FabSwingers.com forum: Causing trouble

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why would women message other women's veris and try and cause trouble with them because of things that u have said in the forum and the chat rooms.

Seriously fucked off with interfering busybodies on fab.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

You would be amazed at what women will do...but then it backfires on them......some need to remember that they left the playground a bloody long time ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they're small minded individuals with nothing better to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just jealousy its common on fab don't display veris or mention meets in status messages sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave that in the playground

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

That's one of the reasons a lot of my veris are hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place just gets better and better.

I'm sorry this is happening to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm so pissed off this morning I'm tempted to just hide my whole profile

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I'm so pissed off this morning I'm tempted to just hide my whole profile"

Been there, done that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people feel they have the right to say something about how you use your profile or who you meet.

Fabs full of the entitled too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so pissed off this morning I'm tempted to just hide my whole profile"
if you do that they win,don't display your notches keep them private better all round anyway ,the meet was the important thing not telling everyone about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so pissed off this morning I'm tempted to just hide my whole profile if you do that they win,don't display your notches keep them private better all round anyway ,the meet was the important thing not telling everyone about it

It sometimes ( more often than not in our case ) works the other way round though .

Some of our best meets have come about thanks to women checking our veri trail .

Very few single bi females feel comfortable meeting up on their own without some form of validation . We are quite happy for anyone to talk to anyone on our veris , and if anyone wants to slag us off for what we say on the forum , so be it .

We are here to meet up and have fun , not to get brownie points on the forums .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sometimes ( more often than not in our case ) works the other way round though .

Some of our best meets have come about thanks to women checking our veri trail .

We are here to meet up and have fun , not to get brownie points on the forums ."
yes but you are the exception to every rule

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yeah I have had experience with envious women following me around the forums and stirring up trouble about things I have said. ... most of them are too dumb to realise what's actually going on it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would women message other women's veris and try and cause trouble with them because of things that u have said in the forum and the chat rooms.

Seriously fucked off with interfering busybodies on fab.

I think mainly it's because I'm too good to be true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabs full of crap minimise it just be private ' what you don't know can't hurt you ' a good human being has feelings why make them feel bad unessassarily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they think they can intimidate or rile you they will. Report, block and don't give them the satisfaction of knowing they have ruffled your feathers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we said we were going to a party on the forums we had chancers messaging our Veri's asking them where it was and can they come?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Do people seriously do that?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there is a lot of jealousy going on lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people seriously do that?!"

You'd be surprised at what some women will do on here, I was!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because there is a lot of jealousy going on lol."

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Do people seriously do that?!

You'd be surprised at what some women will do on here, I was!"

Very strange behaviour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people seriously do that?!

You'd be surprised at what some women will do on here, I was!"

Not just women !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some very strange people on here. I've had abusive messages because I've disagreed with a certain female cereal poster. We should name and shame them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep your shit private.

Then no one knows anything about what you choose to do or who you choose to meet.

SIMPLES ?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Some very strange people on here. I've had abusive messages because I've disagreed with a certain female cereal poster. We should name and shame them."

Go ahead. Enjoy your timeout.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some very strange people on here. I've had abusive messages because I've disagreed with a certain female serial poster. We should name and shame them."

Fixed

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

There are quite a few people on her with some serious issues!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would women message other women's veris and try and cause trouble with them because of things that u have said in the forum and the chat rooms.

Seriously fucked off with interfering busybodies on fab.

Because they are sad

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's also funny when people make up lies to stir trouble.

Not that I'm suggesting that the OP is lying but some people say all sorts of things for attention and sympathy and to try to land people in trouble.

That's the thing about naming and shaming. Anyone can claim anything at all.

Someone on this thread ate my hamster. I should name and shame!

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Some very strange people on here. I've had abusive messages because I've disagreed with a certain female serial poster. We should name and shame them.

Fixed

Nah, they kept posting what did you have for breakfast threads.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Do people seriously do that?!

You'd be surprised at what some women will do on here, I was!

Not just women !!!"

True

Jealousy and ickle hurt egos are all too common here.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

This is pretty much why I don't use the verification system or have a friends list showing. Apart from the total lack of discretion that it enables, I don't need to see those traits in people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people seriously do that?!

You'd be surprised at what some women will do on here, I was!

Not just women !!!"

True, I'm just more of women's jealous behaviour as opposed to men's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is pretty much why I don't use the verification system or have a friends list showing. Apart from the total lack of discretion that it enables, I don't need to see those traits in people.

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see the voice of sanity that's why you're a mod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell have they nothing better to do and why do they think they have the right to be nasty , silly silly women .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would women message other women's veris and try and cause trouble with them because of things that u have said in the forum and the chat rooms.

Seriously fucked off with interfering busybodies on fab.

Because contrary to popular belief it's not just single men that can be a bit crazy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone on this thread ate my hamster. I should name and shame!

I said I was sorry about that. Jesus.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women blatantly treat this site more for dating than swinging, I think that is the root of the problem.

That's their prerogative but they should respect the fact that not everybody does and it is still a swingers site.

Thinking a man will suddenly change after a few good meets is a bit delusional really but it takes all sorts

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Some women blatantly treat this site more for dating than swinging, I think that is the root of the problem.

That's their prerogative but they should respect the fact that not everybody does and it is still a swingers site.

Thinking a man will suddenly change after a few good meets is a bit delusional really but it takes all sorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can get very silly.

I've hidden my veri's because of some women! Although if the guy shows my veri I'm still in for abuse!! It's sad because we should all be able to share out veri's!

I've been threatened to stay away from guys before, it's sad. If any guy has veri's from either of the two women I've had the most trouble from, I stay well clear!!!! To be honest anyone who would go with either of those deranged nutters isn't worth my time!

I guess it's also the outcome of the elaborate veri's people leave.... "The best I've ever had", "best at this/that"!!'

Maybe keep the veri's simple and status updates! "You know who you are"? Ffs grow up people!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I have had experience with envious women following me around the forums and stirring up trouble about things I have said. ... most of them are too dumb to realise what's actually going on it seems.

This, jealousy is usually the reason behind it, more so with women it seems. Their only making themselves look more of a twat by doing what they are doing and it'll soon come back round and bite them on the ass!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Just keep the messages they send, that way they cannot deny sending them..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I find it hilerious. Its obvious noone sees me as a threat or is jealous as ive never experienced any jealous women.

I just find it strange that some constantly have it happen to them

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I find it hilerious. Its obvious noone sees me as a threat or is jealous as ive never experienced any jealous women.

I just find it strange that some constantly have it happen to them"

I would feel envious of a few women on here if I didn't give myself a serious talking to when thoughts of that nature start to sneak in. It's my problem though and it's up to me to deal with it. I can't imagine taking it out on anyone else.

This surely isn't the right site for people who have a jealous streak or a fragile ego?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I find it hilerious. Its obvious noone sees me as a threat or is jealous as ive never experienced any jealous women.

I just find it strange that some constantly have it happen to them

This surely isn't the right site for people who have a jealous streak or a fragile ego?"
but what is there to be envious of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it hilerious. Its obvious noone sees me as a threat or is jealous as ive never experienced any jealous women.

I just find it strange that some constantly have it happen to them"

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sometimes ( more often than not in our case ) works the other way round though .

Some of our best meets have come about thanks to women checking our veri trail .

We are here to meet up and have fun , not to get brownie points on the forums ."

I don't tend to search for profiles, I just read verifications and find someone of interest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever meet people who are meeting others, cuts out the crazies and we all know where we stand

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I had someone who I thought a great deal of ring me one afternoon and accuse me of stirring things up with another friend of his, strange though as I didn't even have a clue who the other person was and that is sooooo far from any behaviour I would exhibit.

People can get it so wrong and spoil something that was a great memory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it hilerious. Its obvious noone sees me as a threat or is jealous as ive never experienced any jealous women.

I just find it strange that some constantly have it happen to them"

What's the old the saying 'like attracts like'.....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes it happens.

Block them and think no more of it.

I learned the hard way but the lesson was that giving them any thought or reaction fuels their fire.

Those who know you won't believe anything mad/bad about you (unless there is something mad/bad) and those that do believe it aren't people you need in your life.

Show your verifications if you want to - it's YOUR profile.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It's called pissing up the lamp post its rife on the forums and fab in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people like drama in their lives in whatever form. If I got a message from someone who'd met someone I'd veried just being bitchy - I'd think wtf is going on and delete it. Job done - drama over.

Sarah

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I don't post certain veris as frankly it's nobody's business who I meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some very strange people on here. I've had abusive messages because I've disagreed with a certain female serial poster. We should name and shame them.

Fixed

Ha ha thanks. Doh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been told be a few meets that you women are jealous even if you say your not. Its built into you. From a women

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Ive been told be a few meets that you women are jealous even if you say your not. Its built into you. From a women

Those particular meets may be jealous but they have no idea how other women feel.

Plenty of men get jealous too.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Ive been told be a few meets that you women are jealous even if you say your not. Its built into you. From a women

I've experienced more jealousy from men across my lifetime. It's a complex emotion.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Ive been told be a few meets that you women are jealous even if you say your not. Its built into you. From a women

I've experienced more jealousy from men across my lifetime. It's a complex emotion.

^same here

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Why would women message other women's veris and try and cause trouble with them because of things that u have said in the forum and the chat rooms.

Seriously fucked off with interfering busybodies on fab.

I would report the users if you have mail from them or ask the people who were sent the mail to.

I can appreciate people being annoyed when told these things, but don't forget, it may also be stirring the pot.

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