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'My gift is my song, and this one's for you'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies, which would you choose from your lover - a particularly costly gift (which we'll assume was purchased with expendable income), or a song written just for you, which would you value more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surely anything personal is clearly more meaningful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"surely anything personal is clearly more meaningful "

For sentimental types, certainly.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

A guy I dated wrote me a beautiful poem, which I still remember and treasure. I'd plump for the song.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex wrote me a song. I think it was called "I hate you bitch" . Better than the presents anyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The song - no contest ! Or something hand made if a gift from some one who is not musical.

I once went on a date & the person brought with him mixed seeds .Tied in a biodegradable tissue pouch to throw in an area that meant something to me ,instead of binging flowers -I absolutely preferred that & loved it ! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kids dad wrote me a song. In fact several. I'd have the song every time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a song definitely, or a poem...either would be very much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The expensive present. The idea of some overly schmaltzy saccharine sweet song makes me want to vomit.

A more appropriate comparison for me would be expensive present vs spending time with him. In which case I'd value the time far more.

But a song, poem or similar bollocks - nope, not for me at all.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Someone sent me lots of recordings of them singing songs, some are very touching.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

My ex lover used to play me music, if I knew then what I know now, I'd go for the gift lol

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By *heBakeOLiteGirlWoman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)

My x who sadly died of cancer nearly 10 years ago now was a musician. He sang me a version of "somewhere over the rainbow" I can't listen to it without bursting into tears so I think I would pick song

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Some times expensive presents have their place for treats but anyone can spend money(if theyve got it) but not everyone has the imagination to make the simpliest things the most pleasurable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The song - no contest ! Or something hand made if a gift from some one who is not musical.

I once went on a date & the person brought with him mixed seeds .Tied in a biodegradable tissue pouch to throw in an area that meant something to me ,instead of binging flowers -I absolutely preferred that & loved it ! x

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How lovely

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Actually when i spend a lot of money on jay its never on a material gift its always on some kind of experience gift

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"My x who sadly died of cancer nearly 10 years ago now was a musician. He sang me a version of "somewhere over the rainbow" I can't listen to it without bursting into tears so I think I would pick song "

Awww!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a difficult one for me....

I have received beautiful poems and notes (not a song) and I have received beautiful gifts and experiences...

I had a trip bought for me to Paris with a kiss under the Eiffel Tower

I have had emerald ring bought for me whilst sailing in the Caribbean

And I've had suicide notes written for me saying "I will always love you for you are true blue"

I think a genuine gesture that carries heartfelt thought is the most beautiful gift from a lover

Mwah

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I write my own songs

I'd like some brand new Pioneer CDJ 2000's (and a mixer) please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My songs and poems are worth fuck all, so I'd always go for buying a present

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"My ex wrote me a song. I think it was called "I hate you bitch" . Better than the presents anyday "

Well that's gotta be better than Smack Up My Bitch

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Actually when i spend a lot of money on jay its never on a material gift its always on some kind of experience gift"

No worries Karen, just a pint will do when you come to Derby

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By *iss AdventureWoman
over a year ago

Wonderland

Honestly, the present but it doesn't have to be expensive. If it's a thoughtful gift, or even as unique as the song would be, I'd be touched and humbled.

I'm sentimental with presents, I still have a pair of earrings my brother and sister gave me for my eighth birthday, the first cuddly toy my step dad bought for me when I was a child, the first picture my younger brothers drew for me ..... amongst many other things, and I love the memories attached to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet the sentimental song would be fucking cringey and forced. I'd rather the gift or nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cuppa and a cuddle do for me. I had a song written for me once and I found it a wee bit uncomfortable and icky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The song - no contest ! Or something hand made if a gift from some one who is not musical.

I once went on a date & the person brought with him mixed seeds .Tied in a biodegradable tissue pouch to throw in an area that meant something to me ,instead of binging flowers -I absolutely preferred that & loved it ! x

How lovely

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It was ,I'm very much a lover of 'gorilla' gardening !

Rather unfortunate that it turned out that he was leading multiple lives but hey ho just think of all those meadows popping up all over the Country- it's got to be a winner for our bees at least lol ! ;p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually when i spend a lot of money on jay its never on a material gift its always on some kind of experience gift"

That's always a winner over collecting 'stuff' .Collecting memories much more fun & meaningful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd find it cringeworthy to have a song written for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not romantic or sentimental in the slightest so would go for the gift, have my eyes on a rather lovely necklace by David Morris - realistically it's going to be a long wait.

Ginger

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Just their time for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex wrote me a song. I think it was called "I hate you bitch" . Better than the presents anyday

Well that's gotta be better than Smack Up My Bitch "

Nah progidy are class the ex was just ass

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"The song - no contest ! Or something hand made if a gift from some one who is not musical.

I once went on a date & the person brought with him mixed seeds .Tied in a biodegradable tissue pouch to throw in an area that meant something to me ,instead of binging flowers -I absolutely preferred that & loved it ! x

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see id absolutly love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I get the song loose less or MP3?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

When jay and i realised it was serious we realitically knew we probably wont have as much time together as others so we started making memories from the word go sometimes we can just be doing something and theres a moment i say close your eyes and we close our eyes and make the memory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can only compare it to when I was a teenager & a boy from school wrote me a love poem, it was a bit cringe to be honest as it was pants.

So based on that experience I would rather the present if it meant he spent time choosing it specifically for me, knowing how much I would enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a funny thing, when creatively moved I have written half decent poems and songs for a few select people but I don't think any of them were particularly appreciated. However the songs were despised by others when I performed them, because they weren't written for them. Who'd be a poet or songwriter? I guess that's why I packed writing in.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

My wife likes me to sing to her all the time, not compose a whole song, but spontaneously come up with something, half the time in Burmese! If she can't get to sleep she asks me to sing her a song.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wrote a song for pooch once

But as I can only play the triangle it was called

Ting ting ting tinggy ting ting

As you were

Taff

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just their time for me. "

This.

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