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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I used to be ashamed with the way i look and didnt like to be getting changed infront of other people but recently i changed my out look and decided im comfortable with my body..i love my "dad bod" so ive decided to have my profile pic showing of my dad bod in its glory..any other of you guys ashamed to show your dad bods or you ladies

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

If I had a dad bod I would be mortified.... checks body, yep defo not a dad bod... happy days xxx Suzi

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

There is nothing like being ravished in a public play area to give a man self confidence about his body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WalK around a swimming pool, let alone a club or nudist beach, and you'll see many a different body shape

The mind boggles at some of those in a pair of speedos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

daft question... what is a dad bod?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hoorahhh for Dad bods (some Grandad bods are pretty yummy on here too) x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"daft question... what is a dad bod?

"

Google it you may just enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hoorahhh for Dad bods (some Grandad bods are pretty yummy on here too) x"

Would mine qualify as a dad bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a guilty pleasure for dad bods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know about dad bod, but I definitely don't qualify as 'ripped' or 'fit'. Having said that, doing a wee bit of work in the gym has given me a bit more confidence lately..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a guilty pleasure for dad bods "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hoorahhh for Dad bods (some Grandad bods are pretty yummy on here too) x

Would mine qualify as a dad bod"

No stretch marks, nope it's fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess the number of profiles stating they only want to meet 'ripped', 'fit', 'in shape' guys is off putting for some.

But then what is 'in shape'? I am 'in shape' - it's not a shape most would recognise really. More of a play doh stuffed back in the can sort of shape really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to be ashamed with the way i look and didnt like to be getting changed infront of other people but recently i changed my out look and decided im comfortable with my body..i love my "dad bod" so ive decided to have my profile pic showing of my dad bod in its glory..any other of you guys ashamed to show your dad bods or you ladies "

I can't see a dad bod only cock photos? Might just need to google to see what a dad bod is. New to me that one. I certainly had a mum bod with stretch marks, I used to not like it when I was younger but now I embrace it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fat guy, I'm not going to pretend otherwise, there is no real equivalent for men, of the bbw, so I call myself fat, I own the word, but I don't have a problem, other people have a problem,

I'm me, I love being me, and its only when you realise, that when people out people like me down, its to take attention away from their own insecurity.

There was an incident at the gym I used to go to, I knew a lot if the guys there, and we used to have a good laugh, and I had a running joke with some if the fitness model guys, if they were in my way, I'd say "move it fatty" in an ironic joke way, I said it to a guy one day, who to be fair to myself, I thought was one if the other guys, he git really upset by it, and said "you don't know what its like for guys like me, having to keep this lifestyle up", and he admitted he hated it.

So its not just guys with wobbly bits that get insecure, its all in the mind

Plus it helps that I'm a total dish

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

My body is like... mmmmmmmm melting .. like half cooked cake mix. ........

S'lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hoorahhh for Dad bods (some Grandad bods are pretty yummy on here too) x

Would mine qualify as a dad bod"

Are you a Dad, do you have a Bod? Yes? Then you qualify for the next round of Dad Bod 2016

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to be ashamed with the way i look and didnt like to be getting changed infront of other people but recently i changed my out look and decided im comfortable with my body..i love my "dad bod" so ive decided to have my profile pic showing of my dad bod in its glory..any other of you guys ashamed to show your dad bods or you ladies

I can't see a dad bod only cock photos? Might just need to google to see what a dad bod is. New to me that one. I certainly had a mum bod with stretch marks, I used to not like it when I was younger but now I embrace it. "

My profile photo is!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a fat guy, I'm not going to pretend otherwise, there is no real equivalent for men, of the bbw, so I call myself fat, I own the word, but I don't have a problem, other people have a problem,

I'm me, I love being me, and its only when you realise, that when people out people like me down, its to take attention away from their own insecurity.

There was an incident at the gym I used to go to, I knew a lot if the guys there, and we used to have a good laugh, and I had a running joke with some if the fitness model guys, if they were in my way, I'd say "move it fatty" in an ironic joke way, I said it to a guy one day, who to be fair to myself, I thought was one if the other guys, he git really upset by it, and said "you don't know what its like for guys like me, having to keep this lifestyle up", and he admitted he hated it.

So its not just guys with wobbly bits that get insecure, its all in the mind

Plus it helps that I'm a total dish

"

Does that dish come with special sauce KB (don't I just ooze with cheeseyness)

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I much prefer a dad bod to a muscly ripped gym body.

Myself, I used to be ashamed of my body but I've lost 6st in the past few years and while I still have a few stone to go I'm a lot more comfortable now. I'm happy to strip off in the gym changing room and don't care what anyone else thinks

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"I'm a fat guy, I'm not going to pretend otherwise, there is no real equivalent for men, of the bbw, so I call myself fat, I own the word, but I don't have a problem, other people have a problem,

I'm me, I love being me, and its only when you realise, that when people out people like me down, its to take attention away from their own insecurity.

There was an incident at the gym I used to go to, I knew a lot if the guys there, and we used to have a good laugh, and I had a running joke with some if the fitness model guys, if they were in my way, I'd say "move it fatty" in an ironic joke way, I said it to a guy one day, who to be fair to myself, I thought was one if the other guys, he git really upset by it, and said "you don't know what its like for guys like me, having to keep this lifestyle up", and he admitted he hated it.

So its not just guys with wobbly bits that get insecure, its all in the mind

Plus it helps that I'm a total dish

"
i always tell the smallest one in the canteen to "shift over fatty" when I want to sit down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to be ashamed with the way i look and didnt like to be getting changed infront of other people but recently i changed my out look and decided im comfortable with my body..i love my "dad bod" so ive decided to have my profile pic showing of my dad bod in its glory..any other of you guys ashamed to show your dad bods or you ladies

I can't see a dad bod only cock photos? Might just need to google to see what a dad bod is. New to me that one. I certainly had a mum bod with stretch marks, I used to not like it when I was younger but now I embrace it.

My profile photo is!! Lol"

Ah profile wee squares are so small on my phone I only looked at the ones on public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a fat guy, I'm not going to pretend otherwise, there is no real equivalent for men, of the bbw, so I call myself fat, I own the word, but I don't have a problem, other people have a problem,

I'm me, I love being me, and its only when you realise, that when people out people like me down, its to take attention away from their own insecurity.

There was an incident at the gym I used to go to, I knew a lot if the guys there, and we used to have a good laugh, and I had a running joke with some if the fitness model guys, if they were in my way, I'd say "move it fatty" in an ironic joke way, I said it to a guy one day, who to be fair to myself, I thought was one if the other guys, he git really upset by it, and said "you don't know what its like for guys like me, having to keep this lifestyle up", and he admitted he hated it.

So its not just guys with wobbly bits that get insecure, its all in the mind

Plus it helps that I'm a total dish

"

I met a guy that cried once cos he ate a whole pack of cookies... I only thought it was women that did that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a fat guy, I'm not going to pretend otherwise, there is no real equivalent for men, of the bbw, so I call myself fat, I own the word, but I don't have a problem, other people have a problem,

I'm me, I love being me, and its only when you realise, that when people out people like me down, its to take attention away from their own insecurity.

There was an incident at the gym I used to go to, I knew a lot if the guys there, and we used to have a good laugh, and I had a running joke with some if the fitness model guys, if they were in my way, I'd say "move it fatty" in an ironic joke way, I said it to a guy one day, who to be fair to myself, I thought was one if the other guys, he git really upset by it, and said "you don't know what its like for guys like me, having to keep this lifestyle up", and he admitted he hated it.

So its not just guys with wobbly bits that get insecure, its all in the mind

Plus it helps that I'm a total dish

I met a guy that cried once cos he ate a whole pack of cookies... I only thought it was women that did that "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get all this dad bod and mum bod. I'm a mum, carried a child full term and gave birth, not one single stretch mark and no mummy tummy!

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I'm a dad, ergo I have a "Dad bod". If we're talking about men who have sired children, who eat and/or drink too much and do little or no exercise, and have pot bellies and layers of fat, then say so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a light hearted thread started by someone embracing his new found confidence...let's keep it that way eh folks?

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"It's a light hearted thread started by someone embracing his new found confidence...let's keep it that way eh folks?"

Yeah, you're right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a light hearted thread started by someone embracing his new found confidence...let's keep it that way eh folks?

Yeah, you're right."

Always

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Don't get all this dad bod and mum bod. I'm a mum, carried a child full term and gave birth, not one single stretch mark and no mummy tummy! "

You're either bragging or an alien! Which one is it ?

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