FabSwingers.com forum: people on each others hot list

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anybody else think that if you added each other to your hot list that it would be a great idea if it showed. I don't know how but maybe by a notification or something simple like a different coloured tick

Sally x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

god idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good even

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Wouldnt work for me im on no fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I quite like people not knowing, they can usually suss you out anyway by how quick you fab their pics or if you comment on a status update.......I try to bide my time now but doesn't always work

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wouldnt work for me im on no fuckers"

Aw I'm sure you will be on somebodies hot list

x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good point. I'm a nosey fucker so I'd want to know hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah I quite like people not knowing, they can usually suss you out anyway by how quick you fab their pics or if you comment on a status update.......I try to bide my time now but doesn't always work

Aw shucks!

Pretty sure I'm not on your hotlist then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually op I think that's a good idea! You mean if it's a mutual thing, right? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't pay, no list...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use the hotlist... I prefer to make notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hotlist is sometimes an avoid list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anybody else think that if you added each other to your hot list that it would be a great idea if it showed. I don't know how but maybe by a notification or something simple like a different coloured tick

Sally x x"

I think this is a great idea, then they both know there is an attraction and they might be able to have some fun together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an idea. How about you message the people on your hotlist and find out of they like you

Being serious, there are sometimes threads where people reveal their hotlist. And you could always put up a status asking. We did it for a forum thread once and it was very illuminating.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I don't use the hotlist... I prefer to make notes

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i prefer to just message someone if i like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah I quite like people not knowing, they can usually suss you out anyway by how quick you fab their pics or if you comment on a status update.......I try to bide my time now but doesn't always work

Aw shucks!

Pretty sure I'm not on your hotlist then!

I could just be playing extra coy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't use the hotlist... I prefer to make notes

i prefer to just message someone if i like them"

Me too but I was starting to use my hotlist for people to steer clear of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer if my hotlist didn't know I stalk them.

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By *ohno86Man
over a year ago

salford

I have one person on my hotlist but I would certainly use it more if it notified you when a "match" had been made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah I quite like people not knowing, they can usually suss you out anyway by how quick you fab their pics or if you comment on a status update.......I try to bide my time now but doesn't always work

Aw shucks!

Pretty sure I'm not on your hotlist then!

I could just be playing extra coy

So coy that you never fab me. Now THAT'S coy! Well done sir!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no one on mine so wouldn't do me any good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our hotlist is a mix match of people we like to people we would definitely like to avoid........should really sort it out

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Actually op I think that's a good idea! You mean if it's a mutual thing, right? X"

Yes if its mutual thing i think it woukd be a good idea

x x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I don't use the hotlist... I prefer to make notes

i prefer to just message someone if i like them

Me too but I was starting to use my hotlist for people to steer clear of

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yes and it would amuse me if someone matched as being on mine cause there not their cause i fancy them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no one on mine so wouldn't do me any good"

you will be on plenty though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't use the hotlist... I prefer to make notes

i prefer to just message someone if i like them

Me too but I was starting to use my hotlist for people to steer clear of

They should have a "block" button or "notes" feature for that....oh wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah I quite like people not knowing, they can usually suss you out anyway by how quick you fab their pics or if you comment on a status update.......I try to bide my time now but doesn't always work

Aw shucks!

Pretty sure I'm not on your hotlist then!

I could just be playing extra coy

So coy that you never fab me. Now THAT'S coy! Well done sir!

So a quick look shows I've fabbed;

5th April

4th April

3rd April

30th March

13th March........I gave up looking then and had a wank.....

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"I'd prefer if my hotlist didn't know I stalk them.

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see any from my hotlist but see a few I may add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer people didn't know I've hotlisted them

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Terrible - that's where I keep all the nawti people I want to keep tabs on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no one on mine so wouldn't do me any good

you will be on plenty though

I doubt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah I quite like people not knowing, they can usually suss you out anyway by how quick you fab their pics or if you comment on a status update.......I try to bide my time now but doesn't always work

Aw shucks!

Pretty sure I'm not on your hotlist then!

I could just be playing extra coy

So coy that you never fab me. Now THAT'S coy! Well done sir!

So a quick look shows I've fabbed;

5th April

4th April

3rd April

30th March

13th March........I gave up looking then and had a wank.....

Just blanket fabbed all yours (had fabbed some previously)

Not wanking though - yet!

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

it would be nice to know if people think you are hot, despite the nature of this site there are still quite a lot of shy people on here

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Sally x x"

This is actually a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sally x x

This is actually a good idea

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no. I wouldn't be able to stalk him then. Lol.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Sally x x"

They have this feature on another site we're on. It sends you both a notification email telling you maybe it's time to introduce yourselves.

Can't say we liked it...it actually stopped us adding people to favourites.

Sometimes we just like their pics and save them for ideas. Sometimes we just like their ranty & drama updates. Sometimes we put them there to contact at a later date.

We like people not knowing.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No, the sucking up and displays of faux attention would soon have BAFTA award winning drama for the needy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, the sucking up and displays of faux attention would soon have BAFTA award winning drama for the needy."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I use my hotlist for a variety of things, including keeping an eye on loopy tunes people I try to avoid, I wouldn't want it broadcast that I hotlisted anyone. If I want them to know I've got my eye on them in more likely to wink or message.

Furthermore, until I found stealth mode, even looking at a profile would often be taken as an indication of my knickers flying off in eagerness to shag the profile owner.

That and the aforementioned drama potential.

In summary; it's a no from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been on a hotlist. Unless it has been used to keep track of my whereabouts. I don't have anyone on my hotlist.... I know where you all live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks not for us. We have a mixture of would like to meet bit would want more experience before we contact them, nice pictures but miles away, a profile I find interesting and want to reminder it to show Michael & party/club profiles.

Wouldn't like to think people got the wrong message when we are using basically as a bookmark

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It could be an optional display thing - I quite like it on the dating site when you casually click 'like' on a profile and all the sirens go off because they indicated they liked you already lol!!

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

We have a few on ours

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

It might have been mentioned before, not everyone uses their hot list for the same purpose some use it as a grit list... I can see some interesting conversations unfolding..

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Grot not grit.. bloody phone..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like to keep my stalking on the private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no they r on my hotlist so I can perf them

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don't use a hotlist and I don't look to see who's fabbed my pics.

If I like someone then I message them and I assume they'll do the same if they like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grot not grit.. bloody phone..

I like it being called a grot list

reminds me of grotbags off the tv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks. I don't want people to know I have them on my hotlist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP... Your now on my hotlist xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We use ours for various reasons not all flattering. If someone added us to theirs for whatever reason it might prove awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I use my hotlist for a variety of things, including keeping an eye on loopy tunes people I try to avoid, I wouldn't want it broadcast that I hotlisted anyone. If I want them to know I've got my eye on them in more likely to wink or message.

Furthermore, until I found stealth mode, even looking at a profile would often be taken as an indication of my knickers flying off in eagerness to shag the profile owner.

That and the aforementioned drama potential.

In summary; it's a no from me. "

This. If I want someone to know they're on my hotlist I'll message them.

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Furthermore, until I found stealth mode, even looking at a profile would often be taken as an indication of my knickers flying off in eagerness to shag the profile owner.

That and the aforementioned drama potential.

In summary; it's a no from me.

This. If I want someone to know they're on my hotlist I'll message them. "

that does beg the question why put them on your hotlist if you are not going to message them?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Bad idea. Not everyone on my hotlist is someone I fancy.

I use it for other purposes too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Furthermore, until I found stealth mode, even looking at a profile would often be taken as an indication of my knickers flying off in eagerness to shag the profile owner.

That and the aforementioned drama potential.

In summary; it's a no from me.

This. If I want someone to know they're on my hotlist I'll message them.

that does beg the question why put them on your hotlist if you are not going to message them?

Because people can use their hotlist however they want, as the post I quoted originally stated. For example, why would I message someone to tell them they're on my hotlist because they play bareback, so I avoid anyone they've met? Just because they're on my hotlist doesn't mean they're 'hot'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Furthermore, until I found stealth mode, even looking at a profile would often be taken as an indication of my knickers flying off in eagerness to shag the profile owner.

That and the aforementioned drama potential.

In summary; it's a no from me.

This. If I want someone to know they're on my hotlist I'll message them.

that does beg the question why put them on your hotlist if you are not going to message them?

I sometimes have people on my hotlist who are new and I watch and see how things progress, the number of people who beetle off within a few days after freaking out is significantly large, especially as I'm looking for ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I added a profile to our hotlist last night for the first time in a while.

Was like a blinding moment of hotness! Holy fuckcakes she's fit! Sort of scenario.

Ooooooooh nice pair of melons....they're going straight in my basket!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I added a profile to our hotlist last night for the first time in a while.

Was like a blinding moment of hotness! Holy fuckcakes she's fit! Sort of scenario.

Ooooooooh nice pair of melons....they're going straight in my basket!

Send her my way, sounds like my kinda gal.

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