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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Hi every one as a single guy I under stand we are at the bottom of the food chain but never really got it til I went to a club and just saw how rude and childish some guys are (mostly the younger guys) kept opening closed doors and all bum rushing a room hoping to just see a bit of fun and all I was thinking is the more they do it the more single guys will get treated like shit even more so the younger males sorry just having a moan hope you all had a good easter

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Come back on Thursday.

One person doesn't ruin it for others. Most of us are able to accept that one arse doesn't make all of you arses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a single guy and im far from the bottom of the food chain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Come back on Thursday.

One person doesn't ruin it for others. Most of us are able to accept that one arse doesn't make all of you arses.

"

They will always be the one pushy guy or rude nob just life I guess, don't make it right but you just have to get use to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Come back on Thursday.

One person doesn't ruin it for others. Most of us are able to accept that one arse doesn't make all of you arses.

"

Are you trying to make work for me?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Hi every one as a single guy I under stand we are at the bottom of the food chain but never really got it til I went to a club and just saw how rude and childish some guys are (mostly the younger guys) kept opening closed doors and all bum rushing a room hoping to just see a bit of fun and all I was thinking is the more they do it the more single guys will get treated like shit even more so the younger males sorry just having a moan hope you all had a good easter"

I'm not at the bottom of the food chain, I'm me , I set my preferences, standards.. thhose give me a seat at my top table

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody influences my time on here bar me.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It's ok the horses are being saddled up as we speak on the white knight thread...one arse doesn't make a room full of arses

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I'm not at the bottom of the food chain, far far from it! , all groups (it does not matter what sort) have their good, bad and everything in-between.

These are they type of people that just help me stand out.

I would of hoped that the club would of sorted out this issue very quickly (just one of a few reasons why I haven't ventured into a clubs).

Ps. Thursday I believe is rant day

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Well as the bottom of the chain line did not go down well I wil take it back and it is more how I feel and I under stand 1 wrong en does not make us all knobs but just pisses me off I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well as the bottom of the chain line did not go down well I wil take it back and it is more how I feel and I under stand 1 wrong en does not make us all knobs but just pisses me off I guess"

Let the wrong ones keep up the good work. It just makes us good guys stand out more fella

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I'm waiting for some white maidens to come rushing to my rescue

Disclaimer: other shades of maiden are available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't concern yourself with what others are doing and just do you, be you, if you're decent, people will notice that.

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Ahhh should of posted on a thur it sounds like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well as the bottom of the chain line did not go down well I wil take it back and it is more how I feel and I under stand 1 wrong en does not make us all knobs but just pisses me off I guess"

Do your own thing and stand out for your own reasons.

any people acting like dicks will just serve to make you stand out more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it a yoof club?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Ahhh should of posted on a thur it sounds like lol"

No post when you like everyday is a rant day for some...

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

True mate but it's just like really guys can you not behave like adults lol but your right mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhh should of posted on a thur it sounds like lol"

Post whenever you like. Not when people suggest you should.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

There are plenty of knobs - but it's the same in every aspect of life. Just avoid them so you aren't tarred with the same brush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. I am in my own league

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

If I did not have a moan I don't know what ied do with my self lol

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Yeah fuck the rules do as I want when I want lol fuck the power lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I did not have a moan I don't know what ied do with my self lol "

Have a wank instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a single guy and im far from the bottom of the food chain

"

^^^^ This. Well said that man. I don't have a low esteem of myself.

If those men who are fools then it makes us nice ones stand out even more this more meets and friendships.

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Shiiiittt that's what it was I went to a youth club not a swingers club knew some thing was wrong there lol

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Orrrr wank as I have a moan lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhh should of posted on a thur it sounds like lol"

Why let women control you, post when and where you like..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shiiiittt that's what it was I went to a youth club not a swingers club knew some thing was wrong there lol"

It helps us know who your talking to if you use the reply and quote function at the bottom of the message your replying to fella

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

True it will do but get the feeling it does make the rest of us look bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shiiiittt that's what it was I went to a youth club not a swingers club knew some thing was wrong there lol

It helps us know who your talking to if you use the reply and quote function at the bottom of the message your replying to fella "

I quite like guessing

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Shiiiittt that's what it was I went to a youth club not a swingers club knew some thing was wrong there lol

It helps us know who your talking to if you use the reply and quote function at the bottom of the message your replying to fella "

Ahh sorry my 1st post just getting used to it

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Hi every one as a single guy I under stand we are at the bottom of the food chain but never really got it til I went to a club and just saw how rude and childish some guys are (mostly the younger guys) kept opening closed doors and all bum rushing a room hoping to just see a bit of fun and all I was thinking is the more they do it the more single guys will get treated like shit even more so the younger males sorry just having a moan hope you all had a good easter"

nope.... you don't affect how i do on the site.... and i don't affect how you do...

thats too easy a kop out.... because it leaves you blameless and puts it on all those other nasty pasties!!!

forget about what other people do and just be the best "you" you can be... sometimes the hardest thing you can do is look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself "what can i do better!"

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Ahhh should of posted on a thur it sounds like lol

Why let women control you, post when and where you like.."

hey might like a dom woman every soo offen lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shiiiittt that's what it was I went to a youth club not a swingers club knew some thing was wrong there lol

It helps us know who your talking to if you use the reply and quote function at the bottom of the message your replying to fella Ahh sorry my 1st post just getting used to it "

Its all good... just makes conversation easier to follow

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


" Single guys making the rest of us look bad "

I'd say that the guys you mention are making us look good.

Cal

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Hi every one as a single guy I under stand we are at the bottom of the food chain but never really got it til I went to a club and just saw how rude and childish some guys are (mostly the younger guys) kept opening closed doors and all bum rushing a room hoping to just see a bit of fun and all I was thinking is the more they do it the more single guys will get treated like shit even more so the younger males sorry just having a moan hope you all had a good easter

nope.... you don't affect how i do on the site.... and i don't affect how you do...

thats too easy a kop out.... because it leaves you blameless and puts it on all those other nasty pasties!!!

forget about what other people do and just be the best "you" you can be... sometimes the hardest thing you can do is look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself "what can i do better!""

yeah man well guess that's always a hard thign to do get up and have the mind set to do good for yourself and others

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


" Single guys making the rest of us look bad

I'd say that the guys you mention are making us look good.

Cal"

it seems a lot of guys are feeling that maybe it's just me who feels they are putting a bad light on us all

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"There are plenty of knobs - but it's the same in every aspect of life. Just avoid them so you aren't tarred with the same brush "
oh I know did not even put up with them or any one who behaves like a dick in clubs or out side not worth my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah begone all ye fellas saying you're not bottom of the food chain .. I know my place here snuggled nicely somewhere between the plankton and belly button fluff.

I can often be found opening doors in clubs and following couples around in some sort of wanking zombie train

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make myself look bad all on my own thank you very much.

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Ah begone all ye fellas saying you're not bottom of the food chain .. I know my place here snuggled nicely somewhere between the plankton and belly button fluff.

I can often be found opening doors in clubs and following couples around in some sort of wanking zombie train"

funny fucker loll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well as the bottom of the chain line did not go down well I wil take it back and it is more how I feel and I under stand 1 wrong en does not make us all knobs but just pisses me off I guess

Let the wrong ones keep up the good work. It just makes us good guys stand out more fella "

Very true! As with any demographic there are the good ones and the bad ones, sadly the bad single guys get more publicity but they certainly make no impression on my success or lack of on here

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"I make myself look bad all on my own thank you very much."
Iam the same just getting upset them lads was putting me out of a job lol

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Well as the bottom of the chain line did not go down well I wil take it back and it is more how I feel and I under stand 1 wrong en does not make us all knobs but just pisses me off I guess

Let the wrong ones keep up the good work. It just makes us good guys stand out more fella

Very true! As with any demographic there are the good ones and the bad ones, sadly the bad single guys get more publicity but they certainly make no impression on my success or lack of on here"

yeah I know your right and as you say the bad ens get seen more when the good guys or at lest guys who know how to behave get looked past lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

and to be honest in a club situation... i quite like the fact that a lot of the single guys who go don't have a clue... because it does make those who do and take the time to chat to people and are generally nice and "get it" do do better and makes you stand out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only thing i can say on this topic is, don't take the site so seriously.

For couples and women with specific tastes this website is very useful as it might be hard to approach people about your interests in the real world.

Single men.... Lets just say the real world offers more opportunity for fun than fabswingers., at least for me.

But also lets not pretend like a few bad apples are the only reason men get ignored on here, some people send messages reminiscent of the actuons the op described, but most don't. We as single men have to just accept that this place isn't really meant for us like that, at least not anymore

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"and to be honest in a club situation... i quite like the fact that a lot of the single guys who go don't have a clue... because it does make those who do and take the time to chat to people and are generally nice and "get it" do do better and makes you stand out..."
yeah I did see a lot of nice clps and single guys it was just a few groups of younger lads been a pain and next time iam there will let it all go over my head and just enjoy myself

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Only thing i can say on this topic is, don't take the site so seriously.

For couples and women with specific tastes this website is very useful as it might be hard to approach people about your interests in the real world.

Single men.... Lets just say the real world offers more opportunity for fun than fabswingers., at least for me.

But also lets not pretend like a few bad apples are the only reason men get ignored on here, some people send messages reminiscent of the actuons the op described, but most don't. We as single men have to just accept that this place isn't really meant for us like that, at least not anymore"

oh I know what you mean I have no problem with been let down or having msges deled it's just we(maybe just me) have it hard enouge with out others giving us a bad name but as a lot of you guys say it can be used to work for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhh should of posted on a thur it sounds like lol

No post when you like everyday is a rant day for some... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhh should of posted on a thur it sounds like lol

Post whenever you like. Not when people suggest you should. "

And

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't concern yourself with what others are doing and just do you, be you, if you're decent, people will notice that."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody ruins anything for me apart from me.

In fact, the more other single guys act like twats, the better I look in comparison.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Nobody ruins anything for me apart from me.

In fact, the more other single guys act like twats, the better I look in comparison. "

Absolutely as a single man on here forget the white knight stuff I want to positively encourage all the rest of the single men on here to behave as appallingly as possible!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Ahhh should of posted on a thur it sounds like lol

Post whenever you like. Not when people suggest you should. "

You'll cause anarchy with that attitude?!

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