FabSwingers.com forum: Fellow guys on the smaller side

By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Cocks that is....

Its tough but don,t be intimidated by the bigger guys....

Often the ladies, who seek swingers they warm to a friendly confident guy.... If they wanted a shy, awkward liason they can go down the pub for that..

Guys i find generally with larger manhoods are deemed more confident ( why should,nt they) they,ve never had to deal " shower, locker room syndrome"

Just try to relaxed, non- pushy after all some will be at the venue for the same reason. Whilst others just wish to hang out in a sexy atmosphere with no original wish to engage in physical fun, regardless whether big cocked hunk is strutting about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rubbish

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I find a confident guy doesn't have to bang on about the size of his cock whether it's big or small he's confident in his own skin

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"I find a confident guy doesn't have to bang on about the size of his cock whether it's big or small he's confident in his own skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confident in my own foreskin.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Thought this may ruffle a few feathers...

We are subconsiously conditioned whether through media, porn, spoken word etc etc to expect the

exeptional as the norm...

In my younger days nievely i only had tunnel vision for younger thinner, ploughed on make up, firm breasted bimbo ladies...

God what a divvy... Fortunately i,ve been blessed with experiences to release me from these,stereo types...

Women aresexy in all shapes n sizes...

So should be for fellas..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Thought this may ruffle a few feathers...

We are subconsiously conditioned whether through media, porn, spoken word etc etc to expect the

exeptional as the norm...

In my younger days nievely i only had tunnel vision for younger thinner, ploughed on make up, firm breasted bimbo ladies...

God what a divvy... Fortunately i,ve been blessed with experiences to release me from these,stereo types...

Women aresexy in all shapes n sizes...

So should be for fellas.."
but some people have always been influenced by their own mind and not taken in by what we should like. I know what i like and the last time i was influenced by others was when i was 12 and would only go out with a lad my friends thought where good looking and i soon got bored with that. I can almost tell you exactly when i changed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't do anything about it. So what I've got will have to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its big enouh to fill a pram your fine !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock size has nothing to do with chemistry or physical attraction....

Don't believe all you see in porn.

Cock size does NOT make a man !!

A really nice guy who can hold his own, give and take banter and not be intimidated by other "cocks" is always going to get my attention...

Once in a room is a whole other "cock" story.

Stop worrying and Happy swinging. xx

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"I can't do anything about it. So what I've got will have to do

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Why do blokes worry about this crap and the other classic cut or uncut. ffs you've got what you've got end of story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't do anything about it. So what I've got will have to do

Haha shut up. Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do blokes worry about this crap and the other classic cut or uncut. ffs you've got what you've got end of story

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By *astard and goodgirlCouple
over a year ago

Near Exeter

"rubbish"

Yup... All women want a massive cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm confident in my own foreskin."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

still rubbish..

locker room syndrome?

thats a teen age _iewpoint that some unfortunately might have carried through to later life.

my cocks small...but then I've never been aroused in a shower room etc with a bunch of men.So they simply wouldnt be able to judge how big my cock actually gets.

I've seen bigger guys not perform very well as some others etc

Personally I've found I have more than a cock when it comes a to pleasing women, so a focussing on my cock or its size is pretty irrelevant to me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I find a confident guy doesn't have to bang on about the size of his cock whether it's big or small he's confident in his own skin.

This!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Why do blokes worry about this crap and the other classic cut or uncut. ffs you've got what you've got end of story

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Not entirely sure what your point is

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

In more than one group situation I've seen quite well endowed lads suffering from stage fright and performance issues. So it wasn't cock size that affected their confidence.

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By *astard and goodgirlCouple
over a year ago

Near Exeter

All women want a big thick cock... So all you tiny ducks have no chance in life - fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not think most ladies worry about the size of your cock. I think they worry more if you act like one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All women want a big thick cock... So all you tiny ducks have no chance in life - fact "

why are you talking absolute pish?

no chance in life?

get a grip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As per above - we have what we have - pointless to worry about things you can change. Better to find things you can change and work on them. Confidence is sexy and that comes with understanding and acceptance of who and what you are.

In the words of the gay anthem:

I am what I am and what I am needs no excuses!

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By *ssexcokMan
over a year ago

southend

Yep definitely feel bad in the locker room but nothing i can do so just have to get on with life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh, I think it's more about being a grower or a shower.

I am a grower definitely, when soft embarrassingly small and the classic button mushroom.

Fortunately we don't fuck with soft cocks.

When hard it's is of average size and does what it's supposed to.

You know I used to have an acquaintance at the gym who was hung like a horse and made a living out of it.

He would regularly take the piss in locker room about the size of my and other guy's cocks.

But he would frequently tell me how jealous and envious of my relationship with jools.

Siting that while he had many many sexual partners he had yet to have a proper relationship.

So while women may not choose us to be the first choice for a one night stand but when it comes to long term relationships us smaller chap's seem to have the edge.

Most guy's who I have met with big cocks seem to want to bang their way through life, whereas the rest of us are happy to love our way.

I love having sex,but I don't live my life just for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what the OP is getting at to be honest. You can over compensate in both ways. If you keep banging on about having a little/massive winky and confidence/shyness. You just look one dimensional.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Theres plenty of things ladies notice First And are more important than cock size. Confidence is the number one aphrodisiac for a woman. Be content with what you have and I'm sure she will be too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv not much confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all men with large appendages are confident and I've met men on the smaller side who are.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some of the bigger guys in the showers, never really grow when erect & some of the smaller ones grow into something quite spectacular

I have sampled a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many many guy's who are huge dicks and their penis size has nothing to do with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bad workman allways blames hes tool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may be small but fortunately I got 17 stone to drive the fucker home

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By *ssexcokMan
over a year ago

southend

Its not small just far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The biggest sexual organ any man will ever possess is his brain, this is a fact.

Some prefer big cocks, some prefer average cocks but in all honesty nobody wants a small cock. You would have to be very deluded to think otherwise and I've never heard anybody say " look at the lovely small cock on him ! "

I couldn't care less what another man has in his boxer shorts it makes no difference to my life whatsoever.

Men who are obsessed with cock size generally want one in some way, in my experience.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"The biggest sexual organ any man will ever possess is his brain, this is a fact.

I couldn't care less what another man has in his boxer shorts it makes no difference to my life whatsoever.

Men who are obsessed with cock size generally want one in some way, in my experience."
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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"The biggest sexual organ any man will ever possess is his brain, this is a fact.

I couldn't care less what another man has in his boxer shorts it makes no difference to my life whatsoever.

Men who are obsessed with cock size generally want one in some way, in my experience.q"

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"still rubbish..

locker room syndrome?

thats a teen age _iewpoint that some unfortunately might have carried through to later life.

my cocks small...but then I've never been aroused in a shower room etc with a bunch of men.So they simply wouldnt be able to judge how big my cock actually gets.

I've seen bigger guys not perform very well as some others etc

Personally I've found I have more than a cock when it comes a to pleasing women, so a focussing on my cock or its size is pretty irrelevant to me."
good for you fella, its no longer an issue for me ( though on occasion it is dpending on my mood) jusat highlighting for some it is still an issue. Interestingly the fact that i,ve been messaged by a few guys guys about "locker room syndrome" is testament to that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I literally couldn't care less about cock size. If you turn me on enough I'm going to play, regardless of what you're packing. And as a bi girl I'm perfectly versed in having fulfilling sex with no cock involved at all...... guys really shouldn't stress about cock size at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I literally couldn't care less about cock size. If you turn me on enough I'm going to play, regardless of what you're packing. And as a bi girl I'm perfectly versed in having fulfilling sex with no cock involved at all...... guys really shouldn't stress about cock size at all

Couldn't agree more minx and we'll said. Why do guys think cock size I important to some of us ladies. It's about touch, taste,smell , eroticism and discovery. A man can make a woman orgasm with touch alone. And not even touching the clitoral area. So penetrative sex for me is not what I'm about. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You made me twinge when I read 'clitoral area'..... damn you I'm going offline again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You made me twinge when I read 'clitoral area'..... damn you I'm going offline again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People aren't discriminating, they are expressing a preference. Yes, some request ridiculous proportions but I'd say mostly they'd be happy if you can get it hard, keep it, and share their particular kink.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Us blokes are fortunate that we have,nt not make up, hair style, which outfit, perfume waxing issues time of month oooooh the list goes on to get stressed about like you ladies...........,.

Isn,t only fare we have at least one ie,( our cock) to get hung up on......

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By *ippingrugbyboyMan
over a year ago

Bishop's Stortford

I'm not that big but are ok around people you just have to be ok in your self what you have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us blokes are fortunate that we have,nt not make up, hair style, which outfit, perfume waxing issues time of month oooooh the list goes on to get stressed about like you ladies...........,.

Isn,t only fare we have at least one ie,( our cock) to get hung up on......

Haha yeah but that's different, that's about how we present ourselves, I'm sure guys at least think about shaving, showering, smelling nice etc etc

The cock size issue is like me sitting worrying if my sweet little hole is tight enough haha! It's utterly pointless.

Plenty of ways to skin a cat

(And before I'm mobbed, I'm not suggesting that anyone should harm animals haha)

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

After attending private parties, house parties, gang situations, reg group situations, reg moresome situations alongside other single guys of varying sizes over 14 years on/off swinging - Stereotypical generalisations about confidence be it too much, just right or lack of conf based on cock size is up there with the worst of generalisations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get hung up on my cock size....but women are more than welcome to..

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I, once, had a woman say "Call that a cock!" and laugh. It did wonders for my confidence

Thankfully there was a group of people watching who could share in the joke

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Thats just it put your ego to one side and laugh about it....

You,ll find others will laugh WITH YOU and not AT you..

Lady said to me " oh don,t you blush easily "

Just said " well that extra blood isn,t needed elsewhere now is it " and winked....

And we were,nt even naked, nut she giggled and underdtood,.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All women want a big thick cock... So all you tiny ducks have no chance in life - fact "

well you are certainly showing yourself to be thick and a cock......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont stress overly you would be surprised at the amount of fake stolen cock pics that get posted daily on here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All women want a big thick cock... So all you tiny ducks have no chance in life - fact

well you are certainly showing yourself to be thick and a cock......"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I, once, had a woman say "Call that a cock!" and laugh. It did wonders for my confidence

Thankfully there was a group of people watching who could share in the joke

She didn't then say "that's a cock!" whilst dropping her pants?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont stress overly you would be surprised at the amount of fake stolen cock pics that get posted daily on here...."

Very true!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give me a smaller, symmetrical nice juicy cock over a long, bent didgeridoo anyday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us blokes are fortunate that we have,nt not make up, hair style, which outfit, perfume waxing issues time of month oooooh the list goes on to get stressed about like you ladies...........,.

Isn,t only fare we have at least one ie,( our cock) to get hung up on......

Haha yeah but that's different, that's about how we present ourselves, I'm sure guys at least think about shaving, showering, smelling nice etc etc

The cock size issue is like me sitting worrying if my sweet little hole is tight enough haha! It's utterly pointless.

Plenty of ways to skin a cat

(And before I'm mobbed, I'm not suggesting that anyone should harm animals haha)"

Agree !!!! I'm on way minx to check aforementioned size of pussy or to just skin it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us blokes are fortunate that we have,nt not make up, hair style, which outfit, perfume waxing issues time of month oooooh the list goes on to get stressed about like you ladies...........,.

Isn,t only fare we have at least one ie,( our cock) to get hung up on......

Haha yeah but that's different, that's about how we present ourselves, I'm sure guys at least think about shaving, showering, smelling nice etc etc

The cock size issue is like me sitting worrying if my sweet little hole is tight enough haha! It's utterly pointless.

Plenty of ways to skin a cat

(And before I'm mobbed, I'm not suggesting that anyone should harm animals haha)

Agree !!!! I'm on way minx to check aforementioned size of pussy or to just skin it

xx"

Haha to be honest I think even skinning it would be enjoyable if it were you doing it!! Bring a tape measure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be hard for us average guys when looking through profiles to see "only VWE or VVWE.

Word of advice, move on. There are lots of lovely ladies, couples etc that are not size fixated.

I am so far past the "size" issue, because if i was not i would not be on FAB at all.

There is someone out there that will get you, both in and out of the bedroom and just worrying about it will not change it.

Mindfulness lesson 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I, once, had a woman say "Call that a cock!" and laugh. It did wonders for my confidence

Thankfully there was a group of people watching who could share in the joke

She didn't then say "that's a cock!" whilst dropping her pants?"

No but she did throw my pants out of the window from the upstairs of a Hammwrsmith pub

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