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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a male friend who I introduced to fab when he was single. We have been friends for a couple of yrs now.

Anyhoo we had a meet the other night as it has been a while since we had caught up with each other. He text and after a wee chat he decided to come for "coffee"

A good time was had by all until earlier I got a message from his pregnant gf through fbook calling me a whore for fucking him.

1. I thought he was single again as a few months ago he changed his status on fb to single.

2. I didn't know she was pregnant.

So I didn't reply, just blocked her from fbook. Unfriended him and unfriended him here.

Bad karma for me now I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not your fault if you didnt know. Sorry you had a bad experience xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloke sounds like an arsehole probably better off without him.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

No bad karma for you. You didn't do a bad thing. You thought he was single, really he was in a relationship and shortly to become a dad.

Bad karma for him, for lying and cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your number of fb

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was via messenger. If she has been through his phone she will already have it

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

If you thought he was single, you've done nothing wrong so don't dwell on it. Love to have been a fly on the wall when his girlfriend found out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not your fault at all. I'm sorry for her but she should be calling him a whore not you. Chin up chick Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not your fault.

Everybody lies - its just the scale of the lies that vary.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you did fuck him, can't see the drama..

block, block, ignore texts.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's an arsehole pure n simple!! Thinking he could have his cake n eat it!! Think you're better off without him as a "friend". Unfortunately it's people like him that spoil things for the genuinely nice and decent guys I'm sure that are out there!! I'm yet to find one myself!! I would say onwards and upwards hun!! You dint need people like him in your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a complete knobbage he is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he changed his relationship status to single, is that because he's single? I mean, you probably still don't want to be involved in that drama anyway but it's not like people haven't broken up on bad terms before.

Regardless, no bad karma there - at least, not for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he changed his relationship status to single, is that because he's single? I mean, you probably still don't want to be involved in that drama anyway but it's not like people haven't broken up on bad terms before.

Regardless, no bad karma there - at least, not for you "

Thats a good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a complete knobbage he is! "

Here here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're a whore through fucking him so is she. I might have told her that before I blocked her. It's impossible to be 100% sure someone is single,don't dwell on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Urgh!

Too much drama!

You didn't do anything wrong!

You didn't know - so the bad karma is on him!

Hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing devil's advocate here, are you sure he wasn't single and she's not just an ex with a really bad case of sour grapes ? Can't see any mention on the post about what he said about it all.

Just asking as I had an ex a few years ago who did something similar to a girl I was seeing, despite the fact we'd been broken up for almost 6 months

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Did either of you not mention his new single status during your wee chat before he came over? What difference does it make to you that she's pregnant? As was asked above - what did he say about it all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who pays attention to Facebook statuses ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he changed his status to single then maybe he is & she's not accepting it. Could that be a possibility?

I always think it's irrational behaviour when the 'wronged' party feels the need to rant at another woman, confront the guy you're with, they are the one who has fucked up after all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not contacting him. Her profile says they are in a relationship and has pics of him and her kids together just 2 days ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not contacting him. Her profile says they are in a relationship and has pics of him and her kids together just 2 days ago. "

Ah, fucking guy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's a guy.. Sometimes they lie.

Forget him.

Chin up... You deserve better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not bothered about him. It's the aggro it's brought to my door x

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