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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I just been asked to do this. For all you wanting to lose weight or are on your journey ive changed my avatar to a before picture and the big picture is in my gallery. Hope it gives you some inspiration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bravo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice MR2!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a serious note.

That's an awesome achievement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your looking great diamond. A lot of hard work i imagine but totally worth it.

What sort of food did you eat? Did you do herbalife or anything to kick start? Xx

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

you look so different! Well done you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply a stunning transformation :D

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I need inspiration at the moment so it's most welcome, thank you.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Your looking great diamond. A lot of hard work i imagine but totally worth it.

What sort of food did you eat? Did you do herbalife or anything to kick start? Xx"
i went drastic and lived on hardly anything i wouldnt recommend it but it worked for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's amazing Hun, love posts like this, used to be 18.5 stone, if your journeys been a rough one like mine I salute you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done you, you look great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's amazing Hun, love posts like this, used to be 18.5 stone, if your journeys been a rough one like mine I salute you"

being nosey.. do you have any before pictures?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Super amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if its not too personal a question,, whats the effects of the skin like?

Thats my biggest fear i guess

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Amazing lady!!

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"That's amazing Hun, love posts like this, used to be 18.5 stone, if your journeys been a rough one like mine I salute you"
see couldnt imagine you being 18.5 stone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done diamond x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awesome! Good for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well done you that's fantastic

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"if its not too personal a question,, whats the effects of the skin like?

Thats my biggest fear i guess "

It's my fear too.

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

Wow, what a change! Well done, great achievement.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

you look great xx well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if its not too personal a question,, whats the effects of the skin like?

Thats my biggest fear i guess

It's my fear too."

non fab related ive a friend who lost 11 stone at Slimming World and she went oversea's to get a tummy tuck.

She was brave and showed us her tummy and arms before she went over.

It really put me off wanting to start the journey of a million steps.

My opinion was id rather learn to love myself fat but full .. than be thin and resent myself.

Men like BBW's .. but no one goes out seeking thin ladies with loads of skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's amazing Hun, love posts like this, used to be 18.5 stone, if your journeys been a rough one like mine I salute you

being nosey.. do you have any before pictures? "

I'm sure I can dog some out and copy them, be banished to a box in loft

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"if its not too personal a question,, whats the effects of the skin like?

Thats my biggest fear i guess

It's my fear too.

non fab related ive a friend who lost 11 stone at Slimming World and she went oversea's to get a tummy tuck.

She was brave and showed us her tummy and arms before she went over.

It really put me off wanting to start the journey of a million steps.

My opinion was id rather learn to love myself fat but full .. than be thin and resent myself.

Men like BBW's .. but no one goes out seeking thin ladies with loads of skin "

I know exactly what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done. That's brilliant weight loss

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"if its not too personal a question,, whats the effects of the skin like?

Thats my biggest fear i guess

It's my fear too.

non fab related ive a friend who lost 11 stone at Slimming World and she went oversea's to get a tummy tuck.

She was brave and showed us her tummy and arms before she went over.

It really put me off wanting to start the journey of a million steps.

My opinion was id rather learn to love myself fat but full .. than be thin and resent myself.

Men like BBW's .. but no one goes out seeking thin ladies with loads of skin "
she looks great to us , and seems content with herself

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"if its not too personal a question,, whats the effects of the skin like?

Thats my biggest fear i guess

It's my fear too.

non fab related ive a friend who lost 11 stone at Slimming World and she went oversea's to get a tummy tuck.

She was brave and showed us her tummy and arms before she went over.

It really put me off wanting to start the journey of a million steps.

My opinion was id rather learn to love myself fat but full .. than be thin and resent myself.

Men like BBW's .. but no one goes out seeking thin ladies with loads of skin "
but i bet they would rather have a live healthy one than one thats dead from being morbedly obese. Since ive lost weight every new man ive met ive met more than once apart from one which was only going to be a one off anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inspirational

Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inspirational

Mrs xx"

Agreed, Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the post above was a previous thought of mine,, ive since changed my mind, and decided to go the healthy route, get better for myself so i can live longer with my daughter.

Never really had a relationship so cant say ive missed them should my skin be an issue

One thing i am noticing already is that where im getting looser skin it chafes more and often red raw and very sore where theres more fluidity to my fat where it was once solid. Especially in the 'jelly belly' area..

(sorry if you were eating lol)

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I won't be able to afford a tummy tuck so I'll be stuck with it.

Every now and again I think about it and fall off the diet wagon for a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking fab. Great achievement and hope you feel so much better not just look it

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"the post above was a previous thought of mine,, ive since changed my mind, and decided to go the healthy route, get better for myself so i can live longer with my daughter.

Never really had a relationship so cant say ive missed them should my skin be an issue

One thing i am noticing already is that where im getting looser skin it chafes more and often red raw and very sore where theres more fluidity to my fat where it was once solid. Especially in the 'jelly belly' area..

(sorry if you were eating lol)

"
ok, where not talking about a few random guys on a swinging site but do you think someone who likes you enough to be in a proper relationship with you is going to be put of by a bit of baggy skin if they are would you seriously want to be with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't be able to afford a tummy tuck so I'll be stuck with it.

Every now and again I think about it and fall off the diet wagon for a week."

This is why i need the weight loss classes as my will power is shocking when im left on my own.

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By *ackett1962Man
over a year ago

harrow

Wow and we'll done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the post above was a previous thought of mine,, ive since changed my mind, and decided to go the healthy route, get better for myself so i can live longer with my daughter.

Never really had a relationship so cant say ive missed them should my skin be an issue

One thing i am noticing already is that where im getting looser skin it chafes more and often red raw and very sore where theres more fluidity to my fat where it was once solid. Especially in the 'jelly belly' area..

(sorry if you were eating lol)

ok, where not talking about a few random guys on a swinging site but do you think someone who likes you enough to be in a proper relationship with you is going to be put of by a bit of baggy skin if they are would you seriously want to be with them?"

i hope not, but im not sure.

in my head id like to think a mature man would appriciate the struggles ive gone through and how strong i was to come out the other side.

I couldnt blame a man for not finding me physically attractive though.. just hoping my amazing personality shines through PMSL

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By *onnie55Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot


"I just been asked to do this. For all you wanting to lose weight or are on your journey ive changed my avatar to a before picture and the big picture is in my gallery. Hope it gives you some inspiration"

You've done brilliantly! Well done..

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I won't be able to afford a tummy tuck so I'll be stuck with it.

Every now and again I think about it and fall off the diet wagon for a week."
sorry dee but this sort of thing annoys me its like an excuse to not get fit and healthy and in your normal everyday life who the hell would see it unless you go shopping naked

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Ah well done you.

I need some of your willpower!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing you ain't lost is that great smile.

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By *ackett1962Man
over a year ago

harrow

Ladies, when I got married years ago. My ex was size 16/18. She tried hard to lose weight but kept putting it back on. I tried telling her that when I met her she was perfect and no amount of weight loss would change my feelings... what I'm trying to say is people should take you as they find you . You are all beautiful in different ways.x

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Ladies, when I got married years ago. My ex was size 16/18. She tried hard to lose weight but kept putting it back on. I tried telling her that when I met her she was perfect and no amount of weight loss would change my feelings... what I'm trying to say is people should take you as they find you . You are all beautiful in different ways.x"
this was for those particularly wanting to lose weight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't be able to afford a tummy tuck so I'll be stuck with it.

Every now and again I think about it and fall off the diet wagon for a week.

This is why i need the weight loss classes as my will power is shocking when im left on my own.

"

Snap. Funnily enough I've just been saying the same thing to him. I am getting better though as time and weight loss progresses x

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I just been asked to do this. For all you wanting to lose weight or are on your journey ive changed my avatar to a before picture and the big picture is in my gallery. Hope it gives you some inspiration"

Well done you. I'm tempted to join you and dig out a before picture but even at 5 stone gone I don't think I look that much different. Which in my case is a good thing; I wanted to be slimmer not stop looking like me.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I would do but...

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I just been asked to do this. For all you wanting to lose weight or are on your journey ive changed my avatar to a before picture and the big picture is in my gallery. Hope it gives you some inspiration

Well done you. I'm tempted to join you and dig out a before picture but even at 5 stone gone I don't think I look that much different. Which in my case is a good thing; I wanted to be slimmer not stop looking like me."
put one up

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I won't be able to afford a tummy tuck so I'll be stuck with it.

Every now and again I think about it and fall off the diet wagon for a week.

sorry dee but this sort of thing annoys me its like an excuse to not get fit and healthy and in your normal everyday life who the hell would see it unless you go shopping naked"

It's not an excuse, it's a genuine fear.

It's not just what other people think, it's what if I put in so much time and effort and end up hating my body more.

It's not an excuse not to do it because I always get back on track. I am prone to sabotaging my own efforts though and being scared I won't be happy with the end result doesn't help.

I've been overweight for a long time now. I'm safe behind my fat.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

That's an amazing difference,well done on achieving your goal

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I just been asked to do this. For all you wanting to lose weight or are on your journey ive changed my avatar to a before picture and the big picture is in my gallery. Hope it gives you some inspiration

Well done you. I'm tempted to join you and dig out a before picture but even at 5 stone gone I don't think I look that much different. Which in my case is a good thing; I wanted to be slimmer not stop looking like me."
the reason i look so different apart from purposely having my hair done different was because i didnt know what me looked like it was buried under so much fat and the me actually looks a lot like my mum and i never knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just want to say well done karen you look great .

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I was surprised how different you looked when I looked at your recent photos, so many nice new clothes.

Its much better for you to be slimmer.

I need to lose 3 stone myself.

Is it ok if I say I also like you in your old picture too, I like your green skirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't be able to afford a tummy tuck so I'll be stuck with it.

Every now and again I think about it and fall off the diet wagon for a week.

sorry dee but this sort of thing annoys me its like an excuse to not get fit and healthy and in your normal everyday life who the hell would see it unless you go shopping naked

It's not an excuse, it's a genuine fear.

It's not just what other people think, it's what if I put in so much time and effort and end up hating my body more.

It's not an excuse not to do it because I always get back on track. I am prone to sabotaging my own efforts though and being scared I won't be happy with the end result doesn't help.

I've been overweight for a long time now. I'm safe behind my fat."

I get this im a bigger girl. But im alot bigger because of the amount of excess skin i have on my midsection. It wasnt through weight loss but through a complicated pregnancy where the baby grew out and not up at all. I was like octo mum. Ive had to live with it over 10 years and i sometimes wish i put on weight there cause it looked better to me with weight in it. But for me its always bum and boobs.

Im finally having consultations for a tummy tuck. Im lucky enough to be able to afford it. Skin is just as depressing as weight xx

There are a range of payment options available though and lots of online guides for how to minimise excess skin when loosing weight xx Good luck

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

What a transformation..well done...I bet you must feel great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look amazing. A real inspiration. Xx

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Thankyou everyone its gone away now

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

My before (well, about halfway through) is now up for a short time.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"My before (well, about halfway through) is now up for a short time."
bloody hell now can see the bloody difference

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"My before (well, about halfway through) is now up for a short time.bloody hell now can see the bloody difference"

It's getting fabs way more quickly than all my other pics do.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

...and it's gone away. I have learnt that blokes obviously prefer me wider. I don't though so I'm sticking at the diet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My before (well, about halfway through) is now up for a short time.bloody hell now can see the bloody difference

It's getting fabs way more quickly than all my other pics do. "

Corsets rock

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"My before (well, about halfway through) is now up for a short time.bloody hell now can see the bloody difference

It's getting fabs way more quickly than all my other pics do.

Corsets rock "

I can't wear that one anymore. Even at maximum cinching it's too big. And I really, really miss that bra.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"...and it's gone away. I have learnt that blokes obviously prefer me wider. I don't though so I'm sticking at the diet."

Was it Joan Collins who said you can never be too thin or rich.

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By *lderukmale2005Man
over a year ago

basingstoke

Many congratulations

You look gorgeous x

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By *lderukmale2005Man
over a year ago

basingstoke

Many congratulations

You look gorgeous x

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Brilliant you have done so well. Must be fun buying all these new clothes .

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"if its not too personal a question,, whats the effects of the skin like?

Thats my biggest fear i guess

It's my fear too.

non fab related ive a friend who lost 11 stone at Slimming World and she went oversea's to get a tummy tuck.

She was brave and showed us her tummy and arms before she went over.

It really put me off wanting to start the journey of a million steps.

My opinion was id rather learn to love myself fat but full .. than be thin and resent myself.

Men like BBW's .. but no one goes out seeking thin ladies with loads of skin she looks great to us , and seems content with herself "

I think its better to be more healthy and fit and to look better in your clothes because more people see you in your clothes.

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"I just been asked to do this. For all you wanting to lose weight or are on your journey ive changed my avatar to a before picture and the big picture is in my gallery. Hope it gives you some inspiration"

Well, can't say I didn't try - apparently I am blocked from your profile. But well done anyway.

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