FabSwingers.com forum: 5 messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I very really send messages to people I haven't chatted to and hardly ever with a face pic,

I sent 5 over the last few days with a face picture and different types of messages ranging from just hi, I like your profile to seen you on the cams a few times, There was more to the message of course,

1 replied and a little conversation,

1 read but no reply

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3 not read,

To the Men, Is that your normal success rate with messages ?

And to the ladies, Does adding a face picture make a difference if you reply or not ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never send face pics and I have a 100% reply rate

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I sent four. All read and not replied. I didn't include a face picture though (I usually get blocked when I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We reply to *almost* every message, so a face pic doesn't effect that.

An attached face pic does, however, increase the chances of a favorable reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I currently have 40 unread messages in my inbox, the ones from friends get read first

However if I see the attachment icon, I wait until people are offline, and then look at the message, those without rarely get looked at.

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"I very really send messages to people I haven't chatted to and hardly ever with a face pic,

1 replied and a little conversation,

1 read but no reply

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3 not read,

To the Men, Is that your normal success rate with messages ?

And to the ladies, Does adding a face picture make a difference if you reply or not ?

I average one reply for every ten messages sent so your above my average well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of things depend on whether I reply ...a face pic helps if there's not much of a profile though ...distance, age, what the actually message me all goes towards whether I reply ...a biggy is have they read my profile. ..if they blatantly haven't I delete xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely reply to a message without a face picture on it. I wouldnt ask for a face picture without sending mine first as I would find it rude, but at the same time I'm not keen on sending them first in case they know me.

Ultimately if I had two messages one with face pic and one without the likely result is the one without would be deleted and the one with wouldn't be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A face pic matters to me but so does other factors too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I very really send messages to people I haven't chatted to and hardly ever with a face pic,

1 replied and a little conversation,

1 read but no reply

and

3 not read,

To the Men, Is that your normal success rate with messages ?

And to the ladies, Does adding a face picture make a difference if you reply or not ?

YOU GET REPLIES????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There doesn't seem to be any pattern. To be honest I think a lot depends on the mood of the recipient when they receive it along with the content of your message?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I say on my profile to send a picture if they dont they havent read my profile, well if i get a message and it doesnt say picture attatched i rarely open it. Also id never send a first message without them being able to see me its not blindate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First message doesn't have to have a face pic for me.

Before reading message though i click into their profile. If they smoke, don't accommodate or are much further than 30miles away ill delete message without reading. I clearly state i wouldn't be interested on my profile.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"I very really send messages to people I haven't chatted to and hardly ever with a face pic,

1 replied and a little conversation,

1 read but no reply

and

3 not read,

To the Men, Is that your normal success rate with messages ?

And to the ladies, Does adding a face picture make a difference if you reply or not ?

I always reply to messages that are worded nicely. Only ignore those that are asking for a meet at the drop of a hat. Definitely attaching a face pic will deem how many messages I will continue with.

Always reply to yours Scrummy xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not read could mean:

They haven't been online since you sent it? (Don't know as you haven't said)

Your message has fallen off the bottom of the list as only the100 most recent are visible.

You have been ignored.

All 3 of these are possibilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to 95 % of mail but then again I don't get much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I currently have 40 unread messages in my inbox, the ones from friends get read first

However if I see the attachment icon, I wait until people are offline, and then look at the message, those without rarely get looked at."

Guilty too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

scrolled down the whole sent messages page - 7 unread (6 were to single fems who get zillions of messages) that were first messages - 2 others unread but will be soon as regular chatters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"scrolled down the whole sent messages page - 7 unread (6 were to single fems who get zillions of messages) that were first messages - 2 others unread but will be soon as regular chatters "

rest are mix of read only and some that are ongoing occasional chatters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite rare that I message new people now 'off the cuff' and if I do it tends to be off the back of a forum thread. On the whole I tend to get a high reply rate but I guess if I did a local search of non Forumites my response rate would be much lower.

I might try a few non Forum people over the weekend and see what sort of response I get - all in the interests of science of course!

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

And to the ladies, Does adding a face picture make a difference if you reply or not ?

Not to the initial message no it makes no difference if you send a face pic. I reply based on the message firstly, secondly the profile. If I reply with some level of interest either send then or the lady can ask for it when they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I reply to 95 % of mail but then again I don't get much

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apparently I messaged you 4 days ago but for the life of me I can't remember what about?

you did reply!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Admittedly none were local, One was a couple and nothing in their profiles stated that I wouldn't be a match, Well apart from being very attractive

But I chanced my luck anyway

Even though it was just a message and not asking anything more, A social/meet etc

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"I reply to 95 % of mail but then again I don't get much

I delete 95% of mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not read could mean:

They haven't been online since you sent it? (Don't know as you haven't said)

Your message has fallen off the bottom of the list as only the100 most recent are visible.

You have been ignored.

All 3 of these are possibilities "

Yes they have all been online,

And I gather they get hundreds as 3 of them go on cam, I was just doing a sort of experiment on different fab users and seeing if they respond,

I will try a few local none cam users next time,

Oh when I say experiment, I would of met all of them for their looks/profile text, Not like they are some sort of test subject

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I very really send messages to people I haven't chatted to and hardly ever with a face pic,

1 replied and a little conversation,

1 read but no reply

and

3 not read,

To the Men, Is that your normal success rate with messages ?

And to the ladies, Does adding a face picture make a difference if you reply or not ?

I always reply to messages that are worded nicely. Only ignore those that are asking for a meet at the drop of a hat. Definitely attaching a face pic will deem how many messages I will continue with.

Always reply to yours Scrummy xxxxx Suzi

Yes you do

Thank you Suzi

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We will always reply (provided it is not crude or abusive), even if it just a no thank you. A face pic is nice but not essential

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"I currently have 40 unread messages in my inbox, the ones from friends get read first

However if I see the attachment icon, I wait until people are offline, and then look at the message, those without rarely get looked at."

Haha!! I do this too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I reply to 95 % of mail but then again I don't get much

apparently I messaged you 4 days ago but for the life of me I can't remember what about?

you did reply! "

Forum game I think and yes I always try to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I very really send messages to people I haven't chatted to and hardly ever with a face pic,

1 replied and a little conversation,

1 read but no reply

and

3 not read,

To the Men, Is that your normal success rate with messages ?

And to the ladies, Does adding a face picture make a difference if you reply or not ?

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I always send a face pic amongst a few others and my success rate is quite high but I would say 85%

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I suppose it was more to see if they replied when a face pic was attached to the message even if the face doesn't match what they are looking for, Maybe I should say face picture is included at the beginning of the message,

Also on average how many messages do you actually receive with your first message ?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I usually reply to messages that include a face pic even if it's a thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I never thought about "success rate". I just messaged some people I liked and they messaged me back...or didn't.

I had enough fun. Sometimes almost too much.

I never felt like I was failing because, in human relationships, it is all potentially a positive.

You live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your doing it wrong! everyone knowns women love cock pics in the first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to every message as long as it's not got a dic pic and is not crude x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I reply to all my messages but a face pic would get my proper attention of the message is polite and the profile seems good too.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"your doing it wrong! everyone knowns women love cock pics in the first message

I wouldn't mind a message from you

No cock pic though.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I try to reply to all messages with a face pic in....

Ones with none get nowt lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just send one message this week lol. I don't really send so many on the search results, more via the forum.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

" There doesn't seem to be any pattern. To be honest I think a lot depends on the mood of the recipient when they receive it along with the content of your message? "

Very true.

If they've clearly read my profile and send a polite message, an attached face pic (or there's one on the profile), 9/10 they'll get a response whether I fancy them or not. Basic manners.

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish

We reply to most messages with or without a face pic

(Mrs)

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Does adding a face picture make a difference if you reply or not ?

I suppose it depends on how pig ugly you are, although if you are "bi" then no fucker will give a shit

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I used to reply to everyone, but when it's just a hi, it gets monotonous, so I just reply with a hi back..

The ones I get the most enjoyment from are those that have read my profile and sends a picture of their face..

Then you have something to reply to and indicates they may be a more thorough person in there dealings with you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just so fussy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

2 replies out of 5 now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 replies out of 5 now

Nice work, it's very rare for me to message anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're supposed to send messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adding a face picture makes all the difference for me. Haven't got the time to chase up every man for a face picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I very really send messages to people I haven't chatted to and hardly ever with a face pic,

1 replied and a little conversation,

1 read but no reply

and

3 not read,

To the Men, Is that your normal success rate with messages ?

And to the ladies, Does adding a face picture make a difference if you reply or not ?

I have a zero success rate when it comes to sending messages no matter what polite things I say in them even with a face pic.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I've had replies to all my messages.. Purely chatty thanks for the fabs type ones .. No coffee or sex was offered by either party .. Well... Maybe I really fancy you was mentioned once or twice

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I don't ever think I havent replied to a message even if it's a no thanks. Sometimes I do get a little sarcastic when it's been obvious our profile hadn't been read.

I was brought up to be polite what more can I say.

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