FabSwingers.com forum: Double standards.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Amended and apologies. My previous post was indeed out of order.

My complaint.

Married/attached men getting vilified for daring to be on here without their wives/gfs knowledge.

Nobody...BUT NOBODY...complains about the married women on here who dont even have to claim to be single and who are blatantly cheating on their husbands/bfs.

Women have no trouble at all getting what they want on here, despite being attached and their partners know nothing about it.

Yet woe betide a man when he does it? Disgusting double standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One scoop or two?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Bit long-winded but yes, well spotted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like I've said about 3 times now, I've seen women get grief for being married loads of times on here.

And don't you think its better that their NOT pretending to be single? You seem to be saying it's even worse that they state on their profiles that they're married.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I answer exactly the same, they can do what the fuck they want.

not my business

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I don't like cheating from either sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I jeuzzzese I ain't typing my reply to you a third time!!!!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

but it does depend on how popular they are in the forums,.....

for consistency

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says you want to get I. Touch with married females

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Amended and apologies. My previous post was indeed out of order.

My complaint.

Married/attached men getting vilified for daring to be on here without their wives/gfs knowledge.

Nobody...BUT NOBODY...complains about the married women on here who dont even have to claim to be single and who are blatantly cheating on their husbands/bfs.

Women have no trouble at all getting what they want on here, despite being attached and their partners know nothing about it.

Yet woe betide a man when he does it? Disgusting double standards. "

1) no double standard from me.... i wouldn't meet either....

2) Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!...... sorry thats the noise i am hearing in my heard when i read your post.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet and fuck single women, so don't care if they're cheating, i don't approve but it's not my life and my morals are for me to live by.

Married women fucking on here also doesn't diminish my chances of getting a meet.

I don't want to meet married men and want to fuck single men.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

OP: are there two threads to make the woman who has d*unk too much wine on the other thread think she's seeing double?

That's just mean

Mr ddc

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I have no idea what women write however, men contact us usually me and moan about their partner. I say to them go and speak openly to her. Personally I am not intetested in married or attached doing this behind someones back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol 2 threads the same

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Just seen you live with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just seen you live with someone"

And wants to meet married women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So basically, i don't judge either gender for cheating even if i don't approve of it.

Only married men contact me for sex despite me asking for them not to, so yeah i would whinge about that persoanly.

It's not double standards, it's because married men do not read profiles or ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amended and apologies. My previous post was indeed out of order.

My complaint.

Married/attached men getting vilified for daring to be on here without their wives/gfs knowledge.

Nobody...BUT NOBODY...complains about the married women on here who dont even have to claim to be single and who are blatantly cheating on their husbands/bfs.

Women have no trouble at all getting what they want on here, despite being attached and their partners know nothing about it.

Yet woe betide a man when he does it? Disgusting double standards. "

Your misses loves it when you're out and I come round

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Just seen you live with someone

And wants to meet married women

Ermmmm

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Just seen you live with someone

And wants to meet married women

Ermmmm

Ah, so that's why he's got so bent out o0f shape about it lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met with married women, their husbands were there so it's fine lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont care if someone is married as long as i know and can make my own mind up and i cant be doing with those going on about the fact their married and cheating at every opportunity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont care if someone is married as long as i know and can make my own mind up and i cant be doing with those going on about the fact their married and cheating at every opportunity"

Maybe their making sure people know so they don't message them. I don't meet married men or women so I'd rather be sure who is or isn't cheating so they don't waste my time. Much better that way than the ones who you don't know about.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I dont care if someone is married as long as i know and can make my own mind up and i cant be doing with those going on about the fact their married and cheating at every opportunity

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By *elle2016Woman
over a year ago

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"but it does depend on how popular they are in the forums,.....

for consistency

Purely for consistency!

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By *reenEyedWifeCouple
over a year ago

Market Harborough

"I dont care if someone is married as long as i know and can make my own mind up and i cant be doing with those going on about the fact their married and cheating at every opportunity"

Ditto. I just hate liars!!! If someone is married and cheating, be they male or female, just be straight about it so people can make informed decisions.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"but it does depend on how popular they are in the forums,.....

for consistency

Purely for consistency!"

I thought the other would close but I never noticed he had removed the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont care if someone is married as long as i know and can make my own mind up and i cant be doing with those going on about the fact their married and cheating at every opportunity

In always hearing that people don't read profiles so maybe that's why

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By *elle2016Woman
over a year ago

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View. ..

Or maybe how much brown is licked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP it doesn't matter what other people think. So what if people openly state on the forums how awful it is that men are cheating, pay them no heed, it isn't important what they preach. If you want to swing behind your partners back just do it. But don't go on about hard done to you are, or try to justify it.

The site is a huge one, the forums make up a tiny percentage of the users. I am sure that many won't care about your marital status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single...therefore I don't cheat. I have no problems meeting women who cheat tho....it is their decision.

Some are up front and tell me from the start. I would prefer this to be fair.

Some don't....so what? Often it means I get less grief/pressure from them.

It is the younger, single ones who can turn into bunny boilers...married women don't do that!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"View. ..

Or maybe how much brown is licked!"

silence is the most perfect expression of scorn.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like cheating from either sex."

^ This !

What others get up to is none of my business ,I Prefer to focus on my own garden than other peoples.

However I personally have never cheated on anybody .I won't meet with somebody who is cheating on another person.

That applies to either male or female - no double standards here thanks !

Having been cheated on myself I know just how savage it feels & the devastation it causes to any children that are a casualty in it all ,so that's one of the reasons why I don't like it . My preference ,nothing more!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I dont care if someone is married as long as i know and can make my own mind up and i cant be doing with those going on about the fact their married and cheating at every opportunity

In always hearing that people don't read profiles so maybe that's why

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well if someone has something on the profile and someone is to stupid not to read it before asking about meeting then that isnt actually the married persons fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm single...therefore I don't cheat. I have no problems meeting women who cheat tho....it is their decision.

Some are up front and tell me from the start. I would prefer this to be fair.

Some don't....so what? Often it means I get less grief/pressure from them.

It is the younger, single ones who can turn into bunny boilers...married women don't do that!"

Being single does not mean that you're more likely to put more pressure on - some folk are more than happy to be single! Relationship status has no baring on whether somebody is a bunny boiler or not- that has more to do with a persons state of mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody...BUT NOBODY...complains about the married women on here who dont even have to claim to be single and who are blatantly cheating on their husbands/bfs."

Not entirely true.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

"I jeuzzzese I ain't typing my reply to you a third time!!!!!"

Copy & paste it then

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"Amended and apologies. My previous post was indeed out of order.

My complaint.

Married/attached men getting vilified for daring to be on here without their wives/gfs knowledge.

Nobody...BUT NOBODY...complains about the married women on here who dont even have to claim to be single and who are blatantly cheating on their husbands/bfs.

Women have no trouble at all getting what they want on here, despite being attached and their partners know nothing about it.

Yet woe betide a man when he does it? Disgusting double standards. "

We won't meet men or women cheating on there partners, they are as bad as each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really, are you still banging on about it?!

There are people who won't meet married men.

There are people who won't meet married woman.

The difference on here?

Usually the women don't draw attention to themselves with a 'woe is me, I can't find a meet' thread.

Therefore, you don't see that side on a forum debate as it's usually directed at the guy who started the post.

so stop naming & shaming & let it go.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Amended and apologies. My previous post was indeed out of order.

My complaint.

Married/attached men getting vilified for daring to be on here without their wives/gfs knowledge.

Nobody...BUT NOBODY...complains about the married women on here who dont even have to claim to be single and who are blatantly cheating on their husbands/bfs.

Women have no trouble at all getting what they want on here, despite being attached and their partners know nothing about it.

Yet woe betide a man when he does it? Disgusting double standards. "

a lot of the blame for that lies at the men who meet them so readily knowing that they are meeting attached women.

Trawl the forums and you will see that fucking a married woman seems high on a lot of mens bucket lists...the eagerness to get their end away means that the women who do it rarely come on the forums crying about the fact that they can't get a meet.

Whenever someone raises the idea of double standards on a married men thread quite often you will see people posting that women get the same contempt as guys a lot of the time.

It is purely the fact that the men start more threads about cheating on their wives that makes it look like cheating women are more acceptabl

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