't mean she's happy to watch you play with women too.

Maybe she thinks if she goes further, you get to go further too. Suggest she play alone with another woman if she wants to explore. Without you being involved. Depends what you're agenda is.... Wanting your girlfriend to experience and explore her sexuality or wanting two women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know she says she doesn't want too but the last time we were out she seemed more open to the idea was more hands on with the girl she pulled than normal. I think if the other girl suggested it she would go for it.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"When me and my other half go out she really enjoys kissing other girls in front of me but when I suggest we have a 3sum with another women she says no. How can I get her to change her mind? She tells me she is curious but doesn't want too. "

Then respect her wishes, end of.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"When me and my other half go out she really enjoys kissing other girls in front of me but when I suggest we have a 3sum with another women she says no. How can I get her to change her mind? She tells me she is curious but doesn't want too.

Then respect her wishes, end of."

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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"Just because she's curious about playing with other women, doesn't mean she's happy to watch you play with women too.

Maybe she thinks if she goes further, you get to go further too. Suggest she play alone with another woman if she wants to explore. Without you being involved. Depends what you're agenda is.... Wanting your girlfriend to experience and explore her sexuality or wanting two women. "

Good point x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I know she says she doesn't want too but the last time we were out she seemed more open to the idea was more hands on with the girl she pulled than normal. I think if the other girl suggested it she would go for it. "

you think, do you do her thinking for her or is she allowed to form her own decisions.

for now, she doesn't want to.

that may change when she decides, until then, respect her choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just want to see her with another women as think it would be a massive turn on. For me it's about her exploring with another women and me watching for a distance.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I just want to see her with another women as think it would be a massive turn on. For me it's about her exploring with another women and me watching for a distance. "

yeah, all you

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

But she's not ready, or doesn't want to. It's not about you.

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside


"I just want to see her with another women as think it would be a massive turn on. For me it's about her exploring with another women and me watching for a distance. "

The fact that your first sentence starts with 'I' and your second with 'For me' says a lot.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I just want to see her with another women as think it would be a massive turn on. For me it's about her exploring with another women and me watching for a distance. "

If she wants to, she will. You wanting her to because it turns you on is a whole different matter and forcing the issue or trying to talk her into it is incredibly selfish and will probably have the opposite effect than the one you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I haven't put pressure on her and I know that it will have a negative effect. Gonna leave this matter now as realise I am have made a mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your first problem is she doesn't want to.

Your second problem is your asking a bunch of strangers for advice on how to sway some ones orientation. That some one being a complete stranger to the whole bunch of strangers you asked in the first place. Surely you know her better than we do?

Why don't you approach the situation honestly?..."I'm on a swingers site, I really want you to put on a show for me with another woman"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maibe if you tell her you are on fab, she might say yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want to see her with another women as think it would be a massive turn on. For me it's about her exploring with another women and me watching for a distance. "

I think it's more about what you want and not listening to what she wants, no means no, don't push her cause it could turn sour for the pair of you, leave it alone, she may decide to give the curious side a go in the future but until then, just enjoy what's happening at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maibe if you tell her you are on fab, she might say yes."

I'm sure she already knows shag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maibe if you tell her you are on fab, she might say yes.

I'm sure she already knows shag "
Yes I think so too lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Google 'flexisexual' when you have a mo. Just because she kisses a girl when d*unk does not mean she wants a full on MFF threesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When me and my other half go out she really enjoys kissing other girls in front of me but when I suggest we have a 3sum with another women she says no. How can I get her to change her mind? She tells me she is curious but doesn't want too. "

Maybe she would get turned on seeing you with a guy too

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Wait for her her to raise the idea again. Otherwise her refusal is clear.

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