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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

constant e-mails back and forth gets us down Why say meeting for any reason is a great idea but then you dont act on it isnt what swinging is about ? right or wrong xxkisses to the real ones

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

they may not be a real couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

They may want to wait until they feel comfortable about you before setting a date

I don't rush into anything and if that puts people off then im not offended,everyone has their own way of doing things

Oh and what View said too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

another thought, they could be really busy, so cant set up anything yet?

or they havent made their mind up about you, and are dithering?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"constant e-mails back and forth gets us down Why say meeting for any reason is a great idea but then you dont act on it isnt what swinging is about ? right or wrong xxkisses to the real ones"

We like to get to the phone as soon as possible. You can tell a lot more by actually talking to someone and if they hesitate when you talk about meets it gives you clear warning signals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"constant e-mails back and forth gets us down Why say meeting for any reason is a great idea but then you dont act on it isnt what swinging is about ? right or wrong xxkisses to the real ones

We like to get to the phone as soon as possible. You can tell a lot more by actually talking to someone and if they hesitate when you talk about meets it gives you clear warning signals. "

Thats all well and good but some folk can be phone shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"constant e-mails back and forth gets us down ........."

Don't do it then.

Set yourselves a limit of (say) 2 or 3 messages each way and then insist on whatever method you prefer to progress. If the other party don't agree - just move onto someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...........

Thats all well and good but some folk can be phone shy."

Happy to come round and fuck but too shy to pick up a phone?

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