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By *inky24big35 OP Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

ever had a meet go badly wrong??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

not really, had a few comical moments, a few people i wouldnt see again etc but nothing to worrysome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, thank goodness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No met some really nice fellas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met a guy on another site, turned out he went to school with my son

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a meet that seemed to be going ok. We met at the pub, enjoyed a few looseners, then went back to theirs. We all started off in the hot tub, then moved on to the bedroom.

We were playing for ages it seemed and thought everything was hunky dory.

All of a sudden the Mrs of the couple asked us to leave. Needless to say, we got dressed and left, to say we were baffled is an understatement.

To this day we do not know what we did wrong, if in fact we did anything wrong. They blocked us straight away so that we couldn't contact them.

So if the couple are reading this, feel free to post here and tell us what we are supposed to have done.

May be it was part of the role play? Who knows?

There's nothing as strange as folk

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Never had one go badly wrong,maybe when we first started and were a little inexperienced there have been a couple of instances where I would have done things differently but thats all about learning and finding out exactly what it is you want or are comfortable with

Now I would say that they just seem to get better and better

And now ive probably just put the mockers on my luck!

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By *icknDeeCouple
over a year ago

hartlepool

We once invited a couple round to our house. After they arrived, they sat on the sofa and did nothing but bicker with each other for an hour.

Then the bloke announced he'd never shagged a dog before, and would it if we let ours join in our play. He then went the loo and peed all over the bathroom floor. Didn't realise until I went up later and stood in something wet...

We didn't play with them and just wanted them out the house as soon as possible. Laugh about it now though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How's the dog ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rufff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the one where we were sat on their sofa in their sitting room and they texted us from their kitchen to say they didnt want to play wasnt up to much! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes....and I should have called the police afterwards except I was the one who felt dirty and ashamed.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"the one where we were sat on their sofa in their sitting room and they texted us from their kitchen to say they didnt want to play wasnt up to much! x"

lol........ so sorry that made me laugh x

terrible thing to do.

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By *icknDeeCouple
over a year ago

hartlepool

"How's the dog ?"

Safely in the kitchen with his innocence intact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes went very wrong............ guy beat his wife up in our home!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I had a meet who was getting to rough, I asked him to stop, he didn't, I asked hime to leave, he raped me

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By *horacleCouple
over a year ago

Harwich

omg, thats terrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I had a meet who was getting to rough, I asked him to stop, he didn't, I asked hime to leave, he raped me"

Fucking hell ...so sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I had a meet who was getting to rough, I asked him to stop, he didn't, I asked hime to leave, he raped me"

OMG!!! I feel f***** sick. That's awful, I hope you are ok? x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Yes I had a meet who was getting to rough, I asked him to stop, he didn't, I asked hime to leave, he raped me"

so sorry to hear that, I really hope you reported him to the police xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I had a meet who was getting to rough, I asked him to stop, he didn't, I asked hime to leave, he raped me

so sorry to hear that, I really hope you reported him to the police xx "

I bloody hope so too.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Met a couple (not from this site I might add), she was bi-curious, for their first FMF threesome.

She took me by the hand and led me upstairs to their bedroom, we undressed each other and started to explore each other...It soon became obvious to me that she was in all likelyhood no beginner, but I was having a ball with her.

He came into the bedroom to join us but decided to sit in the corner to watch us first.....when he too realised she was probably not a beginner and had maybe been misleading him he burst out in tears and stormed downstairs.

We went down to comfort him but by then he was sitting in the back garden on a patio chair sobbing uncontrollably.

He started to call her all the slags and whores under the sun (between sobbing) and I dressed and left.

I think his dream of watching his partner enjoying another woman went out of the window that night.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We havent had a meet go wrong as such, but I wouldnt meet them again. It was a case of me really liking the lady, Chris liking the lady but I wasnt overly keen on the guy. This wasnt apparent until the actual play started, he was really nice in the pub. The three of them seemed to have a good time, I "acted".

We talked about this afterwards and learnt from it, we know we should have stopped it because one of us wasnt entirely happy. I didnt want to speak out and embarrass anyone so pretended it was all ok. It was just inexperience on my part and I am open and honest now and say no straight out if Im not happy, as I did at a party recently. Gets easier the more you do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I had a meet who was getting to rough, I asked him to stop, he didn't, I asked hime to leave, he raped me"

I am very shocked to hear this, makes everything pale in comparison, I am very sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, as I believe I had been very careful during my selection process.

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By *inky24big35 OP Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

"Yes I had a meet who was getting to rough, I asked him to stop, he didn't, I asked hime to leave, he raped me"

omg hun i am so so sorry to hear that,my god that is awful xx

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

nope, but one did break me, and another time spent 3hrs in A&E (same guy, but best meet ever). I'm either delicate or accident prone

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Yes I had a meet who was getting to rough, I asked him to stop, he didn't, I asked hime to leave, he raped me"

God SJ, that is shocking. xxxxxxx

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

WE have also experienced this, but as you say its a learning curve. Also had a meet at a club you all get on, but then once playing realise that the couple you are playing with dont do it for one of you ie her guy is not doing it for me or visa versa. Now thats a hard one as dont now untill the play starts then how do you stop it? But you learn as you go. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ever had a meet go badly wrong??"

yep.....with my pobation officer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I had a previous swing partner on here and we met a couple at their home. She was nice but he was awful and very arrogant barking his orders at her to move seats so he could sit down and telling her to make drinks...she did as she was 'told'!

I asked to use the loo and text my partner telling him I wanted to leave...he text back saying he liked her and to give them a chance!

We sat there chatting for two hours while the male was on his laptop and phone then got called out! Needless to say this was my excuse to leave and it was the last time I met my partner too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

Yep...twice. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I've only just got back to this thread, thank you all for your kind words, no I did not report it to the police as I had met him through a swingers site, which he had left by the time I logged back on, not having a full name for him and only a mobile number, I don't think they would have been able to do much and I didn't want it getting out, as at that point in time I was still having to be extremely discreet. It shook me for a couple of weeks but then I started again but taking extra precautionary safety measures

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By *DD1EMan
over a year ago

sea

"Yes I had a meet who was getting to rough, I asked him to stop, he didn't, I asked hime to leave, he raped me"

That is totally out of order, I hope you can put the past behind you? x

Not had a bad meet yet, they've all been great people except one couple at a party, they just hated single men and couldn't understand why we swung, they made their feeling very clear, needless to say I kept well out of their way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry I've only just got back to this thread, thank you all for your kind words, no I did not report it to the police as I had met him through a swingers site, which he had left by the time I logged back on, not having a full name for him and only a mobile number, I don't think they would have been able to do much and I didn't want it getting out, as at that point in time I was still having to be extremely discreet. It shook me for a couple of weeks but then I started again but taking extra precautionary safety measures"

That is absolutely awful. Thats the catch 22 situation isnt it, the need for discretion but letting a rapist go free with no comeback to do it again. Its really really hard for rape victims to have to take it further, they are put through a lot. Being on a swinging site, agreeing to meet for sex and then your word against his would be difficult to prove but not impossible.

Had you wanted to report it to the Police then they would have been able to trace him through online activity, so it wouldnt matter if you didnt have his name. He could be traced via the IP address or his mobile phone records. You wouldnt have needed to do the chasing, the Police would have done so, but I guess it was the case of your swinging lifestyle not being found out. I am very sorry to hear this happened to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we had a nasty time at a party .was years ago. we got there only to be told this couple had been saying all sorts about us to others then found out we was going to be at the party ...... to our faces thay was lovely and my friend who asked us got us to the side told us what thay had been saying ....... let say thay all most lost there jobs there house the lot ... if i had taken them to court.... it was that bad ..... why because we meet people thay liked and hated it. She hated it Big time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a meet once a few years back with a couple and as usual i was giving it my all with the lady as her fella was watching.

i was a bit disheartend as she did not seem to be enjoying herself but when he left the room for a few mins she explained to me that if he saw her enjoying herself to much that she would be in for a beating.

when i asked why even go on meets she said it was how he got his kicks.

i offered to go but she said no as he would blame her.

when i said i would confront him about it she asked me not to.

for her sake i did my best to carry on but tried to make it as quick as possible.

the sadness i saw when i looked in her eyes i will never forget.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

A social meet yes.....it was over football.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah the social meet wi Femme was a disaster cause i didn't get ta cover her in as much jelly as i wanted too xx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Yeah the social meet wi Femme was a disaster cause i didn't get ta cover her in as much jelly as i wanted too xx

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I hope you realise im still having nightmares!!! Custard this year!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ya are a tart so custard is very appropriate xx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Well ya are a tart so custard is very appropriate xx

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I think i have just found my 2nd opponent

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By *inky24big35 OP Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

we have once but dont like to say too much about it coz their still on here lol

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