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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To many time wasters on here .fed up with it ready.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

It can be frustrating.

Hope it improves

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

In what way is your time being wasted?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No one wants a meet .girl chat then block you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define what you consider a time waster....

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Start a thread about it

Works every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start a thread about it

Works every time "

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"No one wants a meet .girl chat then block you. "

That isn't time wasting, that is merely someone deciding they don't want to meet you.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Start a thread about it

Works every time "

Well, it passes the time anyway ...

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

You've been on the site for 7 weeks and appear to have had least one meet! Maybe it is your expectations that is the issue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That true.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"No one wants a meet .girl chat then block you. "

That's not time wasting - that chatting is what you and the rest of us need to do, so that we can determine just who is probably compatible.

The blocking is to stop future interaction when it's already fixed that it's not going to lead anywhere. It stops any hassling messages and comeback that some have got here.

It's got to ne tough, I'm sure, being a single guy here. Many of us are clued up on just what it is that we want. It's not personal when they understand their own needs. That's about them.

Keep your head up and perhaps don't solely rely upon the net for your partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would improve your chances if you changed a few things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. I hate waiting wondering if they gunna show and if they dont do u try and get another meet?

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

My definition of time waster from Saturday night. Messages saying now leaving , be there soon, four hours later no arrival, message or call to say why. Sent a very strong worded message to meet . Which has been read. Yet no reply.

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"My definition of time waster from Saturday night. Messages saying now leaving , be there soon, four hours later no arrival, message or call to say why. Sent a very strong worded message to meet . Which has been read. Yet no reply. "

Yes that's way out of order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of time waster from Saturday night. Messages saying now leaving , be there soon, four hours later no arrival, message or call to say why. Sent a very strong worded message to meet . Which has been read. Yet no reply. "

Report as a no show!?

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading


"My definition of time waster from Saturday night. Messages saying now leaving , be there soon, four hours later no arrival, message or call to say why. Sent a very strong worded message to meet . Which has been read. Yet no reply.

Report as a no show!? "

How all messages are on kik, I do have chat log for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of time waster from Saturday night. Messages saying now leaving , be there soon, four hours later no arrival, message or call to say why. Sent a very strong worded message to meet . Which has been read. Yet no reply.

Report as a no show!?

How all messages are on kik, I do have chat log for that. "

You don't need chat logs on here..

Maybe for further meets. Call them to confirm and to make sure they are who they say they are.

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

Profile has 2 veris from same person.did paper trail of that person. Has many veris from different people. So looked genuine profile. Again how to spot a fake. Or stop a no show. I did not ask for meet . It was other way around. Even if had spoken on phone. This would have still occurred ?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Profile has 2 veris from same person.did paper trail of that person. Has many veris from different people. So looked genuine profile. Again how to spot a fake. Or stop a no show. I did not ask for meet . It was other way around. Even if had spoken on phone. This would have still occurred ?"

Even if you've got a meet with the seemingly most reliable person and comprehensive communication it could still happen.

Sometimes it's not you or poorer preparation, it'll just be them, for whatever reasons.

But you get better at being able to discriminate well. And reporting to Fab as in by everyone helps remove inappropriate users.

If uncertain about authenticity then request a video chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to the op, your profile is a shop window, and I see no special offers.

The verify you have is ok(as I know the person),but for others it probably isnt enough or up to date...

so you either pad out your profile a bit better, or engage the clubs/social to better your standings.

not accommodating is likely to be an issue for many also.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Older male, silhouette, one line profile, can't accommodate, bad spelling/txt speak. If I was in a sarcastic frame of mind, I would make a comment along the lines of I really can't see your problem.

The two worst profiles I have seen on here have both been this week and yours is one of them. Put some effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just to add, I know the OP never asked for a profile critique:

but when so many similar profiles have the same content and presume its other site members ruining it for them...its best they take a glance back at their own profile and ask themselves would their profile interest them?

If having no problems on the site/scene and are getting what you want..then thats fine, most comments can be ignored I suppose.

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Older male, silhouette, one line profile, can't accommodate, bad spelling/txt speak. If I was in a sarcastic frame of mind, I would make a comment along the lines of I really can't see your problem.

The two worst profiles I have seen on here have both been this week and yours is one of them. Put some effort in. "

Think you should read profile again . It states I can accommodate. Have profile pic also. You could not have even looked at profile . Just made general assumptions.

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