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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do any of you find someone just watching you have sex and not joining in a bit off putting.

We can't see the point of just watching and not joining in.

Turn on or turn off?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Neither turns me on or off, if im being watched "normally" its when you got a guy standing about a foot away from you staring so much his eyes are going to fall out that puts me off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If someone did that at a club and you felt umcomfortable do they go away when you say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....

We can't see the point of just watching and not joining in.

............... "

That's the trouble with being shortsighted.

Horses for courses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"....

We can't see the point of just watching and not joining in.

...............

That's the trouble with being shortsighted.

Horses for courses."

Well if they used a big magnifying glass then i'd be worrying.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"If someone did that at a club and you felt umcomfortable do they go away when you say. "

errrrrr they always have lol, think it may be something to do with the tone of voice i use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell you the truth imoften oblivious to it all as I am lost in what I am doing at the time. And watching other couples again does'nt do anything for me totally oblivious. But if or when lol I have a partner nothing turns me on more than watching him with another person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think watching my partner with someone else would be a turn on but not someone in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind watching couples but I dont get turned on by it. It is offputting when single guys just stand around wanking but they have every right to be there if Im in a public room. I dont give any of them eye contact. I like watching my partner and he really enjoys watching me. Im more action than watching I guess, but id rather watch real couples than porn. I never watch porn in clubs, or indeed anywhere, its become so boring to me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of you find someone just watching you have sex and not joining in a bit off putting.

We can't see the point of just watching and not joining in.

Turn on or turn off?"

I love to be watched and would happily watch and not join in. Far from pointless Imo. But then I find separate room swapping pointless well swapping full stop. SO it comes around to again personal preferences.

Master will often watch then take me and reclaim me after. If master joins in I love it, but also love the anticipation of waiting for after to.

KATie x

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

we often put on a bit of a show on the local nudist beach, we do get some kick from being watched

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I have played in a club where we were behind a net curtain and it was invite only to go beyond the curtain.

I have to say I never really gave it a thought once we all started playing, although a few blokes were watching through the curtains.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"....

We can't see the point of just watching and not joining in.

...............

That's the trouble with being shortsighted.

Horses for courses.

Well if they used a big magnifying glass then i'd be worrying. "

*slinks off to sell giant magnifying glass on ebay*

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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago

manchester

We quite enjoy being watched. We've often gone into the room at Cupids which has a viewing window and enjoyed people looking in on us - both guys and couples.

I also enjoy watching my wife with another guy and I know she likes showing off when she plays in front of a small crowd.

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I love to be watched and would happily watch and not join in. Far from pointless Imo. But then I find separate room swapping pointless well swapping full stop. SO it comes around to again personal preferences.

KATie x "

with you on that one no point in seperate room for me love watching hubby with another woman huge turn on for me

although that said the thought oif sending him off on a meet n waiting for his return also gets me super horny too although not done that yet

love watching others n don't mind being watched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've performed for an audience once or twice at parties, not intentionaly, but it didn't put me off.

I'm not a "watcher" myself. Might seem strange to some but I can't watch my wife snog another bloke. I've watched her shag other guys a few times, but can't say it's turned me on.

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By *tryxxCouple
over a year ago

central

If anyone has been to fun4two you will know about the theatre room, it has a small stage where you can play and the "audience" sit/stand about on a variety of seats,benches sofas and stuff and also play about while watching the performance. We tried but i got "stage fright" lol

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"Do any of you find someone just watching you have sex and not joining in a bit off putting.

We can't see the point of just watching and not joining in.

Turn on or turn off?"

It really depends who is watching!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to watch, turns me on big time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone has been to fun4two you will know about the theatre room, it has a small stage where you can play and the "audience" sit/stand about on a variety of seats,benches sofas and stuff and also play about while watching the performance. We tried but i got "stage fright" lol

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Oh god that sounds brill, a stage, Im loving the sound of that - is it in Amsterdam

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do any of you find someone just watching you have sex and not joining in a bit off putting.

We can't see the point of just watching and not joining in.

Turn on or turn off?

It really depends who is watching! "

I think it does depend who's watching some sad old men in a dirty rain mac then very off putting but some fit looking men then yes

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

i would watch yuo!

but would probably want to join in lol x

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