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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm hoping the good people of fab (and I'll give the bad people a chance as well) will be able to help.

If you suspected that a friend was being dicked about by someone, would you tell them (and risk maybe losing that friend) or would you wait to see if the shit hit the fan and then pick up the pieces?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Depends on the friendship, the extent of the dicking around and whether I was prepared to be the shot messenger.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would steer clear

some thrive on the drama and being a victim

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'll do it!

I'm famed for my tact and delicacy

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm with DirtyGirl on this one.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm hoping the good people of fab (and I'll give the bad people a chance as well) will be able to help.

If you suspected that a friend was being dicked about by someone, would you tell them (and risk maybe losing that friend) or would you wait to see if the shit hit the fan and then pick up the pieces?"

I think the key word is "suspected".

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Pick up the pieces ... Otherwise you'd be instrumental in helping the shit hit the fan .. Suppose they become really good buddies.. You'll be bad friends with both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes that's why I'm torn between what to do. I'm pretty sure he has told a few lies and she doesn't know but without 100% proof I don't want to risk it.

Still pisses me off though.

Thanks all for the opinions

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