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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

... kittens and puppies, whereas babies do nothing to me!

I never have that maternal instinct in me, and it is a good job I don't like kids!

I had a bet with someone at college when I was 19 that I would not have kids. I won, as I am now a gynaelogical fossil. However, I lost contact with him so I can't claim my pint of beer! Bummer!

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By *ax the gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

birmingham

it was not me who bet with you but if it makes you feel better let me by you a pint or 3 lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't drink much nowadays, and have to be in the right mood in order to have a good session.

However, thanks for the kind offer in advance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have considered my life pointless if I hadn't had children. That's just my take on it. No offence intended for anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I believe there is enough diversity and variety in the gene pool without the need to add mine to it.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would very, very much loved a child... just not the partner.

I would have been a fab dad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been a very maternal kind myself. I'm quite OCD and like things done in a certain way. I'm not sure if I could cope with the mess and the noise and the disruption and I'd hate myself if I ended up resenting my own kid.

On the other hand, I'm an only child and I'd feel guilty for depriving my parents of the chance to be grandparents - they'd be great. And the thought of knowing I'll never have someone call me mum does make me stop and think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My mum gave up hope of me having any kids when I was about 35 (11y's ago).

She now asks after my pets when she rings me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah my parents treat my Hound like a kid although I don't think they've quite given up yet.

I'm hoping that will extend to having her for the best part of 9 months when I'm away with work!!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"I would very, very much loved a child... just not the partner.

I would have been a fab dad. "

You can adopt my stroppy 14yo, she's doing my feckin tits in......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pearl

ur a woman after my own heart.

When in conversation with female friends i often forget that my strong _iews about kids can be a little startling for the friends who either have kids or still want them.

And now we are all near 40, i also have to be especially sensitive to friends who are going through IVF.

It is a real strain to sit through conversations about kids, and try to act interested!!!

Im also really bad at remembering the kids names. Now the names of their dogs, i have no problem with!!!!

*im a badddd person*

Its good to know im not the only 'i dont want kids' woman out there!!

I wont join the freak show just yet

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its good to know im not the only 'i dont want kids' woman out there!!

I wont join the freak show just yet

"

Do you get the looks of horror when you say you're not sure it's something you'll ever do? Followed by the assumption "you're just not ready yet"....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I really feel for those who want to settle down and have kids, and their clocks are ticking away. And those who want kids but can't for whatever reasons.

My pets have enriched my life and they keep me sane.

Whether the same can be said about kids I shall never know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its good to know im not the only 'i dont want kids' woman out there!!

I wont join the freak show just yet

Do you get the looks of horror when you say you're not sure it's something you'll ever do? Followed by the assumption "you're just not ready yet"...."

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No, as those who know me would have realised I am unconventional right from the start!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its good to know im not the only 'i dont want kids' woman out there!!

I wont join the freak show just yet

Do you get the looks of horror when you say you're not sure it's something you'll ever do? Followed by the assumption "you're just not ready yet"...."

Yup, im hoping as i get older i can just throw in the 'im too old now anyway'!! Has to be the only time being older is good!!

x

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

i cannot resist oralminx lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Children for me every time although you can't get them to retrieve a stick in quite the same way for twenty or so years....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pets never answer back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i cannot resist oralminx lol x"

oh alright i forgive u for messaging lots of other women (other thread) the wedding is back on!!

sorry guys and now back to the original thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr Cornwall your a tart oralminx he as 3 wifes on here and me as a mistress so be careful lol

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

jan you will get me in more trouble!

ah brill thanks oral. i will get you those pans you asked for lol x

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"jan you will get me in more trouble!

ah brill thanks oral. i will get you those pans you asked for lol x"

you better refund me what I paid for our honeymoon cruise!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honeymoon cruise i had a weekend in skeggers

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

ah but you are only the mistress lol

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

erm.......ah..... anyone lend me a fiver for _muma lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... kittens and puppies, whereas babies do nothing to me!

I never have that maternal instinct in me, and it is a good job I don't like kids!

I had a bet with someone at college when I was 19 that I would not have kids. I won, as I am now a gynaelogical fossil. However, I lost contact with him so I can't claim my pint of beer! Bummer!

"

When I turned 16, I asked my parents for a vasectomy. I'm 33 in two weeks and I shall ask yet again as I have done every year since that first time. I really have no desire whatsoever to have children and would love to shoot blanks instead

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ah but you are only the mistress lol"

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That's not right, the mistress usually gets better pressies, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr Cornwall your a tart oralminx he as 3 wifes on here and me as a mistress so be careful lol"

Hey janelle, at least as the mistress you get the best sex!

And get the tight fisted git to take u somewhere classy!

*ducks head from flying missiles thrown by the many real wives on here*

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay


"ah but you are only the mistress lol

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That's not right, the mistress usually gets better pressies, no? "

oh pearl you will get me in more trouble too lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I turned 16, I asked my parents for a vasectomy. I'm 33 in two weeks and I shall ask yet again as I have done every year since that first time. I really have no desire whatsoever to have children and would love to shoot blanks instead "

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I asked for sterilisation when I went to the uni's sexual health clinic when I was 19, and was told no one in the NHS would entertain sterilising anyone that young.

I repeatedly asked for it every 5 years or so and received the same answer.

They finally said yes in 2009 when I was 44!

However, no need for that anymore - the Mirena coil is as good as, if not better than sterilisation!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ah but you are only the mistress lol

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That's not right, the mistress usually gets better pressies, no?

oh pearl you will get me in more trouble too lol x"

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Self-inflicted, so no sympathy from me, sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a falling out with a friend of mine as he didn't go to bed until 2, 3 in the morning waiting for his cats to come home. He can't sleep until they're all safely home. Find...no problem with that, but he had the cheek to say there was something wrong with me because I said I couldn't sleep until my daughter had come home.

Naturally, he doesn't have any children!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't wait up for the cat as she is smart and can look after herself.

I did go round the neighbourhood and asked if anyone had seen her after she did not come home for 48h once.

She strolled in and demanded food and a cuddle, as if nothing had happened, typical!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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However, no need for that anymore - the Mirena coil is as good as, if not better than sterilisation! "

Interesting! A friend of mine is hunting around for contraception with her boyfriend. She was asking me about it for some reason and I know nowt about the coil. Good to know it's done the trick for you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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However, no need for that anymore - the Mirena coil is as good as, if not better than sterilisation!

Interesting! A friend of mine is hunting around for contraception with her boyfriend. She was asking me about it for some reason and I know nowt about the coil. Good to know it's done the trick for you! "

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That was not available when I started to be sexually active at 19.

However, I have always had the coil, and it suited me fine, as hormonal contraceptions did not suit me.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"I don't wait up for the cat as she is smart and can look after herself.

I did go round the neighbourhood and asked if anyone had seen her after she did not come home for 48h once.

She strolled in and demanded food and a cuddle, as if nothing had happened, typical!

sounds like my ex!!!!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr Cornwall your a tart oralminx he as 3 wifes on here and me as a mistress so be careful lol

Hey janelle, at least as the mistress you get the best sex!

And get the tight fisted git to take u somewhere classy!

*ducks head from flying missiles thrown by the many real wives on here*"

You would think wouldn't you but he's too shagged to even see me now. That mans a harlot I tell ya. Classy for him is KFC and I have to pay.

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

hey janelle i bought the last time! shhheeeeshhhh! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting for my bag of scratchings though

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

When i was little i was the one that babysat everyone and looked after all the babies. Everyone expected me to have at least six. 2 miscarriages and one healthy son i think im the luckiest person in the world. My sister has never had children, has never wanted them. She prefers to just travel the world with her husband. Different people want different things in life, but my heart goes to those that do want children but havent been able to have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had two daughters,

but my eldest sister couldn't have any children, now my two girls,the eldest cant have any, and my youngest had a miscarriage and doesnt seem to want to try again, funny how things repeat there selves in families.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I classed myself as NON maternal.

It would have stayed that way if it hadnt have been for penicillin.

Years ago i didnt know that the pill i was on was made inaffective by taking penicillin for my tonsils.

And then along came my son.

I didnt even think of the alternatives to having him.

He was and always will be a blessing , even though i dont see him as he in the usa.

Whats meant to be is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww bloody hell yes ! I'd sooner have a puppy any day of the week as opposed to a kid.

For some unknown reason, babies and children do absolutely nothing for me but the strange thing is that they love me Maybe they are pulling the piss because they sense that I don't like them.

Gimme a dog, 2 dogs, 25 dogs any day, but please keep those slavvering, shitty, pukey babies away from me bleuuuuuuuggggggh

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

personally I couldnt have imagined my life without kids -but I can see ppls point of _iew when they say their lives are great being childless,no financial worries only having to please themselves etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww bloody hell yes ! I'd sooner have a puppy any day of the week as opposed to a kid.

For some unknown reason, babies and children do absolutely nothing for me but the strange thing is that they love me Maybe they are pulling the piss because they sense that I don't like them.

Gimme a dog, 2 dogs, 25 dogs any day, but please keep those slavvering, shitty, pukey babies away from me bleuuuuuuuggggggh "

Funny that....

I dont make a habit of fawning all googly eyed at kids and babies but they make a bee line for me. ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"personally I couldnt have imagined my life without kids -but I can see ppls point of _iew when they say their lives are great being childless,no financial worries only having to please themselves etc "

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And freedom to do what one pleases!

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