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masturbation killed the fuckstar

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By *lamerotic OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

London W1

Bear with me for a minute here as I outline two ends of a spectrum regarding masturbation.

I hung out for a while with a young man from Pakistan. Gorgeous he was, too. A fine strapping specimen. Growing up in a repressed backwater his sexuality developed entirely online through cam2cam masturbation. Once in London where he could actually meet the objects of his attraction, however, he was definitely a friend of ED, which is to say erectile dysfunction. He just wasn't able to fuck. He sexuality was so clearly shaped by his history of self-manipulation. It was tragic.

In contrast, I was involved with a Moroccan some years later. He was older, about 38. He worked on a fishing boat that was at sea for 3 months at a time. During those periods he had no sexual activity at all. In fact he never masturbated, neither alone nor with anyone else. He never came except through fucking. He explained very earnestly that masturbation was bad and that it destroys one's ability to have sex with others. He backed up his claims by proving to be an extraordinary cocksman with the most astonishing erectile function I've ever encountered.

Masturbation may not grow hair on your palms or make you go blind, but still, is there a downside?

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

No downside, i'll have a wank before bed and when i get up, irrespective of how many times i've sex on any given day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bear with me for a minute here as I outline two ends of a spectrum regarding masturbation.

I hung out for a while with a young man from Pakistan. Gorgeous he was, too. A fine strapping specimen. Growing up in a repressed backwater his sexuality developed entirely online through cam2cam masturbation. Once in London where he could actually meet the objects of his attraction, however, he was definitely a friend of ED, which is to say erectile dysfunction. He just wasn't able to fuck. He sexuality was so clearly shaped by his history of self-manipulation. It was tragic.

In contrast, I was involved with a Moroccan some years later. He was older, about 38. He worked on a fishing boat that was at sea for 3 months at a time. During those periods he had no sexual activity at all. In fact he never masturbated, neither alone nor with anyone else. He never came except through fucking. He explained very earnestly that masturbation was bad and that it destroys one's ability to have sex with others. He backed up his claims by proving to be an extraordinary cocksman with the most astonishing erectile function I've ever encountered.

Masturbation may not grow hair on your palms or make you go blind, but still, is there a downside?"

I suppose it is like when first starting out masturbation gets you off your first fuck you come very quick then you back of the masturbation to fuck more I suppose there is in the world a scientific paper explaining how masturbation fucks up your sexual erformances, if it does?

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

The only downside is if thru excessive periods spent alone with a laptop one becomes so dependent on porn (or other stimulation) that the individual becomes completely reliant on it sexually so as not to function properly in real life situations.

Obviously masturbation is good for Learning ones own body and how to stimulates it. Also wanking is healthy in That it removes tension and is stress relief. It just becomes unhealthy when it takes the place of real world Interaction or becomes too reliant on unrealistic or exaggerated fantasy scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only downside is if thru excessive periods spent alone with a laptop one becomes so dependent on porn (or other stimulation) that the individual becomes completely reliant on it sexually so as not to function properly in real life situations.

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That definitely really happens. I've seen it in action a long time ago. Not sure once you've got into that cycle if you can ever reverse it.

Sarah

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"The only downside is if thru excessive periods spent alone with a laptop one becomes so dependent on porn (or other stimulation) that the individual becomes completely reliant on it sexually so as not to function properly in real life situations.

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That definitely really happens. I've seen it in action a long time ago. Not sure once you've got into that cycle if you can ever reverse it.

Sarah "

I think it would be possible if that individual went "cold turkey" and effectively started from scratch. Unfortunately I think this is a problem which will become more prevalent with the younger generation who have porn on tap, are sexualised at an early age and enter young adulthood with unrealistic expectations and ideals.

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