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Bored, so very bored

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I honestly don't know what happened to my life. I'm spending yet another Saturday evening on my own with no one to talk and nothing to do. Flicking between this forum and Netflix. I used to have a life. I thought I had friends but they're just either people I used to know or people I would bump into at the pub.

Does anyone else suffer from this kind of loneliness, or am I on my own with that as well? Fuck my life. Sorry for the misery post

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Take yourself out and do something

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Get a new hobby, ideal way to meet new people

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By *elly39devonCouple
over a year ago

tavistock

yes join something hun meet some people don't expect too much at first take it gently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta get yourself out there chap. Gotta do it. Join a club (not necessarily a swinging club), get a hobby, break the monotony.

Walk in a pub, pick up some darts (sorry thats probably a Devon thing). Go to a gig (I go to the theatre on my own, I meet nice people)

Your not bored, you just haven't found your niche

but lets face it, you ain't gonna meet many people sat indoors now are you?

Pick yourself up, stop looking at FB and your "friends" having a wonderful time, and go and have a wonderful time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take yourself out and do something"

Well I'm open to suggestions but I don't really fancy wandering around on my own. I dont/cant drink. Don't really have any money at the moment. Just don't understand how I got here

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Take yourself out and do something

Well I'm open to suggestions but I don't really fancy wandering around on my own. I dont/cant drink. Don't really have any money at the moment. Just don't understand how I got here"
i had nothing to do yesterday so i took myself of and had a great time.

Ive never been to ealing so i dont know what there is to do there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take yourself out and do something

Well I'm open to suggestions but I don't really fancy wandering around on my own. I dont/cant drink. Don't really have any money at the moment. Just don't understand how I got here"

You are putting up barriers. Mate come one, you are worth more than that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gotta get yourself out there chap. Gotta do it. Join a club (not necessarily a swinging club), get a hobby, break the monotony.

Walk in a pub, pick up some darts (sorry thats probably a Devon thing). Go to a gig (I go to the theatre on my own, I meet nice people)

Your not bored, you just haven't found your niche

but lets face it, you ain't gonna meet many people sat indoors now are you?

Pick yourself up, stop looking at FB and your "friends" having a wonderful time, and go and have a wonderful time."

All that is what I've been trying to for a while. I stopped using Facebook, no one bloody noticed. Sorry, this is probably a really pointless thread.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I know where you're coming from,sometimes you can get a bit lost,you'll get back on track

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know where you are coming from but only you can really change this.

Pick something you fancy doing and go do it. No one is going to do it for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have you been to see your GP as you have all the signs of depression, and i know about that all too well.

When nothing seems worth doing its a bad sign.

I would say pull yourself together and buck up, but i know that is not the best thing to hear when you are feeling like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gotta get yourself out there chap. Gotta do it. Join a club (not necessarily a swinging club), get a hobby, break the monotony.

Walk in a pub, pick up some darts (sorry thats probably a Devon thing). Go to a gig (I go to the theatre on my own, I meet nice people)

Your not bored, you just haven't found your niche

but lets face it, you ain't gonna meet many people sat indoors now are you?

Pick yourself up, stop looking at FB and your "friends" having a wonderful time, and go and have a wonderful time.

All that is what I've been trying to for a while. I stopped using Facebook, no one bloody noticed. Sorry, this is probably a really pointless thread. "

Mate if you don't value yourself, how will others see your value. You are kicking yourself in the head for no reason and then putting up barriers to defend your actions.

This is YOUR life, this is it, don't waste it staring at walls, find the fire in your gut and belch it out, stand now or sit forever

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

maybe a chat through with a professional and other ways of looking at your situation may help.

you may be a little depressed and just needing a little help back up

good luck

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By *ayd2pinkTV/TS
over a year ago

TENTERDEN

I know it's hard, been there. If im honest you look the part of a loner. I would get that fuzz of your chin, cant see your hair but imagine a pony tail.

Find an interest and follow it just to occupy your mind for a bit and see what happens.

Good luck in any case.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"have you been to see your GP as you have all the signs of depression, and i know about that all too well.

When nothing seems worth doing its a bad sign.

I would say pull yourself together and buck up, but i know that is not the best thing to hear when you are feeling like that.

"

I saw my GP and they gave me phone number for this local counseling team. They assess you over the phone or make you take online assessment. Their phone line closes at 4.30 so by the time I get out of work they're closed. It's a terrible way to treat people with problems.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Gotta get yourself out there chap. Gotta do it. Join a club (not necessarily a swinging club), get a hobby, break the monotony.

Walk in a pub, pick up some darts (sorry thats probably a Devon thing). Go to a gig (I go to the theatre on my own, I meet nice people)

Your not bored, you just haven't found your niche

but lets face it, you ain't gonna meet many people sat indoors now are you?

Pick yourself up, stop looking at FB and your "friends" having a wonderful time, and go and have a wonderful time.

All that is what I've been trying to for a while. I stopped using Facebook, no one bloody noticed. Sorry, this is probably a really pointless thread. "
not pointless if you want to do something about it but pointless if your not going to change things you got to put yourself out there.

Is there any socials in your area?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"have you been to see your GP as you have all the signs of depression, and i know about that all too well.

When nothing seems worth doing its a bad sign.

I would say pull yourself together and buck up, but i know that is not the best thing to hear when you are feeling like that.

I saw my GP and they gave me phone number for this local counseling team. They assess you over the phone or make you take online assessment. Their phone line closes at 4.30 so by the time I get out of work they're closed. It's a terrible way to treat people with problems. "

lunchtime ?

they may offer you the first step, step two, will down to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get out for a pint and just strike Conversation up.or volunteer for some local projects like charity shops .

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Get down the pub, shout 'I really admire David Cameron"

you will soon be answering people

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"have you been to see your GP as you have all the signs of depression, and i know about that all too well.

When nothing seems worth doing its a bad sign.

I would say pull yourself together and buck up, but i know that is not the best thing to hear when you are feeling like that.

I saw my GP and they gave me phone number for this local counseling team. They assess you over the phone or make you take online assessment. Their phone line closes at 4.30 so by the time I get out of work they're closed. It's a terrible way to treat people with problems. "
ask your employer to allow you a break while you ring them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get down the pub, shout 'I really admire David Cameron"

you will soon be answering people "

Dibs on the first copy of your version of "how to win friends and influence people", sold

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