FabSwingers.com forum: Grammar Nazis are jerks.

By *hyllyphylly OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Not my opinion, but science's

"Scientists have found that people who constantly get bothered by grammatical errors online have "less agreeable" personalities than those who just let them slide.

And those friends who are super-sensitive to typos on your Facebook page? Psychological testing reveals they're generally less open, and are also more likely to be judging you for your mistakes than everyone else. In other words, they're exactly who you thought they were. That sounds pretty obvious, but this is actually the first time researchers have been able to show that a person's personality traits can actually determine how they respond to typos and grammatical errors, and it could teach us a lot about how people communicate (or miscommunicate) online."

Here's the Daily Mail's article http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-3515520/Are-grammar-Nazi-Language-pedants-likely-introverted-disagreeable.html

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

How many times did you check your O.P. O.P.?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Says the Daily Mail lol

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

*as Indiana Jones*

"Grammar Nazis, I hate 'em!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's an instant block for many.

Daily mail reader!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it correct to begin a sentence with a conjunction?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I really dislike the word Nazi used in connection with people who get annoyed by incorrect grammar...I know. I know, I should lighten up.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I already know I'm disagreeable.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Don't be stoopid be a smartie .join fab and be a grammar nazi

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I already know I'm disagreeable.

Lol, I don't need scientists to study me to tell me I'm a miserable old bag either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad grammar sometimes really hurts. Like a flickering light that you can sometimes ignore but can sometimes give you a headache in seconds.

Thing is, we're using phones more now, so are all at the mercy of autocorrect. But we all have built-in spell checks. So as we get better at some things, we'll get worse at others!

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By *hyllyphylly OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I only posted the Daily Mail because if I posted the Science Alert link, I might have a forum time out for not posting from a trusted link, lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

[Removed by poster at 06/04/16 17:37:02]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds about right to me. Being nice is overrated. I'd rather be grammatically correct.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

So I'm a jerk. Piss off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's an instant block for many.

Daily mail reader!"

That well known authority on Science you mean?

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By *anaduABCMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I already know I'm disagreeable.

Lol, I don't need scientists to study me to tell me I'm a miserable old bag either

With an ass like yours, u can be as miserable and disagreeable as u like-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does the use of "Nazi" in the thread title mean Godwins law comes into force, and the thread is over before it begins?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I already know I'm disagreeable.

Lol, I don't need scientists to study me to tell me I'm a miserable old bag either

With an ass like yours, u can be as miserable and disagreeable as u like-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can let it slide,mostly because it's only recently that the government has decided to teach all children grammar,from primary age. Previously,it was only taught at secondary level,and that would only be to the top sets,which would be,I think, ? of the school year. I was just talking about grammar with my sister when an article by a children's author (possibly Rosen,but don't quote me) saying what I said above. I had been looking at my 8 yr old grandson's homework thinking I don't remember doing that at his age. And I was right,we didn't.

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Was the guy who proof read Hitlers speeches the first grammar nazi? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Urgh the daily fail

it does annoy me if I can barely read what someone has written but otherwise won't matter much to me. It's the ones that use numbers instead of letters or try to abbreviate everything until it's virtually unreadable that do my head in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does my head in.

Of course it matters what is said and why it is said.Everybody in this country has had access to education and it boils my piss when I see fucking half-wits writing shit content on posts or comments but can't spell or use appropriate words or grammar.

Pure laziness and a sad reflection of what is still a beautiful language .

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

"It does my head in.

Pure laziness and a sad reflection of what is still a beautiful language ."

Some people don't have the ability to comprehend grammar and spelling...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does my head in.

Pure laziness and a sad reflection of what is still a beautiful language ."

I'm lazy. I'm not a half-wit. I don't think English is a beautiful language; it's a hodge-podge of numerous languages with influences thrown in. Someone who hasn't been taught grammar will never know they should know it. There's an awful lot of the English language and grammar I,and possibly you,don't have a clue about. Let us not judge,lest we be judged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being a grammar Nazi means the difference between knowing your shit and knowing you're shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I let it go, because there can be many reasons behind it. It just can feel like a type of bullying to me - people take the pee out of others about it. It's not the end of the world. There's far more important things to get hung up about.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I let it go, because there can be many reasons behind it. It just can feel like a type of bullying to me - people take the pee out of others about it. It's not the end of the world. There's far more important things to get hung up about.

Sarah "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a difference between using reasonable grammar, which doesn't require a university degree to master just basic literacy; and the use of text speak. People clearly make the effort to write in retarded text speak presumably because they sound 'youthful' and trendy'. Each to their own but why not make the same effort to write decent English ? If being particlar about this makes me a 'grammar nazi' I couldn't care less. I'd rather meet another GN any day of the week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a difference between using reasonable grammar, which doesn't require a university degree to master just basic literacy; and the use of text speak. People clearly make the effort to write in retarded text speak presumably because they sound 'youthful' and trendy'. Each to their own but why not make the same effort to write decent English ? If being particlar about this makes me a 'grammar nazi' I couldn't care less. I'd rather meet another GN any day of the week."

And if someone is dyslexic , has a learning difficulty, missed school for a variety of reasons. Perhaps had a brain injury that affected their spelling etc - they're less worthy in some way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've unfriended a couple of people from Facebook for this.

Whilst I always strive to use good grammar, autocorrect can have it's moments, this isn't a formal letter, it's an informal medium.

If someone corrects my pronunciation in conversation, for something that trivial I would assume they are a bit of a jerk. Same rules apply here.

It's not an attractive quality, nit picking the minutea of another's conversation. Unless you are actually an English teacher in a classroom full of 8 year olds, it's best not to go around talking to everyone as if you are.

Well, that's my little rant out of the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sarah "

Publicly mocking people for their spelling and grammar isn't on, I agree about that. But in a place where you're reliant on written communication, I do expect people to make a bit of an effort if it doesn't come easily to them.

Communicating with people face to face doesn't come easy to me because I'm shy - I make an effort to overcome that, I'm only asking the same of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sarah

Communicating with people face to face doesn't come easy to me because I'm shy - I make an effort to overcome that, I'm only asking the same of others. "

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

It's not that big a deal for me on informal platforms such as this, though we do avoid people who haven't made the effort with their profile. The odd typo, autocarrot or missed apostrophe is not a deal breaker.

But there are some posts which are barely decipherable, or do not make sense, or where the poster has written the exact opposite of what they in all likliehood mean.

On several occasions I've been on panels assessing job applications. The ones littered with poor spelling and grammar go straight in the bin.

So does a poor command of written English hold you back in life? You bet it does.

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By *inky booCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

eW moce earh ofr dailysex, fuck dylexsia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, what an interesting topic to study

Can't be bothered to open the article, but is there a link to the actual study or do they state the sample size?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can let it slide,mostly because it's only recently that the government has decided to teach all children grammar,from primary age. Previously,it was only taught at secondary level,and that would only be to the top sets,which would be,I think, ? of the school year. I was just talking about grammar with my sister when an article by a children's author (possibly Rosen,but don't quote me) saying what I said above. I had been looking at my 8 yr old grandson's homework thinking I don't remember doing that at his age. And I was right,we didn't. "

He'd be horrified to see his name linked to an endorsement of how they're teaching it now!

It was taught before, just not prescribed in the way the new curriculum dictates. The one thing the new curriculum will undoubtedly achieve is a new generation of grammar pedants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not my opinion, but science's

"Scientists have found that people who constantly get bothered by grammatical errors online have "less agreeable" personalities than those who just let them slide.

Here's the Daily Mail's article http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-3515520/Are-grammar-Nazi-Language-pedants-likely-introverted-disagreeable.html"

You had my attention until 'here's the Daily Mail...'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a Secretary of over 20 years I've noticed that literacy standards in the workplace have dropped quite dramatically, not only of grammar but also punctuation and a basic writing and language skills.

The majority of my better paid colleagues can't even string a sentence together, and seeing official procedural documents or letters to patients with errors and poor presentation really saddens me. It's not that they are dyslexic (and I appreciate some people are and it is very difficult for those people, however in my experience they are a minority), they just don't seem to care or are just plain lazy.

I'm very much old school and loved English lessons and creative writing as a child and was great at spelling but will admit that spellcheckers have made me lazy and I'm not as sharp as I once was. I fear that as time progresses, the skills I hold dear will be lost on future generations

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

Would The Guardian be more agreeable than the DailyFail?

http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/mar/29/grammar-pedant-personality-type?CMP=fb_gu

I liked the part about a mistake being like a stone in your shoe - an irritant.

I also liked that the Guardian didn't suggest them to be "jerks", but just more introverted and differently "aroused" (and a helpful description of what that means).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't understand how people can let it slide. To me, it just completely undermines whatever the person is saying.

(Just basic stuff though. I'm not going to lose sleep over some split infinitives)

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By *olyCheshireCatMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Hats off to the Daily Fail for another fine piece of clickbait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hats off to the Daily Fail for another fine piece of clickbait

"GRAMMAR NAZIS INCREASE CANCER RISK AND LOWER HOUSE VALUE"

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

Grammar Nazis dream of days of you're...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the all powerful Daily Mail says its true, with its pseudoscientific mumbo jumbo credentials.......

The Daily Mail to science is like a chimp to a lighter.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I may not be the best person to comment, as I was paid to be a grammar nazi for years

People shouldn't mock others and I don't think quibbling over the odd mistake is right. However, grammar issues only really get mentioned when people are asking for advice on their profiles.

If the profile is badly written to the point where it makes reading it difficult or annoying, I think it's ok to mention it in those circumstances. It should be done sensitively and constructively though, acknowledging there may be good reasons for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hyphenated.

Non-hyphenated.

Go figure

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

As Tort central office advises: If you cant attack the argument attack the person!

All grammar and spelling nazism is is this philosophy being used on line.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

*Tory

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

As someone who is dyslexic, I do think it is sometimes used as an excuse.

I know there are different levels, and other genuine reasons for poor English skills.

Personally, I do my best when writing a post. Personal pride and all that.

In this day and age if the spell checker on my phone can't help, I just Google the word I can't spell.

I do hate the your, you're and there, the're and their mistakes.

Apart from that, as long as there are capitals in the right places and the odd comma, it's not too bad....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"being a grammar Nazi means the difference between knowing your shit and knowing you're shit

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