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"For me there is NO unnaceptable thread apart from what is laid out in the rules. i.e drugs and underage sex. If I don't like a thread I rarely contribute. I really do not like the 'the one above' threads and even when I posted undeniably stupid ones like ..... the person BELOW~ you or Yes/no ..... they still get answered ..... I wouldn't ask for them not to appear cos the suit some of the forumites. So .... in short. NO there isn't a right type of thread. " yes | |||
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"Hate single guy moaning threads and look at my profile threads. Sorry but they are gonna get it then when you have ripped their profile apart after asking you what you thought they then get in a hissy fit" Maybe don't "rip" them apart and just give advice and people probably won't get into a "hissy " fit. | |||
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"Hate single guy moaning threads and look at my profile threads. Sorry but they are gonna get it then when you have ripped their profile apart after asking you what you thought they then get in a hissy fit Maybe don't "rip" them apart and just give advice and people probably won't get into a "hissy " fit." ....*Nods* What you ^ said. * sits on coffin * | |||
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"I give advice if they don't like it then tough. Like the woman the other week asking about safe sex we all gave her advice and copy abd pasted info from the NHS for her only to be told we bored her etc, so why bother asking? " Why do you bring up other threads all the time? You made a comment on this thread, and I commented on that comment on this thread. | |||
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"personally, i think its easier to say what are the wrong types of thread ... for me that would be anything that deliberately sets out to cause upset, hurt, or provoke others in a negative way - trolling I guess. anything else,..well, there will be topics I do/dont like , there will be posters I'll like and not like, there will be styles ( jokey, serious,debating, sarky ) that i'll like and not like ....but they wont be the wrong types of thread, just wrong for me. And in those circumstances its for me to choose not to participate. " Agreed | |||
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"Oh why am I not allowed to bring up previous threads? Will check on the rules with that one." No one said you were not allowed to. Someone enquired as to why you do it. Is it possible that you can answer the question please ? | |||
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"For me there is NO unnaceptable thread apart from what is laid out in the rules. i.e drugs and underage sex. If I don't like a thread I rarely contribute. I really do not like the 'the one above' threads and even when I posted undeniably stupid ones like ..... the person BELOW~ you or Yes/no ..... they still get answered ..... I wouldn't ask for them not to appear cos the suit some of the forumites. So .... in short. NO there isn't a right type of thread. " ...and agreed, apart from the 'would you' bit, as I'm shameless.... | |||
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"Oh why am I not allowed to bring up previous threads? Will check on the rules with that one. No one said you were not allowed to. Someone enquired as to why you do it. Is it possible that you can answer the question please ? " Because I did it to make an example simple as that. | |||
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"Oh why am I not allowed to bring up previous threads? Will check on the rules with that one. No one said you were not allowed to. Someone enquired as to why you do it. Is it possible that you can answer the question please ? Because I did it to make an example simple as that. " Thank you | |||
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"For me there is NO unnaceptable thread apart from what is laid out in the rules. i.e drugs and underage sex. If I don't like a thread I rarely contribute. I really do not like the 'the one above' threads and even when I posted undeniably stupid ones like ..... the person BELOW~ you or Yes/no ..... they still get answered ..... I wouldn't ask for them not to appear cos the suit some of the forumites. So .... in short. NO there isn't a right type of thread. " Yeah...The "one above ???" or worse the "one below" type are really brain dead stuff as is the "what do you think of me".....only one answer there then. Its a swinging site so dont think we want to swap knitting patterns or discuss Tony Blair either. Football would be OK if we all understood the offside rule.!! PMT could be a good topic but keep getting told to "shut the f**k up" Cant win really | |||
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"Oh why am I not allowed to bring up previous threads? Will check on the rules with that one." Grow up | |||
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"ok keep the attacks off the forums, even if you don't name one partuclar person, it still isn't allowed." Looks like we can't have an opinion AGAIN. | |||
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"Oh why am I not allowed to bring up previous threads? Will check on the rules with that one. Grow up" ....... ooo bing bing round 1 * sits on coffin * | |||
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"ok keep the attacks off the forums, even if you don't name one partuclar person, it still isn't allowed. Looks like we can't have an opinion AGAIN. " You can have as many opinions as you want....as long as you stick within the rules. | |||
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"Oh why am I not allowed to bring up previous threads? Will check on the rules with that one. Grow up" I am trying but i've still the mind of a 13 yr old | |||
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" Yeah...The "one above ???" or worse the "one below" type are really brain dead stuff as is the "what do you think of me".....only one answer there then. Its a swinging site so dont think we want to swap knitting patterns or discuss Tony Blair either. Football would be OK if we all understood the offside rule.!! PMT could be a good topic but keep getting told to "shut the f**k up" Cant win really " Some people start off using the forums by answering on the yes/no/maybe threads. They then progress to relatively easy topics of what did you have for dinner/can you knit/do you know the off-side rule? type threads. Not every one has the courage to dive head on into a full out political/economic/specialised subject mastermind type of thread. | |||
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"ok keep the attacks off the forums, even if you don't name one partuclar person, it still isn't allowed. Looks like we can't have an opinion AGAIN. " If you think bulling and attacking another user is just having an opinion then you're on the wrong forum because it is'nt allowed on here | |||
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"ok keep the attacks off the forums, even if you don't name one partuclar person, it still isn't allowed. Looks like we can't have an opinion AGAIN. You can have as many opinions as you want....as long as you stick within the rules." I was and didn't name anyone or quote anyone but you seem to feel the need to remove things to make your life easy. I would be fascinated to know how i broke the rules to a point where you removed my post. | |||
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"ok keep the attacks off the forums, even if you don't name one partuclar person, it still isn't allowed. Looks like we can't have an opinion AGAIN. If you think bulling and attacking another user is just having an opinion then you're on the wrong forum because it is'nt allowed on here" I would frankly see how you can justify that statement. | |||
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"ok keep the attacks off the forums, even if you don't name one partuclar person, it still isn't allowed. Looks like we can't have an opinion AGAIN. You can have as many opinions as you want....as long as you stick within the rules. I was and didn't name anyone or quote anyone but you seem to feel the need to remove things to make your life easy. I would be fascinated to know how i broke the rules to a point where you removed my post. " you only have to read the rules to find out how you broke them. I did paste the link in for you, but failing that they are there for you to see every time you post. http://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules Don't be personal Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them. If you've got a problem with someone on the site, block them. If you've got a problem with what someone writes on the forum just skip over their messages or report to admin if you think they need to take action. | |||
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"What really gets on my tits (if I had any) are the.... 'The person above you' type topics. They really are the pits and have no intrinsic value to good communication whatsoever." I absolutely LOVE the above you threads and the value it has had for us is that we have met and are due to meet some very sexy people who it seems would fuck us from above/below etc etc | |||
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"Can we have a thread about why cocks are so addictive?" Whats this ..an anti cock thread ...how dare you .... has the cock had a chance to explain or defend EH? EH? | |||
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"Can we have a thread about why cocks are so addictive?" Go for it, I wanna know the answer | |||
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"ok keep the attacks off the forums, even if you don't name one partuclar person, it still isn't allowed. Looks like we can't have an opinion AGAIN. You can have as many opinions as you want....as long as you stick within the rules. I was and didn't name anyone or quote anyone but you seem to feel the need to remove things to make your life easy. I would be fascinated to know how i broke the rules to a point where you removed my post. you only have to read the rules to find out how you broke them. I did paste the link in for you, but failing that they are there for you to see every time you post. http://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules Don't be personal Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them. If you've got a problem with someone on the site, block them. If you've got a problem with what someone writes on the forum just skip over their messages or report to admin if you think they need to take action. " Well i take exception to that as what i put up wasn't an attack it referred to some people being self-righteous and also used the word asshole but did not quote, direct or use it against any other member. You remove yet allow liberal use of cunt, fuck, twat on a regular basis. In my opinion there is double standards being applied here. That is if i am allowed an opinion which i am beginning to wonder. | |||
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"ok keep the attacks off the forums, even if you don't name one partuclar person, it still isn't allowed. Looks like we can't have an opinion AGAIN. You can have as many opinions as you want....as long as you stick within the rules. I was and didn't name anyone or quote anyone but you seem to feel the need to remove things to make your life easy. I would be fascinated to know how i broke the rules to a point where you removed my post. you only have to read the rules to find out how you broke them. I did paste the link in for you, but failing that they are there for you to see every time you post. http://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules Don't be personal Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them. If you've got a problem with someone on the site, block them. If you've got a problem with what someone writes on the forum just skip over their messages or report to admin if you think they need to take action. Well i take exception to that as what i put up wasn't an attack it referred to some people being self-righteous and also used the word asshole but did not quote, direct or use it against any other member. You remove yet allow liberal use of cunt, fuck, twat on a regular basis. In my opinion there is double standards being applied here. That is if i am allowed an opinion which i am beginning to wonder. " YOU WOULD APPEAR TO HAVE PUT THE BRAKES ON THAT THREAD I THINK !! | |||
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"So what are the do's n don'ts of starting a thread? Is there such a thing as the right kind of thread? " Sometimes it doesn't matter how you start any thread, they often end up finishing the same way! | |||
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" some people being self-righteous and also used the word asshole " The issue here is that just because you regard someone as a self righteous ass-hole, it doesn't mean that they are. To someone else, they may be bang on in their post/_iew/opinion. Look at the IDS/welfare reform thread. There are some pretty strong opinions being voiced there, and those opinions regularly conflict directly with someone elses. Several of the posts could be said to have been made by 'self righteous ass-holes'- but on both sides of the debate. So, in short, one persons self righteousness, is another persons 'point well made'. | |||
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"ok keep the attacks off the forums, even if you don't name one partuclar person, it still isn't allowed. Looks like we can't have an opinion AGAIN. You can have as many opinions as you want....as long as you stick within the rules. I was and didn't name anyone or quote anyone but you seem to feel the need to remove things to make your life easy. I would be fascinated to know how i broke the rules to a point where you removed my post. you only have to read the rules to find out how you broke them. I did paste the link in for you, but failing that they are there for you to see every time you post. http://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules Don't be personal Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them. If you've got a problem with someone on the site, block them. If you've got a problem with what someone writes on the forum just skip over their messages or report to admin if you think they need to take action. Well i take exception to that as what i put up wasn't an attack it referred to some people being self-righteous and also used the word asshole but did not quote, direct or use it against any other member. You remove yet allow liberal use of cunt, fuck, twat on a regular basis. In my opinion there is double standards being applied here. That is if i am allowed an opinion which i am beginning to wonder. " Calling people twats , assholes, cunt etc is abuse...and not allowed. Swearing is allowed, but only if you don't use it while abusing. I am not sure why you can't figure that bit out. | |||
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"I love it when threads "kick off" - better than Stenders " just thinking the same.. | |||
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"I love it when threads "kick off" - better than Stenders " Sometimes you just know which ones it is going to be can't you | |||
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"I love it when threads "kick off" - better than Stenders Sometimes you just know which ones it is going to be can't you " I'll hand out the drinks and snacks and we can all sit back and watch the lamb to the slaughter haha | |||
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"I want bonus points for being the 'voice of reason'." will a gold star do? | |||
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"I want bonus points for being the 'voice of reason'. will a gold star do?" NO! I want a tick, a Gold Star AND a happy face. | |||
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"I want bonus points for being the 'voice of reason'." oi thats notmally my job :P but i was over on the IDS thread being self righteous | |||
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"I want bonus points for being the 'voice of reason'. will a gold star do? NO! I want a tick, a Gold Star AND a happy face." and they say women are the demanding ones JEEEZ lol | |||
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"I want bonus points for being the 'voice of reason'. oi thats notmally my job :P but i was over on the IDS thread being self righteous " But NOT an ass-hole? | |||
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"I want bonus points for being the 'voice of reason'. oi thats notmally my job :P but i was over on the IDS thread being self righteous But NOT an ass-hole?" maybe .....the people on the other side of the fence will probably think so and have the gaffer tape ready lol | |||
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"ok keep the attacks off the forums, even if you don't name one partuclar person, it still isn't allowed. Looks like we can't have an opinion AGAIN. You can have as many opinions as you want....as long as you stick within the rules. I was and didn't name anyone or quote anyone but you seem to feel the need to remove things to make your life easy. I would be fascinated to know how i broke the rules to a point where you removed my post. you only have to read the rules to find out how you broke them. I did paste the link in for you, but failing that they are there for you to see every time you post. http://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules Don't be personal Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them. If you've got a problem with someone on the site, block them. If you've got a problem with what someone writes on the forum just skip over their messages or report to admin if you think they need to take action. Well i take exception to that as what i put up wasn't an attack it referred to some people being self-righteous and also used the word asshole but did not quote, direct or use it against any other member. You remove yet allow liberal use of cunt, fuck, twat on a regular basis. In my opinion there is double standards being applied here. That is if i am allowed an opinion which i am beginning to wonder. Calling people twats , assholes, cunt etc is abuse...and not allowed. Swearing is allowed, but only if you don't use it while abusing. I am not sure why you can't figure that bit out. " I will let admin deal with it as you clearly will manipulate things for your benefit. | |||
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"I will let admin deal with it as you clearly will manipulate things for your benefit. " Just because you're paranoid, it doesn't meant they're not out to get you. | |||
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" I will let admin deal with it as you clearly will manipulate things for your benefit. " Exactly how Admin ask you to do in the rules. Click on the CONTACT link at the bottom of the page and click on the 8th option down. | |||
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"I will let admin deal with it as you clearly will manipulate things for your benefit. Just because you're paranoid, it doesn't meant they're not out to get you." Take an asprin you'll feel better | |||
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"Diversity is good but why do people feel the need to go all googly eyed smiley, and post "oh not this again" if they dont like it? Why dont they just do a Dionne Warwick?" Become a United Nations Global Ambassador for the Food and Agriculture Organization? That seems a bit far-fetched. | |||
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"So what are the do's n don'ts of starting a thread? Is there such a thing as the right kind of thread? Sometimes it doesn't matter how you start any thread, they often end up finishing the same way!" Ain`t it the truth hahahaha ...ah well ... | |||
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"Diversity is good but why do people feel the need to go all googly eyed smiley, and post "oh not this again" if they dont like it? Why dont they just do a Dionne Warwick?" Because their lack of tolerance and self control is outmatched only by their snobbery - without which their bottoming self esteem would reveal to them their true social standing (none ) - hence they deflect the title of cunt to some unsuspecting person seeking to partake in a little textual amusement. ...... thus | |||
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"I think self control is a must on these threads. I've seen some posts and I've wanted to jump in and have my say but haven't incase I offend someone. It's easier to say nothing sometimes then upset someone well that's my take on it and as someone pointed out to me yesterday I won't stay nice for long . Cecila If you're nice you will remain nice - don't let someones cynical comment sway you into behaving in a manner thats not you xxxx " | |||
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"I think self control is a must on these threads. I've seen some posts and I've wanted to jump in and have my say but haven't incase I offend someone. It's easier to say nothing sometimes then upset someone well that's my take on it and as someone pointed out to me yesterday I won't stay nice for long . Cecila " Course you will stay nice x x x | |||
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"Diversity is good but why do people feel the need to go all googly eyed smiley, and post "oh not this again" if they dont like it? Why dont they just do a Dionne Warwick? Because their lack of tolerance and self control is outmatched only by their snobbery - without which their bottoming self esteem would reveal to them their true social standing (none ) - hence they deflect the title of cunt to some unsuspecting person seeking to partake in a little textual amusement. ...... thus " Granny you give me a hard on when you say cunt | |||
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"Diversity is good but why do people feel the need to go all googly eyed smiley, and post "oh not this again" if they dont like it? Why dont they just do a Dionne Warwick? Because their lack of tolerance and self control is outmatched only by their snobbery - without which their bottoming self esteem would reveal to them their true social standing (none ) - hence they deflect the title of cunt to some unsuspecting person seeking to partake in a little textual amusement. ...... thus Granny you give me a hard on when you say cunt " Sorry Jack x | |||
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"I think self control is a must on these threads. I've seen some posts and I've wanted to jump in and have my say but haven't incase I offend someone. It's easier to say nothing sometimes then upset someone well that's my take on it and as someone pointed out to me yesterday I won't stay nice for long . Cecila " Cecila you're breaking my heart, you're shaking my confidence daily, Name that tune.... | |||
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"I think self control is a must on these threads. I've seen some posts and I've wanted to jump in and have my say but haven't incase I offend someone. It's easier to say nothing sometimes then upset someone well that's my take on it and as someone pointed out to me yesterday I won't stay nice for long . Cecila Cecila you're breaking my heart, you're shaking my confidence daily, Name that tune...." Cecilia | |||
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"Oh why am I not allowed to bring up previous threads? Will check on the rules with that one." Oh for Christs sake act your age not your shoe size ... | |||
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