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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That veri's should be restricted to a certain amount (smaller amount) of characters?

I've just read one that was like a story!!! Ffs. It didn't really say very much other than 'private jokes' pretty sad!

Who else thinks it should be like leaving feedback on eBay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like veris with a bit of personality to them which tell a story. I have had a few like that myself and they are the best to read over. If others don't like reading them then they don't have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That veri's should be restricted to a certain amount (smaller amount) of characters?

I've just read one that was like a story!!! Ffs. It didn't really say very much other than 'private jokes' pretty sad!

Who else thinks it should be like leaving feedback on eBay?

You want a 5 star rating on were they as described, turned up on time, overall satisfaction?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people want to waste their time, writing war and peace, leave them to it, I say. It's people not thinking, that causes more annoyance, than longwinded verifications.

Try just not reading them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most veris nowadays tend to say yes met this person and I was so fugging good,its more about the person verifying than the verified,lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That veri's should be restricted to a certain amount (smaller amount) of characters?

I've just read one that was like a story!!! Ffs. It didn't really say very much other than 'private jokes' pretty sad!

Who else thinks it should be like leaving feedback on eBay?

You want a 5 star rating on were they as described, turned up on time, overall satisfaction?!

If that's the case I'd like to return mine, due to it being faulty and not as it looked in the pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That veri's should be restricted to a certain amount (smaller amount) of characters?

I've just read one that was like a story!!! Ffs. It didn't really say very much other than 'private jokes' pretty sad!

Who else thinks it should be like leaving feedback on eBay?

You want a 5 star rating on were they as described, turned up on time, overall satisfaction?!

That's all it needs to be really, I find it off putting when people go into proper detail, but thats just my opinion.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I think people should be allowed to say what they feel needs to be said, no matter how long that may be. Showing a bit of restraint in what's actually said would be a good idea sometimes with some of the guff you read but that's only my opinion. Each to their own.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"That veri's should be restricted to a certain amount (smaller amount) of characters?

I've just read one that was like a story!!! Ffs. It didn't really say very much other than 'private jokes' pretty sad!

Who else thinks it should be like leaving feedback on eBay?

I've got an epic on one of mine - bit of a giggle, I don't usually display it but have put it up just for you!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Good idea.

I want to know if the product was :-

As decribed.

Wrapped adequately.

Arrived on time.

Fit for purpose.

Would I buy this product again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That veri's should be restricted to a certain amount (smaller amount) of characters?

I've just read one that was like a story!!! Ffs. It didn't really say very much other than 'private jokes' pretty sad!

Who else thinks it should be like leaving feedback on eBay?

You want a 5 star rating on were they as described, turned up on time, overall satisfaction?!

If that's the case I'd like to return mine, due to it being faulty and not as it looked in the pictures.

Thats k you for your request. We need to allow 35 days for the seller to respond before we take this further. Should the seller not make any contact within this time, paypal will refund your orgasm (s)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what makes me laugh is ladies who say you gotta meet this guy he's got a cock to die for, errr ladies get out there more NO they don't in most cases.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

So use it as a filter?

It never fails to amaze me just how much interest people take in how other people do things and how huge the need seems to be to criticise.

If you read something you don't like then accept that you don't like it.

If you want to have a discussion about something, do you think it's possible just to ask a question rather than have a pop at someone you don't know in the process?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"So use it as a filter?

It never fails to amaze me just how much interest people take in how other people do things and how huge the need seems to be to criticise.

If you read something you don't like then accept that you don't like it.

If you want to have a discussion about something, do you think it's possible just to ask a question rather than have a pop at someone you don't know in the process?

Of course not....people love drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That veri's should be restricted to a certain amount (smaller amount) of characters?

I've just read one that was like a story!!! Ffs. It didn't really say very much other than 'private jokes' pretty sad!

Who else thinks it should be like leaving feedback on eBay?

I've got an epic on one of mine - bit of a giggle, I don't usually display it but have put it up just for you!

I love Thenidan's verifications je leaves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So use it as a filter?

It never fails to amaze me just how much interest people take in how other people do things and how huge the need seems to be to criticise.

If you read something you don't like then accept that you don't like it.

If you want to have a discussion about something, do you think it's possible just to ask a question rather than have a pop at someone you don't know in the process?

Of course not....people love drama

Depends if it's BBC or ITV

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"So use it as a filter?

It never fails to amaze me just how much interest people take in how other people do things and how huge the need seems to be to criticise.

If you read something you don't like then accept that you don't like it.

If you want to have a discussion about something, do you think it's possible just to ask a question rather than have a pop at someone you don't know in the process?

Of course not....people love drama

My life is too short for drama!

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"So use it as a filter?

It never fails to amaze me just how much interest people take in how other people do things and how huge the need seems to be to criticise.

If you read something you don't like then accept that you don't like it.

If you want to have a discussion about something, do you think it's possible just to ask a question rather than have a pop at someone you don't know in the process?

Oh so very true...will never happen though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently verified someone I met 2 years ago but when it came to writing it I couldn't say what went on for fear it would put birds off. Just kept to the basics which is what I think veri's should be. Yes the person is the person in the pictures and they were pleasant.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I don't like long verifications, it makes me think that who ever wrote them would be too serious.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I leave a variety of verifications to suit the person, some serious, some fun and some downright stupid. I left someone a one word one cause i thought it matched them

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"So use it as a filter?

It never fails to amaze me just how much interest people take in how other people do things and how huge the need seems to be to criticise.

If you read something you don't like then accept that you don't like it.

If you want to have a discussion about something, do you think it's possible just to ask a question rather than have a pop at someone you don't know in the process?

Of course not....people love drama

My life is too short for drama!

Mine too....I enjoy my rather drama less life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That veri's should be restricted to a certain amount (smaller amount) of characters?

I've just read one that was like a story!!! Ffs. It didn't really say very much other than 'private jokes' pretty sad!

Who else thinks it should be like leaving feedback on eBay?

You want a 5 star rating on were they as described, turned up on time, overall satisfaction?!

I think that would be a blinding idea!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think people should be allowed to say what they feel needs to be said, no matter how long that may be. Showing a bit of restraint in what's actually said would be a good idea sometimes with some of the guff you read but that's only my opinion. Each to their own."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try just not reading them..."

Some people think the forum is stupid, or the chatroom, or verifications, or having loads of photos, or Avatar competitions, or having arty pics or clunge pics...

We all use Fab in a way that suits us personally. Doesn't mean everyone has to use it the way you prefer.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I had some random guy take exception so much to one of my verifications he started a thread about it and even funnier as he didnt know i used the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That veri's should be restricted to a certain amount (smaller amount) of characters?

I've just read one that was like a story!!! Ffs. It didn't really say very much other than 'private jokes' pretty sad!

Who else thinks it should be like leaving feedback on eBay?

I've got an epic on one of mine - bit of a giggle, I don't usually display it but have put it up just for you!

Thanks but I nodded off after the first paragraph

In all seriousness tho, you do say that you don't usually display it!

I have something similar but choose not to display it as it's just for my eyes and gives me a giggle. I did tell the author that this would be the case!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good idea.

I want to know if the product was :-

As decribed.

Wrapped adequately.

Arrived on time.

Fit for purpose.

Would I buy this product again. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So use it as a filter?

It never fails to amaze me just how much interest people take in how other people do things and how huge the need seems to be to criticise.

If you read something you don't like then accept that you don't like it.

If you want to have a discussion about something, do you think it's possible just to ask a question rather than have a pop at someone you don't know in the process?

Ooh no.... That's way too easy!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"That veri's should be restricted to a certain amount (smaller amount) of characters?

I've just read one that was like a story!!! Ffs. It didn't really say very much other than 'private jokes' pretty sad!

Who else thinks it should be like leaving feedback on eBay?

I've got an epic on one of mine - bit of a giggle, I don't usually display it but have put it up just for you!

I love Thenidan's verifications je leaves

Yeah, I set the theme but he had to go totally overboard didn't he!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"That veri's should be restricted to a certain amount (smaller amount) of characters?

I've just read one that was like a story!!! Ffs. It didn't really say very much other than 'private jokes' pretty sad!

Who else thinks it should be like leaving feedback on eBay?

I've got an epic on one of mine - bit of a giggle, I don't usually display it but have put it up just for you!

Thanks but I nodded off after the first paragraph

In all seriousness tho, you do say that you don't usually display it!

I have something similar but choose not to display it as it's just for my eyes and gives me a giggle. I did tell the author that this would be the case! "

There you are then - it's all just a bit of fun, I wouldn't stress over it! My last veri was one line - it all pans out lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So use it as a filter?

It never fails to amaze me just how much interest people take in how other people do things and how huge the need seems to be to criticise.

If you read something you don't like then accept that you don't like it.

If you want to have a discussion about something, do you think it's possible just to ask a question rather than have a pop at someone you don't know in the process?

I actually do know them!! Well the one that made me think of this post!

I know it's 'rant Thursday' but please take some of your own advise, if you don't like what you read, don't feel the need to post a reply!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That veri's should be restricted to a certain amount (smaller amount) of characters?

I've just read one that was like a story!!! Ffs. It didn't really say very much other than 'private jokes' pretty sad!

Who else thinks it should be like leaving feedback on eBay?

I've got an epic on one of mine - bit of a giggle, I don't usually display it but have put it up just for you!

Thanks but I nodded off after the first paragraph

In all seriousness tho, you do say that you don't usually display it!

I have something similar but choose not to display it as it's just for my eyes and gives me a giggle. I did tell the author that this would be the case!

There you are then - it's all just a bit of fun, I wouldn't stress over it! My last veri was one line - it all pans out lol!"

I really don't stress over it

It's pretty tongue cheek post tbh.

I just wondered what the original intention was for veri's when fab first started. Not sure if they thought it would lead to some of the epic stories??

And does it really tell you much about the giver or the receiver?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not compulsory to read verifications. Too long? Don't read.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd always find an agenda if someone feels the need to fully read a verify, especially if its putting them off hearing what another person is saying about them.

In my opinion its commonly people who arent (honestly)comfortable with the nsa sex scene, who overworry about who meets who and who said what and indeed who shagged.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"So use it as a filter?

It never fails to amaze me just how much interest people take in how other people do things and how huge the need seems to be to criticise.

If you read something you don't like then accept that you don't like it.

If you want to have a discussion about something, do you think it's possible just to ask a question rather than have a pop at someone you don't know in the process?

I actually do know them!! Well the one that made me think of this post!

I know it's 'rant Thursday' but please take some of your own advise, if you don't like what you read, don't feel the need to post a reply!

Oh it wasn't a rant. When I have a rant, you'll know.

My first sentence was in response to you, the rest was merely an observation and it wasn't specific to you, it happens here pretty much on a daily basis.

So to clarify, this is a public forum and people can respond to whichever thread they wish to respond to within the rules. That's generally how forums work.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Would sooner read a long humorous one than the lamppost pissing, graphic she sucks like a Dyson/cock to die for ones

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I see the verification system as a means to confirm the person turned up and was presentable and was the person represented in the profile.

I'm not a fan of graphic details. Saying someone is a great shag, has a gorgeous cock or gives an amazing bj is subjective and therefore pointless in a verification.

It's a verification they're real, not a performance review. In my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really like any verifications full stop. The idea of leaving a review for everyone to read about the time I've spent with someone is a bit weird to me.

They also tap into the overthinking part of my brain negatively - there's many a person I've been totally turned off by either their veris, the veris they've left for other people or who they've been left by or for.

I appreciate that this is my issue though, and everyone else seems to get a bone on for the system.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I see the verification system as a means to confirm the person turned up and was presentable and was the person represented in the profile.

I'm not a fan of graphic details. Saying someone is a great shag, has a gorgeous cock or gives an amazing bj is subjective and therefore pointless in a verification.

It's a verification they're real, not a performance review. In my opinion."

Absolutely!!!!

I've met guys who have had amazing veri's and then thought really??? Guess just not for me!! That's why I think a basic system would be easier!

I suppose people who leave elaborate explanation of how someone performed can be construed as lamp post pissing?

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