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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds.

Feel like all I attract is attched guys

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I seem to only be attracted, (for NSA sex, I mean), to attached men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain op. Seems that's all I attract too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good job some of us aint attached

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds.

Feel like all I attract is attched guys "

The best ones always are they say, figures....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I seem to only be attracted, (for NSA sex, I mean), to attached men."

Me too me too, makes me worry then that all the people in my age bracket have been snapped up already.

This one I asked in the beginning and he said no but just dropped the bollock now. I thought there was something up cos when I asked first they said would it be a problem and I said yeah and then they said no, should have known then.

Fit SINGLE handsome dark haired tall well hung men please get in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be a real headache for women with all these offers lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds.

Feel like all I attract is attched guys "

what happened to last weeks new one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The thing that's even more annoying is that half the time they say oh woes me I'm not getting any of the sex or this that and the other, it's like well be single then if you want to shag about.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It must be a real headache for women with all these offers lol "

It is if the women don't want to meet attached people cheating on their partners.

I know it doesn't matter to you if someone is cheating, but some people care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happened to gym guy? Did you ever get chance to chat properly?

Doll x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds.

Feel like all I attract is attched guys what happened to last weeks new one"

Sounds like he's just "remembered" he actually has a partner, having said he was single before.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds.

Feel like all I attract is attched guys what happened to last weeks new one"

Birds, birds all of them have birds!

Like 3 potentials have significant others and I can only concentrate on one guy at a time so I've blown off people to speak to these individually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It must be a real headache for women with all these offers lol

It is if the women don't want to meet attached people cheating on their partners.

I know it doesn't matter to you if someone is cheating, but some people care."

That is a good point and you are right, as they are not looking for them.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds.

Feel like all I attract is attched guys what happened to last weeks new one

Birds, birds all of them have birds!

Like 3 potentials have significant others and I can only concentrate on one guy at a time so I've blown off people to speak to these individually."

well you will have to learn to talk to more tnan one guy and keep your options open and not just concentrate on one guy

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Just message guys that say they can accomodate less chance of them being married

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds.

Feel like all I attract is attched guys what happened to last weeks new one

Birds, birds all of them have birds!

Like 3 potentials have significant others and I can only concentrate on one guy at a time so I've blown off people to speak to these individually.well you will have to learn to talk to more tnan one guy and keep your options open and not just concentrate on one guy"

I can't have more than one person of interest at a time because then I can't commit to meeting one of them. I'll be thinking does the other guy have a slightly bigger dick or does this one give me more of a happy feeling so then I lean more towards one and end up messing the others about.

Will pay more attention to the can accomodate thing but even that can be unreliable, some might not be able to accom but have legit reasons.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What happened to gym guy? Did you ever get chance to chat properly?

Doll x "

He hasn't been in since that day I saw him in Asda around 3 or 4 weeks ago now! Think I scared him off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear about your predicament OP.

I hope you get a single guy that matches your requirements soon. It seems you've had no end of attached guys trying to play the field and take you for a ride.

Fingers crossed for you.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"What happened to gym guy? Did you ever get chance to chat properly?

Doll x

He hasn't been in since that day I saw him in Asda around 3 or 4 weeks ago now! Think I scared him off!"

Or he slipped and broke his ankle and can't train.

Or he's away on business.

Or on holiday.

...

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By *nnejohnCouple
over a year ago

warrington

swingers site,nsa sex,why does it matter?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"swingers site,nsa sex,why does it matter?"

Some people don't want to meet cheats, for various reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of Men I know in real life are either married or have long term partners, And a lot of them will shag anyone who shows any interest in them or actually go looking for a shag,

In most cases with Women who in my opinion aren't as nice looking as the Women they are with, Some just cant help themselves

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"swingers site,nsa sex,why does it matter?

Some people don't want to meet cheats, for various reasons."

No lying and betrayal are very repellant behaviours to me, I want honesty even from an nsa meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's Mr Perfect to you I'm guessing he's Mr Perfect to lots of people and hence likely to be in demand. Such is life with all the perfect 10 big cocked handsome charming fitties ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or, as a fab fem friend and I mused this weekend; the right guy, the wrong situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds.

Feel like all I attract is attched guys "

me to op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or, as a fab fem friend and I mused this weekend; the right guy, the wrong situation. "

That's never fun.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Keep your options open and fingers in a number of pies

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"A lot of Men I know in real life are either married or have long term partners, And a lot of them will shag anyone who shows any interest in them or actually go looking for a shag,

In most cases with Women who in my opinion aren't as nice looking as the Women they are with, Some just cant help themselves "

A guy said to me the other week " every hot woman out there there's a guy bored of banging her."

At certain ages in folks lives I'd put good money on most folk being in relationships.. at other times less so.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"What happened to gym guy? Did you ever get chance to chat properly?

Doll x

He hasn't been in since that day I saw him in Asda around 3 or 4 weeks ago now! Think I scared him off!"

what did you do to scare him off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's obvious that the more specific you are in what you want , the harder it will be to find it .

Accept that , stay positive , keep searching and eventually you will find it .

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Are you just not looking for the unreachable you have huge expectations of a guy which is not a bad thing but does he even exsist..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought op - but as you're only interested in one guy at a time - and as you're straight (not looking for 'extra fun' with fems like a lot of ladies on here) - wouldn't it be easier if you just used fab for forum friendship and went on a traditional dating site to find men?

You're very pretty so I'm sure you'd be equally popular there?

Fab - by its very nature - is going to have a lot of attached people on it - some are honest about it, some aren't!

That's just the way it is for all of us - and I'm sure men get lied to just as often as women do! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go for guys in their 20s. They're less likely to be married. I find that most of the guys we talk to who eventually end up being married are 30+.

I'm being slightly flippant but there are some people likely to be married and some who aren't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he's Mr Perfect to you I'm guessing he's Mr Perfect to lots of people and hence likely to be in demand. Such is life with all the perfect 10 big cocked handsome charming fitties ..."

Yes there's a bit of that...of course there are always exceptions, but the good looking men with good personalities in the age range you're looking for who are single, it's because they really want to be single. Those who want to be in relationships are in relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a thought op - but as you're only interested in one guy at a time - and as you're straight (not looking for 'extra fun' with fems like a lot of ladies on here) - wouldn't it be easier if you just used fab for forum friendship and went on a traditional dating site to find men?

You're very pretty so I'm sure you'd be equally popular there?

Fab - by its very nature - is going to have a lot of attached people on it - some are honest about it, some aren't!

That's just the way it is for all of us - and I'm sure men get lied to just as often as women do! Xx"

Weird thing that. Round yere (strong Devon accent) a fair few of the single women profiles state they are married (which I avoid tbh been cheated in, it sucks). I think sometimes women are more honest about it because they don't want the guy to get emotionally attached and us fellas have a penchant for getting possessive (just looking through the amount of single guys that want exclusivity, fwb or fbs' round yere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you just not looking for the unreachable you have huge expectations of a guy which is not a bad thing but does he even exsist..? "

That's the key point, the fact that he may not even exist. It is possible to price yourself out of the market

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Are you just not looking for the unreachable you have huge expectations of a guy which is not a bad thing but does he even exsist..?

That's the key point, the fact that he may not even exist. It is possible to price yourself out of the market"

I learnt that along time ago...I like tall slim men with tattoos and beards...however they may not like me so it's about opening yourself up to all kinds of different people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you looking for more than just NSA sex, like a relationship then?

I'm asking as you have a pretty strict criteria (which is fine) plus you're only chatting to one at a time.

I just wonder if you need to cast your net further afield?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely now come to the conclusion that majority of guys on here ARE attached...reason? I get much much less messages at the weekend!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Are you looking for more than just NSA sex, like a relationship then?

I'm asking as you have a pretty strict criteria (which is fine) plus you're only chatting to one at a time.

I just wonder if you need to cast your net further afield?"

I think the problem of checking if they have the right kind of willy keeps her here.......you might try Badoo OP, that was full of cock pics when I tried it!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Definitely now come to the conclusion that majority of guys on here ARE attached...reason? I get much much less messages at the weekend!"

Or they're out having fun, or a thousand and one other reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely now come to the conclusion that majority of guys on here ARE attached...reason? I get much much less messages at the weekend!"

Or they have a life outside fab like children on the weekend.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely now come to the conclusion that majority of guys on here ARE attached...reason? I get much much less messages at the weekend!

Or they're out having fun, or a thousand and one other reasons. "

That's my experience - the really, truly, actually single men I talk to on here aren't really around at the weekend because they're out doing stuff. It's weekday evenings when they're at home alone that they tend to be online.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm 'attached' - the giveaway clue is that I say so on my profile

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East


"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds.

Feel like all I attract is attched guys "

.. I am sure you have a cue on your door.. You just have to choose what you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the good ones are always taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"swingers site,nsa sex,why does it matter?"

Would you really be ok with your husband/wife seeing someone regularly you didn't know about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the good ones are always taken "

Does that make me a bad one?

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East


"All the good ones are always taken "
.. Yeah.. I am bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely now come to the conclusion that majority of guys on here ARE attached...reason? I get much much less messages at the weekend!

Or they have a life outside fab like children on the weekend....."

Logic tells me that a single,working person,who doesn't work weekends,would be busy during the week and free at weekends. There are the bored at work and out with mates/playing football/hungover at weekends of course,but if they can't spare time to chat a little they aren't any good to me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the good ones are always taken

Does that make me a bad one? "

Everyone has their own perception of what a 'good' and 'bad' one is... So technically speaking no it doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the good ones are always taken .. Yeah.. I am bad "

And too far

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm on here as opposed to a regular dating site purely so I can see the guys knob beforehand.

On the plus side I've told a lot of guys to do some dishes and stick the hoover round once in a while to give their birds a break.

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East


"All the good ones are always taken .. Yeah.. I am bad

And too far "

.. Yeah... They must invent the distance travel machine ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on here as opposed to a regular dating site purely so I can see the guys knob beforehand.

."

But are you wanting to date these guys or just have sex?

I'm wondering if this is where the lines of dating / fabbing are getting crossed.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I just want a nice man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm on here as opposed to a regular dating site purely so I can see the guys knob beforehand.

.

But are you wanting to date these guys or just have sex?

I'm wondering if this is where the lines of dating / fabbing are getting crossed."

Date them I suppose because I'd want them to be exclusive to me whilst we're shagging.

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By *heclitmaster84Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I just want a nice man "
think every body who ain't got a nice man or woman wants same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on here as opposed to a regular dating site purely so I can see the guys knob beforehand.

.

But are you wanting to date these guys or just have sex?

I'm wondering if this is where the lines of dating / fabbing are getting crossed.

Date them I suppose because I'd want them to be exclusive to me whilst we're shagging. "

Okay, so maybe that's where it's not quite working out right. I would assume the majority on here are looking just for sex. Which is why the site attracts the not so single, single man / woman.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I'm on here as opposed to a regular dating site purely so I can see the guys knob beforehand.

.

But are you wanting to date these guys or just have sex?

I'm wondering if this is where the lines of dating / fabbing are getting crossed.

Date them I suppose because I'd want them to be exclusive to me whilst we're shagging. "

I do think your expectations are incredibly high...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I just want a nice man think every body who ain't got a nice man or woman wants same x"

My time will come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds.

Feel like all I attract is attched guys "

how much did you pay for your boob job?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on here as opposed to a regular dating site purely so I can see the guys knob beforehand.

.

But are you wanting to date these guys or just have sex?

I'm wondering if this is where the lines of dating / fabbing are getting crossed.

Date them I suppose because I'd want them to be exclusive to me whilst we're shagging. "

On a swinging site I think you're setting up for trouble. Most (ok not all I'll accept that) are here for no strings casual sex. To expect monogamy with you from someone you've met on a swinging site is a big ask. But not impossible to find.

I hope you find what you're after - a handsome, big cocked, pure, monogamous, delicious fit guy is bound to be out there somewhere - and hopefully he'll fancy the pants off you and cede to your demands.

But he may be more likely to be on a vanilla dating site.

Good luck

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds.

Feel like all I attract is attched guys

how much did you pay for your boob job?"

What's that got to do with anything?

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By *heclitmaster84Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I just want a nice man think every body who ain't got a nice man or woman wants same x

My time will come "

you'll find one hun x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Op, just a question how would you feel if you came across mr perfect so perfect he had a similar outlook to you so therefore wanted to see a fanny picture, and your fanny wasnt the sort he was attracted to and he turned you down just for that reason what would you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It must be a real headache for women with all these offers lol "
it can be actually lol.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I'm on here as opposed to a regular dating site purely so I can see the guys knob beforehand.

.

But are you wanting to date these guys or just have sex?

I'm wondering if this is where the lines of dating / fabbing are getting crossed.

Date them I suppose because I'd want them to be exclusive to me whilst we're shagging. "

It's often said to folk the more niche (handsome, big cock, single, monogamous) the folk you're seeking the longer it will take to find them.

We're all looking for something hopefully we all find what we're seeking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds.

Feel like all I attract is attched guys "

most men on this site are attached hun some are honest about it some aren't just way fab goes I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds.

Feel like all I attract is attched guys

how much did you pay for your boob job?"

£3,950 but that was 8 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op, just a question how would you feel if you came across mr perfect so perfect he had a similar outlook to you so therefore wanted to see a fanny picture, and your fanny wasnt the sort he was attracted to and he turned you down just for that reason what would you think?"

I'd be more understanding than most because I understand how important preferences are to people.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I might be wrong and it might have already been mentioned but I don't think many men on here are looking for anything other than nsa??

Mind you a few guys I've met have also been on pof so who knows what goes on in their minds!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you'll get plenty of offers from this thread alone, but as we all say to everyone; be patient and try not to get disheartened by it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must be better places to try and find yourself a BF

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I might be wrong and it might have already been mentioned but I don't think many men on here are looking for anything other than nsa??

Mind you a few guys I've met have also been on pof so who knows what goes on in their minds!!!!

"

I'm on pof , tinder, I can only comment what's going through my mind (I've made no secret on here , same as my pof profile), I'd like something more permanent in my life than nsa,

I'm putting myself in as many shop Windows as possible.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I might be wrong and it might have already been mentioned but I don't think many men on here are looking for anything other than nsa??

Mind you a few guys I've met have also been on pof so who knows what goes on in their minds!!!!

I'm on pof , tinder, I can only comment what's going through my mind (I've made no secret on here , same as my pof profile), I'd like something more permanent in my life than nsa,

I'm putting myself in as many shop Windows as possible. "

Haha I'm window shopping too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might be wrong and it might have already been mentioned but I don't think many men on here are looking for anything other than nsa??

Mind you a few guys I've met have also been on pof so who knows what goes on in their minds!!!!

"

I've met more than my fair share of men on here, who want a monogamous relationship,or me to be monogamous but them not.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Op, just a question how would you feel if you came across mr perfect so perfect he had a similar outlook to you so therefore wanted to see a fanny picture, and your fanny wasnt the sort he was attracted to and he turned you down just for that reason what would you think?

I'd be more understanding than most because I understand how important preferences are to people. "

im glad you think like that cause at least your prepared that if you find your mr perfect you might not be his miss perfect as ive seen you post before that you have problems with rejection

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op, just a question how would you feel if you came across mr perfect so perfect he had a similar outlook to you so therefore wanted to see a fanny picture, and your fanny wasnt the sort he was attracted to and he turned you down just for that reason what would you think?

I'd be more understanding than most because I understand how important preferences are to people.

im glad you think like that cause at least your prepared that if you find your mr perfect you might not be his miss perfect as ive seen you post before that you have problems with rejection"

Yeah rejection for a physical attribute is easier to process and accept than someone not wanting to be with me. Someone saying that I'm not for them because they don't like fake boobs or in your example someone not wanting my fanny. They are things I can't do anything about, they're superficial and silly. Someone rejecting my soul and my personality is not even in the same category.

Anything else now woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone rejecting my soul and my personality is not even in the same category.

"

Spot on OP

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Op, just a question how would you feel if you came across mr perfect so perfect he had a similar outlook to you so therefore wanted to see a fanny picture, and your fanny wasnt the sort he was attracted to and he turned you down just for that reason what would you think?

I'd be more understanding than most because I understand how important preferences are to people.

im glad you think like that cause at least your prepared that if you find your mr perfect you might not be his miss perfect as ive seen you post before that you have problems with rejection

Yeah rejection for a physical attribute is easier to process and accept than someone not wanting to be with me. Someone saying that I'm not for them because they don't like fake boobs or in your example someone not wanting my fanny. They are things I can't do anything about, they're superficial and silly. Someone rejecting my soul and my personality is not even in the same category.

Anything else now woman?"

lol, i think thats it for now. But on here your probably just as likely to get rejected for your personality as physical looks thats how i and some others chose who we meet. Not sure about my soul though.

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