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By *elle2016 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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What is your definition of Swinging?

This fascinates me!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Casual sex with people who identify as swingers.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Swinging is being free to select the who the when and where of sex free from commitment , jealousy and judgement.

In other words. It's like a restaurant. You look at the menu and order what's to your taste that meal and you don't belong to any other diners and you don't have to eat what they want.

I think it's viewing the act of sex as natural and fun and not something sinful to be scared of.

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By *elle2016 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Casual sex with people who identify as swingers."

So...single men...single women...couples...together if it's a couple?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Casual sex with people who identify as swingers.

So...single men...single women...couples...together if it's a couple? "

Possibly - I don't really understand what you are asking, sorry!

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By *elle2016 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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It's just a lot of people seem to use fab their way...whilst under the guise of being a swinging site. Of course everyone is entitled to use it however they choose. I was just wondering how others interrupted it I supppse!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging regarding straight couples is simply to swap lover but always return to each other

Swinging as a bisexual person.. simply to swing into action with the opposite sex

Swinging as a straight single person.. just a recreational hobby with a fancy name attached :D

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"It's just a lot of people seem to use fab their way...whilst under the guise of being a swinging site. Of course everyone is entitled to use it however they choose. I was just wondering how others interrupted it I supppse!!"

Iterrupt ?

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By *elle2016 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Swinging regarding straight couples is simply to swap lover but always return to each other

Swinging as a bisexual person.. simply to swing into action with the opposite sex

Swinging as a straight single person.. just a recreational hobby with a fancy

name attached :D "

So if you're a single bloke. ...is it not Swinging?

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By *elle2016 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"It's just a lot of people seem to use fab their way...whilst under the guise of being a swinging site. Of course everyone is entitled to use it however they choose. I was just wondering how others interrupted it I supppse!!

Iterrupt ?"

Thanks. ..you gave yourinterpretation

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Swinging regarding straight couples is simply to swap lover but always return to each other

Swinging as a bisexual person.. simply to swing into action with the opposite sex

Swinging as a straight single person.. just a recreational hobby with a fancy

name attached :D

So if you're a single bloke. ...is it not Swinging? "

If you're a single bloke it's swinging, if you a single woman it's swinging, if you are a couple it's swinging - if you are having casual sex with people who identify as swingers.

You will find people who want to say 'it's only swinging of you are a couple', etc...but that's because they want to stick a label on something they do that others can't use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's simply the opportunity to meet interesting and sexy women and all going well fucking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't class myself as a swinger. We enjoy the company of a single male or female to enhance an already great sex life but not interested in the social aspect of it. It's all about the sex for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me it is only meeting men. single men on their own or as couples. i am gonna branch out into gb maybe.

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Meeting others having a drink and a laugh maybe having some fun with some sexy ladies I just treat it like a pub just with added flith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging to us is swapping partners whether it be together or separately but we always end up together at the end of the night

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

I once got told in a club, by a couple, that I wasn't a swinger as I'm single and that you can only be a swinger if you have a partner to 'swop'. Strangely it didn't stop them spending the whole evening trying to convince me to play with them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the only part of the word 'swinging' i can relate to single straight men/women is that we swing from partner to partner

just like every other straight person after a shag... but by the pure nature of this site im hoping it means that folk are more aware of the safety aspects of playing with a higher number of partners than perhaps a person who rarely goes out to pull the occasional person when pissed

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By *elle2016 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Is it not though...the couples who say they are the real deal...just use the singles for their fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me fab is a place where I can make friends n get nsa sex with no judgement. I don't class myself as a swinger as I'm not part of a couple nor have i yet meet with a couple of been to a club but doesn't mean to say I won't become a swinger should the above opportunities arise

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By *elle2016 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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And the singles who meet singles. ..are not real?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the only part of the word 'swinging' i can relate to single straight men/women is that we swing from partner to partner

just like every other straight person after a shag... but by the pure nature of this site im hoping it means that folk are more aware of the safety aspects of playing with a higher number of partners than perhaps a person who rarely goes out to pull the occasional person when pissed "

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

A very nice but occasional distraction from everyday life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Belle...

Whats your opinion of a swinger then?

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I'm single and I'm a swinger - absolutely! My definition of swinging is someone who has sex with multiple people with no intention of cultivating a relationship. That person could be single, married, attached.

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By *elle2016 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Belle...

Whats your opinion of a swinger then? "

I have no definition to be fair.

But I sway towards couples and see singles as exactly that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm single and I'm a swinger - absolutely! My definition of swinging is someone who has sex with multiple people with no intention of cultivating a relationship. That person could be single, married, attached."
totally agree in some aspects with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging is being free to select the who the when and where of sex free from commitment , jealousy and judgement.

In other words. It's like a restaurant. You look at the menu and order what's to your taste that meal and you don't belong to any other diners and you don't have to eat what they want.

I think it's viewing the act of sex as natural and fun and not something sinful to be scared of."

What a great description !

The only thing we would add , is they you can go as often as you want to this restaurant , and have as many meals as you like

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By *elle2016 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Aa long as you're not being pressured. ..life is fine.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Swinging well I'm not a swinger as I'm a swingle....however for me it's getting my flange balls deep in sausage

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

We love sharing cock together just makes it all so much hotter between us

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