FabSwingers.com forum: Volume of escorts??

By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Casually been googling escort sites and a thought occurred to me.

Apart from the obviouse financial gains, and entrenprenaurial aspect i wonder there has been a social shift??

Quite simlpy shocked at volume..

Is it also due to the Fear faktor that guys genuinely feel due to high profile cases recently and rules on consent on taking dates to a physical level.

That some women simply are not being satified sexually in a conventional way..

That its time consuming and guys are now just to restrained and timid..???

That these ladies, are using escorting as a reason to fullfill there quest for obviouse danger, but thrill and excitement it may provide.

" so called double life syndrome"

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

...and there are also people willing to pay for sex.

Report both.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I think looking at things on the internet means you find a lot more of them than you would do just looking around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow a lot if what ifs there . I believe each one is different for there being an escort

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll

"Wow a lot if what ifs there . I believe each one is different for there being an escort "

Pretty sure most escorts are doing it for the money - not because they want more sex.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Casually?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think the internet just makes advertising more prevalent...i very much doubt theres any particular increase....if there was no net, you'd be left with numbers in newsagents windows etc, very local to you, on the net you will be seeing a far wider geographical area surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casually been googling escort sites and a thought occurred to me.

Apart from the obviouse financial gains, and entrenprenaurial aspect i wonder there has been a social shift??

Quite simlpy shocked at volume..

Is it also due to the Fear faktor that guys genuinely feel due to high profile cases recently and rules on consent on taking dates to a physical level.

That some women simply are not being satified sexually in a conventional way..

That its time consuming and guys are now just to restrained and timid..???

That these ladies, are using escorting as a reason to fullfill there quest for obviouse danger, but thrill and excitement it may provide.

" so called double life syndrome"

Eh? Lie down. It is the oldest profession in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people wanna make money with the littlest effort as possible.

Promiscuity isn't a big deal any more.

There's no thrill (apart from obvious might get murdered, raped, or robbed) by being an escort.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's a job. It exists because there is demand.

You genuinely think men go to escorts because women might accuse them of rape? Uhmmmm

Your thinking is interesting but I don't believe most of what you're suggesting has any basis in reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a job. It exists because there is demand.

You genuinely think men go to escorts because women might accuse them of rape? Uhmmmm

Your thinking is interesting but I don't believe most of what you're suggesting has any basis in reality."

me either...it sounds complete nonsense to be honest.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It's a job. It exists because there is demand.

You genuinely think men go to escorts because women might accuse them of rape? Uhmmmm

Your thinking is interesting but I don't believe most of what you're suggesting has any basis in reality.

me either...it sounds complete nonsense to be honest."

Basically, it's a job. If there are a lot of escorts, it means there's a lot of demand. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oldest profession in the book

Ive used escorts in the past its a quick easy fuck and a way of relieving work stress some escorts are better than others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it was the first profession.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I wish there were more decent male escorts outside of large cities.

I'd probably hire them occasionally if it didn't mean having to go to London to have any sort of choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would absolutely quit my job and become an escort if I thought it was viable, I love sex and I need money to get by so why not?

However on the flip side I would worry about my prospects of settling down and the longevity of the 'profession' or becoming disillusioned with sex and the risks of it healthwise and safetywise.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Some interesting responses...

Yes i genuinely believe guys are a lot more nervous of consequenses of missreading signals ( human nature) even if agenda is genuine.

Also with the digital age (porn) the mystique of women isn,t as great so there not so eager???

I agree it is a an occupation just like any other...

Still begs the question if demand is never goin to go away. The ladies that provide the service are more excepted in uk society..

As entrenpeurs?? Yet the guys ( consumers) are still stigmatised??

Odd??

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"I wish there were more decent male escorts outside of large cities.

I'd probably hire them occasionally if it didn't mean having to go to London to have any sort of choice."
very honest of you, and bloody hell why not....

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Most people wanna make money with the littlest effort as possible.

Promiscuity isn't a big deal any more.

There's no thrill (apart from obvious might get murdered, raped, or robbed) by being an escort."
promiscuity.. Ha ha not a lot that going on round ere..

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Some interesting responses...

Yes i genuinely believe guys are a lot more nervous of consequenses of missreading signals ( human nature) even if agenda is genuine.

Also with the digital age (porn) the mystique of women isn,t as great so there not so eager???

I agree it is a an occupation just like any other...

Still begs the question if demand is never goin to go away. The ladies that provide the service are more excepted in uk society..

As entrenpeurs?? Yet the guys ( consumers) are still stigmatised??

Odd??"

I think you'll find that there's more stigma attached to the women than their customers. The customers are the ones who create the demand and seek the ladies out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know, people still have to worry about consent if they're paying an escort. They can still say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casually been googling escort sites and a thought occurred to me.

Apart from the obviouse financial gains, and entrenprenaurial aspect i wonder there has been a social shift??

Quite simlpy shocked at volume..

Is it also due to the Fear faktor that guys genuinely feel due to high profile cases recently and rules on consent on taking dates to a physical level.

That some women simply are not being satified sexually in a conventional way..

That its time consuming and guys are now just to restrained and timid..???

That these ladies, are using escorting as a reason to fullfill there quest for obviouse danger, but thrill and excitement it may provide.

" so called double life syndrome"

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volume is 14.5 cubic litres

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people wanna make money with the littlest effort as possible.

Promiscuity isn't a big deal any more.

There's no thrill (apart from obvious might get murdered, raped, or robbed) by being an escort. promiscuity..

Ha ha not a lot that going on round ere..

I mean in society in general. It's no big deal these days.

Round here it's gonna go up as soon as the kids are back at school.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

Take the chavvy big bore exhaust off and your escort won't be to loud volume sorted

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

I know some girls who have been working g girls in the past and I think (generally speaking) suggesting that girls become escorts as they can't get enough sex is just wishful thinking on the part of the guys using the service.

I know some girls who thought escorting would suit them as they liked sex. Until they bacame escorts.

I used to love motorbikes until I ran a motorbike shop.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"suggesting that girls become escorts as they can't get enough sex is just wishful thinking on the part of the guys using the service."

Quite. If they can't give it away why would anyone think charging would be a way to get more?

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Think the bigger rise is male escorts women are more open minded my minded and too busy to actually date

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Op - there are plenty of published studies that will explain this for you. They're doing it for the money.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The rise of the use of the internet for advertising a business does not automatically mean that more women are becoming escorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hazard a guess that there are more ladies working as escorts now than there was twenty years ago.Lots of eastern europeans based here now offering services.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would hazard a guess that there are more ladies working as escorts now than there was twenty years ago.Lots of eastern europeans based here now offering services."
and that has its own problems i went to see one a while back asked a few questions covered cost got the she said oh my english is bad its twenty pound more so i said nope i go now mug heavy downstairs tried to stop me i stood toe to toe with him and said give it your best shot he backed down i left put me off escorts for a while

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

volume is 14.5 cubic litres

What on earth is a cubic litre? That's like saying x amount of square acres/hectares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I provide photographic services for a number of escorts. I must be one of the only guys that gets paid by the ladies...

(and not "in-kind", not my thing)

There are a number of factors that lead people into this lifestyle, some do genuinely enjoy sex, these ladies tend to have 3-6 regular clients that treat them very well. Some work on high client turnover and low charge rates, these girls are just doing it to make ends meet.

Then there are trafficked women, and I would urge any man on discovering these to report them immediately, no excuses for letting abuse continue.

Then their are drug addicts (alcohol or otherwise ), very difficult to do a photoshoot with a lady that is off her face, trust me.

Are there any more than usual? Who knows, as others have said, the internet is the great enabler.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be determined by submerging them in a bath and measuring the water displacement.

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

"Can be determined by submerging them in a bath and measuring the water displacement."

Would you measure it in cubic litres or cubic gallons?

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By *errygTV/TS
over a year ago

denton

further to subdivided post, street girls are usually druggies having to do it to feed a habit drug is controlling them. massage palour types some druggies some may have full time jobs and do a day at a parlor for extra cash. then escorts who have own flat and make a career out of it. ive seen those in manchester near train station enough to put you off women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had a friend who was an escort (she used to work for NAAFI, google it, before you get any ideas). Her ex left her in a ton of debt and it was the only way she could think of making lots of cash quickly (£120 an hour). She lived in Gosport and her first client was on the Isle of Wright. Now this lass was known to be very promiscuous when she worked with us and I thought she'd be ok. I was wrong. She had to go to this guys office under the cover of being interviewed at this new business he was setting up, so she was dressed in a feminine looking suit, nice underwear and a toy in her bag. Apparently he lasted all of 3 min and the other 57 min she was there playing with herself while he watched and had his Mrs next door (no idea if she knew or not). I picked up my friend at the end and she was fine in the taxi back to hers, she went for a shower and just broke down. Luke that scene in Casino royal where bond is in the shower with vesper, I was sat there for an hour while she cried her eyes out and told me how bad and dirty she felt. It was heart breaking to watch. Luckily (for both of us) her second client only wanted someone to talk to for 2 hours at his flat as not even his kids bothered visiting him. I think after 4 or 5 jobs she gave it up, which I don't blame her for, some of the stuff she told me was quite harrowing!

I also remember back when I was a trainee, a couple of sailors were kicked out of the navy for escorting and charging extra to wear their uniforms too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The high class girls who can afford to be picky and charge for the pleasure do very well. Many work from their own flat which offers them protection. Some of my girls escort and £250+ an hour is expected in manchester.

A major agency in manchester is now doing very well with some amazing girls great marketing and good security in place.

It's commonplace and whilst the lower ranks distress me greatly the girls at the top of the game do pretty well out of it.

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By *itzWoman
over a year ago

south wales

"I would absolutely quit my job and become an escort if I thought it was viable, I love sex and I need money to get by so why not?

However on the flip side I would worry about my prospects of settling down and the longevity of the 'profession' or becoming disillusioned with sex and the risks of it healthwise and safetywise. "

The other day I read the safety advice for sex workers produced by NSWP (network of sex work projects). Found it pretty chilling.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Sorry OP but your ideas about escorts are kinda misguided.

Like any profession, there are people who do it because they love it (sex) and plenty who don't (money). I know girls who do it for both reasons.

Increased volume? No, that'd be the internet.

As for men being stigmatised, think you'll find its the fallen women who suffer the most due to our draconian sex laws

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we just get this straight .....Escort is just a polite name for a prostitute....no more no less.

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"The high class girls who can afford to be picky and charge for the pleasure do very well. Many work from their own flat which offers them protection. Some of my girls escort and £250+ an hour is expected in manchester.

A major agency in manchester is now doing very well with some amazing girls great marketing and good security in place.

It's commonplace and whilst the lower ranks distress me greatly the girls at the top of the game do pretty well out of it. "

The average independent female rate in Manchester is around 130. 120-150 for a more general scale. Other than the occasional very high profile girls who are mainly on tour from London, 250 is extremely high. If you're paying 250 an hour to an agency worker, be assured that the girl is receiving half that amount at most!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no thrill to being an escort, I had a friend who dabbled with it for a while, the money wasn't great really and she never knew who was coming through the door, that's why she gave up in the end as she didn't like the fat men with bad breath that she used to get, she on the odd occasion got a nice one but on the whole they use to 'gross her out' was the phrase she used to use. Thankfully she didn't do it long!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A major agency in manchester is now doing very well with some amazing girls great marketing and good security in place.

It's commonplace and whilst the lower ranks distress me greatly the girls at the top of the game do pretty well out of it.

The girls and rates I suggest are solo. They can and do charge what they like and do receive 100%. If they choose to work under an agency and or from premises then yes they don't get the full figure but do gain some levels of protection.

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

A major agency in manchester is now doing very well with some amazing girls great marketing and good security in place.

It's commonplace and whilst the lower ranks distress me greatly the girls at the top of the game do pretty well out of it.

I understand the protection in return for a cut of the price agreement and I have nothing against it. It's shame that some people need to charge extra to pay for security though.

My circle of friends supports each other for free, which ensures everyone receives every penny of their earnings. And of course, they can still charge whatever they want. They just aren't forced to charge so much that they cut out most of the market

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the op needs to come down of his high horse.

if people want to pay for sex and people want to charge. in reality it fook all to do with you.

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