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What does the term 'Slut' mean to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello folks,

This is something Mr R and I have been discussing today, and I'm interested in other people's _iews on the subject. It's a serious question and I'd really appreciate serious, well considered answers.

As it says in the title ~ what does the term 'slut' mean to you? What's your interpretion/understanding of someone who takes on this title/label/name?

V x

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

It means I want to meet them

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Hi

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

It's like a harsher version of the word slag to me?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

A derogative term given to women who enjoy sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the context of where they want it used to me

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

another boring 'shockability' word....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Origin of the word Slut

1375-1425; late Middle English slut mud,impure liquid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman who enjoys herself sexually and is not shy about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello folks,

This is something Mr R and I have been discussing today, and I'm interested in other people's _iews on the subject. It's a serious question and I'd really appreciate serious, well considered answers.

As it says in the title ~ what does the term 'slut' mean to you? What's your interpretion/understanding of someone who takes on this title/label/name?

V x"
Hate that word, but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello folks,

This is something Mr R and I have been discussing today, and I'm interested in other people's _iews on the subject. It's a serious question and I'd really appreciate serious, well considered answers.

As it says in the title ~ what does the term 'slut' mean to you? What's your interpretion/understanding of someone who takes on this title/label/name?

V x"
a person man or woman who has sex with many people often and doesn't mind people watching or joining in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Degrading word for "woman who likes sex". Great in the bedroom, horrible to use perjoratively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a person man or woman who has sex with many people"

Oh yeh. Man or woman. Good point :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't see it as a derogatory term in the context of a woman who loves sex with lots of people on a swinging site .

Outside the swinging scene , when it's used to describe a woman who loves sex with lots of different people , it's unpleasant .

The reason for the difference is this .

On here there are plenty if women who actively describe themselves as cumsluts and the like .

It's rare outside the scene a woman describes herself as a slut .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, it means nothing at all, its a word that cannot have any meaning outside of the bedroom.

No one is a slut, its a judgmental word that has no male equivalent, so there fore sexist and of no use other than to band about during hot sex.

Probably not the best explanation, but hey, its an explanation none the less

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I thought, in the UKIP context, it is an old-fashioned term for someone who doesn't clean behind the 'fridge, ie a slattern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman who has sex with lots of people. But nowadays people are learning that other people's sex lives are non of their business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on who is saying it and how. If it's my lover it makes me smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just an anagram of 'lust'

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Like most words, context is everything. So it means various things depending on the specifics. I have an incredibly cute little heart shaped necklace that happens to have the word slut emblazoned on it. But the wrong person calling me a slut at the wrong time risks my wrath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means a right dirty fucking bitch. I like them.

I think 'slag' has more of a stigma.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An untidy woman who doesn't clean her house properly......the actual proper and original meaning.

In street slang a woman who opens her legs for anyone....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It means a right dirty fucking bitch. I like them.

I think 'slag' has more of a stigma."

Said by the right person / the right time, this is exactly what it means to me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"A derogative term given to women who enjoy sex."
and if people want to 'reclaim' it good for them just dont expect me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it means there's hypocrisy surrounding sex and gender, when it's used to criticise women who fuck around or fuck a lot.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field


"It depends on who is saying it and how. If it's my lover it makes me smile. "

That kind of sums it up for me (but the opposite way round IYNWIM)

If I'm calling someone that, I've already got a pretty good idea of the response and I've probably got her pinned to the bed or against the wall- a handful of hair gripped firmly but gently, my body pressed against theirs with the words whispered in to their ear.

Like many words, it's the who, how and when that's important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on who is saying it and how. If it's my lover it makes me smile.

That kind of sums it up for me (but the opposite way round IYNWIM)

If I'm calling someone that, I've already got a pretty good idea of the response and I've probably got her pinned to the bed or against the wall- a handful of hair gripped firmly but gently, my body pressed against theirs with the words whispered in to their ear.

Like many words, it's the who, how and when that's important "

Now that's sexy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its derogative to me. The only person id let call me it and live is the hubs and its in good humour xx

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

It is a derogatory term...If you ask me all male would sluts if they were female...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on who is saying it and how. If it's my lover it makes me smile.

That kind of sums it up for me (but the opposite way round IYNWIM)

If I'm calling someone that, I've already got a pretty good idea of the response and I've probably got her pinned to the bed or against the wall- a handful of hair gripped firmly but gently, my body pressed against theirs with the words whispered in to their ear.

Like many words, it's the who, how and when that's important

Now that's sexy!! "

I agree!

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By *ittie4UCouple
over a year ago

Watford


"Hello folks,

This is something Mr R and I have been discussing today, and I'm interested in other people's _iews on the subject. It's a serious question and I'd really appreciate serious, well considered answers.

As it says in the title ~ what does the term 'slut' mean to you? What's your interpretion/understanding of someone who takes on this title/label/name?

V x"

Isn't it a woman who has the same attitude to sex that a man does?

I would never call a woman a slag - for me it is a harsh word. I'd always want my partner to be a slut - though I probably wouldn't call her that in mixed company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the urban dictionary definition :-

It's a woman who has the morals of a man.

Can't quite decide if that is derogatory to both sexes or not. I could see it either way.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think i don't think it's a bad word it just describes someone who enjoys being filthy ! The only time I've seen people offended is back in the playground haha! My partner likes to be called a slut if she's being one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Popular "
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought, in the UKIP context, it is an old-fashioned term for someone who doesn't clean behind the 'fridge, ie a slattern.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

'Been called worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just means a nice friendly lady to me

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

A word for every t girl lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've reclaimed it, after its misuse and so decided to own it. It means that I am free to do my own thing and to really enjoy myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're all sluts ,just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've reclaimed it, after its misuse and so decided to own it. It means that I am free to do my own thing and to really enjoy myself.

"

A jolly good philosophy m'lady and, on that basis, I would like to state to the group. Good Evening, my name is Heels, and I am a slut!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've reclaimed it, after its misuse and so decided to own it. It means that I am free to do my own thing and to really enjoy myself.

A jolly good philosophy m'lady and, on that basis, I would like to state to the group. Good Evening, my name is Heels, and I am a slut! "
thanks for sharing do you feel better now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've reclaimed it, after its misuse and so decided to own it. It means that I am free to do my own thing and to really enjoy myself.

A jolly good philosophy m'lady and, on that basis, I would like to state to the group. Good Evening, my name is Heels, and I am a slut! "

Good Evening Heels, oh and you can practise your sluttyness on or around me anytime

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

In the Swinging world it is an achievement... We're a couple of complete sluts and proud of it... Lol....

I think fab should have achievement levels depending on how many verifications we get.... It would give us something to aim for in our naughtiness now that we have 50 veries ... Lol

If anyone called us sluts outside if the swinging world it would lead to a falling out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally even if it's within swinging. We find the term offensive and if anyone messages us referring to jools as a slut it's an instant block.

Shows complete lack of respect in our humble opinion.

Not a badge of honour.

But that's our thing if others like it then that's their thing.

People tend to meet up with people who are their type.

If a woman or a man likes to be called a slut then meeting people who do so is perfect for them.

We don't so that's perfect for us.

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By *eteinhantsMan
over a year ago

Southsea

I have never used the words slut or slag when referring to anyone, they are very judgemental terms in my _iew.

My Mum use to say if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing. A good piece of advice

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

If said to me, it then means that someone is about to get slap across their face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally even if it's within swinging. We find the term offensive and if anyone messages us referring to jools as a slut it's an instant block.

Shows complete lack of respect in our humble opinion.

Not a badge of honour.

But that's our thing if others like it then that's their thing.

People tend to meet up with people who are their type.

If a woman or a man likes to be called a slut then meeting people who do so is perfect for them.

We don't so that's perfect for us.

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Completely agree they are not pleasant names to be called.

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I can't say I like the word slut or slag very much and see it as a derogatory term used for women and tgirls.

I love cock and I luv shagging and being shagged but that doesn't make me a slut or a slag... maybe a dirty bitch in the bedroom but I'm no slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If some people (women) want to use it to describe themselves and act out a fantasy in the swinging world then that's fair enough. What I don't like is when words like 'slut' and/or 'bitch' are used by foul-mouthed so-called 'rap artists' as it not only normalises and excuses ugly/violent male attitudes and behaviour but encourages more of it.

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