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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious if anyone or couples on here have experienced jealousy whilst meeting or being on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get jealous when my last meet gets a new veri

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

They're probably in the wrong place if they have. Insecurity and swinging is not a good match.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always get jealous when my last meet gets a new veri "

Do you ever go back again and make sure they don't forget you lol x

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Never jealous when my partner has a meet on his own, although both of us like to watch the other we still have single meets. Any meet we have with anyone else is just play .... not on a par with a relationship, so how could jealousy be a part of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They're probably in the wrong place if they have. Insecurity and swinging is not a good match."

And that's what I was thinking tbh surly you know what to expect when coming on this or meeting in this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always get jealous when my last meet gets a new veri

Do you ever go back again and make sure they don't forget you lol x"

Yep haha

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Jealous ???? Why would we be jealous, we are a swinging couple, we play together and in groups, if jealousy came into the equation then we would not continue going to clubs.

For true swingers this is a rather daft question xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have to admit that it happened to us, so we stopped meeting others. We've never met others as a couple though so I'm not sure how that would play out. Neither of us have ever been 'true swingers' as we met on here as singles and we just hang around for the forums now.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Just curious if anyone or couples on here have experienced jealousy whilst meeting or being on here "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite the opposite. We get excited instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jealous ???? Why would we be jealous, we are a swinging couple, we play together and in groups, if jealousy came into the equation then we would not continue going to clubs.

For true swingers this is a rather daft question xxxx "

I don't think it's a daft question.

I've seen the fallout over the years on here from 'true swingers', whilst I admit that it's unusual it can happen.

If you're jealous by nature I would suggest it's not the best place to be.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Jealous ???? Why would we be jealous, we are a swinging couple, we play together and in groups, if jealousy came into the equation then we would not continue going to clubs.

For true swingers this is a rather daft question xxxx

I don't think it's a daft question.

I've seen the fallout over the years on here from 'true swingers', whilst I admit that it's unusual it can happen.

If you're jealous by nature I would suggest it's not the best place to be.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our opinion there is no place for jealousy in swinging if so your in the wrong playing field it's supposed to be fun and good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not jealous as such but sometimes when I know it's someone I will be meeting but haven't managed to sort out dates and times and someone else gets there first, I just think 'wish that was me' but I'm not a green eyed monster

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By *ipglossWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I've seen a few spats in clubs due to problems with one partner being more 'into' it than the other (yeah I was eavesdropping ! )

It makes me wonder how many partners are there to satisfy the other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen on profiles that about 90% of men share their wife, is there a reason why women don't feel the same about sharing their hubby to another? Maibe the mentality is different between men and women.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I have seen on profiles that about 90% of men share their wife, is there a reason why women don't feel the same about sharing their hubby to another? Maibe the mentality is different between men and women."

They know their wife would leave them if they didn't? I have no problems sharing my partner with another man ... he isn't interested in other women to the same extent .... same for me, other men ... don't afloat my boat anymore ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen on profiles that about 90% of men share their wife, is there a reason why women don't feel the same about sharing their hubby to another? Maibe the mentality is different between men and women.

They know their wife would leave them if they didn't? I have no problems sharing my partner with another man ... he isn't interested in other women to the same extent .... same for me, other men ... don't afloat my boat anymore ..."
That is a good point as they might leave so got no saying, yeah I think as well it depends on the couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jealous ???? Why would we be jealous, we are a swinging couple, we play together and in groups, if jealousy came into the equation then we would not continue going to clubs.

For true swingers this is a rather daft question xxxx

I don't think it's a daft question.

I've seen the fallout over the years on here from 'true swingers', whilst I admit that it's unusual it can happen.

If you're jealous by nature I would suggest it's not the best place to be.

"

I agree it's not a daft question, I've witnessed jealousy in clubs more than once and jealousy and possessiveness have certainly been known to be shown on the forums.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Jealous ???? Why would we be jealous, we are a swinging couple, we play together and in groups, if jealousy came into the equation then we would not continue going to clubs.

For true swingers this is a rather daft question xxxx

I don't think it's a daft question.

I've seen the fallout over the years on here from 'true swingers', whilst I admit that it's unusual it can happen.

If you're jealous by nature I would suggest it's not the best place to be.

I agree it's not a daft question, I've witnessed jealousy in clubs more than once and jealousy and possessiveness have certainly been known to be shown on the forums.

"

Is the jealousy on the forums amongst couples though? In clubs, do you think its couples who have got into it because one wants it more than the other? Interested in this ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious if anyone or couples on here have experienced jealousy whilst meeting or being on here "

If i didn't feel jealous when guys fuck my wife i think it would be the end of our relationship as a clearly wouldn't give a fuck about her.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Just curious if anyone or couples on here have experienced jealousy whilst meeting or being on here

If i didn't feel jealous when guys fuck my wife i think it would be the end of our relationship as a clearly wouldn't give a fuck about her."

Not sure that 'giving a tuck' about someone always manifests itself in jealousy, does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious if anyone or couples on here have experienced jealousy whilst meeting or being on here

If i didn't feel jealous when guys fuck my wife i think it would be the end of our relationship as a clearly wouldn't give a fuck about her.

Not sure that 'giving a fuck' about someone always manifests itself in jealousy, does it?

"

Fixed it for you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jealous ???? Why would we be jealous, we are a swinging couple, we play together and in groups, if jealousy came into the equation then we would not continue going to clubs.

For true swingers this is a rather daft question xxxx

I don't think it's a daft question.

I've seen the fallout over the years on here from 'true swingers', whilst I admit that it's unusual it can happen.

If you're jealous by nature I would suggest it's not the best place to be.

I agree it's not a daft question, I've witnessed jealousy in clubs more than once and jealousy and possessiveness have certainly been known to be shown on the forums.

Is the jealousy on the forums amongst couples though? In clubs, do you think its couples who have got into it because one wants it more than the other? Interested in this ..."

I think jealousy on the forums is always amongst singletons rather than couples, but I;m sure couples can be just as capable of getting clingy

As for clubs, I've seen the people who are clearly there under pressure from a partner, but jealousy seems more prevalent in people that are far more in to the idea than the reality or those that don't communicate between each other

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Just curious if anyone or couples on here have experienced jealousy whilst meeting or being on here

If i didn't feel jealous when guys fuck my wife i think it would be the end of our relationship as a clearly wouldn't give a fuck about her.

Not sure that 'giving a fuck' about someone always manifests itself in jealousy, does it?

Fixed it for you..."

Now I am lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen on profiles that about 90% of men share their wife, is there a reason why women don't feel the same about sharing their hubby to another? Maibe the mentality is different between men and women."

I enjoy watching my OH with another lady. It turns me on, doesn't make me jealous. I just can't wait to get my hands on him afterwards.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get jealous loads, especially with my special guys playing with someone else, but I'm greedy, and it's under control. Emotions are such a problem in this lifestyle.I do admire the couples that seem to have conquered this.

If I ever fell in love with someone? Well that's a different story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen on profiles that about 90% of men share their wife, is there a reason why women don't feel the same about sharing their hubby to another? Maibe the mentality is different between men and women.

I enjoy watching my OH with another lady. It turns me on, doesn't make me jealous. I just can't wait to get my hands on him afterwards.

Sarah "
Nice one

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