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By *inky and Perty OP   Couple
over a year ago

enfield

Hi we would like to chat to a cpl in the know,find out what and where so if ya dont mind give us a message. we just need a push or pull in the right direction. thanks J and S.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the know of what though ?

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By *inky and Perty OP   Couple
over a year ago

enfield

we just wanna chat and find out what goes on etc how it all works socials in our area etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been here 5 years though. Look on updates for starters in your area.,

Then look on the events section in the forum .

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

ha ha the male has been here 5yrs hes just told her its a new profile

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"You've been here 5 years though. Look on updates for starters in your area.,

Then look on the events section in the forum ."

Gotcha..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I kind of get that sometimes couples like to take it slow , but fuck me ...... 5 years and no meets ....

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By *inky and Perty OP   Couple
over a year ago

enfield

Sorry people we signed up ages ago but never really used the site properly so now we are after a bit of friendly advice and yes we are a cpl not a single bloke. And yes we are new to it as we have never had any experiences with other cpls etc other than a few cam sessions.Thanks J.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry people we signed up ages ago but never really used the site properly so now we are after a bit of friendly advice and yes we are a cpl not a single bloke. And yes we are new to it as we have never had any experiences with other cpls etc other than a few cam sessions.Thanks J."

So now that everyone's had their chance to be a dicks.....

I'd recommend heading to a club, hanging back and seeing what floats your boat. Chat to a few people, see what happens. (Is abfabs near you?)

I'd definitely recommend a social or two - a search in events or on the forums will help with that.

The other thing I'd recommend is having a bloody good old chat with each other about what you are and are not up for.

Have fun, you crazy kids xx

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By *inky and Perty OP   Couple
over a year ago

enfield

Thanks kink..much appreciated..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe delete and start again with a new profile,fresh pics and writing. Look in the events section see if theres any socials you like the look of.

Doll x

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I agree delete and start again, but when you do clubs are always a good place to start. You don't need to go there and play there a very good place to socialise and meet new friends.

Xxxxx

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By *inky and Perty OP   Couple
over a year ago

enfield

Thanks people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree delete and start again, but when you do clubs are always a good place to start. You don't need to go there and play there a very good place to socialise and meet new friends.

Xxxxx"

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

There's a London social coming up on 23rd. That would give you a chance to chat to people.

OP4F is your closest club - it's friendly and no pressure but it's not a club with lots of private space so you couldn't lock yourselves away to play on your own unseen.

Maybe go to Kestrels for a relaxed afternoon when the sun is shining.

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By *inky and Perty OP   Couple
over a year ago

enfield

Thanks people..

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