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"One man's 'overweight' is another man's 'full bodied lady'..... TBH I find the term fat as offensive. If somone doesnt 'do it for you' be honest and say, no thankyou. But you dont have to hurt their feelings; its a lot worse leading them on then dropping them. Oh, and ofr us, its definately personality that wins, if peeps are so shallow that they wont talk to you because you are too fat or thin, they probably so vain that they'd be a crap shag too lol " My feelings precisely!! | |||
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" if peeps are so shallow that they wont talk to you because you are too fat or thin, they probably so vain that they'd be a crap shag too lol " now that i never get, i dont mind anyone turning me down for sex because they dont fancy me but to just blank you because of this i never get Do people feel they cant talk to those they do not fancy because they feel they are leading them on? do they feel that if they become friends the other person will think maybe im in with a chance now we mates? so think its best not to be sociable to them? Have they not stopped and thought the person they dont fancy may not actually fancy them either and are happy to just be friends i know people say its upto other what they do, be being the type of person who will talk to and be friends with anyone, not matter what they look like and even if i dont want sex with them, i find this kind of attitude just plain bad manners | |||
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"Just wondering how BBW caught on? Surely not all BW can also be beautiful? And who makes that decision?" bloody hell lol BBW does not mean all big women are beautiful lol its an american tearm made up by people who think big is beautiful Of course there will be some minger big women just like there are some minger thin people its just an expression to let other know your over weight | |||
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"Just wondering how BBW caught on? Surely not all BW can also be beautiful? And who makes that decision?" I guess that would be the people who made up the phrase... just like the 'big is beautiful' slogan. | |||
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"Just wondering how BBW caught on? Surely not all BW can also be beautiful? And who makes that decision? bloody hell lol BBW does not mean all big women are beautiful lol its an american tearm made up by people who think big is beautiful Of course there will be some minger big women just like there are some minger thin people its just an expression to let other know your over weight" errrr define ' overweight'....... and for your information I'm built for comfort not speed | |||
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"I am totally put off of people who seem to be able to type by farting in the general direction of their keyboard" Wow what I sight that would be | |||
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"That's what I thought. Just find it funny that people refer to themselves as it when if anyone else included 'beautiful' in their description it would appear a bit arrogant. But BBW just gets accepted as true." Some of us understand it's just a handy term. | |||
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"Just wondering how BBW caught on? Surely not all BW can also be beautiful? And who makes that decision? bloody hell lol BBW does not mean all big women are beautiful lol its an american tearm made up by people who think big is beautiful Of course there will be some minger big women just like there are some minger thin people its just an expression to let other know your over weight errrr define ' overweight'....... and for your information I'm built for comfort not speed " over weight is any weight thats above your idea BMI lol now some may argue what a BBW is as everyone has their own ideas of whats fat and whats not, ask 20 people what sized a BBW starts from and you will get several different replies based on their own tastes over weight and BBW is not the same, i wouldnt say someone who was only a stone over their idea weight was a BBW | |||
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"That's what I thought. Just find it funny that people refer to themselves as it when if anyone else included 'beautiful' in their description it would appear a bit arrogant. But BBW just gets accepted as true. Some of us understand it's just a handy term." No, I understand that. All I wondered was who started it and why. And now I know. Thanks for all the answers, even the patronising ones... | |||
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"That's what I thought. Just find it funny that people refer to themselves as it when if anyone else included 'beautiful' in their description it would appear a bit arrogant. But BBW just gets accepted as true. Some of us understand it's just a handy term." and thats the top and bottom of it none big people always seem to take offence by the phrase BBW and have to question the beautiful bit but to me BBW should not be taken so litteral its just a handy way to let people know your a big lass | |||
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"That's what I thought. Just find it funny that people refer to themselves as it when if anyone else included 'beautiful' in their description it would appear a bit arrogant. But BBW just gets accepted as true. Some of us understand it's just a handy term. No, I understand that. All I wondered was who started it and why. And now I know. Thanks for all the answers, even the patronising ones..." You're welocme... even though if you did understand it, it kinda makes your previous comment a contradiction. But as long as it's all clear now hey. | |||
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" if peeps are so shallow that they wont talk to you because you are too fat or thin, they probably so vain that they'd be a crap shag too lol " Bollox, if someone pm's me and I dont fancy them what is the point in chatting...Im not looking for bestest buddies on here Its diferent on the boards tho, I will speak to anybody (well apart from gingers...shudders)but then I dont use the boards as a hunting ground. | |||
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" if peeps are so shallow that they wont talk to you because you are too fat or thin, they probably so vain that they'd be a crap shag too lol Bollox, if someone pm's me and I dont fancy them what is the point in chatting...Im not looking for bestest buddies on here Its diferent on the boards tho, I will speak to anybody (well apart from gingers...shudders)but then I dont use the boards as a hunting ground." I pm ya an ya dont fancy me xx | |||
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" if peeps are so shallow that they wont talk to you because you are too fat or thin, they probably so vain that they'd be a crap shag too lol Bollox, if someone pm's me and I dont fancy them what is the point in chatting...Im not looking for bestest buddies on here Its diferent on the boards tho, I will speak to anybody (well apart from gingers...shudders)but then I dont use the boards as a hunting ground. I pm ya an ya dont fancy me xx " Thats called stalking sugarlump LOL xx | |||
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"BBW isnt always refered to as big and beautiful.... Some use it as big BUSTY women.... " Ooh I like that version lol | |||
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"BBW isnt always refered to as big and beautiful.... Some use it as big BUSTY women.... Ooh I like that version lol" tust you , xxx your a tit man then , lol | |||
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"A bbw for me would be someone about 18 stone " fem size8 32d dress size toned and very attractive would rather be bigger but cant put on weight not happy who really gives a shit about who finds what attractive,you have to love yourself to play this game look at the people not the sizes | |||
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"BBW isnt always refered to as big and beautiful.... Some use it as big BUSTY women.... Ooh I like that version loltust you , xxx your a tit man then , lol " haha I'm an everything man. I like what i like lol xx | |||
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"Just wondering how BBW caught on? Surely not all BW can also be beautiful? And who makes that decision? bloody hell lol BBW does not mean all big women are beautiful lol its an american tearm made up by people who think big is beautiful Of course there will be some minger big women just like there are some minger thin people its just an expression to let other know your over weight errrr define ' overweight'....... and for your information I'm built for comfort not speed over weight is any weight thats above your idea BMI lol now some may argue what a BBW is as everyone has their own ideas of whats fat and whats not, ask 20 people what sized a BBW starts from and you will get several different replies based on their own tastes over weight and BBW is not the same, i wouldnt say someone who was only a stone over their idea weight was a BBW " Read an article today and someone commented that Cheryl Cole was fat! Now I ask you! I'd love to know how they'd describe me! | |||
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"That's what I thought. Just find it funny that people refer to themselves as it when if anyone else included 'beautiful' in their description it would appear a bit arrogant. But BBW just gets accepted as true. Some of us understand it's just a handy term. and thats the top and bottom of it none big people always seem to take offence by the phrase BBW and have to question the beautiful bit but to me BBW should not be taken so litteral its just a handy way to let people know your a big lass" Usually the same people who take umridge at the term "professional" on profiles! | |||
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"Just wondering how BBW caught on? Surely not all BW can also be beautiful? And who makes that decision? bloody hell lol BBW does not mean all big women are beautiful lol its an american tearm made up by people who think big is beautiful Of course there will be some minger big women just like there are some minger thin people its just an expression to let other know your over weight errrr define ' overweight'....... and for your information I'm built for comfort not speed over weight is any weight thats above your idea BMI lol now some may argue what a BBW is as everyone has their own ideas of whats fat and whats not, ask 20 people what sized a BBW starts from and you will get several different replies based on their own tastes over weight and BBW is not the same, i wouldnt say someone who was only a stone over their idea weight was a BBW Read an article today and someone commented that Cheryl Cole was fat! Now I ask you! I'd love to know how they'd describe me! " fuck if she is fat then god help me!!! although I did get called a bag of bones last week!!!!! | |||
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" Read an article today and someone commented that Cheryl Cole was fat! Now I ask you! I'd love to know how they'd describe me! " ah but now your moving onto media world, thats a whole new ball game anyone over 6 stone is fat in the glossies lol | |||
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"Just wondering how BBW caught on? Surely not all BW can also be beautiful? And who makes that decision? bloody hell lol BBW does not mean all big women are beautiful lol its an american tearm made up by people who think big is beautiful Of course there will be some minger big women just like there are some minger thin people its just an expression to let other know your over weight errrr define ' overweight'....... and for your information I'm built for comfort not speed over weight is any weight thats above your idea BMI lol now some may argue what a BBW is as everyone has their own ideas of whats fat and whats not, ask 20 people what sized a BBW starts from and you will get several different replies based on their own tastes over weight and BBW is not the same, i wouldnt say someone who was only a stone over their idea weight was a BBW Read an article today and someone commented that Cheryl Cole was fat! Now I ask you! I'd love to know how they'd describe me! fuck if she is fat then god help me!!! although I did get called a bag of bones last week!!!!!" wonder if it was the same guy i got called a bonney w***e lol | |||
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"36dd bust so size 14-16 up top, 8-10 at the bottom, no hips or bum....face like a bulldog chewing a wasp! If I can get a shag there's hope for everyone. I like the person and their wit before I like the body... it's a bonus if the guys are over 6' and fit as fuck and the ladies are curvy....but only a bonus, engage the mind the rest will follow in my case. " apart from the fact I'm under 6' and no where near fit can I volunteer | |||
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"36dd bust so size 14-16 up top, 8-10 at the bottom, no hips or bum....face like a bulldog chewing a wasp! If I can get a shag there's hope for everyone. I like the person and their wit before I like the body... it's a bonus if the guys are over 6' and fit as fuck and the ladies are curvy....but only a bonus, engage the mind the rest will follow in my case. apart from the fact I'm under 6' and no where near fit can I volunteer " Humour...first starter for ten! | |||
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"If someone didnt like me because I was fat/BBW/whatever it doesnt offend me at all. It gets offensive when people are rude about the fact that im big/fat/rotund....but thankfully that hasnt happened on here yet. " I've had a few abusive messages in my time here. Usually they start off saying you are the sexiest female I have clapped eyes on, amazing how quickly I become an emaciated skanky skinny bitch once I say thanks but no thanks. | |||
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"If someone didnt like me because I was fat/BBW/whatever it doesnt offend me at all. It gets offensive when people are rude about the fact that im big/fat/rotund....but thankfully that hasnt happened on here yet. I've had a few abusive messages in my time here. Usually they start off saying you are the sexiest female I have clapped eyes on, amazing how quickly I become an emaciated skanky skinny bitch once I say thanks but no thanks. " Lol oooooooooo we have had a couple of those once we have said no. They aint offensive, just rather funny lol. | |||
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"If someone didnt like me because I was fat/BBW/whatever it doesnt offend me at all. It gets offensive when people are rude about the fact that im big/fat/rotund....but thankfully that hasnt happened on here yet. I've had a few abusive messages in my time here. Usually they start off saying you are the sexiest female I have clapped eyes on, amazing how quickly I become an emaciated skanky skinny bitch once I say thanks but no thanks. " much as I would like to compliment you on being the sexiest female I have clapped eyes on or being a emaciated skanky skinny bitch, I can't see your blooming profile | |||
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"If someone didnt like me because I was fat/BBW/whatever it doesnt offend me at all. It gets offensive when people are rude about the fact that im big/fat/rotund....but thankfully that hasnt happened on here yet. I've had a few abusive messages in my time here. Usually they start off saying you are the sexiest female I have clapped eyes on, amazing how quickly I become an emaciated skanky skinny bitch once I say thanks but no thanks. " i think all women get such messages at some point i got called a two bit usedd whore by one guy because i said no thanks to him lol | |||
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"Nothing on a profile really offends me, people are who they are, regardless of whether I like them or not. However, I *do* wish there were someway to enforce (of course I realise there isn't) a good full body shot that lets you see what someone is actually built like. After all, one persons BBW is anothers obese and one persons Slim is anothers anorexic. " I can see where your coming from but not everyone is as comfortable with their body to be able to do that. I put my clothes size on my profile....what more do ya need | |||
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" I put my clothes size on my profile....what more do ya need " I'm male! Female clothes sizes? May as well write in Icelandic. I understand of course that a lot of people would be uncomfortable with a body shot but hey, there;s very little other price to pay around here, right? Maybe it's time for people to make an effort and present an honest to god example of themselves (yeajh yeah, us included!) | |||
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"Im as fat as they come,,, do i care? Probs not as much as i should do? Do i mind if some people dont want to meet me? Nah,, dust off my shoulder and move on. Im certainly not everyones cup of tea! Hell lets just embrace diversity and be greatful of it.. what a boring place we'd be in if we were all the same. " very true cute. and we are all different. some do and some dont like big or skinny or tall or short etc etc the list goes on. for me i need some atraction but dont need a super model. i can find a skinny person attractive and a big person. but the personality wins me over. if someone is a prat then it dont matter how they look. and cute ur fit hun x | |||
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