FabSwingers.com forum: do you ever think

By *ire_blade OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

That some people need some real problems in there lives. Guess I'm just in 1 of them moods but fuck me some times I want to shake people and make them see just how unimportant the little things are. Sorry folks but Thursday is to far away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That some people need some real problems in there lives. Guess I'm just in 1 of them moods but fuck me some times I want to shake people and make them see just how unimportant the little things are. Sorry folks but Thursday is to far away.

I agree, not sure what happens Thursday but enjoy!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Have to admit i have the last couple of weeks theres people on here with real problems and not saying anything and others moaning about trivial things. Then i have to stop and think we all moan about trivial things at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people sweat the small stuff - because either they've never had to deal with major life events or its their personality type.

Put on some music. You could try twerking to Crazy in love - Beyoncé.

Sarah

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By *ire_blade OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Some people sweat the small stuff - because either they've never had to deal with major life events or its their personality type.

Put on some music. You could try twerking to Crazy in love - Beyoncé.

Sarah

Haha me twerk now that would be a site.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Also, what we con sider to be trivial may not be to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put on some music. You could try twerking to Crazy in love - Beyoncé.

Sarah

Haha me twerk now that would be a site.

I'm awaiting the video ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess for some people (including myself sometimes!) its just human nature!

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

1st world problems are still problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at some threads and I can tell people have posted either them or certain comments in order to be provocative and get a reaction...and not in a good way

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By *ire_blade OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Also, what we con sider to be trivial may not be to them."

That's why I said need some real problems so they can see the difference when it's something that really does matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to admit i have the last couple of weeks theres people on here with real problems and not saying anything and others moaning about trivial things. Then i have to stop and think we all moan about trivial things at times"
I think most of us would moan about small things but keep the big issues to ourselves or close friends...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope that you're okay Blady

Kisses from Knitter

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

What is trivial to some is major to others. Instead of wishing them to know real problems maybe we should just be happy that they have none?

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By *ire_blade OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"What is trivial to some is major to others. Instead of wishing them to know real problems maybe we should just be happy that they have none? "

Ye maybe so. But I also think knowing the difference makes you see how short life can be and appreciate the good things a little more

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By *ire_blade OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"I hope that you're okay Blady

Kisses from Knitter "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we're all guilty of doing this sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know when I'm in one of those moods where I think how trivial someone else's problem is, I have to remind myself that to them, it's a big deal.

The alternative of 'shut the fuck up & get a grip' is always simmmering underneath

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"What is trivial to some is major to others. Instead of wishing them to know real problems maybe we should just be happy that they have none?

Ye maybe so. But I also think knowing the difference makes you see how short life can be and appreciate the good things a little more"

I am not sure what you are going through at the moment and I hope whatever it is is resolved quickly but personally I don't think that just because people gave it tough it makes them appreciate things more than others.

Also, I moan and gripe about stupid things on social media ...most recently the fact I put my heart rate monitor in the washing machine but I don't moan and gripe on there about having to watch my nan die or the fact that I am currently struggling with the way my personal life is heading...the little things deflect the attention from the bigger things and while I'm mithering about them the other stuff goes further down the list.

Just my perspective on it anyway. Don't judge others based on what they project outwardly, you don't know what they are dealing with behind the facade.

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