FabSwingers.com forum: Bdsm shenanigans

By *randMrs Spanish Brunette OP Couple
over a year ago

home sweet home

What is your favorite bdsm activity?

Mrs.

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"What is your favorite bdsm activity?

Mrs.

All tied and spanked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stamping on a guys balls.

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"Stamping on a guys balls."

I am not coming near you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shinbari

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I don't have a favourite. Tie & tease, strap-on play, percussion play, sensation play, breathplay, chastity play... there are loads of things I enjoy.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

CP, strap-on

We really should have a devoted BDSM forum what with all the kink being posted lately (and yes I am on that other Fet site but it doesn't have the interaction we have here)

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"I don't have a favourite. Tie & tease, strap-on play, percussion play, sensation play, breathplay, chastity play... there are loads of things I enjoy."

Love sensation play...never had a strap-on play on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shinbari

ive heard of shibari but not shinbari

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"CP, strap-on

We really should have a devoted BDSM forum what with all the kink being posted lately (and yes I am on that other Fet site but it doesn't have the interaction we have here)"

I agree...

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By *randMrs Spanish Brunette OP Couple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"CP, strap-on

We really should have a devoted BDSM forum what with all the kink being posted lately (and yes I am on that other Fet site but it doesn't have the interaction we have here)"

Maybe we should suggest that to admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"CP, strap-on

We really should have a devoted BDSM forum what with all the kink being posted lately (and yes I am on that other Fet site but it doesn't have the interaction we have here)"

it's dead that site. plus anyone who messages me never has any pics of themselves, just stupid pervert cartoons and shit like that on their page. or their dick.

i'm only still on it do i can get alerts to when munches or socials are on local to me.

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Love strap on play, spanking etc. All good fun with the right person of course.

Claire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shinbari

ive heard of shibari but not shinbari

....lets his dragonfly harness slip of his shoulders to the floor......

my bad, apologies for my spelling mistake, I will go sit in the corner..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like watching extreme breast torture , needles , and even nails ....

Very horny , but not something we would do ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.

Then blindfolding her, putting music through her ear buds and gagging her as I drip hot wax all over her sexy ass and body from all angles, watching her squirm from her senses being deprived as I change from the heat of the wax to the ultra cold of an ice cube touching her sensitive bits until she can't take it anymore and her legs and arms begin to buckle.

#ColdShowerRequired

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By *randMrs Spanish Brunette OP Couple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.

#ColdShowerRequired

That is so horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.

#ColdShowerRequired

That is so horny.

Yes it does get the juices a-flowin'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Restraints - I love being restrained in different ways, the more interesting the better!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"CP, strap-on

We really should have a devoted BDSM forum what with all the kink being posted lately (and yes I am on that other Fet site but it doesn't have the interaction we have here)

Maybe we should suggest that to admin

Has been done before but seems there were protests from vanilla's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"CP, strap-on

We really should have a devoted BDSM forum what with all the kink being posted lately (and yes I am on that other Fet site but it doesn't have the interaction we have here)

Maybe we should suggest that to admin

Has been done before but seems there were protests from vanilla's"

Why would anyone protest about a forum they don't have to read.... oh dear

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"CP, strap-on

We really should have a devoted BDSM forum what with all the kink being posted lately (and yes I am on that other Fet site but it doesn't have the interaction we have here)

Maybe we should suggest that to admin

Has been done before but seems there were protests from vanilla's"

Why should that matter to admin?

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By *randMrs Spanish Brunette OP Couple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"CP, strap-on

We really should have a devoted BDSM forum what with all the kink being posted lately (and yes I am on that other Fet site but it doesn't have the interaction we have here)

Maybe we should suggest that to admin

Has been done before but seems there were protests from vanilla's

Why would anyone protest about a forum they don't have to read.... oh dear"

I just don't get some people. Nobody is forcing them read it. I'm really surprised of how closed minded some people are.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel so pure.

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre

I used to play with a girl from Cardiff is was good sport to scare the vanillas in the dungeon at the clink!

Things I love, restraint with orgasm control by electric play estim and violet wand.

Heavy impact play with a pain slut

I would love to find a girl game for some extreme enema play I would love to see her water baby grow with belly inflation

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

Restraint, wax play, blindfold,spanking,electro play...

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.

#ColdShowerRequired

That is so horny.

Yes it does get the juices a-flowin'

Oh crumbs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have few I love more than others. Love: wax play (on males and females), flogging, blindfolding, biting - especially bums (love seeing my male sub wince when doing this), and a little bit of spanking now and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bdsm forum, would bring people flocking to fab from the other site, and a whole fab fetish site like fab swingers or fab guys or fab flirts would pretty much destroy the other one in this country.

As for my kinks?

Don't be so lazy, go and have a look at my profile, I'll be here waiting when you get back

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"A bdsm forum, would bring people flocking to fab from the other site, and a whole fab fetish site like fab swingers or fab guys or fab flirts would pretty much destroy the other one in this country.

As for my kinks?

Don't be so lazy, go and have a look at my profile, I'll be here waiting when you get back

Really don't think it would. There are plenty of kink people I know who want nothing to do with swingers (mores the pity).

And Fab Guys has hardly killed of Grindr

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By *randMrs Spanish Brunette OP Couple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"A bdsm forum, would bring people flocking to fab from the other site, and a whole fab fetish site like fab swingers or fab guys or fab flirts would pretty much destroy the other one in this country.

As for my kinks?

Don't be so lazy, go and have a look at my profile, I'll be here waiting when you get back

Really sexy stuff

Mrs

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.

#ColdShowerRequired

That sounds awesome

I've not tried much but if someone flogs me just right I'm in a dream world for ages after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bdsm forum, would bring people flocking to fab from the other site, and a whole fab fetish site like fab swingers or fab guys or fab flirts would pretty much destroy the other one in this country.

As for my kinks?

Don't be so lazy, go and have a look at my profile, I'll be here waiting when you get back

Really don't think it would. There are plenty of kink people I know who want nothing to do with swingers (mores the pity).

And Fab Guys has hardly killed of Grindr

I've just heard over and over again the complaints about how poor the forums are in there, as far as I can see there are no forums just a post for lots if subjects from a 20 year old sub and 90000 guys under it saying "good girl" ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure of a favourite and still so much to try.

Restraint - bondage or collar & leash, clamping, blind folds - tie & tease,

candle/ice play, caning, whipping, paddling, flogging & spanking.

Lots more besides.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.

#ColdShowerRequired

That sounds delicious, would love to indulge in wax play again, its been a while! I adore wearing a collar and lead they instantly make me feel super sexy yet incredibly submissive at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"CP, strap-on

We really should have a devoted BDSM forum what with all the kink being posted lately (and yes I am on that other Fet site but it doesn't have the interaction we have here)

Maybe we should suggest that to admin

Has been done before but seems there were protests from vanilla's

Why would anyone protest about a forum they don't have to read.... oh dear

I just don't get some people. Nobody is forcing them read it. I'm really surprised of how closed minded some people are.

Mrs

The big problem is that the forums can be read by anyone ....

So the more extreme stuff doesn't put the site in a good light on the internet if people read about some of the weird shit ...

And that's the way it is

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"A bdsm forum, would bring people flocking to fab from the other site, and a whole fab fetish site like fab swingers or fab guys or fab flirts would pretty much destroy the other one in this country.

As for my kinks?

Don't be so lazy, go and have a look at my profile, I'll be here waiting when you get back

Really don't think it would. There are plenty of kink people I know who want nothing to do with swingers (mores the pity).

And Fab Guys has hardly killed of Grindr

Ha!!

Don't think a devoted Fab Kink page is required but maybe a BDSM room in chat or board on these forums would be nice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bdsm forum, would bring people flocking to fab from the other site, and a whole fab fetish site like fab swingers or fab guys or fab flirts would pretty much destroy the other one in this country.

As for my kinks?

Don't be so lazy, go and have a look at my profile, I'll be here waiting when you get back

Really don't think it would. There are plenty of kink people I know who want nothing to do with swingers (mores the pity).

And Fab Guys has hardly killed of Grindr

Ha!!

Don't think a devoted Fab Kink page is required but maybe a BDSM room in chat or board on these forums would be nice?"

Yeah then I can tell all and sundry what I like to do with 8 elastic bands and a pair of drum sticks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah then I can tell all and sundry what I like to do with 8 elastic bands and a pair of drum sticks

As in wooden not chicken ? Now I'm intrigued as to what you do, do with them.

Hairbands around nipples work well too.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah then I can tell all and sundry what I like to do with 8 elastic bands and a pair of drum sticks

As in wooden not chicken ? Now I'm intrigued as to what you do, do with them.

Hairbands around nipples work well too.

Sarah "

Wooden, and I don't do breast torture, I've not seen enough evidence that it can be dismissed from the list if things that cause breast cancer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.

#ColdShowerRequired

That sounds delicious, would love to indulge in wax play again, its been a while! I adore wearing a collar and lead they instantly make me feel super sexy yet incredibly submissive at the same time. "

I'm Glad you like it. I like the idea of you in collar and lead too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love bondage and sensory deprivation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hairbands around nipples work well too.

Sarah

Wooden, and I don't do breast torture, I've not seen enough evidence that it can be dismissed from the list if things that cause breast cancer.

I think like with anything , you have to treat it with care. We always do.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sane and consensual, remember it, and say it till you hear it like you hear your own name

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre

The sad thing was the main free kink site, that shall not be named. killed off what was the really wonderful and UK focused Informed Consent, I presume I can say it's name as its now defunct, without IC we wouldn't have half the fet seen we have in the UK it was a true community resource and is sadly missed by those of us who remember it from the start, it must have been closed 5 years now but is still missed.

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By *randMrs Spanish Brunette OP Couple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Safe sane and consensual, remember it, and say it till you hear it like you hear your own name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sad thing was the main free kink site, that shall not be named. killed off what was the really wonderful and UK focused Informed Consent, I presume I can say it's name as its now defunct, without IC we wouldn't have half the fet seen we have in the UK it was a true community resource and is sadly missed by those of us who remember it from the start, it must have been closed 5 years now but is still missed. "

Yes IC was the place I made several friends and learned a lot about various kinks. It was a real shame when it closed. The fet site isn't a patch on IC but at least our friends migrated over to it so we can keep in touch

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

many years ago we visited the LFF london fetish fair ..the meet after was so hot, so now we arrange our own parties along the same lines ..connie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah I remember ic well! It was very crude as sites go but had a wonderful community spirit. And it wasn't American based!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Very much miss IC. Learnt a lot and met some wonderful people from there. What's replaced it just doesn't have the same community spirit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Safe sane and consensual, remember it, and say it till you hear it like you hear your own name

Is that the twisted monk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Safe sane and consensual, remember it, and say it till you hear it like you hear your own name

Is that the twisted monk? "

No, just a kinky butler

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By *luttyslut34Couple
over a year ago

cumbria

"What is your favorite bdsm activity?

Mrs.

Restrained, blindfolded, ballgagged and waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being put over a mans lap and being smacked , massive turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mr) used to use IC, learned a great deal from it and made some good friends.

Really can't be bothered with the other one. So many dramas and fall-outs it makes these forums look like a Buddhist retreat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Safe sane and consensual, remember it, and say it till you hear it like you hear your own name

Is that the twisted monk?

No, just a kinky butler

I am sure he says that at the end of each one of his training videos, along with reminding us all to have our safety sheers in case things go wrong

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Whilst it took us a while getting used to the F-site once we did we are happy with it.Not only great to find out about Munches + Events but also to stay in contact with non-fabsters!Also:great to find people who make+sell fantastic handcrafted floggers etc

.....Oooooh and the BDSM/Fetish pictures:amazing and inspirational

As for a BDSM-forum on here:Be great but seeing as there was one + got complained about

typical vanillaswingers who will have a read + than get all offended because they don't get the lingo

To answer OP's question:If i only could choose 1 kink of the many things we enjoy:Flogging

(susie)

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

I love to be tied, teased and tormented. Lots of face sitting.

I'd also like to be in a forced Dom situation where s Dom instructs me how to treat a fem sub.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

It is something that has only recently floated my boat to be honest. I love the look of a helpless woman all strussed up.

As long as they enjoy it all is good.

I wouldn't mind being tied up and dominated by a few ladies on here

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't know what my favourite is yet

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Love tying and pegging the husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Safe sane and consensual, remember it, and say it till you hear it like you hear your own name

Is that the twisted monk?

No, just a kinky butler

I am sure he says that at the end of each one of his training videos, along with reminding us all to have our safety sheers in case things go wrong

Great avatar picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.

#ColdShowerRequired

Mr A take note x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.

#ColdShowerRequired

Mr A take note x"

Yes Mr A take note

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

I do love a bit of hair pulling, the firm but gentle grip, controlling as you lean in to whisper directions or tease with promises of what's to come. Pulling her head back onto my shoulder, to kiss or bite her neck, maybe apply a little pressure to her throat with my spare hand, press her against the wall or bed so she can't move. Such a simple restraint, not overly kinky or taboo but easy to do it wrong- get it right with someone who loves it though and watch them melt with pleasure

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

How about this scenario?

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/487931

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By *addyandbabyCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

Love heavy impact play and single tails best.

Ps I love the other site people are talking about, it's great for making friends and finding events and if you join groups for your area, or about subjects your interested in I find it very useful for answering questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rope, I love rope, pretty rope

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do love a good tied spanking session. Really want to learn the rope too, looks so pretty!

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By *ob nice but domMan
over a year ago

PAISLEY

Our tastes on bdsm can be seen on our pics. Breasts torture in all its various forms is Sara's fave. I love to give her a good whipping. We also use needles, scalpels , wax, and occasionally branding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a nice round arse across my lap and watching it change colour...heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanking....riding crop....breast and nipple 'torture' lol .....riding crop.....riding crop....role playing mixed in.....and her in heels ....stockings....retro 6 strap suspender belt.....and some very red lipstick

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Total control and surprise, tie them, spank and make full use of them, no pain - no gain.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Flogging, caning, wax play, needle/knife play, tie and tease, biting, choking and so much more

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"I do love a bit of hair pulling, the firm but gentle grip, controlling as you lean in to whisper directions or tease with promises of what's to come. Pulling her head back onto my shoulder, to kiss or bite her neck, maybe apply a little pressure to her throat with my spare hand, press her against the wall or bed so she can't move. Such a simple restraint, not overly kinky or taboo but easy to do it wrong- get it right with someone who loves it though and watch them melt with pleasure

*whimpers*

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.

#ColdShowerRequired

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making notes

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