FabSwingers.com forum: people who upset others

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm pretty new on here but I've noticed that some people seem to just like being nasty to others

If someone you message says no or just doesn't reply is that a good reason to start having a go at them ?

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I thought it's nice to be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the internet and life in general

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Fabs just a replication of the mix of people in the real world.

Some are nice and some are wankers(not literally)

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I thought it's nice to be nice "

fuck that shit, it's more fun the other way

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By *unLuvazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

"Welcome to the internet and life in general

Them that have a go at others for no good reason. Are the ones that you don't want to anyway. So block, ignore & carry on. Dome people have sad lives and have nothing better to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People I am afraid can be a bit funny sometimes just block and forget them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are now in a place on this site where you will find more nasty people

not everyone of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Welcome to the internet and life in general

Them that have a go at others for no good reason. Are the ones that you don't want to anyway. So block, ignore & carry on. Dome people have sad lives and have nothing better to do. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I thought it's nice to be nice

fuck that shit, it's more fun the other way"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day I delete my message box so I have a clean inbox. I got told u was a horrible person for using my profile as I see fit. Funny thing was I was havin a good convo with this "woman".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people don't get on ''shocking''

in other news, water is wet and it gets dark at night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is pretty tame compared to other sites

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Pops in, nicks all of the OP's remaining crème eggs and tells him to sod off, as she makes her getaway in an hijacked icecream van

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"people don't get on ''shocking''

in other news, water is wet and it gets dark at night "

Well said just one thing

To be sarcastic you need to understand the meaning of sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people don't get on ''shocking''

in other news, water is wet and it gets dark at night

Well said just one thing

To be sarcastic you need to understand the meaning of sarcasm

Hahaha! Don't be so mean

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"people don't get on ''shocking''

in other news, water is wet and it gets dark at night

Well said just one thing

To be sarcastic you need to understand the meaning of sarcasm

Or irony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

were not all nasty - in fact only a very few that come across that way and i bet in real life theyre not like that at all -

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Nasty is such an infantile word.

Mummy he is nasty.

What does nasty mean ?

Someone said something you don't like ..??

Fucks sake .... don't venture into supermarkets or other places.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people don't get on ''shocking''

in other news, water is wet and it gets dark at night

Well said just one thing

To be sarcastic you need to understand the meaning of sarcasm

''facepalm''

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm sweetness and light

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Everyone should be treated at all times with respect, irrespective of whether you dislike their position or personality etc.

Don't fall into the trap of stooping to their level, where they don't uphold respect for all.

And report all inappropriate activities to admin, leaving them to pursue it. The site is superior when people just do this and cast off ill will. It's an adult-only site and we all should find this reasonable and straightforward to achieve.

The site and forums have some outstanding people, so keep your focus on them. There's more than enough love to go around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the real world. Some people just don't like not getting what they want then spit dummy out. X just leave them to it and let them finish their tantrum. They will soon find something else x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

not agreeing with someone is often the cause of upset

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I thought it's nice to be nice

fuck that shit, it's more fun the other way"

You're alway's nice!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"not agreeing with someone is often the cause of upset

No it isn't

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I thought it's nice to be nice

fuck that shit, it's more fun the other way

You're alway's nice!"

Ohhhhh no he isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not agreeing with someone is often the cause of upset

The one who gets upset has to realise that not everyone is gonna a agree with them. And learn that people have different _iews and opinions. They can't spit dummy out if someone doesn't agree with them x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I thought it's nice to be nice

fuck that shit, it's more fun the other way

You're alway's nice!"

thank you, ignore that mischief maker above, it's her age

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Low boredom threshold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Welcome to the internet and life in general

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

I'm inclined to think that in many ways its worse than the real world. The anonymity of the web is used to be abusive to others in ways that doesn't happen IRL. Some people take pleasure in being unpleasant to others.

OP, try to look on as a heads up on how they are, unpleasant vile people. Then ask yourself, ' do I really want to have sex with them?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's fun lol

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I thought it's nice to be nice

fuck that shit, it's more fun the other way

You're alway's nice!

thank you, ignore that mischief maker above, it's her age"

I know she's just jealous of your niceness. Can I have your 'Good luck' stamp please you alway's use at the bottom of your posts or is that being too cheeky?!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

I can do 'nice' ........ if I have to... it's just so boringly non de script and carries badly in text.

My lovelies. ( that was a false nicey )

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I thought it's nice to be nice

fuck that shit, it's more fun the other way

You're alway's nice!

thank you, ignore that mischief maker above, it's her age

I know she's just jealous of your niceness. Can I have your 'Good luck' stamp please you alway's use at the bottom of your posts or is that being too cheeky?!"

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not agreeing with someone is often the cause of upset

exactly this. Disagreeing with someone isn't not being nice to them

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and I would be more upset if I agreed with many

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I thought it's nice to be nice

fuck that shit, it's more fun the other way

You're alway's nice!

thank you, ignore that mischief maker above, it's her age

I know she's just jealous of your niceness. Can I have your 'Good luck' stamp please you alway's use at the bottom of your posts or is that being too cheeky?!

good luck

I'm happy now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not agreeing with someone is often the cause of upset

No it isn't"

love Views posts- like little proverbs so they are

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

It's got SFA to do with being nice. Its possible to disagree and remain civil. Its a convenient opportunity for an ad homimem rebuttal

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By *ustanhonestblokeMan
over a year ago

northampton

Being honest is seen by many as being nasty

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By *ampara2Woman
over a year ago

biggleswade

i can come across as a cantankerous old cow but i'm nice really, just ask my mum?

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By *ustanhonestblokeMan
over a year ago

northampton

"i can come across as a cantankerous old cow but i'm nice really, just ask my mum?

Your mum is just leaving mine.

She has confirmed this lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no sympathy for people who go around upsetting themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i happen to be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the mistake a few make on here ( judging by some recent threads) is they think others are like them or they're friends. They're not, they are random people off t'internet who happen to post in the same forum.

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

"Welcome to the internet and life in general

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viva Scotland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm pretty new on here but I've noticed that some people seem to just like being nasty to others

If someone you message says no or just doesn't reply is that a good reason to start having a go at them ?

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I thought it's nice to be nice "
their are many nice people here a lot not so nice but I appear to have evaded most of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being nice is also subjective, see above ^^

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Being honest is seen by many as being nasty

I read somewhere the other day that being honest is just a good excuse to be rude to people's faces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Welcome to the internet and life in general

viva Scotland

Scotland is nice,but I'd much rather be in Brazil for the beaches n bootayyy

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"Being honest is seen by many as being nasty

I read somewhere the other day that being honest is just a good excuse to be rude to people's faces

That depends on whether you are politely honest or honestly rude.

I know people who say .... I tell it like it is when what they mean is... they lack tact, diplomacy and empathy

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Some of the nice things said are so sweet that after reading them I need to increase my Metformin to 20 a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being honest is seen by many as being nasty

I read somewhere the other day that being honest is just a good excuse to be rude to people's faces

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yes brutal honesty is rude no other word for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be true to yourself, stick to your own standards and expect nothing of others but be happy if they are nice.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Some of the nice things said are so sweet that after reading them I need to increase my Metformin to 20 a day

chuckles

I know what you mean, there is being nice and then there is full on over the top gushing.

The latter I don't like personally and find it uncomfortable if directed at me.(not that it happens that often to me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every day I delete my message box so I have a clean inbox. I got told u was a horrible person for using my profile as I see fit. Funny thing was I was havin a good convo with this "woman".

Yep. Some bloody weirdos out there.

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

As someone already mentioned, internet anonymity is a lot to blame.

People post stuff they would not dare to say in real life because only in rare cases are there any consequences, like the couple on another thread where a chap threatened to 'get them'.

However it does constantly surprise us that SM's come on here and bleat about no meets and people being nasty to them.

Do they really think that women or couples are going to be gagging to meet them? especially with some of the ridiculous pictures/profiles on offer?

There are some very 'successful' men in the scene but it's rarely instantaneous and like any sales campaign you need patience, hard bark and a hook or USP

IOOP.

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By *elle2016Woman
over a year ago

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"not agreeing with someone is often the cause of upset

Especially on here...if you aren't a bum licker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot of keyboard warriors here, however there is some truly lovely people as well. Just have to take with a pinch of salt.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"I'm pretty new on here but I've noticed that some people seem to just like being nasty to others

If someone you message says no or just doesn't reply is that a good reason to start having a go at them ?

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I thought it's nice to be nice "

Aw are you rejecting a lot of male advances and upsetting them?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Can I tell someone to fuck off now?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Can I tell someone to fuck off now?"

Is it me

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"Can I tell someone to fuck off now?"

No objections from me, go for it. Don't hold back.

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By *ampara2Woman
over a year ago

biggleswade

"As someone already mentioned, internet anonymity is a lot to blame.

People post stuff they would not dare to say in real life because only in rare cases are there any consequences, like the couple on another thread where a chap threatened to 'get them'.

However it does constantly surprise us that SM's come on here and bleat about no meets and people being nasty to them.

Do they really think that women or couples are going to be gagging to meet them? especially with some of the ridiculous pictures/profiles on offer?

There are some very 'successful' men in the scene but it's rarely instantaneous and like any sales campaign you need patience, hard bark and a hook or USP

IOOP. "
the thing is i do say things to people in real life,my voice says stuff before my brain connects and then i'm stuck thinking "i shouldn't have said that"if i was a diplomat we would be in the middle of world war 3 by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They should be shot ,its the only way

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Can I tell someone to fuck off now?"

If you like the nawty step then yes

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"I'm pretty new on here but I've noticed that some people seem to just like being nasty to others

If someone you message says no or just doesn't reply is that a good reason to start having a go at them ?

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I thought it's nice to be nice "

This is an interesting one, OP, as some people say pretty offensive things that upset me, but as my opinion isn't the mainstream, then when I say something back to counter or question their opinion/post, I may well come across as being nasty, when I am not being. I think its hard to judge who is nasty and who is not .... plus, some people are touting for nasty comments so they can be the victim, it suits them ...

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

You get all sorts on here - someone I was chatting to and looking at meeting threatened me last week after I delayed chatting to him on the phone after my husband didn't go to work as expected......

Madness.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

"I'm pretty new on here but I've noticed that some people seem to just like being nasty to others

If someone you message says no or just doesn't reply is that a good reason to start having a go at them ?

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I thought it's nice to be nice "

All part of the internet and the swing/sex site side of it. Plus the chunk of strangeness, wierdo's, misfits, pent up anger merchants it attracts.

Saying that there's also plenty of people about always ready to play the victim. Generally say something how it is and a victim will pop up and take is personally like it was, if not claiming it was, aimed at them.

Welcome to the accelerated life course in adult (and childlike) behavior.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"I'm pretty new on here but I've noticed that some people seem to just like being nasty to others

If someone you message says no or just doesn't reply is that a good reason to start having a go at them ?

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I thought it's nice to be nice

The semi-professional victims on here far outweigh any nasty folk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get all sorts on here - someone I was chatting to and looking at meeting threatened me last week after I delayed chatting to him on the phone after my husband didn't go to work as expected......

Madness."
hey stick with the good people

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"You get all sorts on here - someone I was chatting to and looking at meeting threatened me last week after I delayed chatting to him on the phone after my husband didn't go to work as expected......

Madness. hey stick with the good people

I didn't KNOW he was gonna do that!? Lol

(but if you see my pics on social media gimme a shout as I will involve the police!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found the vast majority of people on here pretty nice.

An the Odd one snide and unpleasant. But it's water off a ducks and doesn't even make a ripple on the pond!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have found the vast majority of people on here pretty nice.

An the Odd one snide and unpleasant. But it's water off a ducks and doesn't even make a ripple on the pond!"

this ^^

There's the rare snake in the grass out to stir up trouble (sometimes even stealthily behind people's backs) but on the whole if you engage with people how you'd like to be engaged with back its all good and the overwhelming majority are decent

If you encounter negativity or people that just have different outlooks to you its best to ignore them and move on and not let them diminish your enjoyment of the site

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Don't you just love a sexy redhead with a big butt

Yep I love myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm pretty new on here but I've noticed that some people seem to just like being nasty to others

If someone you message says no or just doesn't reply is that a good reason to start having a go at them ?

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I thought it's nice to be nice "

Both Myth and I are masters in witty retorts and healthy funny debating but have yet to lower ourselves to take any bait yet. I pity the person who try's to tackle Myth in an online argument when you get her going. She will trounce you in five syllable words and you will be forever googling her witty remarks and realise she is taking the piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Welcome to the internet and life in general

this..

OP where you been, Narnia..

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

Yeah afraid you get nastiness but even on here but plenty on here nice just ignore it block them.

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over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

And on that note, it might be time to shut

If posters remember that putting a smiley at the end of an abusive post doesn't make it look like a joke especially on a thread like this.

Can people also remember if you keep going on about your forum ban on a forum you are likely to get another one. Please don't discuss them.

To everyone else, don't forget to report anything you think breaks rules whether that is in your mailbox or on the forum so Admin can check it out.

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