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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or does there seen to be a disproportionate amount of thin men with massive cocks on here.

My preference is big bears of men and I haven't seen a we or vwe on here yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does there seen to be a disproportionate amount of thin men with massive cocks on here.

My preference is big bears of men and I haven't seen a we or vwe on here yet."

YES! I was thinking this just the other day!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No. Seems to me there are lots of skinny men on here too.

I think that the women eat all the pies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does there seen to be a disproportionate amount of thin men with massive cocks on here.

My preference is big bears of men and I haven't seen a we or vwe on here yet."

Sorry I will leave...

UNLOS of Devon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did someone mention pies?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We arnt all lucky to have a big cock lol

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"Or does there seen to be a disproportionate amount of thin men with massive cocks on here.

My preference is big bears of men and I haven't seen a we or vwe on here yet."

You are too far away for me to get my tadger out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's isn't meant as dig. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences but a well hung bear doesn't seem to exist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. Seems to me there are lots of skinny men on here too.

I think that the women eat all the pies. "

Maybe they are all skinny cos they have massive cocks so they are always on demand shagging. So they have no time to eat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Seems to me there are lots of skinny men on here too.

I think that the women eat all the pies. "

The Men eat the pies as well, But any extra weight they gain just goes to their cocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's isn't meant as dig. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences but a well hung bear doesn't seem to exist."

True, theres a massive amount of larger ladies with huge tits too, Cant seem to find many slim ladies with massive tites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or they just like to keep in shape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's isn't meant as dig. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences but a well hung bear doesn't seem to exist.

True, theres a massive amount of larger ladies with huge tits too, Cant seem to find many slim ladies with massive tites "

That is right. I haven't seen one either lol.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"It's isn't meant as dig. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences but a well hung bear doesn't seem to exist."

I have one and I share

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or they just like to keep in shape."

No not men in shape. Thin men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's isn't meant as dig. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences but a well hung bear doesn't seem to exist.

True, theres a massive amount of larger ladies with huge tits too, Cant seem to find many slim ladies with massive tites "

There are loads of them about. Tit jobs gallore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or they just like to keep in shape.

No not men in shape. Thin men. "

Wow, just wow.... So I am "not in shape" because I am thin....

Amazing

Bring in the duplicity.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or they just like to keep in shape.

No not men in shape. Thin men. "

I see, maibe they just got a fast metabolic rate.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Did someone mention pies?????"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or they just like to keep in shape.

No not men in shape. Thin men. I see, maibe they just got a fast metabolic rate."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say mine was massive and I'm as skinny as they come. Surely all this is just a myth

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East


"It's isn't meant as dig. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences but a well hung bear doesn't seem to exist.

True, theres a massive amount of larger ladies with huge tits too, Cant seem to find many slim ladies with massive tites "

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Actually these size threads piss me off at times,by all means show your preference,but don't get your digs in about another size or shape.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It's isn't meant as dig. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences but a well hung bear doesn't seem to exist.

True, theres a massive amount of larger ladies with huge tits too, Cant seem to find many slim ladies with massive tites "

Since breasts are mainly fat, it's not particularly surprising women without much excess fat do not tend to have massive ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's isn't meant as dig. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences but a well hung bear doesn't seem to exist.

True, theres a massive amount of larger ladies with huge tits too, Cant seem to find many slim ladies with massive tites

Since breasts are mainly fat, it's not particularly surprising women without much excess fat do not tend to have massive ones."

After your disrespect thread earlier this weekend, how would you feel if I put

"Is it me or are there loads of fat (opposite of skinny) women on here with massive tits, my preference is for skinny women with big tits, do they not exist"?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Actually these size threads piss me off at times,by all means show your preference,but don't get your digs in about another size or shape."

I detest these size threads ALL the time. They always end up with people being criticised in order to flatter others.

Lard arse v. Bag of bones syndrome.

We all have preferences but why these constant comparisons and which is better threads?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Actually these size threads piss me off at times,by all means show your preference,but don't get your digs in about another size or shape."

I'm not having a dig at other shapes or sizes. Just remarking my observations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually these size threads piss me off at times,by all means show your preference,but don't get your digs in about another size or shape.

I'm not having a dig at other shapes or sizes. Just remarking my observations."

What do you think would have happened if a single guy had started a thread;

"Is it me or are there loads of fat (opposite of skinny) women on here with massive tits, my preference is for skinny women with big tits, do they not exist"?

??? Torn to shreds....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or they just like to keep in shape.

No not men in shape. Thin men.

Wow, just wow.... So I am "not in shape" because I am thin....

Amazing

Bring in the duplicity..... "

U are clearly in shape and thin. I didn't say u weren't. I was noting my observations.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Actually these size threads piss me off at times,by all means show your preference,but don't get your digs in about another size or shape.

I'm not having a dig at other shapes or sizes. Just remarking my observations.

What do you think would have happened if a single guy had started a thread;

"Is it me or are there loads of fat (opposite of skinny) women on here with massive tits, my preference is for skinny women with big tits, do they not exist"?

??? Torn to shreds...."

There is a biological reason fat women have big tits. There is no biological reason for thinner men to have bigger penises.

Unless u know of one???

Ur very touchy about it. Is it ur size or ur penis that is your issue?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It's isn't meant as dig. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences but a well hung bear doesn't seem to exist.

True, theres a massive amount of larger ladies with huge tits too, Cant seem to find many slim ladies with massive tites

Since breasts are mainly fat, it's not particularly surprising women without much excess fat do not tend to have massive ones.

After your disrespect thread earlier this weekend, how would you feel if I put

"Is it me or are there loads of fat (opposite of skinny) women on here with massive tits, my preference is for skinny women with big tits, do they not exist"?"

I would point out exactly the same thing I just said. Boobs are fat. Women with more fat will tend to be the ones with massive boobs.

Mine are proportionally large but when I was a size 12, they weren't even close to massive, (I was an E cup). Now they are massive because my body fat is that much higher.

Want huge natural breasts? The trade off is likely to be that they'll be on a woman with higher body fat. It just doesn't happen that on a woman's body, fat settles on the boobs and nowhere else.

Slim women with big boobs is a media and porn creation. And then it's often augmented busts, not natural. It's mainly fantasy, not reality.

Cocks, not being mainly fat, are not the same.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Actually these size threads piss me off at times,by all means show your preference,but don't get your digs in about another size or shape.

I detest these size threads ALL the time. They always end up with people being criticised in order to flatter others.

Lard arse v. Bag of bones syndrome.

We all have preferences but why these constant comparisons and which is better threads?"

Yep they all turn ugly eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually these size threads piss me off at times,by all means show your preference,but don't get your digs in about another size or shape.

I'm not having a dig at other shapes or sizes. Just remarking my observations.

What do you think would have happened if a single guy had started a thread;

"Is it me or are there loads of fat (opposite of skinny) women on here with massive tits, my preference is for skinny women with big tits, do they not exist"?

??? Torn to shreds....

There is a biological reason fat women have big tits. There is no biological reason for thinner men to have bigger penises.

Unless u know of one???

Ur very touchy about it. Is it ur size or ur penis that is your issue?"

Its the duplicity of the forum. I am a little touchy about my weight (I think quite a lot of bigger people are and as I state, if I had posted the opposite to your thread, I would have been torn to shred). As for the size of my manhood, its no biggie, I grant you that, but its okay.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Actually these size threads piss me off at times,by all means show your preference,but don't get your digs in about another size or shape.

I'm not having a dig at other shapes or sizes. Just remarking my observations.

What do you think would have happened if a single guy had started a thread;

"Is it me or are there loads of fat (opposite of skinny) women on here with massive tits, my preference is for skinny women with big tits, do they not exist"?

??? Torn to shreds...."

and cries of its only men that start this type of thread

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Actually these size threads piss me off at times,by all means show your preference,but don't get your digs in about another size or shape.

I'm not having a dig at other shapes or sizes. Just remarking my observations.

What do you think would have happened if a single guy had started a thread;

"Is it me or are there loads of fat (opposite of skinny) women on here with massive tits, my preference is for skinny women with big tits, do they not exist"?

??? Torn to shreds....

There is a biological reason fat women have big tits. There is no biological reason for thinner men to have bigger penises.

Unless u know of one???

Ur very touchy about it. Is it ur size or ur penis that is your issue?"

To be fair, there really is no need for this thread. It's very judgemental.

Guys have what they have when it comes to penises. Criticising size/shape or cut/uncut is always going to bother people.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Actually these size threads piss me off at times,by all means show your preference,but don't get your digs in about another size or shape.

I'm not having a dig at other shapes or sizes. Just remarking my observations.

What do you think would have happened if a single guy had started a thread;

"Is it me or are there loads of fat (opposite of skinny) women on here with massive tits, my preference is for skinny women with big tits, do they not exist"?

??? Torn to shreds...."

I agree it's no different

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Actually these size threads piss me off at times,by all means show your preference,but don't get your digs in about another size or shape.

I'm not having a dig at other shapes or sizes. Just remarking my observations.

What do you think would have happened if a single guy had started a thread;

"Is it me or are there loads of fat (opposite of skinny) women on here with massive tits, my preference is for skinny women with big tits, do they not exist"?

??? Torn to shreds....and cries of its only men that start this type of thread"

It usually is.

I wish nobody bloody started them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does there seen to be a disproportionate amount of thin men with massive cocks on here.

My preference is big bears of men and I haven't seen a we or vwe on here yet."

oh my gord you may not live another day

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Actually these size threads piss me off at times,by all means show your preference,but don't get your digs in about another size or shape.

I'm not having a dig at other shapes or sizes. Just remarking my observations."

You're actually being very rude. Way to give people insecurities over something they can't change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen 'skinny' girls with big tits before. I don't think they liked me staring at them lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Fortunately I think the OP is the exception rather than the rule.

There are plenty of us who don't care about cock size or prefer average.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"It's isn't meant as dig. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences but a well hung bear doesn't seem to exist.

True, theres a massive amount of larger ladies with huge tits too, Cant seem to find many slim ladies with massive tites "

Slim ladies with big tits are hard to find as they keep falling over

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I've seen 'skinny' girls with big tits before. I don't think they liked me staring at them lol"

Well duh, humans come in a variety of shapes and sizes. They are not the norm though, and some of them were probably enhanced anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know of one OP and he often comments on the forums. I don't think he advertises his huge penis.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It's isn't meant as dig. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences but a well hung bear doesn't seem to exist.

True, theres a massive amount of larger ladies with huge tits too, Cant seem to find many slim ladies with massive tites

Slim ladies with big tits are hard to find as they keep falling over "

They need big feet.

Unfortunately, as we were told on here not long ago, big feet are ugly, which cancels out the attractiveness of being slim with big boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does there seen to be a disproportionate amount of thin men with massive cocks on here.

My preference is big bears of men and I haven't seen a we or vwe on here yet."

I cant see a problem stating her preference and pointing out the lack of "big bears" who have big cocks, Or her not seeing many on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen 'skinny' girls with big tits before. I don't think they liked me staring at them lol

Well duh, humans come in a variety of shapes and sizes. They are not the norm though, and some of them were probably enhanced anyway."

Go to China or Japan, there are many slim/petite women with larger breasts, yes many larger ladies have larger breasts due to the displacement of fat tissue around the body.

I have an 8.5" penis (whoa look at me), that means all the sausage rolls are obviously going to my cock.....

sheesh

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"It's isn't meant as dig. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences but a well hung bear doesn't seem to exist.

True, theres a massive amount of larger ladies with huge tits too, Cant seem to find many slim ladies with massive tites "

A naturally small built female very rarely has big tits! Was this not covered off in biology class?

Hence why I will never be bigger than a B cup unless I put on a lot of weight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen 'skinny' girls with big tits before. I don't think they liked me staring at them lol

Well duh, humans come in a variety of shapes and sizes. They are not the norm though, and some of them were probably enhanced anyway."

Or just push up bras lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Or does there seen to be a disproportionate amount of thin men with massive cocks on here.

My preference is big bears of men and I haven't seen a we or vwe on here yet.

I cant see a problem stating her preference and pointing out the lack of "big bears" who have big cocks, Or her not seeing many on here

"

You can't?

You don't think constant comparisons and which is best threads can harm self esteem and feed insecurities?

Eating disorders amongst men are increasing. The rate of cosmetic surgery amongst men is increasing. Neither of those is a good thing and it's down to pressure on men to look a certain way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does there seen to be a disproportionate amount of thin men with massive cocks on here.

My preference is big bears of men and I haven't seen a we or vwe on here yet.

I cant see a problem stating her preference and pointing out the lack of "big bears" who have big cocks, Or her not seeing many on here

"

Aren't "bears" a gay thing? Lmao

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I've seen 'skinny' girls with big tits before. I don't think they liked me staring at them lol

Well duh, humans come in a variety of shapes and sizes. They are not the norm though, and some of them were probably enhanced anyway.

Go to China or Japan, there are many slim/petite women with larger breasts, yes many larger ladies have larger breasts due to the displacement of fat tissue around the body.

I have an 8.5" penis (whoa look at me), that means all the sausage rolls are obviously going to my cock.....

sheesh"

Who suggested cock size is related to body fat? Except you I mean.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Or does there seen to be a disproportionate amount of thin men with massive cocks on here.

My preference is big bears of men and I haven't seen a we or vwe on here yet.

I cant see a problem stating her preference and pointing out the lack of "big bears" who have big cocks, Or her not seeing many on here

"

There is no problem in stating a preference,but saying there is a disproportionate amount of thin guys doesn't need to be voiced does it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have had many thin fat short tall vwe we and micro penis lovers.

My statement was about the disproportionate amount of well hung thin guys on fab. Having had many men of many sizes away from fab I know that this is not how it works in rl. Maybe they are more likely to be swingers.

Would it equally offensive to say that there is a disproportionate amount of men to women on fab. Or older people to younger people. Or more white people than Chinese for example?

My own preference matters nothing to the discussion just added for context.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

why is the rate of cosmetic surgery increasing a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen 'skinny' girls with big tits before. I don't think they liked me staring at them lol

Well duh, humans come in a variety of shapes and sizes. They are not the norm though, and some of them were probably enhanced anyway.

Go to China or Japan, there are many slim/petite women with larger breasts, yes many larger ladies have larger breasts due to the displacement of fat tissue around the body.

I have an 8.5" penis (whoa look at me), that means all the sausage rolls are obviously going to my cock.....

sheesh

Who suggested cock size is related to body fat? Except you I mean. "

Maybe they are all skinny cos they have massive cocks so they are always on demand shagging. So they have no time to eat. (from the OP)

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

You know guys, the OP isn't representative of women's _iews in general. Why start tit for tat digs at women because one person has been bloody insensitive?

Most of us aren't like that so as guys often say, please don't tar us all with the same brush.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or does there seen to be a disproportionate amount of thin men with massive cocks on here.

My preference is big bears of men and I haven't seen a we or vwe on here yet.

I cant see a problem stating her preference and pointing out the lack of "big bears" who have big cocks, Or her not seeing many on here

There is no problem in stating a preference,but saying there is a disproportionate amount of thin guys doesn't need to be voiced does it"

It isn't thin guys. It was well hung thin guys. I have no issue with thin men fat men old men young men.

I certainly don't take offense at fat girl posts here. U can spend a lot of time on these forums being offended and outraged if u go looking for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously?

Okay

theres nothing wrong with your thread/post OP

Sorry for not being the type you like, I hope you have success in the future.

Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does there seen to be a disproportionate amount of thin men with massive cocks on here.

My preference is big bears of men and I haven't seen a we or vwe on here yet."

The fatter you are the less cock there is left! So for example a guy could have an 8 inch cock but 2 inches of fat around his belly so only 6inches on show. Thin guys have no fat so you can see 100% of there cock.

Plus it's quite common for women to assume that big men must have big cocks and that's just not the case.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Maybe they are all skinny cos they have massive cocks so they are always on demand shagging. So they have no time to eat. (from the OP)"

That was meant with humour. U were too busy being offended by the fact u thought I had called u thin and not in shape. When in fact I hadn't mentioned u at all.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I've seen 'skinny' girls with big tits before. I don't think they liked me staring at them lol

Well duh, humans come in a variety of shapes and sizes. They are not the norm though, and some of them were probably enhanced anyway.

Go to China or Japan, there are many slim/petite women with larger breasts, yes many larger ladies have larger breasts due to the displacement of fat tissue around the body.

I have an 8.5" penis (whoa look at me), that means all the sausage rolls are obviously going to my cock.....

sheesh

Who suggested cock size is related to body fat? Except you I mean.

Maybe they are all skinny cos they have massive cocks so they are always on demand shagging. So they have no time to eat. (from the OP)"

Stupid comment, I agree but it's not quite the same as suggesting you have a big cock because all the fat goes there.

If you've got a problem with the OP, take it up with the person who posted it. Please don't take it out on women in general. I have a problem with the thread too. I think it's insensitive and unnecessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does there seen to be a disproportionate amount of thin men with massive cocks on here.

My preference is big bears of men and I haven't seen a we or vwe on here yet.

I cant see a problem stating her preference and pointing out the lack of "big bears" who have big cocks, Or her not seeing many on here

You can't?

You don't think constant comparisons and which is best threads can harm self esteem and feed insecurities?

Eating disorders amongst men are increasing. The rate of cosmetic surgery amongst men is increasing. Neither of those is a good thing and it's down to pressure on men to look a certain way."

There probably is more Men who are thinner/slim with massive cocks on here,

Her preference is for lager Men and she said she hasn't seen a many on here,

No, I cant see the problem in stating that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You know guys, the OP isn't representative of women's _iews in general. Why start tit for tat digs at women because one person has been bloody insensitive?

Most of us aren't like that so as guys often say, please don't tar us all with the same brush.

"

I didn't know u had been made spokesperson of all womankind. I must have missed that.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


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Maybe they are all skinny cos they have massive cocks so they are always on demand shagging. So they have no time to eat. (from the OP)

That was meant with humour. U were too busy being offended by the fact u thought I had called u thin and not in shape. When in fact I hadn't mentioned u at all. "

You did suggest what he said, that thin men aren't in shape.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Or does there seen to be a disproportionate amount of thin men with massive cocks on here.

My preference is big bears of men and I haven't seen a we or vwe on here yet.

I cant see a problem stating her preference and pointing out the lack of "big bears" who have big cocks, Or her not seeing many on here

You can't?

You don't think constant comparisons and which is best threads can harm self esteem and feed insecurities?

Eating disorders amongst men are increasing. The rate of cosmetic surgery amongst men is increasing. Neither of those is a good thing and it's down to pressure on men to look a certain way.

There probably is more Men who are thinner/slim with massive cocks on here,

Her preference is for lager Men and she said she hasn't seen a many on here,

No, I cant see the problem in stating that

"

Jolly good. I can.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I like all sausage sizes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Maybe they are all skinny cos they have massive cocks so they are always on demand shagging. So they have no time to eat. (from the OP)

That was meant with humour. U were too busy being offended by the fact u thought I had called u thin and not in shape. When in fact I hadn't mentioned u at all.

You did suggest what he said, that thin men aren't in shape."

Mo Farah called, he has Prince Nazeem round his house and they are a little confused....

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"You know guys, the OP isn't representative of women's _iews in general. Why start tit for tat digs at women because one person has been bloody insensitive?

Most of us aren't like that so as guys often say, please don't tar us all with the same brush.

I didn't know u had been made spokesperson of all womankind. I must have missed that. "

So you think most agree with you?

I posted links to the ten most recent 'does size matter?' threads recently. Go read them and you'll find more women say they don't care or prefer average.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Maybe they are all skinny cos they have massive cocks so they are always on demand shagging. So they have no time to eat. (from the OP)

That was meant with humour. U were too busy being offended by the fact u thought I had called u thin and not in shape. When in fact I hadn't mentioned u at all.

You did suggest what he said, that thin men aren't in shape."

I didn't say all thin men. Sheesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange as whenever I'm up in Glasgow, I often receive messages from larger men that seem decently endowed.

Is your search broad enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Maybe they are all skinny cos they have massive cocks so they are always on demand shagging. So they have no time to eat. (from the OP)

That was meant with humour. U were too busy being offended by the fact u thought I had called u thin and not in shape. When in fact I hadn't mentioned u at all.

You did suggest what he said, that thin men aren't in shape.

I didn't say all thin men. Sheesh

"

"No not men in shape. Thin men." - That wasnt you then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You know guys, the OP isn't representative of women's _iews in general. Why start tit for tat digs at women because one person has been bloody insensitive?

Most of us aren't like that so as guys often say, please don't tar us all with the same brush.

I didn't know u had been made spokesperson of all womankind. I must have missed that.

So you think most agree with you?

I posted links to the ten most recent 'does size matter?' threads recently. Go read them and you'll find more women say they don't care or prefer average."

You are missing the complete point . The question would not does size matter??????????

The question was ..... is there a disproportionate amount of thin well hung men on fab.

Completely different questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that some skinny men on fab think there is a disproportionate amount of fat women on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that some skinny men on fab think there is a disproportionate amount of fat women on here.

"

I know one skinny man that thinks that there are quite a few hypocritical, narrow minded and insensitive women on here

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

Maybe they are all skinny cos they have massive cocks so they are always on demand shagging. So they have no time to eat. (from the OP)

That was meant with humour. U were too busy being offended by the fact u thought I had called u thin and not in shape. When in fact I hadn't mentioned u at all.

You did suggest what he said, that thin men aren't in shape.

I didn't say all thin men. Sheesh

"

WTF?

You said "No not men in shape. Thin men."

That means they are different. And it certainly doesn't say some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men seem to get more vocally upset when they're not fancied by someone on here, don't they?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It seems no one is a winner on fab, you can be too fat, too thin, too hairy, too tall, too short, too little a sausage, too big a sausage and we are meant to the the non judgemental kind because we are swingers...god forbid mr jo public came on here and said all swingers are slags and dirty there would be uproar.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men seem to get more vocally upset when they're not fancied by someone on here, don't they? "

You are right, I am devastated....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that some skinny men on fab think there is a disproportionate amount of fat women on here.

I know one skinny man that thinks that there are quite a few hypocritical, narrow minded and insensitive women on here"

I think a number of other skinny men would be inclined to agree.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Christ I hate these judgemental, body shaming, critical, 'which is better' threads. As if we don't have enough pressure in life to be/act/look/live a certain way. This place is supposed to be the escape from that.

You'd think for all the years we've bloody lived, we could find more to talk about than if slim is better than fat, which sized cock is best and who has the biggest tits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems no one is a winner on fab, you can be too fat, too thin, too hairy, too tall, too short, too little a sausage, too big a sausage and we are meant to the the non judgemental kind because we are swingers...god forbid mr jo public came on here and said all swingers are slags and dirty there would be uproar....."
You're all degenerates who need Jesus

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Love a slim man

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"It seems no one is a winner on fab, you can be too fat, too thin, too hairy, too tall, too short, too little a sausage, too big a sausage and we are meant to the the non judgemental kind because we are swingers...god forbid mr jo public came on here and said all swingers are slags and dirty there would be uproar..... You're all degenerates who need Jesus "

I don't need Jesus I need vodka

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that some skinny men on fab think there is a disproportionate amount of fat women on here.

I know one skinny man that thinks that there are quite a few hypocritical, narrow minded and insensitive women on here

I think a number of other skinny men would be inclined to agree.

"

They should create a filter, so that people can filter out anyone with skinny/slim as their size, I wouldn't want to offend anyone with them having to accidentally discover me in a search

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Men seem to get more vocally upset when they're not fancied by someone on here, don't they? "

Er no, women get pretty uppity about their looks and bodies being criticised too.

I don't see the need for either. State your preferences on your profile. The forum is supposed to be fun, not for being critical of how people look.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

** cough** why is the increase in cosmetic surgery a bad thing ** cough **

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It seems no one is a winner on fab, you can be too fat, too thin, too hairy, too tall, too short, too little a sausage, too big a sausage and we are meant to the the non judgemental kind because we are swingers...god forbid mr jo public came on here and said all swingers are slags and dirty there would be uproar..... You're all degenerates who need Jesus

I don't need Jesus I need vodka "

Right now so do I. A bloody large one, (no pun intended).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Christ I hate these judgemental, body shaming, critical, 'which is better' threads. As if we don't have enough pressure in life to be/act/look/live a certain way. This place is supposed to be the escape from that.

You'd think for all the years we've bloody lived, we could find more to talk about than if slim is better than fat, which sized cock is best and who has the biggest tits."

You had a go at me for being "skinny" and told me I wouldn't understand just how hard it is being "fat" and negated my comments due to my size a couple of years ago. It goes both ways.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"** cough** why is the increase in cosmetic surgery a bad thing ** cough **"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"** cough** why is the increase in cosmetic surgery a bad thing ** cough **"

Because it uses plastic, which is a bi-product of the petrochemical industry. Think of the next generation man.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I like all sausage sizes "

I like a sausage but it's been a while I have forgotten what one is

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Christ I hate these judgemental, body shaming, critical, 'which is better' threads. As if we don't have enough pressure in life to be/act/look/live a certain way. This place is supposed to be the escape from that.

You'd think for all the years we've bloody lived, we could find more to talk about than if slim is better than fat, which sized cock is best and who has the biggest tits.

You had a go at me for being "skinny" and told me I wouldn't understand just how hard it is being "fat" and negated my comments due to my size a couple of years ago. It goes both ways. "

I think that's highly unlikely.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It seems no one is a winner on fab, you can be too fat, too thin, too hairy, too tall, too short, too little a sausage, too big a sausage and we are meant to the the non judgemental kind because we are swingers...god forbid mr jo public came on here and said all swingers are slags and dirty there would be uproar....."

Joe Public? Half the time we're calling each other slags and dirty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Christ I hate these judgemental, body shaming, critical, 'which is better' threads. As if we don't have enough pressure in life to be/act/look/live a certain way. This place is supposed to be the escape from that.

You'd think for all the years we've bloody lived, we could find more to talk about than if slim is better than fat, which sized cock is best and who has the biggest tits.

You had a go at me for being "skinny" and told me I wouldn't understand just how hard it is being "fat" and negated my comments due to my size a couple of years ago. It goes both ways.

I think that's highly unlikely."

Then you've a poor memory. I said Whitney Thore is a bad role model due to her saying 27 stone is healthy and not wanting to lose weight, and you said I couldn't possibly understand the difficulties larger people face as I was "skinny". I'm not skinny btw, I'm just average, and that was a mean comment.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"** cough** why is the increase in cosmetic surgery a bad thing ** cough **

"

so you wouldn't have surgery to get rid of excessive skin following weight loss, I thought I read you wouldn't be able to afford it, not that you wouldn't do it because it's wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem with beer bellies is that they make your cock look disproportionately small

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does there seen to be a disproportionate amount of thin men with massive cocks on here.

My preference is big bears of men and I haven't seen a we or vwe on here yet."

Shame I'm not a big lad or a bear. Lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Christ I hate these judgemental, body shaming, critical, 'which is better' threads. As if we don't have enough pressure in life to be/act/look/live a certain way. This place is supposed to be the escape from that.

You'd think for all the years we've bloody lived, we could find more to talk about than if slim is better than fat, which sized cock is best and who has the biggest tits.

You had a go at me for being "skinny" and told me I wouldn't understand just how hard it is being "fat" and negated my comments due to my size a couple of years ago. It goes both ways.

I think that's highly unlikely.

Then you've a poor memory. I said Whitney Thore is a bad role model due to her saying 27 stone is healthy and not wanting to lose weight, and you said I couldn't possibly understand the difficulties larger people face as I was "skinny". I'm not skinny btw, I'm just average, and that was a mean comment. "

I haven't a clue who you are or who Whitney Thore is.

I've been on and off here over the last few years with some extended absences due to family circumstances. I'm not even sure I was active on here "a couple of years ago".

But if I did say that, I usually try to be more sensitive when choosing words like that and I apologise.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Men seem to get more vocally upset when they're not fancied by someone on here, don't they? "

Not any more than women no

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Anyone just want a shag?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Anyone just want a shag? "

again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone just want a shag? "
Yeah y not as you ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone just want a shag? "

Ain't you had one yet?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"** cough** why is the increase in cosmetic surgery a bad thing ** cough **

so you wouldn't have surgery to get rid of excessive skin following weight loss, I thought I read you wouldn't be able to afford it, not that you wouldn't do it because it's wrong"

I think what's wrong is that people feel the need to do it due to insecurity from the pressure on them to be a certain way. That's why an increase is bad. It's coming from insecurity and emotional distress.

Women have had ridiculous pressure to look a certain way for a very long time. Now we're reaching a more equal state by men feeling the same pressure and insecurities. That's not moving in the right direction towards equality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Christ I hate these judgemental, body shaming, critical, 'which is better' threads. As if we don't have enough pressure in life to be/act/look/live a certain way. This place is supposed to be the escape from that.

You'd think for all the years we've bloody lived, we could find more to talk about than if slim is better than fat, which sized cock is best and who has the biggest tits.

You had a go at me for being "skinny" and told me I wouldn't understand just how hard it is being "fat" and negated my comments due to my size a couple of years ago. It goes both ways.

I think that's highly unlikely.

Then you've a poor memory. I said Whitney Thore is a bad role model due to her saying 27 stone is healthy and not wanting to lose weight, and you said I couldn't possibly understand the difficulties larger people face as I was "skinny". I'm not skinny btw, I'm just average, and that was a mean comment.

I haven't a clue who you are or who Whitney Thore is.

I've been on and off here over the last few years with some extended absences due to family circumstances. I'm not even sure I was active on here "a couple of years ago".

But if I did say that, I usually try to be more sensitive when choosing words like that and I apologise."

Well, I'm not lying. My profile is new, Whitney Thore is "Fat Girl Dancing" who you considered inspirational at the time.

And thank you for your apology.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Anyone just want a shag? "

I just want the vodka.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Anyone just want a shag?

again"

Isn't that why we are in fab?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Christ I hate these judgemental, body shaming, critical, 'which is better' threads. As if we don't have enough pressure in life to be/act/look/live a certain way. This place is supposed to be the escape from that.

You'd think for all the years we've bloody lived, we could find more to talk about than if slim is better than fat, which sized cock is best and who has the biggest tits.

You had a go at me for being "skinny" and told me I wouldn't understand just how hard it is being "fat" and negated my comments due to my size a couple of years ago. It goes both ways.

I think that's highly unlikely.

Then you've a poor memory. I said Whitney Thore is a bad role model due to her saying 27 stone is healthy and not wanting to lose weight, and you said I couldn't possibly understand the difficulties larger people face as I was "skinny". I'm not skinny btw, I'm just average, and that was a mean comment.

I haven't a clue who you are or who Whitney Thore is.

I've been on and off here over the last few years with some extended absences due to family circumstances. I'm not even sure I was active on here "a couple of years ago".

But if I did say that, I usually try to be more sensitive when choosing words like that and I apologise.

Well, I'm not lying. My profile is new, Whitney Thore is "Fat Girl Dancing" who you considered inspirational at the time.

And thank you for your apology. "

I'm not convinced. I know who Whitney is now but I've never seen her show. I support her for doing what she believes in and not letting her size stop her but inspirational doesn't sound like me.

If I called you skinny it was because I was feeling attacked. I rarely lash out with no provocation at all.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"** cough** why is the increase in cosmetic surgery a bad thing ** cough **

so you wouldn't have surgery to get rid of excessive skin following weight loss, I thought I read you wouldn't be able to afford it, not that you wouldn't do it because it's wrong

I think what's wrong is that people feel the need to do it due to insecurity from the pressure on them to be a certain way. That's why an increase is bad. It's coming from insecurity and emotional distress.

Women have had ridiculous pressure to look a certain way for a very long time. Now we're reaching a more equal state by men feeling the same pressure and insecurities. That's not moving in the right direction towards equality."

that will be a percentage granted, the rest just wanting to improve a part of themselves that has haunted them for years and by changing it, gives them a huge psychological boost...

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Anyone just want a shag?

again

Isn't that why we are in fab? "

No, I'm here for the feeling of harmonious love and respect that we all have for each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does there seen to be a disproportionate amount of thin men with massive cocks on here.

My preference is big bears of men and I haven't seen a we or vwe on here yet."

we're skinny so everything looks bigger lol.... trade secret out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone just want a shag?

again

Isn't that why we are in fab? "

I'm here to find out who stole my pogo stick

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"** cough** why is the increase in cosmetic surgery a bad thing ** cough **

so you wouldn't have surgery to get rid of excessive skin following weight loss, I thought I read you wouldn't be able to afford it, not that you wouldn't do it because it's wrong

I think what's wrong is that people feel the need to do it due to insecurity from the pressure on them to be a certain way. That's why an increase is bad. It's coming from insecurity and emotional distress.

Women have had ridiculous pressure to look a certain way for a very long time. Now we're reaching a more equal state by men feeling the same pressure and insecurities. That's not moving in the right direction towards equality.

that will be a percentage granted, the rest just wanting to improve a part of themselves that has haunted them for years and by changing it, gives them a huge psychological boost... "

They shouldn't feel the need to "improve" part of themselves. Who says it's an "improvement", (and I'm talking purely about cosmetic surgery here, like fake abs and pec implants - vanity mods)?

That people feel that way and are feeling that way more and more, and more and more severely, is a bad thing.

Young children increasingly believe they're fat and want to diet now. It's insane.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"** cough** why is the increase in cosmetic surgery a bad thing ** cough **

so you wouldn't have surgery to get rid of excessive skin following weight loss, I thought I read you wouldn't be able to afford it, not that you wouldn't do it because it's wrong

I think what's wrong is that people feel the need to do it due to insecurity from the pressure on them to be a certain way. That's why an increase is bad. It's coming from insecurity and emotional distress.

Women have had ridiculous pressure to look a certain way for a very long time. Now we're reaching a more equal state by men feeling the same pressure and insecurities. That's not moving in the right direction towards equality.

that will be a percentage granted, the rest just wanting to improve a part of themselves that has haunted them for years and by changing it, gives them a huge psychological boost...

They shouldn't feel the need to "improve" part of themselves. Who says it's an "improvement", (and I'm talking purely about cosmetic surgery here, like fake abs and pec implants - vanity mods)?

That people feel that way and are feeling that way more and more, and more and more severely, is a bad thing.

Young children increasingly believe they're fat and want to diet now. It's insane."

sure the people taking it to excess, a concern

the people tweaking as they see fit, not an issue at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried being fat. I just look like "Mr thin" after he grew a belly. I wish i could put weight onto my shoulders and arms like you women can. Oh how i look upon your bingo wings through envious eyes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently. Paddington is fucking massive. Maybe it's the marmalade.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"** cough** why is the increase in cosmetic surgery a bad thing ** cough **

so you wouldn't have surgery to get rid of excessive skin following weight loss, I thought I read you wouldn't be able to afford it, not that you wouldn't do it because it's wrong

I think what's wrong is that people feel the need to do it due to insecurity from the pressure on them to be a certain way. That's why an increase is bad. It's coming from insecurity and emotional distress.

Women have had ridiculous pressure to look a certain way for a very long time. Now we're reaching a more equal state by men feeling the same pressure and insecurities. That's not moving in the right direction towards equality.

that will be a percentage granted, the rest just wanting to improve a part of themselves that has haunted them for years and by changing it, gives them a huge psychological boost...

They shouldn't feel the need to "improve" part of themselves. Who says it's an "improvement", (and I'm talking purely about cosmetic surgery here, like fake abs and pec implants - vanity mods)?

That people feel that way and are feeling that way more and more, and more and more severely, is a bad thing.

Young children increasingly believe they're fat and want to diet now. It's insane.

sure the people taking it to excess, a concern

the people tweaking as they see fit, not an issue at all.

"

I don't agree. If it's done purely for vanity due to insecurity, it's not a good thing.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Ok, the only thread on Whitney I can find is this one

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/356061

I didn't use the word skinny, I exclusively used the word slim.

I can't find any other threads on the subject and if, as I usually do, I used slim on that one, I have no reason to believe I'd say skinny on another thread.

I don't tend to use the word skinny because I think it's as rude as lardarse.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"** cough** why is the increase in cosmetic surgery a bad thing ** cough **

so you wouldn't have surgery to get rid of excessive skin following weight loss, I thought I read you wouldn't be able to afford it, not that you wouldn't do it because it's wrong

I think what's wrong is that people feel the need to do it due to insecurity from the pressure on them to be a certain way. That's why an increase is bad. It's coming from insecurity and emotional distress.

Women have had ridiculous pressure to look a certain way for a very long time. Now we're reaching a more equal state by men feeling the same pressure and insecurities. That's not moving in the right direction towards equality.

that will be a percentage granted, the rest just wanting to improve a part of themselves that has haunted them for years and by changing it, gives them a huge psychological boost...

They shouldn't feel the need to "improve" part of themselves. Who says it's an "improvement", (and I'm talking purely about cosmetic surgery here, like fake abs and pec implants - vanity mods)?

That people feel that way and are feeling that way more and more, and more and more severely, is a bad thing.

Young children increasingly believe they're fat and want to diet now. It's insane.

sure the people taking it to excess, a concern

the people tweaking as they see fit, not an issue at all.

I don't agree. If it's done purely for vanity due to insecurity, it's not a good thing."

cool, for you it's not a good thing

for others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit to being very surprised by at least 3 skinny men from here when they de-robed. I was like this then this then this once it was in and I was used to it.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I must admit to being very surprised by at least 3 skinny men from here when they de-robed. I was like this then this then this once it was in and I was used to it. "

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"** cough** why is the increase in cosmetic surgery a bad thing ** cough **

so you wouldn't have surgery to get rid of excessive skin following weight loss, I thought I read you wouldn't be able to afford it, not that you wouldn't do it because it's wrong

I think what's wrong is that people feel the need to do it due to insecurity from the pressure on them to be a certain way. That's why an increase is bad. It's coming from insecurity and emotional distress.

Women have had ridiculous pressure to look a certain way for a very long time. Now we're reaching a more equal state by men feeling the same pressure and insecurities. That's not moving in the right direction towards equality.

that will be a percentage granted, the rest just wanting to improve a part of themselves that has haunted them for years and by changing it, gives them a huge psychological boost...

They shouldn't feel the need to "improve" part of themselves. Who says it's an "improvement", (and I'm talking purely about cosmetic surgery here, like fake abs and pec implants - vanity mods)?

That people feel that way and are feeling that way more and more, and more and more severely, is a bad thing.

Young children increasingly believe they're fat and want to diet now. It's insane.

sure the people taking it to excess, a concern

the people tweaking as they see fit, not an issue at all.

I don't agree. If it's done purely for vanity due to insecurity, it's not a good thing.

cool, for you it's not a good thing

for others "

I think you and I must see the world very differently and our experiences and what we see are poles apart.

Maybe you don't see the increase in self-esteem problems and body image problems in men and children. I can't believe you'd be so blasé about it if you realised the scale of the increases.

Surely anything that causes eating disorders, self harm and body dysmorphia is bad. I can't see how it could possibly be good. And all of those are on the rise amongst men.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Apparently. Paddington is fucking massive. Maybe it's the marmalade. "

It's the combination of white bread and butter mountain..... He gets bloat

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"It's isn't meant as dig. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences but a well hung bear doesn't seem to exist.

I have one and I share"

So do I and I share too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"** cough** why is the increase in cosmetic surgery a bad thing ** cough **

so you wouldn't have surgery to get rid of excessive skin following weight loss, I thought I read you wouldn't be able to afford it, not that you wouldn't do it because it's wrong

I think what's wrong is that people feel the need to do it due to insecurity from the pressure on them to be a certain way. That's why an increase is bad. It's coming from insecurity and emotional distress.

Women have had ridiculous pressure to look a certain way for a very long time. Now we're reaching a more equal state by men feeling the same pressure and insecurities. That's not moving in the right direction towards equality.

that will be a percentage granted, the rest just wanting to improve a part of themselves that has haunted them for years and by changing it, gives them a huge psychological boost...

They shouldn't feel the need to "improve" part of themselves. Who says it's an "improvement", (and I'm talking purely about cosmetic surgery here, like fake abs and pec implants - vanity mods)?

That people feel that way and are feeling that way more and more, and more and more severely, is a bad thing.

Young children increasingly believe they're fat and want to diet now. It's insane.

sure the people taking it to excess, a concern

the people tweaking as they see fit, not an issue at all.

I don't agree. If it's done purely for vanity due to insecurity, it's not a good thing.

cool, for you it's not a good thing

for others

I think you and I must see the world very differently and our experiences and what we see are poles apart.

Maybe you don't see the increase in self-esteem problems and body image problems in men and children. I can't believe you'd be so blasé about it if you realised the scale of the increases.

Surely anything that causes eating disorders, self harm and body dysmorphia is bad. I can't see how it could possibly be good. And all of those are on the rise amongst men."

I blame the welfare state and rich living. The sooner we're back to a no nonsense 1950's style society the better.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"

I think you and I must see the world very differently and our experiences and what we see are poles apart.

."

of course we do.

I see it through positive eyes based on how I feel about myself, the positive approaches that people take to change their bodies to be happier and live a more fulfilled life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's isn't meant as dig. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences but a well hung bear doesn't seem to exist.

I have one and I share

So do I and I share too lol "

Lots on fabguys...

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Anyone just want a shag?

Ain't you had one yet? "

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

I think you and I must see the world very differently and our experiences and what we see are poles apart.

.

of course we do.

I see it through positive eyes based on how I feel about myself, the positive approaches that people take to change their bodies to be happier and live a more fulfilled life.

"

That's not what I meant as well you know.

We live different lives, we see different things.

Now either you don't see/believe that eating disorders, self harm and body dysmorphia are on the increase in men, or you think it's a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's isn't meant as dig. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences but a well hung bear doesn't seem to exist.

True, theres a massive amount of larger ladies with huge tits too, Cant seem to find many slim ladies with massive tites "

Ahem, quite slim with slightly big boobs!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"

I think you and I must see the world very differently and our experiences and what we see are poles apart.

.

of course we do.

I see it through positive eyes based on how I feel about myself, the positive approaches that people take to change their bodies to be happier and live a more fulfilled life.

That's not what I meant as well you know.

We live different lives, we see different things.

Now either you don't see/believe that eating disorders, self harm and body dysmorphia are on the increase in men, or you think it's a good thing."

No it's not. I see life differently from you. I see life positively, I see life from having the willpower to change it when I was unhappy with me. No one else, ME. I applaud people for their weightless, or other changes that they make to themselves and if they want to use cosmetic surgery to support/help that, good on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Sausage removed by poster at 03/04/16 18:44:49]"

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

I think you and I must see the world very differently and our experiences and what we see are poles apart.

.

of course we do.

I see it through positive eyes based on how I feel about myself, the positive approaches that people take to change their bodies to be happier and live a more fulfilled life.

That's not what I meant as well you know.

We live different lives, we see different things.

Now either you don't see/believe that eating disorders, self harm and body dysmorphia are on the increase in men, or you think it's a good thing.

No it's not. I see life differently from you. I see life positively, I see life from having the willpower to change it when I was unhappy with me. No one else, ME. I applaud people for their weightless, or other changes that they make to themselves and if they want to use cosmetic surgery to support/help that, good on them

"

That's avoiding the question. I asked about eating disorders, self harm and body dysmorphia. You see any positives in those?

They are increasing amongst men for the same reason vanity cosmetic surgery is.

You keep saying cosmetic surgery is good and people should be able to improve themselves. You didn't answer who decides it's an "improvement" but still, I've not said cosmetic surgery is a bad thing.

What I said is that the underlying reason it is happening is a bad thing. People feeling they need to have surgery, which always carries health risks, including disfigurement, infection and death, to "enhance" their abs, pecs, chin etc.

It's not good that people are increasingly feeling there is something wrong with their abs, pecs, chin etc

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't see any positives in the conditions you describe, ridiculous to suggest I do.

Do I see cosmetic surgery as vanity, some, not all. Is that a bad thing no.

I applaud people who change their mindset. People who take enjoyment in being in the Top Fabbed pics, some may say vanity. If it makes them feel good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think you and I must see the world very differently and our experiences and what we see are poles apart.

.

of course we do.

I see it through positive eyes based on how I feel about myself, the positive approaches that people take to change their bodies to be happier and live a more fulfilled life.

That's not what I meant as well you know.

We live different lives, we see different things.

Now either you don't see/believe that eating disorders, self harm and body dysmorphia are on the increase in men, or you think it's a good thing.

No it's not. I see life differently from you. I see life positively, I see life from having the willpower to change it when I was unhappy with me. No one else, ME. I applaud people for their weightless, or other changes that they make to themselves and if they want to use cosmetic surgery to support/help that, good on them

That's avoiding the question. I asked about eating disorders, self harm and body dysmorphia. You see any positives in those?

They are increasing amongst men for the same reason vanity cosmetic surgery is.

You keep saying cosmetic surgery is good and people should be able to improve themselves. You didn't answer who decides it's an "improvement" but still, I've not said cosmetic surgery is a bad thing.

What I said is that the underlying reason it is happening is a bad thing. People feeling they need to have surgery, which always carries health risks, including disfigurement, infection and death, to "enhance" their abs, pecs, chin etc.

It's not good that people are increasingly feeling there is something wrong with their abs, pecs, chin etc"

100% Agree

But I still don't see what a lot of what's been said on the thread has anything to do with the op,

But that's just my opinion as everyone else has one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does there seen to be a disproportionate amount of thin men with massive cocks on here.

My preference is big bears of men and I haven't seen a we or vwe on here yet."

Do a reverse search on many of them and you will see why lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send em my way, I like thin men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send em my way, I like thin men "

8 simple words that just annihilate us chubbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send em my way, I like thin men

8 simple words that just annihilate us chubbies

"

Pssst...I also like chubby men. But we tend to bounce off each other in a comedy fashion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send em my way, I like thin men

8 simple words that just annihilate us chubbies

"

But she did put a smile on my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send em my way, I like thin men

8 simple words that just annihilate us chubbies

Pssst...I also like chubby men. But we tend to bounce off each other in a comedy fashion "

yay perkier news!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I always think its silly to isolate yourself with specific preferences eg I have a thing for sexy redheads with big butts at the minute but to be fair everyone brings something good to the table

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I don't see any positives in the conditions you describe, ridiculous to suggest I do.

Do I see cosmetic surgery as vanity, some, not all. Is that a bad thing no.

I applaud people who change their mindset. People who take enjoyment in being in the Top Fabbed pics, some may say vanity. If it makes them feel good "

That's not what I asked though.

Sure, some cosmetic surgery is fine. That's not the sort I mean.

That cosmetic (vanity) surgery, and self harm, eating disorders etc are increasing in men is worrying and not a good thing.

If there is an underlying esteem problem or body dysmorphia, surgery is unlikely to fix it. It's not changing their mindset.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I don't see any positives in the conditions you describe, ridiculous to suggest I do.

Do I see cosmetic surgery as vanity, some, not all. Is that a bad thing no.

I applaud people who change their mindset. People who take enjoyment in being in the Top Fabbed pics, some may say vanity. If it makes them feel good

That's not what I asked though.

Sure, some cosmetic surgery is fine. That's not the sort I mean.

That cosmetic (vanity) surgery, and self harm, eating disorders etc are increasing in men is worrying and not a good thing.

If there is an underlying esteem problem or body dysmorphia, surgery is unlikely to fix it. It's not changing their mindset."

Okay, some cosmetic surgery is fine then. I'll take that.

As you point out , our lives are polar opposites and that is

I wish all people wanting to change all the best with their endeavours, be it diet, mental health, self worth and if cosmetic surgery helps or a few fabs.

Good luck to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Seems to me there are lots of skinny men on here too.

I think that the women eat all the pies.

Maybe they are all skinny cos they have massive cocks so they are always on demand shagging. So they have no time to eat."

maybe their cocks are only average sized but because they are so skinny they seem disproportionately large

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Seems to me there are lots of skinny men on here too.

I think that the women eat all the pies.

Maybe they are all skinny cos they have massive cocks so they are always on demand shagging. So they have no time to eat.

maybe their cocks are only average sized but because they are so skinny they seem disproportionately large "

In my case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the other day someone was saying that women don't start these kind of threads.....

*wrong* they do!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Only the other day someone was saying that women don't start these kind of threads.....

*wrong* they do!"

It was me. I did say _usually_ women don't start these threads. Usually they don't. I wish nobody did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only the other day someone was saying that women don't start these kind of threads.....

*wrong* they do!

It was me. I did say _usually_ women don't start these threads. Usually they don't. I wish nobody did."

Ah yes so it was & you did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems no one is a winner on fab, you can be too fat, too thin, too hairy, too tall, too short, too little a sausage, too big a sausage and we are meant to the the non judgemental kind because we are swingers...god forbid mr jo public came on here and said all swingers are slags and dirty there would be uproar....."

What did you say???

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Or does there seen to be a disproportionate amount of thin men with massive cocks on here.

My preference is big bears of men and I haven't seen a we or vwe on here yet.

The fatter you are the less cock there is left! So for example a guy could have an 8 inch cock but 2 inches of fat around his belly so only 6inches on show. Thin guys have no fat so you can see 100% of there cock.

Plus it's quite common for women to assume that big men must have big cocks and that's just not the case. "

The most sensible answer so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's isn't meant as dig. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences but a well hung bear doesn't seem to exist.

True, theres a massive amount of larger ladies with huge tits too, Cant seem to find many slim ladies with massive tites

Since breasts are mainly fat, it's not particularly surprising women without much excess fat do not tend to have massive ones.

After your disrespect thread earlier this weekend, how would you feel if I put

"Is it me or are there loads of fat (opposite of skinny) women on here with massive tits, my preference is for skinny women with big tits, do they not exist"?

I would point out exactly the same thing I just said. Boobs are fat. Women with more fat will tend to be the ones with massive boobs.

Mine are proportionally large but when I was a size 12, they weren't even close to massive, (I was an E cup). Now they are massive because my body fat is that much higher.

Want huge natural breasts? The trade off is likely to be that they'll be on a woman with higher body fat. It just doesn't happen that on a woman's body, fat settles on the boobs and nowhere else.

Slim women with big boobs is a media and porn creation. And then it's often augmented busts, not natural. It's mainly fantasy, not reality.

Cocks, not being mainly fat, are not the same."

My cousin is a tiny size 6 with natural FF's. My mother is a size 8 with natural J's.

I'm a 12/14 with E's, so I'm bigger than them with smaller boobs. Tarring everyone with the same brush isn't a good idea because it can offend. I totally get your point but let's keep it nice and friendly!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It's isn't meant as dig. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences but a well hung bear doesn't seem to exist.

True, theres a massive amount of larger ladies with huge tits too, Cant seem to find many slim ladies with massive tites

Since breasts are mainly fat, it's not particularly surprising women without much excess fat do not tend to have massive ones.

After your disrespect thread earlier this weekend, how would you feel if I put

"Is it me or are there loads of fat (opposite of skinny) women on here with massive tits, my preference is for skinny women with big tits, do they not exist"?

I would point out exactly the same thing I just said. Boobs are fat. Women with more fat will tend to be the ones with massive boobs.

Mine are proportionally large but when I was a size 12, they weren't even close to massive, (I was an E cup). Now they are massive because my body fat is that much higher.

Want huge natural breasts? The trade off is likely to be that they'll be on a woman with higher body fat. It just doesn't happen that on a woman's body, fat settles on the boobs and nowhere else.

Slim women with big boobs is a media and porn creation. And then it's often augmented busts, not natural. It's mainly fantasy, not reality.

Cocks, not being mainly fat, are not the same.

My cousin is a tiny size 6 with natural FF's. My mother is a size 8 with natural J's.

I'm a 12/14 with E's, so I'm bigger than them with smaller boobs. Tarring everyone with the same brush isn't a good idea because it can offend. I totally get your point but let's keep it nice and friendly!"

I don't see who you think I am tarring with which brush? Or how you think I'm not being friendly.

Slim women with natural, big boobs are a small minority. I'm pointing out it's unrealistic for guys to expect women to be slim with big boobs because generally, fat distribution doesn't work like that.

I don't understand how you being larger built but with smaller boobs than your mother or cousin comes into that?

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By *hyblueEyesMan
over a year ago

Daventry

well that escalated quickly lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"well that escalated quickly lol"

Criticism or perceived criticism of cock size for men or body size for women always does.

It's insensitive and unnecessarily hurtful.

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Well I wish I had smaller boobs cuz that might mean I had a slimmer body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I wish I had smaller boobs cuz that might mean I had a slimmer body "
there is nothing wrong with big boobs

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"Well I wish I had smaller boobs cuz that might mean I had a slimmer body there is nothing wrong with big boobs "

I actually love my boobs I just don't much like the rest of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does there seen to be a disproportionate amount of thin men with massive cocks on here.

My preference is big bears of men and I haven't seen a we or vwe on here yet."

Perhaps they are making an effort to look after their weight & prevent illness that goes along with being overweight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's isn't meant as dig. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences but a well hung bear doesn't seem to exist.

True, theres a massive amount of larger ladies with huge tits too, Cant seem to find many slim ladies with massive tites

Since breasts are mainly fat, it's not particularly surprising women without much excess fat do not tend to have massive ones.

After your disrespect thread earlier this weekend, how would you feel if I put

"Is it me or are there loads of fat (opposite of skinny) women on here with massive tits, my preference is for skinny women with big tits, do they not exist"?

I would point out exactly the same thing I just said. Boobs are fat. Women with more fat will tend to be the ones with massive boobs.

Mine are proportionally large but when I was a size 12, they weren't even close to massive, (I was an E cup). Now they are massive because my body fat is that much higher.

Want huge natural breasts? The trade off is likely to be that they'll be on a woman with higher body fat. It just doesn't happen that on a woman's body, fat settles on the boobs and nowhere else.

Slim women with big boobs is a media and porn creation. And then it's often augmented busts, not natural. It's mainly fantasy, not reality.

Cocks, not being mainly fat, are not the same.

My cousin is a tiny size 6 with natural FF's. My mother is a size 8 with natural J's.

I'm a 12/14 with E's, so I'm bigger than them with smaller boobs. Tarring everyone with the same brush isn't a good idea because it can offend. I totally get your point but let's keep it nice and friendly!

I don't see who you think I am tarring with which brush? Or how you think I'm not being friendly.

Slim women with natural, big boobs are a small minority. I'm pointing out it's unrealistic for guys to expect women to be slim with big boobs because generally, fat distribution doesn't work like that.

I don't understand how you being larger built but with smaller boobs than your mother or cousin comes into that?"

It just seemed like you're insinuating that all slim girls would have to had plastic surgery to have big boobs! Haha

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