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"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds. Feel like all I attract is attched guys ![]() The best ones always are they say, figures.... | |||
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"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds. Feel like all I attract is attched guys ![]() what happened to last weeks new one | |||
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"It must be a real headache for women with all these offers lol ![]() It is if the women don't want to meet attached people cheating on their partners. I know it doesn't matter to you if someone is cheating, but some people care. | |||
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"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds. Feel like all I attract is attched guys ![]() Sounds like he's just "remembered" he actually has a partner, having said he was single before. | |||
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"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds. Feel like all I attract is attched guys ![]() Birds, birds all of them have birds! Like 3 potentials have significant others and I can only concentrate on one guy at a time so I've blown off people to speak to these individually. | |||
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"It must be a real headache for women with all these offers lol ![]() That is a good point and you are right, as they are not looking for them. | |||
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"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds. Feel like all I attract is attched guys ![]() well you will have to learn to talk to more tnan one guy and keep your options open and not just concentrate on one guy | |||
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"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds. Feel like all I attract is attched guys ![]() I can't have more than one person of interest at a time because then I can't commit to meeting one of them. I'll be thinking does the other guy have a slightly bigger dick or does this one give me more of a happy feeling so then I lean more towards one and end up messing the others about. Will pay more attention to the can accomodate thing but even that can be unreliable, some might not be able to accom but have legit reasons. | |||
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"What happened to gym guy? Did you ever get chance to chat properly? Doll x " He hasn't been in since that day I saw him in Asda around 3 or 4 weeks ago now! Think I scared him off! | |||
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"What happened to gym guy? Did you ever get chance to chat properly? Doll x He hasn't been in since that day I saw him in Asda around 3 or 4 weeks ago now! Think I scared him off!" Or he slipped and broke his ankle and can't train. Or he's away on business. Or on holiday. ... | |||
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"swingers site,nsa sex,why does it matter?" Some people don't want to meet cheats, for various reasons. | |||
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"swingers site,nsa sex,why does it matter? Some people don't want to meet cheats, for various reasons." No lying and betrayal are very repellant behaviours to me, I want honesty even from an nsa meet. | |||
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"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds. Feel like all I attract is attched guys ![]() me to op | |||
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"Or, as a fab fem friend and I mused this weekend; the right guy, the wrong situation. " That's never fun. | |||
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"A lot of Men I know in real life are either married or have long term partners, And a lot of them will shag anyone who shows any interest in them or actually go looking for a shag, In most cases with Women who in my opinion aren't as nice looking as the Women they are with, Some just cant help themselves ![]() A guy said to me the other week " every hot woman out there there's a guy bored of banging her." At certain ages in folks lives I'd put good money on most folk being in relationships.. at other times less so. | |||
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"What happened to gym guy? Did you ever get chance to chat properly? Doll x He hasn't been in since that day I saw him in Asda around 3 or 4 weeks ago now! Think I scared him off!" what did you do to scare him off | |||
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"If he's Mr Perfect to you I'm guessing he's Mr Perfect to lots of people and hence likely to be in demand. Such is life with all the perfect 10 big cocked handsome charming fitties ... ![]() Yes there's a bit of that...of course there are always exceptions, but the good looking men with good personalities in the age range you're looking for who are single, it's because they really want to be single. Those who want to be in relationships are in relationships. | |||
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"Just a thought op - but as you're only interested in one guy at a time - and as you're straight (not looking for 'extra fun' with fems like a lot of ladies on here) - wouldn't it be easier if you just used fab for forum friendship and went on a traditional dating site to find men? You're very pretty so I'm sure you'd be equally popular there? Fab - by its very nature - is going to have a lot of attached people on it - some are honest about it, some aren't! That's just the way it is for all of us - and I'm sure men get lied to just as often as women do! Xx" Weird thing that. Round yere (strong Devon accent) a fair few of the single women profiles state they are married (which I avoid tbh been cheated in, it sucks). I think sometimes women are more honest about it because they don't want the guy to get emotionally attached and us fellas have a penchant for getting possessive (just looking through the amount of single guys that want exclusivity, fwb or fbs' round yere. | |||
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"Are you just not looking for the unreachable you have huge expectations of a guy which is not a bad thing but does he even exsist..? " That's the key point, the fact that he may not even exist. It is possible to price yourself out of the market | |||
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"Are you just not looking for the unreachable you have huge expectations of a guy which is not a bad thing but does he even exsist..? That's the key point, the fact that he may not even exist. It is possible to price yourself out of the market" I learnt that along time ago...I like tall slim men with tattoos and beards...however they may not like me so it's about opening yourself up to all kinds of different people ![]() | |||
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"Are you looking for more than just NSA sex, like a relationship then? I'm asking as you have a pretty strict criteria (which is fine) plus you're only chatting to one at a time. I just wonder if you need to cast your net further afield?" I think the problem of checking if they have the right kind of willy keeps her here.......you might try Badoo OP, that was full of cock pics when I tried it! ![]() | |||
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"Definitely now come to the conclusion that majority of guys on here ARE attached...reason? I get much much less messages at the weekend!" Or they're out having fun, or a thousand and one other reasons. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Definitely now come to the conclusion that majority of guys on here ARE attached...reason? I get much much less messages at the weekend!" Or they have a life outside fab like children on the weekend..... | |||
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"Definitely now come to the conclusion that majority of guys on here ARE attached...reason? I get much much less messages at the weekend! Or they're out having fun, or a thousand and one other reasons. ![]() ![]() ![]() That's my experience - the really, truly, actually single men I talk to on here aren't really around at the weekend because they're out doing stuff. It's weekday evenings when they're at home alone that they tend to be online. | |||
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"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds. Feel like all I attract is attched guys ![]() .. I am sure you have a cue on your door.. You just have to choose what you like ![]() | |||
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"swingers site,nsa sex,why does it matter?" Would you really be ok with your husband/wife seeing someone regularly you didn't know about? | |||
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"All the good ones are always taken ![]() Does that make me a bad one? ![]() | |||
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"All the good ones are always taken ![]() .. Yeah.. I am bad ![]() | |||
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"Definitely now come to the conclusion that majority of guys on here ARE attached...reason? I get much much less messages at the weekend! Or they have a life outside fab like children on the weekend....." Logic tells me that a single,working person,who doesn't work weekends,would be busy during the week and free at weekends. There are the bored at work and out with mates/playing football/hungover at weekends of course,but if they can't spare time to chat a little they aren't any good to me anyway. | |||
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"All the good ones are always taken ![]() ![]() Everyone has their own perception of what a 'good' and 'bad' one is... So technically speaking no it doesn't ![]() | |||
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"All the good ones are always taken ![]() ![]() And too far ![]() | |||
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"All the good ones are always taken ![]() ![]() ![]() .. Yeah... They must invent the distance travel machine ... | |||
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"I'm on here as opposed to a regular dating site purely so I can see the guys knob beforehand. ." ![]() | |||
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"I'm on here as opposed to a regular dating site purely so I can see the guys knob beforehand. . ![]() Date them I suppose because I'd want them to be exclusive to me whilst we're shagging. | |||
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"I just want a nice man ![]() think every body who ain't got a nice man or woman wants same x | |||
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"I'm on here as opposed to a regular dating site purely so I can see the guys knob beforehand. . ![]() Okay, so maybe that's where it's not quite working out right. I would assume the majority on here are looking just for sex. Which is why the site attracts the not so single, single man / woman. | |||
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"I'm on here as opposed to a regular dating site purely so I can see the guys knob beforehand. . ![]() I do think your expectations are incredibly high... | |||
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"I just want a nice man ![]() My time will come ![]() | |||
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"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds. Feel like all I attract is attched guys ![]() how much did you pay for your boob job? | |||
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"I'm on here as opposed to a regular dating site purely so I can see the guys knob beforehand. . ![]() On a swinging site I think you're setting up for trouble. Most (ok not all I'll accept that) are here for no strings casual sex. To expect monogamy with you from someone you've met on a swinging site is a big ask. But not impossible to find. I hope you find what you're after - a handsome, big cocked, pure, monogamous, delicious fit guy is bound to be out there somewhere - and hopefully he'll fancy the pants off you and cede to your demands. But he may be more likely to be on a vanilla dating site. Good luck ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds. Feel like all I attract is attched guys ![]() What's that got to do with anything? | |||
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"I just want a nice man ![]() ![]() you'll find one hun x | |||
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"It must be a real headache for women with all these offers lol ![]() it can be actually lol. | |||
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"I'm on here as opposed to a regular dating site purely so I can see the guys knob beforehand. . ![]() It's often said to folk the more niche (handsome, big cock, single, monogamous) the folk you're seeking the longer it will take to find them. We're all looking for something hopefully we all find what we're seeking. | |||
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"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds. Feel like all I attract is attched guys ![]() most men on this site are attached hun some are honest about it some aren't just way fab goes I guess | |||
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"Honestly like, all the guys I'm interested in meeting and fit all the things I'm looking for have got birds. Feel like all I attract is attched guys ![]() £3,950 but that was 8 years ago. | |||
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"Op, just a question how would you feel if you came across mr perfect so perfect he had a similar outlook to you so therefore wanted to see a fanny picture, and your fanny wasnt the sort he was attracted to and he turned you down just for that reason what would you think?" I'd be more understanding than most because I understand how important preferences are to people. | |||
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"I might be wrong and it might have already been mentioned but I don't think many men on here are looking for anything other than nsa?? Mind you a few guys I've met have also been on pof so who knows what goes on in their minds!!!! " I'm on pof , tinder, I can only comment what's going through my mind (I've made no secret on here , same as my pof profile), I'd like something more permanent in my life than nsa, I'm putting myself in as many shop Windows as possible. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I might be wrong and it might have already been mentioned but I don't think many men on here are looking for anything other than nsa?? Mind you a few guys I've met have also been on pof so who knows what goes on in their minds!!!! I'm on pof , tinder, I can only comment what's going through my mind (I've made no secret on here , same as my pof profile), I'd like something more permanent in my life than nsa, I'm putting myself in as many shop Windows as possible. ![]() ![]() ![]() Haha I'm window shopping too ![]() | |||
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"I might be wrong and it might have already been mentioned but I don't think many men on here are looking for anything other than nsa?? Mind you a few guys I've met have also been on pof so who knows what goes on in their minds!!!! " I've met more than my fair share of men on here, who want a monogamous relationship,or me to be monogamous but them not. | |||
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"Op, just a question how would you feel if you came across mr perfect so perfect he had a similar outlook to you so therefore wanted to see a fanny picture, and your fanny wasnt the sort he was attracted to and he turned you down just for that reason what would you think? I'd be more understanding than most because I understand how important preferences are to people. " im glad you think like that cause at least your prepared that if you find your mr perfect you might not be his miss perfect as ive seen you post before that you have problems with rejection | |||
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"Op, just a question how would you feel if you came across mr perfect so perfect he had a similar outlook to you so therefore wanted to see a fanny picture, and your fanny wasnt the sort he was attracted to and he turned you down just for that reason what would you think? I'd be more understanding than most because I understand how important preferences are to people. im glad you think like that cause at least your prepared that if you find your mr perfect you might not be his miss perfect as ive seen you post before that you have problems with rejection" Yeah rejection for a physical attribute is easier to process and accept than someone not wanting to be with me. Someone saying that I'm not for them because they don't like fake boobs or in your example someone not wanting my fanny. They are things I can't do anything about, they're superficial and silly. Someone rejecting my soul and my personality is not even in the same category. Anything else now woman? | |||
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"Someone rejecting my soul and my personality is not even in the same category. " Spot on OP ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Op, just a question how would you feel if you came across mr perfect so perfect he had a similar outlook to you so therefore wanted to see a fanny picture, and your fanny wasnt the sort he was attracted to and he turned you down just for that reason what would you think? I'd be more understanding than most because I understand how important preferences are to people. im glad you think like that cause at least your prepared that if you find your mr perfect you might not be his miss perfect as ive seen you post before that you have problems with rejection Yeah rejection for a physical attribute is easier to process and accept than someone not wanting to be with me. Someone saying that I'm not for them because they don't like fake boobs or in your example someone not wanting my fanny. They are things I can't do anything about, they're superficial and silly. Someone rejecting my soul and my personality is not even in the same category. Anything else now woman?" lol, i think thats it for now. But on here your probably just as likely to get rejected for your personality as physical looks thats how i and some others chose who we meet. Not sure about my soul though. | |||
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