FabSwingers.com forum: Irrational fears...

By *odareyou OP Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I was talking to a lady and she fears mice.. teeny tiny mice..

Care to share yours.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dying, bit of a bastard really cos thats one I cant avoid!

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By *elle2016Woman
over a year ago

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Just about everything!

Honestly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe not a fear but tomatoes give me the heeby jeebies

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Spiders. Icky little sods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Creatures with more than seven legs.

Also heights, but that's not quite as irrational as anyone who actually knows me can vouch for the fact that I am bloomin' clumsy and therefore liable to fall off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Down escalators - I know it's because I was pushed onto one by an impatient adult as a child. I have to breathe deeply whenever I get on one, but make myself do it.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was talking to a lady and she fears mice.. teeny tiny mice..

Care to share yours.?"
It has gone now but I used to have a proper phobia for hearing about, or even worse seeing, animals getting hurt.

Couldn't watch the telly, couldn't watch the adds, couldn't listen to the radio, and if out and about I feared for seeing dogs in the streets with a limp or similar. Pidgeons too even, and they are almost all a bit crippled in the city!

It was quite debilitating and life is a lot easier now it has eased off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Larger spiders..

Never had any fear of them up until i had my pregnancy. Since then, i sweat, shake and sometimes vomit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frogs...cannot stand the slimy little green things. Although Kermit is OK.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Women in general.

I get tongue tied and break out into a sweat if I have to talk to the cashier in the supermarket.

That's a major part of the reason why I'm a recluse

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Frogs...cannot stand the slimy little green things. Although Kermit is OK."

One of our cats brings in frogs as presents.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big fat moths that crunch/sound like they have bones when you squash them...ewwwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Frogs...cannot stand the slimy little green things. Although Kermit is OK.

One of our cats brings in frogs as presents.

Sarah "

That's it ! I'm not going anywhere near your pussy !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WW3 breaking out! Is that irrational?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Down escalators - I know it's because I was pushed onto one by an impatient adult as a child. I have to breathe deeply whenever I get on one, but make myself do it.

Sarah "

Me too!

The underground is like being in hell for me - and I really hate the ones in department stores where they're up 5 floors with glass so you can see all the way down

I'm also scared of heights which probably has something to do with it!

I never used to be - it's old age

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

I don't have irrational fears really.

I spend most of days off work with phone plugs out and ignoring the door bell if it rings....... I love days alone and I would HATE uninvited guests to see me on a slobbing out day.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

p.s my heart does race until who ever it is gives up......

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Dwarves. Nearly got run over by a bus trying to avoid one. Didn't help he was a clown!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ants because there's never just one , they make me sweat and itchy and volcanoes !!!!!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

P.S. I am not a recluse. I Just like INVITED guests.

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By *rishman75Man
over a year ago

Chessington/epsom

I haven't met anything I'm afraid of yet but the smell of burning flesh makes me vomit !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was talking to a lady and she fears mice.. teeny tiny mice..

Care to share yours.?"
I was chatting to a woman who fears hotels they are not safe, I've stayed in thousand don't know how the hell I'm still alive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shower curtains

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clowns.

Scary fuckers, not at all funny!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spiders...obviously

totally stupid ones

Water at night (rivers,sea,canals) scared a dead body will reach out and get me

Looking out the window at night in case someone is looking in... Even applies on first floor and up

Mirrors, in case my face changes into a corpse or there's a ghost behind me

Basically all my fears are from watching far too many horror films

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Even so ......... kinell

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Clowns

Frogs

Insects

Snakes...reptiles in general

Birds (only if they are flying close to me, although I can't walk through the pigeons in town!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spiders...obviously

totally stupid ones

Water at night (rivers,sea,canals) scared a dead body will reach out and get me

Looking out the window at night in case someone is looking in... Even applies on first floor and up

Mirrors, in case my face changes into a corpse or there's a ghost behind me

Basically all my fears are from watching far too many horror films"

I have the window fear too.

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By *odareyou OP Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Spiders...obviously

totally stupid ones

Water at night (rivers,sea,canals) scared a dead body will reach out and get me

Looking out the window at night in case someone is looking in... Even applies on first floor and up

Mirrors, in case my face changes into a corpse or there's a ghost behind me

Basically all my fears are from watching far too many horror films

I have the window fear too.

Note to all peeping Tom's ...please use

skills for these ladies..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lorries and car transporters... Didn't drive for 15 years because it was that bad.. Been driving now a year.

Buses.. They don't look stable turning corners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasps. I lose all control when I see one.

Even seeing a picture of one makes my heart race.

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

I have a fear of people that are d*unk &/or high…I'm not being sarcastic…its ruined my nightlife

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

Heights....apparently lots of lampies like myself are too

Snakes...hate hate hate...have to go out of room/hide when on telly

Big spiders

Clowns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shower curtains "
Almost beats mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've that weird irregular holes/lumps bumps thing. A friend sent me a picture of a pumpkin she was gonna crave for Halloween and it was horrific for me. I felt sick all day

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"Wasps. I lose all control when I see one.

Even seeing a picture of one makes my heart race.

That's not irrational. They sting. You can die if they sting your lips or tongue.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Commitment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty hands

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"Dwarves. Nearly got run over by a bus trying to avoid one. Didn't help he was a clown!

It's not big and it's not......

I think I should leave it at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being mistakenly pronounced dead and then buried alive

then waking up...

im freaking out just typing this stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Galeophobia & Coulrophobia.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"being mistakenly pronounced dead and then buried alive

then waking up...

im freaking out just typing this stuff"

Shit

I forgot about that. I couldn't watch that film where the bloke is buried. ........

Not irrational though is it... to NOT want to die in a dark box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Touching cheese. The stuff makes my skin crawl and how people can bring themselves to eat it mystifies me! When making my little nieces a sandwich, I have to try holding the block inside the wrapper and then cut it, before stabbing the slice with the knife end to drag it to the bread. All the while trying not to touch it and resist the urge to vom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"being mistakenly pronounced dead and then buried alive

then waking up...

im freaking out just typing this stuff

Shit

I forgot about that. I couldn't watch that film where the bloke is buried. ........

Not irrational though is it... to NOT want to die in a dark box. "

grannyyyyy

i think its irrational in that it just wouldnt happen

hopefully

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Wasps. I lose all control when I see one.

Even seeing a picture of one makes my heart race.

I was stung by a wasp when I was nine. To this day I dread wasps. I was returning to the office from a meeting and passed the shop outside of which I was stung. My mum went inside and bought some Dettol to put on it.

I'm 55...I should get over it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have irrational fears of being abandoned or losing those dear to me.

I have always had to work very hard to keep them in check... But sometimes I can't.

It comes from my childhood and I know why... I also know that your more likely to lose someone if your constantly stressing about it... But.. The fear is very real to me x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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over a year ago

Central

Slugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fearful of always being alone in life

Failure at things that are umportant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was talking to a lady and she fears mice.. teeny tiny mice..

Care to share yours.?It has gone now but I used to have a proper phobia for hearing about, or even worse seeing, animals getting hurt.

It was quite debilitating and life is a lot easier now it has eased off."

I know how you feel have to avoid news stories or animal rescue programmes even the charity ads. I get really upset .there's a wild stray cat by daves. Everyone feeds her and looks healthy apart from fleas /ticks but I worry about her .even after seeing her beat up a a large dog ...daft I know .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slugs. I trod on one with bare feet when I was very small, and the thought of it still makes me feel sick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"being mistakenly pronounced dead and then buried alive

then waking up...

im freaking out just typing this stuff"

I cant even think about it

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Down escalators - I know it's because I was pushed onto one by an impatient adult as a child. I have to breathe deeply whenever I get on one, but make myself do it.

Sarah "

I'm not great with heights and really don't like the down escalators so I loiter at the top and wait for someone else to get on then get on right behind them.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I have a great fear of being hurt, of being humiliated or let down. It's the worst kind fear because it's so emotionally crippling. It tends to keep you down in life's shadows when all you're really longing for is the sun. Thankfully, I'm not afraid of the dark...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gravity disappearing and floating away into space.

Being abducted by aliens.

Being sent to prison for something I didn't do.

Waking up blind.

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Spiders - seems to be a common one.

Worms - makes gardening really difficult.

Heights - if it's a building or a cliff edge I get this compulsion to throw myself off! Wtf that all about?

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Dying, bit of a bastard really cos thats one I cant avoid!"

No you cant but it only happens the once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm claustrophobic so lifts are an ultimate no go unless I have to. I'm terrified of clowns, ALL spiders but especially big ones and putting my feet over the end of the bed at night

Too many horror movies as a kid I think

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also terrified of not being able to breathe.

Clowns

Heights

Water /drowning

Being hurt

It's a bloody miracle I leave the house some days .

deb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spiders - seems to be a common one.

Worms - makes gardening really difficult.

Heights - if it's a building or a cliff edge I get this compulsion to throw myself off! Wtf that all about? "

Same here, if I cross a bridge I just want to throw all my belongings over the side. I'm not phobic of heights but I get this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Komodo dragons...nasty critters

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I used to have a debilitating phobia of spiders. I'm cured now after my GP referred me to a psychologist for CBT. It's the best thing I've ever done. I don't like them much now but the fear has gone and I can live without the panic attacks and sixth sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not getting a meet off here lol

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

Storm Troopers and Darth Vader.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

"Storm Troopers and Darth Vader. "

Love the dark side, mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm scared of some women in forums their texting fingers are razor sharp

only kidding but would always meet them daytime in a public place

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

There is nothing irrational about my fear of clowns and I know where my fear comes from.

I also know why I'm fearfull of wasps.. I'm allergic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Escalators

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Water tanks; especially ones in lofts. They terrify me and I have no idea why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Storm Troopers and Darth Vader. "

Damn, that's a meet with you out the window! I'm a member of a SW costume troop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wasps. I lose all control when I see one.

Even seeing a picture of one makes my heart race.

That's not irrational. They sting. You can die if they sting your lips or tongue. "

True. But I've never been stung in my life so can't understand why I'm like this.

I think panicking seeing a picture of one is irrational.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When meeting new people or anxious I sometimes and it only happens sometimes start sweating and I can feel it on my forehead then it's game over, a tsunami happens haha however it's so much better now, I think it comes with age cause i seem to care less and less about impressing people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wasps. I lose all control when I see one.

Even seeing a picture of one makes my heart race.

I'm 55...I should get over it!"

Lol. I'm pushing 40 and am such a baby I have to get random neighbors to deal with any of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never being loved again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know how you feel have to avoid news stories or animal rescue programmes even the charity ads. I get really upset .there's a wild stray cat by daves. Everyone feeds her and looks healthy apart from fleas /ticks but I worry about her .even after seeing her beat up a a large dog ...daft I know ."

Oh, daft perhaps. But I find it comforting now knowing that I'm not alone in this

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Crazy people

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Storm Troopers and Darth Vader.

Damn, that's a meet with you out the window! I'm a member of a SW costume troop! "

They honestly terrify me. I have a full panic attack and meltdown.

Once, my ex pretended to be away but was really in the house. I woke up in the middle of the night restrained with him on top of me dressed as Darth Vader. It was an attempt to cure me. I didn't speak to him for days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything that isn't human and scars... Saying that even humans scare me at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spiders, like I've lost sleep thinking I may have seen a spider or something lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women "
That's not irrational lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

monkeys...hate their tiny evil fingers...and can't pull hair out of plugs...just can't do it! saw a short film once where the girl pulled, and pulled, and it finally came out attached to a severed head...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

None.

My fears are quite rational. I'm a good judge of risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Balloons. Can't stand the buggers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slugs,worms,snakes

Things that are miniature or giant sized

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Birds & Ducks .... I run a mile !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was talking to a lady and she fears mice.. teeny tiny mice..

Care to share yours.?"

Watching 'Jaws' as a kid put an end to me swimming in the sea and I still can't bring myself to now!!.....Also spiders

Sasha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spiders, big fucking spiders, the ones you find reading your paper and wearing your slippers when you get back from work!

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