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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK so over the years I have always always given women compliments when I have felt the need to. For years in fact. Now I need to say I wasn't out as bi until I started swinging. Perhaps I ignored it or perhaps I was blind to it.

But whenever I saw a lady who was beautiful or dressed well I would always say.

So now I'm openly bi sexual I still do it but I find myself having to say sometimes justify it by saying "I'm paying you a compliment but I don't fancy you".

Or please don't think I'm trying to get into your knickers!!!!!

Anyone else think this or is it just me .

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a shame. I like getting compliments (get loads for my rainbow hair and tattoos) and wouldn't like the person have to justify themselves as not trying to get into my pants with them.

On here i am skeptical that the compliments are for that reason, but while out shopping, or summat like that, i never think people are trying to tap off. Persistant guys probably are, and some people are obvious about it over time and you get to know them, but randoms i'd not really think that.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I would just pay the compliment without the disclaimer

I occasionally pay a compliment to a stranger, if it brightens up someone's day, why not

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I would just pay the compliment without the disclaimer

I occasionally pay a compliment to a stranger, if it brightens up someone's day, why not"

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You're so right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's a shame. I like getting compliments (get loads for my rainbow hair and tattoos) and wouldn't like the person have to justify themselves as not trying to get into my pants with them.

On here i am skeptical that the compliments are for that reason, but while out shopping, or summat like that, i never think people are trying to tap off. Persistant guys probably are, and some people are obvious about it over time and you get to know them, but randoms i'd not really think that."

You see that's where it stemmed from paying compliments on here and then having to justify it by saying it's purely a compliment and not me trying to pull x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone loves compliments op keep doing it it's lovely to share how u feel x

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Mind you, any compliments paid on here have an ulterior motive.

I've always liked you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so you werent trying to get in my pants... god dammit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chilli you sexy bitch...... and yes I'm trying to get in your knickers haha

I know what you mean though, I've felt the same on occasion but I suppose it's no different to us paying a guy a compliment (which I also do)

Don't go changing hun xxx

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"Chilli you sexy bitch...... and yes I'm trying to get in your knickers haha

I know what you mean though, I've felt the same on occasion but I suppose it's no different to us paying a guy a compliment (which I also do)

Don't go changing hun xxx"

Pay me one pleeeeeeeeaaaaaaaasssssseee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a shame. I like getting compliments (get loads for my rainbow hair and tattoos) and wouldn't like the person have to justify themselves as not trying to get into my pants with them.

On here i am skeptical that the compliments are for that reason, but while out shopping, or summat like that, i never think people are trying to tap off. Persistant guys probably are, and some people are obvious about it over time and you get to know them, but randoms i'd not really think that.

You see that's where it stemmed from paying compliments on here and then having to justify it by saying it's purely a compliment and not me trying to pull x"

Hmm yeah. I don't really chat (PM) to anyone on here unless i fancy them for this reason, in case they wanna meet me and i have to turn them down.

I agree with the above that you don't need to say anything, not everyone is gonna presume you want to fuck them lbut it is hard to work out who does and who doesn't, which is why i automatically ignore lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I compliment others it's done genuinely and with sincerity I think it's more meaningful first the recipient.

I don't often take compliments well but am always very flattered and i don't make any assumptions as to the intent.

Keep complimenting Chilli I'm sure it makes a lovely difference to someones day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chilli you sexy bitch...... and yes I'm trying to get in your knickers haha

I know what you mean though, I've felt the same on occasion but I suppose it's no different to us paying a guy a compliment (which I also do)

Don't go changing hun xxx

Pay me one pleeeeeeeeaaaaaaaasssssseee "

You have a very sexy back! That's a big thumbs up from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its nice to be told you look good - sexuality has nothing to do with it -

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"so you werent trying to get in my pants... god dammit! "

Ha cute n sassy you know me too well now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can tell when a woman is just complimenting or trying to seduce me. They are no better than men at hiding their ardour

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I compliment others it's done genuinely and with sincerity I think it's more meaningful first the recipient.

I don't often take compliments well but am always very flattered and i don't make any assumptions as to the intent.

Keep complimenting Chilli I'm sure it makes a lovely difference to someones day "

Wise lady knitter. But but you all know where I'm coming from. It's quite refreshing to know I'm not a deviant lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some great feedback from you gorgeous people. All of which I'm trying to access each and every one of your pants as we speak xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some great feedback from you gorgeous people. All of which I'm trying to access each and every one of your pants as we speak xx"

hhah we would make a mammoth effort if you were nearer - xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to compliment anyone, whether or not you fancy them. Telling someone their hair or outfit etc is nice doesn't mean anything other than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some great feedback from you gorgeous people. All of which I'm trying to access each and every one of your pants as we speak xx"

I've just took mine off..... should make things easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some great feedback from you gorgeous people. All of which I'm trying to access each and every one of your pants as we speak xx"

I've met you in a club Chilli. You're a lovely looking woman, I'm straight but so would

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I have the opposite problem, find giving compliments easy but hopeless at telling ladies I want to play with them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the opposite problem, find giving compliments easy but hopeless at telling ladies I want to play with them! "

eye contact - lots of it and they might ask you first - or do what i do now and think it out like if you dont ask you dont get - gets easier and is empowering and so fkn horny when they take your hand and off we go -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the opposite problem, find giving compliments easy but hopeless at telling ladies I want to play with them! "

I'm like that.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some great feedback from you gorgeous people. All of which I'm trying to access each and every one of your pants as we speak xx

I've met you in a club Chilli. You're a lovely looking woman, I'm straight but so would "

OH floozy you flirt you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some great feedback from you gorgeous people. All of which I'm trying to access each and every one of your pants as we speak xx

hhah we would make a mammoth effort if you were nearer - xxxx "

Well you never know . Il be in Manchester in late spring so il bear that in mind x

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Mrs s loves getting messages from ladies and enjoys a bit of lady flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some great feedback from you gorgeous people. All of which I'm trying to access each and every one of your pants as we speak xx

hhah we would make a mammoth effort if you were nearer - xxxx

Well you never know . Il be in Manchester in late spring so il bear that in mind x"

right then mrs - youre hotlisted and things are crossed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some great feedback from you gorgeous people. All of which I'm trying to access each and every one of your pants as we speak xx

hhah we would make a mammoth effort if you were nearer - xxxx

Well you never know . Il be in Manchester in late spring so il bear that in mind x

right then mrs - youre hotlisted and things are crossed

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Ditto !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not bi but I can pay women compliments & I'm more than happy to receive.

Sometimes a compliment from another woman can mean more than the same words coming from a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some great feedback from you gorgeous people. All of which I'm trying to access each and every one of your pants as we speak xx

hhah we would make a mammoth effort if you were nearer - xxxx

Well you never know . Il be in Manchester in late spring so il bear that in mind x

right then mrs - youre hotlisted and things are crossed

Ditto !!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would just pay the compliment without the disclaimer

I occasionally pay a compliment to a stranger, if it brightens up someone's day, why not"

This

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