FabSwingers.com forum: What to do?

By *ane88 OP Man
over a year ago

london.

So last I was have me dick sucked and her teeth kept catching,so I asked her to mind her teeth a few times,the last time she got the hump and stopped.

Now my question is am I right to be annoyed that she stopped because she "felt she was getting it wrong" because of "negative " feedback?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better than biting your head off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on how you gave the feedback I guess. Was it given in a negative way?

If it came across as critical I can see why she'd stop - if you're honest with yourself could you have worded your feedback better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She stopped because it stopped being fun for her.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's fair enough to tell her that her teeth are catching you. If she then loses confidence and is no longer enjoying it because she feels self-conscious, it's her right to stop.

I wouldn't carry on doing something I felt I wasn't doing well either.

Did you suggest anything that might help, like changing position, or did you just criticise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the one doing the sucking don't listen and learn then no point in the bj, I have had a women in the past who thought I should be happy just to have it sucked no matter who her tecneque was like.

A wank would be better than a bad bj LoL so if you're not enjoying it then there is no point in just putting up with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she was trying to do her best then maybe, but on the other side if was no fun for you, you have a right to say something to so a bit 50/50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So last I was have me dick sucked and her teeth kept catching,so I asked her to mind her teeth a few times,the last time she got the hump and stopped.

Now my question is am I right to be annoyed that she stopped because she "felt she was getting it wrong" because of "negative " feedback?"

no you aren't ....its her choice, as after all seems like you made her feel self confident about it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So last I was have me dick sucked and her teeth kept catching,so I asked her to mind her teeth a few times,the last time she got the hump and stopped.

Now my question is am I right to be annoyed that she stopped because she "felt she was getting it wrong" because of "negative " feedback?"

the phrase 'flogging a dead horse' springs to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one likes criticism , but no guy wants a painful blow job with teeth catching his cock .

Wouldn't it have been better to accept her technique wasn't to your liking , and do something else ?

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By *orthLincsIronCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

You're annoyed because she stopped? Surely if you wasn't enjoying it, because the lady kept catching her teeth on you, then you should have stopped it. Also using a bit of diplomacy, so as not to knock someone's confidence after they were willing to perform oral on you, and getting on with the next step of your playing would've been far more productive

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By *ane88 OP Man
over a year ago

london.

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By *ane88 OP Man
over a year ago

london.

I was still enjoying it was moaning in the right places,was still hard and the way I said it was "babes mind ur teeth" said in the nicest way trying to make sure she don't feel uncomfortable.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cHx0goKnbdA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was still enjoying it was moaning in the right places,was still hard and the way I said it was "babes mind ur teeth" said in the nicest way trying to make sure she don't feel uncomfortable. "

In a partner situation I think that kind of comment would be ok but for a meet I would be mortified!! Next time if you experience something like this with another lady, instead of saying something, casually move and start doing something else, that way you don't make her feel bad (which I know I would) and hopefully you will still get the same out 'cum' lol

G x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you should have asked her nicely to take her teeth out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id have just told her to stop. Had a meet do this on purpose the other week. Her words....you wont be able to meet for a week or 2 now

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I was still enjoying it was moaning in the right places,was still hard and the way I said it was "babes mind ur teeth" said in the nicest way trying to make sure she don't feel uncomfortable.

G x"
but then if you dont say something how are they expected to know. Id bloody want to know if i was doing something the person wasnt enjoying, most men dont like teeth she could of learnt something

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

learn by your mistake... never ask a vampire for a blow job again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was still enjoying it was moaning in the right places,was still hard and the way I said it was "babes mind ur teeth" said in the nicest way trying to make sure she don't feel uncomfortable.

G xbut then if you dont say something how are they expected to know. Id bloody want to know if i was doing something the person wasnt enjoying, most men dont like teeth she could of learnt something"

Your right I would like to be told but then I'm a sensitivity sole lol

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I find a lot of guys aren't keen to say what they like. I always say I can do it any way they want and ask a few times how they like it but if you push them they say 'I like it all ways' or 'what you are doing is great'

I was trained by my OH who doesn't like teeth or rough bj's so I tend to do this with most guys

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By *ane88 OP Man
over a year ago

london.

This is a lady that I've been seeing for a while now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not enjoying it then you're right to say. Maybe it was the way you said it - who knows. It depends on your rapport really - could you make a joke about it to say what you like but so its more jokey and teasing. So she sees the comment in a different light ?

Sarah

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By *ane88 OP Man
over a year ago

london.

Thanks for all the comments..maybe I could have made a joke of it but if I'm honest it more the way she shut down after and didn't even want to discuss the issue.

Because in my head this is what makes sex better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps you should have asked her nicely to take her teeth out"

I really am sorry but this made me laugh out loud.

It just kinda caught me funny.

Mrs

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I have quite a narrow jaw. At some angles it's difficult to give a BJ without catching my premolars.

Changing position/angle may have helped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the comments..maybe I could have made a joke of it but if I'm honest it more the way she shut down after and didn't even want to discuss the issue.

Because in my head this is what makes sex better."

She may have just been embarrassed about it but you've learnt from it and next time if it ever happens again you know how to word it better, she will be fine I'm sure and now she knows she uses her teeth a bit to much she might perfect her 'routine' accordingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have quite a narrow jaw. At some angles it's difficult to give a BJ without catching my premolars.

Changing position/angle may have helped."

I have the problem of a small mouth and find it quite hard to give bjs, I would love to be able to give ads a good one but I know I'm limited, mind you having said that its fun trying lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I have quite a narrow jaw. At some angles it's difficult to give a BJ without catching my premolars.

Changing position/angle may have helped.

I have the problem of a small mouth and find it quite hard to give bjs, I would love to be able to give ads a good one but I know I'm limited, mind you having said that its fun trying lol"

I'm sure Ads is quite happy and with experimentation and practice, it'll only get better.

My last meet told me I "give good head" but then he's hardly going to say it was bad. I do my best and I've had no complaints as yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have, on occasion felt a guys cock catch on a rough tooth I have at the back!! It's not intentional and I try to change my position if it happens.

I'm sure she wasn't trying to munch her way through your cock or use her teeth

I think if someone had said that to me I would have bitten... Hard to prove a point!!! I'm not surprised she shut down to be honest.

Guys have caught me with their teeth before, I would only say something if I thought it was part of their technique or they were doing it on purpose

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