FabSwingers.com forum: Professional?

By *ue care and attention OP Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

Ok so it seems that a lot of people put 'professional' in their profiles. Does this influence you or would you presume they were a dolite if they didn't include it? (No offence to anyone unemployed before the noose comes out!)

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

Ill bump a thread up for you to read as these things tend to kick off

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By *illyrocCouple
over a year ago

north west

no i dont understand why they have to put that on there profile its all nonsense to big up the profile imo but hey its up to the peeps to put what they think makes them look better .

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By *ue care and attention OP Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

"Ill bump a thread up for you to read as these things tend to kick off

Ooo nice bump...thanks

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"Ok so it seems that a lot of people put 'professional' in their profiles. Does this influence you or would you presume they were a dolite if they didn't include it? (No offence to anyone unemployed before the noose comes out!)"

Have a peep at the one in swingers chat(bumped). It ........err kind of upsets some

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By *ue care and attention OP Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

Have a peep at the one in swingers chat(bumped). It ........err kind of upsets some

ahh got ya, will do thanks

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By *ue care and attention OP Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

Thanks _ig bad, got half way through and wish I'd kept my mouth shut. Here endeth the thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a peep at the one in swingers chat(bumped). It ........err kind of upsets some

Oh yes, I remember that thread as I lost my cool which is unusual for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does influence me. No I don't think of people as dolites - it's not a term I use.

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"Have a peep at the one in swingers chat(bumped). It ........err kind of upsets some

Oh yes, I remember that thread as I lost my cool which is unusual for me.

There are over a dozen Professional threads. It really niggles some at times. There is a bit of negativity towards professional/educated/middle class people or what ever it is supposed to mean. Odd really cos we are all pretty similar buck naked

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont see the need for someone to tell me what they are. I can tell by their profile and the messages they send me whether i wish to meet them. I find most middle class people dont feel the need to keep telling people

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By *ndymanchester1Man
over a year ago

salford

Maybe it's a hint that I shouldn't swear, know what cutlery to use at right time and be able to hold a pissing contest on qualifications. Being a good shag being secondary of course

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Have a peep at the one in swingers chat(bumped). It ........err kind of upsets some

Oh yes, I remember that thread as I lost my cool which is unusual for me.

I am in no way pretty similar to you when I am buck naked!!!!!

***goes off to check, just in case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

workwise i am a professional but i see no reason why i should put it. Each to their own though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really wish I could understand the correlation between someone having professional on THEIR profile to them thinking they're better than anyone else!

How many profiles have "seeking like minded people", or "attractive", let's not forget "go to the gym five times a week", or "good sense of humour"?!! These are all ways we use to describe ourselves and to attract "like minded" people.

I'm a legal officer dealing with personal injury, I've also been a college lecturer, do I have professional on my profile? No! I don't see the need, but I don't see anything sinister about those that do!

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By *athnBobCouple
over a year ago

sandwell

I wonder if it is a case of inverted snobbery by those who decry the use of the term "professional" on others profiles?

If you don't like it then don't reply. We don't post a tirade of abuse about people who show dickhead cars (BMWs, Audies and pimped up cheapo novas and the like) in their profiles. We just don't respond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder if it is a case of inverted snobbery by those who decry the use of the term "professional" on others profiles?

Exactly what it is: inverted snobbery!

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Ill bump a thread up for you to read as these things tend to kick off

You don't say!

Thinking of setting up a profile as a professional bisexual husband who is cheating on his wife.

Just for the banter.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'm a cowboy*

*An unprofessional professional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have said what I wanted to say in the other thread, so nothing more to add, except I am proud to be a professional, and if others object to me stating that in my profile, it is their problem, not mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me if someone has it on their profile, I can't see the problem at all

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

On a dating site recent i noticed a very attractive man with professional on his profile and was well written.

I wrote to him saying he waa good looking and liked his profile lol.

The reply i got back was "hey toots. We are in different leagues"

Silly but this bothered me so i did reply telling gim that he must think alot of himself.

So i assumed as he was a.professional that a single mum who is a volunteer was.below him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On a dating site recent i noticed a very attractive man with professional on his profile and was well written.

I wrote to him saying he waa good looking and liked his profile lol.

The reply i got back was "hey toots. We are in different leagues"

Silly but this bothered me so i did reply telling gim that he must think alot of himself.

So i assumed as he was a.professional that a single mum who is a volunteer was.below him."

That's arrogance, and nothing to do with the fact he has professional on his profile.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Thanks _ig bad, got half way through and wish I'd kept my mouth shut. Here endeth the thread lol "

Don't worry about it, you don't have to searh for threads before you post just in case it has been done before and the subject isn't banned from chatting about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't care less what someone does for a living. I could be a professional fry cook. The professional means nothing as does when some bloke tells me what he's earns etc as if that's going to swing it for him.

I've met guys who are out of work they are out of work because of the economy not because they are work shy.

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By *oDownEasyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Im a professional..not sure if it's Bodie, or Doyle

More likely Cowley!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't care less what someone does for a living. I could be a professional fry cook. The professional means nothing as does when some bloke tells me what he's earns etc as if that's going to swing it for him.

I've met guys who are out of work they are out of work because of the economy not because they are work shy."

I've never come across a "professional" that makes assumptions about people they wish to play with, but I've seen many "sexy" "attractive" "gym body" profiles that state "no uglies, no baboon buttom faces, no oooompah loompahs" etc...

So it seems only certain people are allowed to express their preferences on their profiles and big themselves up, but if you're professional you're comitting some cardinal sin in stating that!

Funny old world!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

To be fair, the question was does it influence you in how you see people....it wasn't saying that people shouldn't be allowed to say it on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think alot put it on their profile because they think no one will want to play with them if they don't.

What do we class as a professional though?

I could be a cleaning lady and very professional so can I put professional on my job?

I think and this is my opinion that people that put professional on their profile are snobs who do indeed think they are better then the others.

I've nothing on my profile reason for that is I'm not better then anybody else and they are not better then me.

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