FabSwingers.com forum: When you least expect it

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on fab for 3months and been on a few times before. Ive had some great meets but recently ive been chatting with a certain princess and we arranged to meet this friday coming. On sat we was chatting and she manged to twist my arm to meet her sat night. Im so glad i did. 3hours of pure heaven. Meetin her again tomo for a coffee and i cant wait. Im taking a timeout but still enjoy the forums. The point of the thread is there is someone out there for everyone. And it will come along when you least expect it. Happy fabbing guys and girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really optimistic about that happening to me lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

You have only been on one "date" so far!! The optimistic me says hope it all works out the glass half empty me says don't jump in the deep end without arm bands...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

You are taking time out from Swinging because you met someone once ?

A...ha ...... hahahaha! Ahhhh hahaha .....

Lovely. I'll buy a hat.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"You have only been on one "date" so far!! The optimistic me says hope it all works out the glass half empty me says don't jump in the deep end without arm bands..."

I echo this.

Enjoy op, hope everything works out how it should

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have only been on one "date" so far!! The optimistic me says hope it all works out the glass half empty me says don't jump in the deep end without arm bands..."

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"You are taking time out from Swinging because you met someone once ?

A...ha ...... hahahaha! Ahhhh hahaha .....

Lovely. I'll buy a hat.

Tut, you old cynic!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are taking time out from Swinging because you met someone once ?

A...ha ...... hahahaha! Ahhhh hahaha .....

Lovely. I'll buy a hat.

Thanks for you input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm all for optimism. You've hidden your profile and taken your profile pic down. Please please don't put too much pressure on yourself. I've done this before. It doesn't end up pretty!!! I really hope things turn out the way you want op, just take it as it is. One step at a time.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Been on fab for 3months and been on a few times before. Ive had some great meets but recently ive been chatting with a certain princess and we arranged to meet this friday coming. On sat we was chatting and she manged to twist my arm to meet her sat night. Im so glad i did. 3hours of pure heaven. Meetin her again tomo for a coffee and i cant wait. Im taking a timeout but still enjoy the forums. The point of the thread is there is someone out there for everyone. And it will come along when you least expect it. Happy fabbing guys and girls

Lucky you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

let her know what you`ve been upto onhere and see what happens

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"You are taking time out from Swinging because you met someone once ?

A...ha ...... hahahaha! Ahhhh hahaha .....

Lovely. I'll buy a hat.

Thanks for you input

You kind of are setting yourself up for these comments by saying you think you have found someone after one date, I know that people do meet and fall in love after one date...I just think you need to take the foot off the gas...but what do I know after being single 5 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stalker tastic, quick someone hide her bunny rabbits

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm all for optimism. You've hidden your profile and taken your profile pic down. Please please don't put too much pressure on yourself. I've done this before. It doesn't end up pretty!!! I really hope things turn out the way you want op, just take it as it is. One step at a time.

Totally understand. And good points.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"let her know what you`ve been upto onhere and see what happens

He met her on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pooch and I always look for the good and beautiful things in places , situations and people

Through we were highly disappointed in two pork pies we bought , one pork and the other pork and chorizo, on the plus side Radio Six played halfman halfbiscuit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are taking time out from Swinging because you met someone once ?

A...ha ...... hahahaha! Ahhhh hahaha .....

Lovely. I'll buy a hat.

Thanks for you input

I wouldnt say it was a date. Sat wasnt

no pressure from me. If she wants to still meet others ive no problems what so ever with that. Why should i after 1 meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"let her know what you`ve been upto onhere and see what happens

Shes on here mate. Kinda regret this now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"let her know what you`ve been upto onhere and see what happens

He met her on here..."

oh?

goodluck OP

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"let her know what you`ve been upto onhere and see what happens

Shes on here mate. Kinda regret this now

Most of us wish you well, we just don't want to see you let down.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think it's kind of sweet but after one meet if I was in her shoes I'd think that was a bit heavy.

Slow and steady wins the race

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"let her know what you`ve been upto onhere and see what happens

Shes on here mate. Kinda regret this now

Most of us wish you well, we just don't want to see you let down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck OP. One day at a time and enjoy every moment

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"You are taking time out from Swinging because you met someone once ?

A...ha ...... hahahaha! Ahhhh hahaha .....

Lovely. I'll buy a hat.

Tut, you old cynic!

I know. Wizened old shrew that I am.

Let me try a more modern approach.

Oh my! That's great news.

Congratulations to you both

On your

meet

Well done xxx awwwwww babes xxxx

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"let her know what you`ve been upto onhere and see what happens

Shes on here mate. Kinda regret this now

And I'd be a bit

if I saw this thread. But that's just me. She might be loving it Clit

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"let her know what you`ve been upto onhere and see what happens

Shes on here mate. Kinda regret this now

contact admin ... see if they can take it d own for you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"let her know what you`ve been upto onhere and see what happens

Shes on here mate. Kinda regret this now

Never have regrets!! Ur happy. Everyone is allowed to be happy. I think all we are trying to say is just don't put any pressure on any possible budding feelings or dare I say it romance!! It's still extremely early!! Just try to calm down a bit and go with the flow. If it's meant to be it'll happen!! I totally get how u feel though. Kinda there myself. It's a great feeling!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are taking time out from Swinging because you met someone once ?

A...ha ...... hahahaha! Ahhhh hahaha .....

Lovely. I'll buy a hat.

Tut, you old cynic!

I know. Wizened old shrew that I am.

Let me try a more modern approach.

Oh my! That's great news.

Congratulations to you both

On your

meet

Well done xxx awwwwww babes xxxx "

once again thanks for your input. Its very welcome

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"You are taking time out from Swinging because you met someone once ?

A...ha ...... hahahaha! Ahhhh hahaha .....

Lovely. I'll buy a hat.

Tut, you old cynic!

I know. Wizened old shrew that I am.

Let me try a more modern approach.

Oh my! That's great news.

Congratulations to you both

On your

meet

Well done xxx awwwwww babes xxxx

once again thanks for your input. Its very welcome

Thanks angel xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"You are taking time out from Swinging because you met someone once ?

A...ha ...... hahahaha! Ahhhh hahaha .....

Lovely. I'll buy a hat.

Thanks for you input

I wouldnt say it was a date. Sat wasnt

no pressure from me. If she wants to still meet others ive no problems what so ever with that. Why should i after 1 meet. "

Well the opening post gave me a different opioion from what you have just said...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck and I see the positive side to your story.....go for it .

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Clit ... Is there someone out there for me ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would now be a good time to ask her to have a couples profile together ?

Where are you going on holiday ?

Time to pop the question ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Clit ... Is there someone out there for me ?"

Im sure you dont need to look

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

well hopefully for you she feels the same. I've meeting the same guy every week for the last month, and more this last week, and I still wouldn't be at the stage of declaring myself off the market

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to me once here. That instant connection, fabulous sex and a real chemistry. 4 months we were together until I found out he was married.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would now be a good time to ask her to have a couples profile together ?

Where are you going on holiday ?

Time to pop the question ?"

Nah. But im eager to get frisky with her again. I wish you look with your search

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm having trouble finding one bed buddy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well hopefully for you she feels the same. I've meeting the same guy every week for the last month, and more this last week, and I still wouldn't be at the stage of declaring myself off the market

Im not off the market just taking time out. Last week i was close to deleting fab so need it anyway. And id be a fool to put all my eggs in 1 basket because i could fall flat on my face

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

well hopefully for you she feels the same. I've meeting the same guy every week for the last month, and more this last week, and I still wouldn't be at the stage of declaring myself off the market

Im not off the market just taking time out. Last week i was close to deleting fab so need it anyway. And id be a fool to put all my eggs in 1 basket because i could fall flat on my face "

Are you trying to back track yourself here?

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

well hopefully for you she feels the same. I've meeting the same guy every week for the last month, and more this last week, and I still wouldn't be at the stage of declaring myself off the market

Im not off the market just taking time out. Last week i was close to deleting fab so need it anyway. And id be a fool to put all my eggs in 1 basket because i could fall flat on my face "

just don't jump ahead too much, I know that would scare me off!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well hopefully for you she feels the same. I've meeting the same guy every week for the last month, and more this last week, and I still wouldn't be at the stage of declaring myself off the market

Im not off the market just taking time out. Last week i was close to deleting fab so need it anyway. And id be a fool to put all my eggs in 1 basket because i could fall flat on my face

Are you trying to back track yourself here?

Well it seems im destined to fail. So best not be to happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well hopefully for you she feels the same. I've meeting the same guy every week for the last month, and more this last week, and I still wouldn't be at the stage of declaring myself off the market

Im not off the market just taking time out. Last week i was close to deleting fab so need it anyway. And id be a fool to put all my eggs in 1 basket because i could fall flat on my face

just don't jump ahead too much, I know that would scare me off!"

Well i certainly wont now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's great for the op , hope it all works out well .

But as others have said , be prepared for the possible reality of the situation to occur . Pretty much every single on a dating site or a swinging site will have had the same feelings as you have . And a high % will look back and say they wish they hadn't let their guard down so quickly .

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One date/meet/night doesn't make for long term permanent, shows that you're definitely a romantic not realist. And there definitely isn't someone for everyone only someone for some

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some good feedback ty

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

well hopefully for you she feels the same. I've meeting the same guy every week for the last month, and more this last week, and I still wouldn't be at the stage of declaring myself off the market

Im not off the market just taking time out. Last week i was close to deleting fab so need it anyway. And id be a fool to put all my eggs in 1 basket because i could fall flat on my face

Are you trying to back track yourself here?

Well it seems im destined to fail. So best not be to happy

I didn't say for you to be happy you are just confusing me with what you are writing it's changing...anyway good luck and be happy

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"It's great for the op , hope it all works out well .

Good luck

I agree with you there I have been where the OP was let my guard down and got fucked on from a great height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shout it from the rooftops.

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By *buse my girlfriendCouple
over a year ago

Derby

Me and the good lady met on here 4 years ago, we hit it off from the very first night and I knew there was something very special about her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Me and the good lady met on here 4 years ago, we hit it off from the very first night and I knew there was something very special about her.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Been there bought the t-shirt too so I reiterate what you say!

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I met my partner on here fifteen months ago. We do both still meet as singles, but we also have a couple profile. Those first night verifications tell it exactly as it was .... we clicked immediately and we both knew it. We now live together and are in the process of buying a house together, our families have merged (five teenagers) and we are loving the life. It totally comes along when you don't expect it and when you are ready. Good luck, OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck Mr hope it works out well for you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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hey good luck man hope it works out for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice when things work out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clit we've chatted a bit and I think that you are sweet, sexy, kind, funny and handsome.

Good luck with your princess I hope it's magical for you both.

Just have lots of fun and make sure there is loads of kissing

Hugs from Knitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Dude, chill.

Good luck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clit we've chatted a bit and I think that you are sweet, sexy, kind, funny and handsome.

Good luck with your princess I hope it's magical for you both.

Just have lots of fun and make sure there is loads of kissing

Hugs from Knitter "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope it works out - if not you'd best book early, the patio business is booming...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I hope you find what you are seeking, together.

I have seen many declarations similar to yours, mostly women,

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck fella. I hope she is 'the one' and it all works out. As many others have said, the euphoria of one brilliant dateless great and I hope it really is 'love at first sight' for you both but take it steady and see where it goes.

For what it's worth I knew my future wife was the one very early on - it just felt different - so if you both felt that then it might be the start of something special.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

found a princess on here - lets hope he treats her like one then

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww that's lovely to hear

I'm an ole romantic at heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are taking time out from Swinging because you met someone once ?

A...ha ...... hahahaha! Ahhhh hahaha .....

Lovely. I'll buy a hat.

Tut, you old cynic!

I know. Wizened old shrew that I am.

Let me try a more modern approach.

Oh my! That's great news.

Congratulations to you both

On your

meet

Well done xxx awwwwww babes xxxx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it easy, take it slow.

There's no rush, enjoy the journey.

Be happy.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all. I thought it would be a positive thread but i guess some ppl are never happy. Im out of here

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

"Thanks all. I thought it would be a positive thread but i guess some ppl are never happy. Im out of here

You are very brave to put it out there ... it wasn't until my now partner said that if I left him, he'd hunt me down that I knew he was the one ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks all. I thought it would be a positive thread but i guess some ppl are never happy. Im out of here

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i wish u all the best I had a first meet recently that swept me of my feet so I do understand very much X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks all. I thought it would be a positive thread but i guess some ppl are never happy. Im out of here

Hey, don't take things too seriously.

As long as you're happy that's all that really matters x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think if you had been seeing them a few months you might have had some different replies but after one bloody meet, we all meet brilliant people and bask in the afterglow, thats what happens. I do hope it works out and theres not a thread in a couple of weeks saying it didnt. I think weve all seen this type of thread a thousand times before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can some one point out where i say im in love and leaving please?

I think this proves my point

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Can some one point out where i say im in love and leaving please?

I think this proves my point

why rake a post up..move on !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can some one point out where i say im in love and leaving please?

I think this proves my point

why rake a post up..move on !"

Id just like a certain poster to see it. Thanks for helping thou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can some one point out where i say im in love and leaving please?

I think this proves my point

why rake a post up..move on !

Id just like a certain poster to see it. Thanks for helping thou

I'll help too. Welcome back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can some one point out where i say im in love and leaving please?

I think this proves my point

why rake a post up..move on !

Id just like a certain poster to see it. Thanks for helping thou

Why is it so important that a certain poster sees it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can find love on here, I knew the moment I saw ads walking towards me that something was very different from others I have met, we've been together almost 6 months now and I'm moving to the sunny part of the world that is Essex in a couple of months.

We waited a long while for him to meet my kids so we were settled in ourselves and going on our first proper day out with them this weekend!!

Sometimes, on the very rare occasion you do meet someone very special in the oddest of places!!

G x

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