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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Like them , do them,

Or

Prefer planned ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer short notice, the ones within hours is the best ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer short notice meets, i have found in the past if you plan in advance most back out before the date comes, if you plan last min they don't have time to find something better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta plan, you'll find mainly guys who are up for the quick meet nows though, I'm not sure even the meet today's even work, well they haven't for me that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer short notice meets if we meet outside of a club. Or I will get to nervous

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Much prefer planned meets but i have put the odd meet today up and thats worked well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both has it's perks on both sides but getting them is another matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but last min edges it for me , more exciting .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

due to my home circumstances I not only prefer planned meets, they are pretty much all I can do...so its a good job I like them

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Short notice if I've met them before, pre-arranged if I'm not quite sure.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I prefer planned. I like to have time to feel properly prepared.

I don't meet often enough to have a fast preparation routine.

I like to be freshly epilated, freshly waxed if possible, my nails done and such.

I'd like to be able to meet on the spur of the moment, when I feel like it, but I don't feel so comfortable and confident when I do.

I have also found that on short notice meets guys are looking to scratch an itch and are more likely to want to cum as fast as possible and run. Planned meets tend to be longer and more satisfying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned meets for non social

Have done a few spontaneous drink meets which have been fun.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I'm unable to do short notice

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I like a mixture of both - spontaneous meets can be very exciting sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how last minute. Same day? Hell no. A few days? Sure. I prefer a week or two notice, though, because we tend to travel on the weekends otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm on my days off I can do short notice but I prefer planned meets...love the build up and the messaging beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned is essential for me. I don't do anything in my life spontaneously, I hate not feeling fully prepared. The shortest notice meet I have ever done was arranged the day before.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I like pre arranged meets when I'm working etc I forget to shave etc and I like to be prepared

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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'm not averse to short notice , message a bit and arrange something the same day, I prefer more notice a guys got his routine....

Reason I asked I got a message a bit ago about 7 asking me to meet tonight at 10..

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I'm not averse to short notice , message a bit and arrange something the same day, I prefer more notice a guys got his routine....

Reason I asked I got a message a bit ago about 7 asking me to meet tonight at 10.. "

Yeah sorry about that I was feeling horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not averse to short notice , message a bit and arrange something the same day, I prefer more notice a guys got his routine....

Reason I asked I got a message a bit ago about 7 asking me to meet tonight at 10.. "

We once got a message when we were in bed at 11pm asking us to meet at 12am. I wonder what they thought I looked like at 11pm at night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not averse to short notice , message a bit and arrange something the same day, I prefer more notice a guys got his routine....

Reason I asked I got a message a bit ago about 7 asking me to meet tonight at 10..

We once got a message when we were in bed at 11pm asking us to meet at 12am. I wonder what they thought I looked like at 11pm at night "

Sorry about that, won't happen again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got way to many commitments for a same day meet, I've been blocked countless times over that

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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I'm not averse to short notice , message a bit and arrange something the same day, I prefer more notice a guys got his routine....

Reason I asked I got a message a bit ago about 7 asking me to meet tonight at 10..

Yeah sorry about that I was feeling horny "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not averse to short notice , message a bit and arrange something the same day, I prefer more notice a guys got his routine....

Reason I asked I got a message a bit ago about 7 asking me to meet tonight at 10..

We once got a message when we were in bed at 11pm asking us to meet at 12am. I wonder what they thought I looked like at 11pm at night

Sorry about that, won't happen again."

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By *egsWoman
over a year ago

Hiding

Short notice preferred but planned is cool too

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

Will do short notice with those ive met before otherwise its planned meets got my fingers burnt a couple of times with timewasters wantin short notice meets

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Like them , do them,

Or

Prefer planned ?"

We much prefer planned.

Recently if we have a free afternoon/evening it's very last minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer to plan but have had a few last minute meets. As someone already said I feel like last minute meeters just want to cum and go!

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

Short notice is only okay with me if I've been chatting with them for a while. Setting off for a meet with someone you hardly know, or even what they look like, is more of a gamble.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Short notice works best for me as my childcare is too unpredictable to pre-plan so advertising meets when I know I'm definitely free for them as their dad definately has them works best for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't like messages at 10pm on a Friday night from d*unk women demanding a meet.... who am I kidding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned for me ... like to be prepared and have time to buy new goodies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the build up before a meet but if I happen to be free and its somebody I know, why not

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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We have done both, but planned meets after meeting socially have been the best for us. X

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)

Don't mind short notice/last minute meets, but probably lean towards a planned one as preference. To me a day or so counts as planned. In either case, I'd rather have chatted with the person/people for a bit first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like them and do them .

It's so much less likely a short notice meet will not turn up .

The longer the wait on a meet , the more likely something else will come up and it doesn't happen .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is usually that by the time I've seen these, or had the chance to respond, I've often had a glass or two of sherry and am thus unable to drive to anywhere

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I like and done both... Each suiting my circumstances at the time, it works for me

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Ledbury


"If I'm on my days off I can do short notice but I prefer planned meets...love the build up and the messaging beforehand. "

I fall short on the "build up and mesaging" front. If I arrange something I stick to it and try not to messasge too much first cos I want something to talk about on the meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short notice

I am crap at flirting and lose interest in people pretty quickly if I have to try and charm them with repeated tail feather displays

Plus if I fancy a fumble, I want it there n then, not (potentially) at 3pm three weeks on Wednesday in the South Bank Premier Inn after we've spent 3 weeks flirting and already met for an overpriced latte.

And while we're at it, save the 'dress to impress' bit. Just be clean and ready to go.

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Due to work and childcare we can't do short notice. Planned is the only way for us and that might be 6 or 8 weeks down the line. It's amazing how many single guys say yeah I can wait until you're free then get bored after a few days and stop messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a "I'm passing, wanna meet" meet once, it was an hour or so notice. It was lovely and definitely stoked the fire for a further meet

(Usually planned in advance works for me though)

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