FabSwingers.com forum: showing veris

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

when it comes to verifications do you fel the need to show cam veris meet veris or both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't feel a need to show any, i do show my latest one(s) for a few days though.

if i was after cam chat then i's show my cam veris, if after meets i'd show those. if either show then either. makes sense to me.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

I don't show any verifications. I know some people think verifications are an important tool, but I don't. I don't want them, I don't give them, I don't display them. It's like people who constantly post pics of what they're about to eat, on Facebook. Anyone who is about to eat me gets no clues from my verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only show a few ...

Depends what we are looking for .

By displaying them it adds reassurance to potential meets .

We don't have any cam veri's and if we did we wouldn't show them .

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey

If I didn't have to , I wouldn't . Alas , a lot of ladies and couples refuse point blank to meet you unless you've got ones they can see .

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

"I don't show any verifications. I know some people think verifications are an important tool, but I don't. I don't want them, I don't give them, I don't display them. It's like people who constantly post pics of what they're about to eat, on Facebook. Anyone who is about to eat me gets no clues from my verifications

Some people will only talk to/meet verified people though.

If I've met people off here/elsewhere but they're not verified and I'm not, I'm still left unverified....

I'm not fussed, because genuine people will behave genuinely

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I only show social veris.

What happens on a meet is between me, the person I meet and the taxidermist.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

"Some people will only talk to/meet verified people though..."

Yes, and that's reasonable - for some people, that verified green tick is important. However, I have the green tick... it's just the text of the verifications that I won't show.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I rarely show any, simply because it's no one buisness who I've met.

I do however show the summery for anyone who wants to question if I'm genuine or not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was horrified about the verification system when we first starting using Fab. I thought it was like reviewing a product from on-line shopping. I confess that we are converts though, and now use the system as an essential part of the 'vetting' process. Rightly or wrongly, we find that since we have been strict about checking out verifications, we have made considerably less mistakes in our choices, and have cut down the amount we've been messed about. For example, bad experiences on the swing scene mean that we are now only prepared to get involved with men who are experienced with playing with couples. Verifications, from other couples similar to ourselves, can help confirm that the man we are interested is someone that swinging couples feel comfortable to play with. I have no doubt that there are many unverified genuine men who totally understand the dynamics of playing with an MF couple, but we simply can't risk making the wrong judgement any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was horrified about the verification system when we first starting using Fab. I thought it was like reviewing a product from on-line shopping. I confess that we are converts though, and now use the system as an essential part of the 'vetting' process. Rightly or wrongly, we find that since we have been strict about checking out verifications, we have made considerably less mistakes in our choices, and have cut down the amount we've been messed about. For example, bad experiences on the swing scene mean that we are now only prepared to get involved with men who are experienced with playing with couples. Verifications, from other couples similar to ourselves, can help confirm that the man we are interested is someone that swinging couples feel comfortable to play with. I have no doubt that there are many unverified genuine men who totally understand the dynamics of playing with an MF couple, but we simply can't risk making the wrong judgement any more."

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

not everyone I've met has verified me and I wouldn't say I'm that concerned if they don't, but feel it's essential to show a few, so people know I will turn up, and also I'm trust worthy and won't run off with the family silver once you've fallen asleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show the veris I want to show.

Sometimes I switch them up to see how people react. I was surprised how openly judgemental single men are of other single men's verifications.

Anyway, I don't feel the need to display any. So I do what I want. I hide the summary, though, because people don't need to reduce my sex life to a numerical counter.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have a few out at the moment. I've never found that displaying or not makes much difference to the people I actually want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not showing any veris at present, however when I do, I only show ones which are social or non sexual ones (unless funny) as I'm not a fan of overtly sexual ones.

I don't see them as important to look at, I prefer to judge on the chat I have rather than on veris.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"when it comes to verifications do you fel the need to show cam veris meet veris or both "

Can veris tell me nothing about a person or what they are like as people. I read in person veris - but also use my own mind to gauge people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither,no one's business who we meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when it comes to verifications do you fel the need to show cam veris meet veris or both "

I don't show any...

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"when it comes to verifications do you fel the need to show cam veris meet veris or both "

I don't show any. What happened is private. If you want to read a story, there's the stories section on the forum. I do show the number though.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I never read other people's veris. The knowledge that someone has been veried is enough for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll only show social verifications - don't want people knowing the nitty gritty of what I get up to in the bedroom or beyond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ahow both but I have some more explicit ones that aren't on show. ...

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