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Vanilla Dating vs Swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it possible to do both?

Does swinging mean you are tempted to remove emotion and just go with the physical in vanilla situations?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never give a bj on the first date.....

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"Is it possible to do both?

Does swinging mean you are tempted to remove emotion and just go with the physical in vanilla situations? "

You can do exactly what you like and yep its possible if you have the right mind set.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Is it possible to do both?

Does swinging mean you are tempted to remove emotion and just go with the physical in vanilla situations? "

I'll answer with a question.... Do you think it means that for couples who start swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never give a bj on the first date..... "

me neither..........just DP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never give a bj on the first date.....

me neither..........just DP "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very possible became a couple on here not to long ago have feeling for each other but still find swinging fun

Truth and trust is what keeps it all together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it possible to do both?

Does swinging mean you are tempted to remove emotion and just go with the physical in vanilla situations?

I'll answer with a question.... Do you think it means that for couples who start swinging?"

I may have to refer you to BB's answer!

Cos I personally don't know, haven't been in a swinging couple, have you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many dates in are you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How many dates in are you ?"

Its more hypothetical really, I am contemplating it, but its been a while since I have dated and not since I started swinging, hence the question so your thoughts , please?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Is it possible to do both?

Does swinging mean you are tempted to remove emotion and just go with the physical in vanilla situations?

I'll answer with a question.... Do you think it means that for couples who start swinging?

I may have to refer you to BB's answer!

Cos I personally don't know, haven't been in a swinging couple, have you?"

I'll answer with another question lol....

Do you personally need to have been in a swinging relationship to have noticed there are lots and lots of loving couples on here... who also swing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it possible to do both?

Does swinging mean you are tempted to remove emotion and just go with the physical in vanilla situations?

I'll answer with a question.... Do you think it means that for couples who start swinging?

I may have to refer you to BB's answer!

Cos I personally don't know, haven't been in a swinging couple, have you?

I'll answer with another question lol....

Do you personally need to have been in a swinging relationship to have noticed there are lots and lots of loving couples on here... who also swing?"

No, succinctly put. Just not sure how to handle the two things together- at what point do you say, "Darling did I mention I am a swinger?"

Is it two dates two months two years?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Is it possible to do both?

Does swinging mean you are tempted to remove emotion and just go with the physical in vanilla situations?

I'll answer with a question.... Do you think it means that for couples who start swinging?

I may have to refer you to BB's answer!

Cos I personally don't know, haven't been in a swinging couple, have you?

I'll answer with another question lol....

Do you personally need to have been in a swinging relationship to have noticed there are lots and lots of loving couples on here... who also swing?

No, succinctly put. Just not sure how to handle the two things together- at what point do you say, "Darling did I mention I am a swinger?"

Is it two dates two months two years?"

That really depends very very very very much on the individual and what swinging means to you and has meant to you.... and what you want it to mean to you in the future.

Some people can handle switching back and forth between the two - others need clear breaks between the two.

Is swinging part of who you are and what defines you or will it be part of your past.

Has swinging mean leaping over boundaries or just a source for casual sex.

There are so many factors and for many, only you will know the answer.

What may help you is getting people to ask the questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty.........

I cant remember the last time i had a "date"

I dont socialise in the town etc and tend to socialise within the swinging community

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

This is hypothetical as its not likely to happen but if i was to start vanila dating i would tell them on the second date. That way if they are not excepting of your past/present you can both part without anyone having got emotionally involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy both scenes, if I had to do without one of them, I'd quit swinging.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I never give a bj on the first date..... "

I always give a bj on first date.. but never do a second date...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anal on a first date, bj on a second date hoping they have washed their cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"anal on a first date, bj on a second date hoping they have washed their cock"
Can I buy you a drink

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