FabSwingers.com forum: Honesty time!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering why when you read alot of womens profile their description type is large,curvy ect and yet they only look for fit toned males? It just seems a bit, hypocritical I geuss? Took me ages to think of the right word.

If your wondering I would say I am average but look for no particular type.

Let the debate commence!!

matt

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Because that is their preference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because sweets we can choose to meet who we want. I'm a size 6 tranny I love big men a over. I would hate to meet a skinny man would do fook all for me. A man with a muscles and a six pack oh yes please.

Oh and curvy women are curvy think Marilyn Monroe who was a size 16.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't tell of your average as you have np

picture on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just want to say its not that I think its wrong its just different to how I view things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So your view is that a fat women can not meet a fit bloke because it's hypocritical of them to do so. I am friends with BBW as you call it on here and all the mail she gets is from fit men.

So your assumption is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know what i dont like and what i do like and 99.9 % the 1st few messages will determine that

but i don't like egotistical men, men with a chip on their shoulder or insecure men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So your view is that a fat women can not meet a fit bloke because it's hypocritical of them to do so. I am friends with BBW as you call it on here and all the mail she gets is from fit men.

So your assumption is wrong. "

im classed as a bbw ( and i hate it) yet i have plenty of fit men who conntact me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hideous but I only meet fit women!...its ace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering why when you read alot of womens profile their description type is large,curvy ect and yet they only look for fit toned males? It just seems a bit, hypocritical I geuss? Took me ages to think of the right word.

If your wondering I would say I am average but look for no particular type.

Let the debate commence!!

matt"

So what your saying is if your a fat woman you should play fat men

your a man but your straight is that not hypocritical? i mean if your a man surely you must like other men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So your view is that a fat women can not meet a fit bloke because it's hypocritical of them to do so. I am friends with BBW as you call it on here and all the mail she gets is from fit men.

So your assumption is wrong. "

I was talking about how i see things for myself, I never said anything about thinking it was wrong!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So your view is that a fat women can not meet a fit bloke because it's hypocritical of them to do so. I am friends with BBW as you call it on here and all the mail she gets is from fit men.

So your assumption is wrong.

im classed as a bbw ( and i hate it) yet i have plenty of fit men who conntact me "

My friend is having the time of her life on here, fit man after fit man. So these men have no problem with it OP only you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a big woman and I would be lying if I said there weren't certain physical types that turn me on more than others, but at the end of the day, for me it's all in the mind... It's about the whole person, not just the body. The best sex is about so much more than just physical gratification. But that's just my experience and my preference. Which is what this is all about surely?

You will have your preferences as I have mine. Live and let live and enjoy...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

If your wondering I would say I am average but look for no particular type.

Let the debate commence!!

matt"

Please explain why you feel it is 'hypocritical' ?

Are you saying fit men can't fancy fat women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you said it was hypocritical make your mind up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So your view is that a fat women can not meet a fit bloke because it's hypocritical of them to do so. I am friends with BBW as you call it on here and all the mail she gets is from fit men.

So your assumption is wrong.

im classed as a bbw ( and i hate it) yet i have plenty of fit men who conntact me

My friend is having the time of her life on here, fit man after fit man. So these men have no problem with it OP only you do. "

Dont remember saying I had a problem with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the candy shop .......... we take our pick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If your wondering I would say I am average but look for no particular type.

Let the debate commence!!

matt

Please explain why you feel it is 'hypocritical' ?

Are you saying fit men can't fancy fat women?"

mmm maybe hypocritical is the wrong word then, maybe I just see it that if sex is also a mind thing then it is pigeon hole people, just my opinion I am not sending this to rattle people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think we all have diff tastes in men and women and thats how it should be

wouldnt life be boring if it was the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a wrong word if you believe it.

Let me ask you a question as an average bloke would you go with a larger lady?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think we all have diff tastes in men and women and thats how it should be

wouldnt life be boring if it was the same

we'd all be fighting over the same man

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By *horacleCouple
over a year ago

Harwich

Im big/fat/bbw/whatever (delete where appropriate)

When I first met Carl people would say (to my face) what the feck is he doing with you. This was before he developed a cute lil pot belly

We all have our personal preferences, each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day OP we all have preferrance to who we want to play with.

I don't play with straight men, why because to me they are hypocrites because they proclaim to be straight when indeed they are bi.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Can I offer the OP a kind word of friendly advice?, as you are very new on this site and may not have grasped the way the forums work...

It's often frowned upon on here to criticise what other people choose to have on their personal profiles, after all it's their profile and their right to post what they want on it...providing it's legal and within site rules.

You may well fare better on here if you don't get into the habit of starting negative threads based on other members profile content.

As I said, a friendly piece of advice, which may make your stay on here a little more comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your wondering I would say I am average but look for no particular type.

Let the debate commence!!

matt

Please explain why you feel it is 'hypocritical' ?

Are you saying fit men can't fancy fat women?"

i think what hes trying to say is if your big yourself you should be more understanding towards other big people, not judge them on their size and me more open to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will see on lots of profiles examples of it.

Would you say a black man on here who does not wish to play with a black woman a hypocrite because he's black. No it's his choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I offer the OP a kind word of friendly advice?, as you are very new on this site and may not have grasped the way the forums work...

You may well fare better on here if you don't get into the habit of starting negative threads based on other members profile content.

As I said, a friendly piece of advice, which may make your stay on here a little more comfortable."

Think you may have a point there!

sorry if I have upset anyone.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

If your wondering I would say I am average but look for no particular type.

Let the debate commence!!

matt

Please explain why you feel it is 'hypocritical' ?

Are you saying fit men can't fancy fat women?

i think what hes trying to say is if your big yourself you should be more understanding towards other big people, not judge them on their size and me more open to meet them

Nice idea but....... nahhhhh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm hideous but I only meet fit women!...its ace

Fit but fat baby

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I get a lot of shit on this site for only wanting to fuck blue chicks.

It's all wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not a wrong word if you believe it.

Let me ask you a question as an average bloke would you go with a larger lady?"

only if I got on with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a big girl but I dont really go for one type of guy it has more to do with who they are and how they treat me than how much muscles they have lol

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Can I offer the OP a kind word of friendly advice?, as you are very new on this site and may not have grasped the way the forums work...

You may well fare better on here if you don't get into the habit of starting negative threads based on other members profile content.

As I said, a friendly piece of advice, which may make your stay on here a little more comfortable.

Think you may have a point there!

sorry if I have upset anyone."

I would be surprised if anyone has been upset by this thread, they will have taken your 'new to the site' status into account.

It's all a learning curve

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I offer the OP a kind word of friendly advice?, as you are very new on this site and may not have grasped the way the forums work...

You may well fare better on here if you don't get into the habit of starting negative threads based on other members profile content.

As I said, a friendly piece of advice, which may make your stay on here a little more comfortable.

Think you may have a point there!

sorry if I have upset anyone.

I would be surprised if anyone has been upset by this thread, they will have taken your 'new to the site' status into account.

It's all a learning curve"

you can say that again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not a wrong word if you believe it.

Let me ask you a question as an average bloke would you go with a larger lady?

only if I got on with them."

Great approach you have too. You'll do well on here welcome to the forums x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get a lot of shit on this site for only wanting to fuck blue chicks.

It's all wrong."

What's wrong with green ones? Your greenist you are

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

green is wrong on so many levels.

Stick with the blue ones funky, you know they are worth it!!!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I get a lot of shit on this site for only wanting to fuck blue chicks.

It's all wrong.

What's wrong with green ones? Your greenist you are"

I once had a dirty dream involving She-Hulk and Spider-Woman so I do dally with greens occasionally.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"green is wrong on so many levels.

Stick with the blue ones funky, you know they are worth it!!!

You and smurfette will always win FMUMA x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your wondering I would say I am average but look for no particular type.

Let the debate commence!!

matt"

Well it comes down to preference. You may not like the way you look but you still know what you like. You might not always get it but on Fab there are far more men than women so you can be more picky as a woman. I would agree it is a little hypocritical if you look at it from the angle I presume you are but you will also fine that opposites attract and swinging is no different.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I get a lot of shit on this site for only wanting to fuck blue chicks.

It's all wrong."

Do you find many smurfs then?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I get a lot of shit on this site for only wanting to fuck blue chicks.

It's all wrong.

Do you find many smurfs then?"

Smurfette is hot, i haven't met her yet but I was thinking about drawing a cartoon of me fucking her, It might be the only way.

I suppose I could halt work on my time machine and invent a 'human to cartoon converter' but I reckon that would take way too many empty cornflake boxes and glitter.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

I suppose I could halt work on my time machine and invent a 'human to cartoon converter' but I reckon that would take way too many empty cornflake boxes and glitter."

Got plenty here for you, do Rice Krispies ones work as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this thread hilarious!

I'm a big, fat woman. I do not find big, fat men attractive and never been with one. My playmates are all smart professional men ie CEOs, directors etc and all do sports, run marathons, play rugby etc.

They feel they don't measure up for me which tickles me no end. I socialise with my playmates, go to works do's, wedding, dinner, theatre etc I have a blast, not enough hours in the week to meet!

I'm black and only play with white men: damn personal preferences hey!!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I suppose I could halt work on my time machine and invent a 'human to cartoon converter' but I reckon that would take way too many empty cornflake boxes and glitter.

Got plenty here for you, do Rice Krispies ones work as well"

Yes! Your box will do nicely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging for me is fantasy. In the real world I wouldnt date 26 yr old men, I am attracted to slightly older intelligent men, funny, kind men. On fab I get messages from lots of different types of men, and if I fancy one night having a big black guy, or a pretty boy, or a gym obsessed six pack god then its my choice. If you could take your pick from a cake shop, all free and just waiting to choose would you choose the tastiest, gorgeous, melt in your mouth delight or a jam donut which you can have any day - therein lies your answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course whilst we can take our pick from the playmates on offer, ive had wonderful meets with guys that are witty and funny and great to be with, and they havnt necessarily been a six pack sex god. I do think that having a little try out of all the different varieties on offer, you do revert to type and a great sense of humour gets me every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course whilst we can take our pick from the playmates on offer, ive had wonderful meets with guys that are witty and funny and great to be with, and they havnt necessarily been a six pack sex god. I do think that having a little try out of all the different varieties on offer, you do revert to type and a great sense of humour gets me every time"

Is that like a disclaimer to your previous post?! lol so as not to offend of course!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"I find this thread hilarious!

They feel they don't measure up for me which tickles me no end. I socialise with my playmates, go to works do's, wedding, dinner, theatre etc I have a blast, not enough hours in the week to meet!

I'm black and only play with white men: damn personal preferences hey!!

My ass is still safe then!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"I get a lot of shit on this site for only wanting to fuck blue chicks.

It's all wrong.

Do you find many smurfs then?

Smurfette is hot, i haven't met her yet but I was thinking about drawing a cartoon of me fucking her, It might be the only way.

I suppose I could halt work on my time machine and invent a 'human to cartoon converter' but I reckon that would take way too many empty cornflake boxes and glitter."

I DEMAND you do that cartoon in return for a hand of bananas xxx

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"I get a lot of shit on this site for only wanting to fuck blue chicks.

It's all wrong.

Do you find many smurfs then?

Smurfette is hot, i haven't met her yet but I was thinking about drawing a cartoon of me fucking her, It might be the only way.

I suppose I could halt work on my time machine and invent a 'human to cartoon converter' but I reckon that would take way too many empty cornflake boxes and glitter.

I DEMAND you do that cartoon in return for a hand of bananas xxx

I have visions of you attacking him with said hand

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I DEMAND you do that cartoon in return for a hand of bananas xxx

I have visions of you attacking him with said hand"

I hate it when my nana gets bruised.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"I DEMAND you do that cartoon in return for a hand of bananas xxx

I have visions of you attacking him with said hand

I hate it when my nana gets bruised."

tell gramps not to be so rough on her then

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