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I came out today

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can out as bi to my best friend of 19 years today, and what a liberating experience it was. Her reaction, I've always known it but not wanted to question you on it, thank goodness you've finally admitted it to me!!

One happy girl here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely to hear such fantastic and accepting friends exist Well done must be weight off your shoulders x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you have a good friend there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lovely to hear such fantastic and accepting friends exist Well done must be weight off your shoulders x"

Thanks, yes it was a weight off x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Sounds like you have a good friend there

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I most certainly do

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Good work

I came out to my best friend when I was 18 as bi. We were d*unk, at the bottom of his garden.

He looked at me and said, "The farthest I'd ever go with you is mutual masterbation."

WTF?!

I'm baring my soul, nit making a pass!

*sighs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im thrilled for you that it went well

I just long for the day where we dont have labels on sexuality and we can just be attracted to whoever we like..

3 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fantastic! Glad she was supportive and you've been able to get that off your shoulders x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone xx

And DJ, do I care ask if you ever did mutual masturbation with him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations lovely, that's fantastic to hear x

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Thanks everyone xx

And DJ, do I care ask if you ever did mutual masturbation with him? "

Absolutely not! He's soooo not my type!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can finally be who you really are now x

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Glad it went well

All my friends know, and I came out to my sister in October. She seems fine with it, hasn't asked anything though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's funny how the things we think are completely secret are the same things our friends are waiting for us to admit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really happy for you

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

He said "I'm gay"

"We know"

"How do you know?"

"By watching you ignore women but check out every bloke that walks past"

"Oh, am I that obvious?"

"To all your mates yes"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He said "I'm gay"

"We know"

"How do you know?"

"By watching you ignore women but check out every bloke that walks past"

"Oh, am I that obvious?"

"To all your mates yes""

Haha, apparently with me it was when I cut my hair to a 1cm long when I was 17. I just liked it that way though

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"He said "I'm gay"

"We know"

"How do you know?"

"By watching you ignore women but check out every bloke that walks past"

"Oh, am I that obvious?"

"To all your mates yes"

Haha, apparently with me it was when I cut my hair to a 1cm long when I was 17. I just liked it that way though "

That could well have set the gaydar off

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I can out as bi to my best friend of 19 years today, and what a liberating experience it was. Her reaction, I've always known it but not wanted to question you on it, thank goodness you've finally admitted it to me!!

One happy girl here lol "

That was very brave of you and we'll done.

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff

In the great spectrum of all things sexual, there are very few 100% heterosexual people. Most are bi to a certain extent.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well donex

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Congratulations and you have a true friend there xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He said "I'm gay"

"We know"

"How do you know?"

"By watching you ignore women but check out every bloke that walks past"

"Oh, am I that obvious?"

"To all your mates yes"

Haha, apparently with me it was when I cut my hair to a 1cm long when I was 17. I just liked it that way though

That could well have set the gaydar off "

Apparently so lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can out as bi to my best friend of 19 years today, and what a liberating experience it was. Her reaction, I've always known it but not wanted to question you on it, thank goodness you've finally admitted it to me!!

One happy girl here lol

That was very brave of you and we'll done. "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Congratulations and you have a true friend there xx"

I do, I'm lucky xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well donex"

Thanks Diamondsmiles

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"In the great spectrum of all things sexual, there are very few 100% heterosexual people. Most are bi to a certain extent."

Utter pish

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the great spectrum of all things sexual, there are very few 100% heterosexual people. Most are bi to a certain extent.

Utter pish"

I agree, I don't believe that at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the great spectrum of all things sexual, there are very few 100% heterosexual people. Most are bi to a certain extent.

Utter pish"

Don't you just love sweeping generalisations ?

Congrats Fantasy, one

I'm glad it's all gone smoothly for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the great spectrum of all things sexual, there are very few 100% heterosexual people. Most are bi to a certain extent.

Utter pish

Don't you just love sweeping generalisations ?

Congrats Fantasy, one

I'm glad it's all gone smoothly for you

"

Thanks Mr Duck, me and the duckies here are happy tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the great spectrum of all things sexual, there are very few 100% heterosexual people. Most are bi to a certain extent.

Utter pish

Don't you just love sweeping generalisations ?

Congrats Fantasy, one

I'm glad it's all gone smoothly for you

Thanks Mr Duck, me and the duckies here are happy tonight "

Us duck fanciers have to stick together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the great spectrum of all things sexual, there are very few 100% heterosexual people. Most are bi to a certain extent.

Utter pish

Don't you just love sweeping generalisations ?

Congrats Fantasy, one

I'm glad it's all gone smoothly for you

Thanks Mr Duck, me and the duckies here are happy tonight

Us duck fanciers have to stick together "

We must certainly do

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Congrats ms tasy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Congrats ms tasy "

Thank you

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Go you! And go your friend too!

I did that when I was 25 and my best friend of 15 years hasn't spoken to me since.

You live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go you! And go your friend too!

I did that when I was 25 and my best friend of 15 years hasn't spoken to me since.

You live and learn. "

Thanks DirtyGirl, I'm sorry it wasn't the same experience for.you

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Go you! And go your friend too!

I did that when I was 25 and my best friend of 15 years hasn't spoken to me since.

You live and learn.

Thanks DirtyGirl, I'm sorry it wasn't the same experience for.you "

I'm not. I lived and I learned that those who mind don't matter. Those who matter, don't mind. It's all good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go you! And go your friend too!

I did that when I was 25 and my best friend of 15 years hasn't spoken to me since.

You live and learn.

Thanks DirtyGirl, I'm sorry it wasn't the same experience for.you

I'm not. I lived and I learned that those who mind don't matter. Those who matter, don't mind. It's all good. "

I thought your thoughts on that, totally true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely news OP. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lovely news OP. x"

Thanks BoldGirl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Congratulations ) "

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good news x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh! I didn't see this earlier. Awesome news!

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"I can out as bi to my best friend of 19 years today, and what a liberating experience it was. Her reaction, I've always known it but not wanted to question you on it, thank goodness you've finally admitted it to me!!

One happy girl here lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations on coming out and having an understanding friend now go have some fun X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought that these days it was highly acceptable for a girl to be bi these days. It seems most especially young ones have either dabbled in girl on girl play or have thought about and at least don't bat an high lid to it

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago


"I can out as bi to my best friend of 19 years today, and what a liberating experience it was. Her reaction, I've always known it but not wanted to question you on it, thank goodness you've finally admitted it to me!!

One happy girl here lol "

Congrats

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"I can out as bi to my best friend of 19 years today, and what a liberating experience it was. Her reaction, I've always known it but not wanted to question you on it, thank goodness you've finally admitted it to me!!

One happy girl here lol "

Congrats hun, I wish I had the courage to tell my best friend...

Maybe one day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought that these days it was highly acceptable for a girl to be bi these days. It seems most especially young ones have either dabbled in girl on girl play or have thought about and at least don't bat an high lid to it"

Quite possibly, however many of us are still brought up in traditional, cultural and or religious families in which bi sexuality is still not accepted. That upbringing can make people, like myself, hide their sexuality for many years before having courage to tell people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brilliant news. Congratulations.

Feels amazing, doesn't it?

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By *UN TIME COUPLECouple
over a year ago

redditch

Fantastic news it could've gone the other Way

I told my bestie of whom I've known since school on my bday last Dec as had a friend over and caught me making out with her lol she was shocked "smiling" but very accepting as you say such a weight of your shoulders x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a guy at work who came out as gay, we knew as he is a friend and we don't care.

He was really touched when it turned out everyone at work was the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow. Everyone is gay?

Awesome

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By *lectrumMan
over a year ago

south shields

No big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No big deal "

But think how much fun we could have at th Christmas party

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

hugs..thats wonderful fantasy...be well and be happy and be supported...just great xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow. Everyone is gay?

Awesome "

According to Kurt Cobain, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can out as bi to my best friend of 19 years today, and what a liberating experience it was. Her reaction, I've always known it but not wanted to question you on it, thank goodness you've finally admitted it to me!!

One happy girl here lol "

Really happy for you

Emma x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow. Everyone is gay?

Awesome "

T'is true.

We are indeed a happy bunch, he is just happier!

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Congratulations fantasy81, and so glad your friend was so supportive.

I came out as bi to my friends a couple of years after meeting my oh.

Their reaction? "Yeah, whatever"

Great mates are great.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"In the great spectrum of all things sexual, there are very few 100% heterosexual people. Most are bi to a certain extent.

Utter pish"

I think the statement is entirely accurate.

As it says "most" you may be one of those who are 100% straight but in my experience, the majority of people have a certain amount of attraction to some extent toward the same sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

made me smile xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely to see a good news thread with no pettiness and a genuine happy ending.

Have a thumbs up OP

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